The
Master’s Touch II
By
Mildred Nelson Smith
Chapter
1
The
Calling of a Seventy
Delbert
Smith entered the pavilion happily greeting other appointee ministers of the
Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints who had been called
together by the apostle in charge of the area for a weekend of worship, study
and fellowship. It was a rare privilege to be under Apostle Oakman’s tutelage,
and my husband, who was then a young seventy, anticipated the forthcoming study
expectantly.
It
seemed to Delbert that the class had hardly started when he heard Brother
Oakman saying, “If you will please stand, we will close the class with a
prayer.”
“Close
the class? Why, he had just begun!” Del remonstrated silently and looked about
him amazed that the others seemed ready for its ending. As the prayer
proceeded, he gradually became aware of what had happened that had made him
lose track of time.
As
the class opened, Delbert had been abruptly removed from the beautiful Palos
Park setting in which the group was meeting to an even more exquisite locale -
a place of ethereal beauty. As in a dream he turned slowly, surveying all about
him, trying to comprehend the wonder and splendor of his new environment. A
pinpoint of light on the far horizon captured his attention; he stood
transfixed, watching it intently. As he watched, the light began to grow
steadily, increasing in size and intensity as though the source of it was
advancing toward him. Awe and wonder swept over him as the light drew nearer,
and he began to distinguish within it the form of a man. Hardly had the form
appeared when to Delbert’s mind it was identified as Jesus the Christ.
Suddenly
he was overwhelmed by a deep sense of unworthiness. In one swift motion he
ducked his head and threw up his arm to cover his face. Still the figure
advanced and Del felt the imprint of Christ’s thought on his mind. Although no
word was spoken, the seventy’s attention was directed toward a large lump of
bituminous coal that lay upon the ground.
“Pick
it up!” came the command transmitted without words. Continuing to shield his
face from the magnificent Presence he stooped to comply. Carefully he lifted
the chunk of coal from the ground, and in response to yet another unspoken
direction held it out to the Divine One.
Delbert
still did not dare to look at the figure clothed in light. Instead, his gaze
was focused on the coal in his hand as he extended it toward the Master. To his
amazement he saw the finger of Christ reach out and touch the coal,
transforming it into the largest, most exquisite diamond Del had ever seen.
Each facet flowed with the beauty of the reflected light of the Master. With
reverence Del stood contemplating the transformation when Apostle Oakman’s
voice intruded with the announcement that the class was over.
For
weeks Delbert pondered the experience, awed by its impact on him. He dared not
speak of it lest he be misunderstood.
Then
one night I received a call intended for my husband. “Can you get a message to
Delbert?” asked the caller when he found that the seventy was not in town.
“He
probably hasn’t had time to get to Albert Lea yet,” I replied, “but I’m sure I
can get him tonight.”
“Then
tell him he’s got to come back over here.” I knew that “over here” was 110
miles away in another state for I recognized the caller as Ken Holloway, who
had just been baptized that day in Minneapolis.
“What’s
the problem?” I inquired. Del had already gone a hundred miles in the opposite
direction, and I knew he would want to know the reason for returning immediately
to the area in which he had just been working.
“I
have a man who wants to be baptized!” Ken spoke excitedly.
Ken
and Mopsy had returned from their baptism to their home in the beautiful resort
community surrounding Lake Chetek. Although Ken was still a breadwinner, many
of their friends had retired to the leisurely life of fishing, boating,
swimming and golfing. Just across the way in a little cottage sheltered by
stately oaks lived Jess and Marie Butcher. Jess Butcher was a retired bartender
and of no professed religion. Marie was a good Catholic. The Butchers and the
Holloways had been best friends since the Butchers had moved in.
When
the Holloway car had slowed to a stop, Jess and Marie had emerged from their
front door as though they had been keeping watch. As Ken struggled with his
crutches in getting out of the car, Jess accosted him.
“Where
the _____ have you been all day?” Jess’s rough greeting was friendly and
concerned. He had kept a close eye on Ken since the accident and didn’t want
him doing anything that would delay his recovery.
“I’ve
been to Minneapolis to be baptized,” Ken announced happily. Had it been a few
weeks earlier, he would have used even stronger expletives that Jess.
“Well,
what do you know?” Jess mused. Then he continued, “That’s something I’ve been
thinking I ought to do- be baptized,” he explained to make sure that Ken did
not misunderstand.
“Come
on in and let’s talk about it,” Ken said as he adjusted his crutches and led
the way across the drive to the house.
Pausing
only to invite his guests to seat themselves, Ken swung himself across the room
directly to the telephone and called Paul Harcourt, a priesthood member who
lived near by, to come and talk with Jess. When Paul left, Ken called for the
seventy.
“Do
you know what he did?” Ken asked. “He left without saying one word to Jess
about baptizing him!”
I
smiled a bit into the telephone. It was good to feel the enthusiasm of the
newly baptized man. “Perhaps Paul feels that Jess should know a little more about
the church before he gets all the way into it, “ I suggested gently.
“Then
tell Del he has to get over here and teach him!” Ken was accustomed to having
things done when they needed to be done.
“I’ll
have him call you tonight, “ I promised, “And Ken, it has been a wonderful day,
hasn’t it?” I reminded him, fearing that his disappointment that his friend’s
baptism was not arranged immediately might dim his memory of his own happy
experience with the Christ.
“It
has been wonderful!” Ken agreed thoughtfully.
Delbert
called that night then followed that call with a visit as soon as it could be
arranged. Because Ken still was not able to move about freely, the meeting was
arranged in the Holloway home.
“I
know all about you ministers,” Jess bragged, not at all the humble suppliant
Del had thought he might find asking for baptism. “Why, I’ve talked to drunken
Catholic priests, Protestant ministers, and Jewish rabbis.” The seventy knew he
was recalling his days behind the bar. “You don’t fool me one bit!”
My
husband wasn’t quite sure whether Jess was being contemptuous or just issuing a
challenge. Praying silently for direction the seventy replied patiently, “I’m
not trying to fool you, Jess. Ken said you wanted to be baptized, and I think
you ought to know what you’re getting into before you take that step. I’d like
to tell you about Christ and his church. Do you want me to, or don’t you?” The
seventy’s voice was firm but he smiled as he spoke.
“Sure
I want to hear you,” Jess said slowly, then glanced surreptitiously at Marie,
wanting but not asking her approval of the arrangement.
It
was nearly two o’clock the morning of the visit when I awakened with a start at
the ringing of the telephone. “Mildred,” Del was on the line, “I won’t be home
tonight. We’ve just stopped talking to have some lunch, and the Holloways have
invited me to get some sleep here before I make the drive into the city.”
Again
and again it happened, the drive to Wisconsin for a cottage meeting, the late
night call. Finally, Del just arranged to stay overnight each time he went to
teach the Butchers.
“Jess
thinks you’re great!” Ken informed the seventy-one nights after Jess and Marie
had gone home.
“He
does?” Del asked in surprise. “He doesn’t act like it! Why, I’ve never in my
life seen a man fight so hard against the truth. He trys to tear down
everything I say!” There was a tone of exasperation in my husband’s voice.
“Yeah,
but you ought to hear him quote you when you’re gone,” Ken said reassuringly.
After
one particularly lively discussion that had gone on into the night, Marie
suddenly accounted, “I want to be baptized.”
“You do ?” Jess looked startled for a moment , then rushing across the room to
Marie, he folded her in his arms. “Oh, Marie,” he spoke tenderly and his voice
quivered with emotion. “I have waited so long for you to say that!”
“You
have?” It was the seventy’s turn to be surprised and puzzled. “Then why have
you been heckling me so?”
“Delbert,
you know Marie is a Catholic. I have been asking all of the questions I thought
she would need to have answered before she could decide to make the change, “
Jess explained earnestly. “You will baptize us, won’t you?” In his earnestness,
Jess almost sounded afraid that Del would deny him that blessing. “I know that
my life has been everything but saintly, but…”
The
seventy didn’t hear the rest. In that moment he stood again in the presence of
the Christ, shielding his eyes from His radiance and holding out toward him the
lump of coal. Again he saw the finger of the Divine One touch the coal, and he
wondered anew at the shimmering beauty of the diamond that sparkled in his
hand.
With
the imprint of the same Spirit by which the experience was first received,
Delbert knew his mission as a seventy; to take humanity, however unrefined, and
hold it humbly up to the Christ. That
was the call of the seventy- to watch reverently as the touch of the Master’s
hand transformed life into a beautiful reflection of himself in all His glory,
intelligence, truth ,and love. That was the joy of the seventy!
“Jess,”
the seventy said as he enfolded the man and his wife in his own long arms, “it
will be the happiest moment of my life!”
and his voice trembled with the wonder of it.
Chapter
2
Ken
Holloway’s New Life
The
tall, lanky Wisconsin farmer rubbed his eyes. Did he really see what he thought
he saw? Deep down in his heart he hoped it was not so. Ken Holloway was the one
man in the world that Willis tried to avoid, and here he was listed on the
hospital roster as a patient. He could not avoid him here.
It wasn’t that Willis was angry with
Ken or hated him or anything like that. It was
just that Willis could not
tolerate the foul language that spouted continually from the man’s mouth ! In
addition to his farm, Willis worked at the local feed mill. When he saw the
foul mouthed salesman approach the mill, Willis always tried to find something
far away to wholly occupy his time so he didn’t have to listen while the owner
negotiated his purchases.
In
addition to being a farmer and a feed mill operator, Willis was also an elder
and the pastor of the local
congregation of the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. In
that capacity, he regularly visited the hospital. On those visiting days, he
made it a practice to scan the list of patients and visit any that he knew or
felt that he could bring ministry.
Outside
room 221 , Elder Metcalf found a woman weeping. Slight, raven haired,
attractive even in tears, the woman obviously was overcome with grief. Her
proximity to Ken’s door indicated to Willis that she must be Ken’s wife. The
good man’s heart was touched. Compassionately he introduced himself.
“How
is he ?” he inquired nodding toward room 221’s door, still unaware of why Ken
was there.
“The
doctor says he can’t live.” Mopsy responded, trying to brush away her tears
with a tissue already hopelessly sodden. A sob shuddered through her body as
she struggled to regain control. “Only God can help him now!”
In
had been two days now since the accident, Mopsy was finally able to explain.
The handsome, debonair fertilizer salesman had been traveling from one customer
to another. Surrounded by an aura of success from his last call, he sped across
Wisconsin hills onto a level stretch of highway that skirted the beautiful lake
country.
It
was October, and even though winter was
making feinting passes at the area, it was clear that fall was still very much
the mistress in charge. Brilliantly colored leaves still clung to a few of the
trees or lay in heaps beneath the clusters of oaks and maples in the farmyards.
This
morning there were icy spots on the highway. The police reported that it
appeared that Ken had slowed a bit as he approached a spot that caught the
morning sun in a suspicious sort of way. But the motorist coming from the
opposite direction did not see the reflection of the sun on the ice. Without
warning his car skidded directly into Ken’s pathway . There was a shuddering
crash, and Ken lay helplessly entrapped in the wreckage of his car. It took a
gargantuan effort just to get him out of the wreckage, and no one thought he
could possibly live!
“The
doctors found thirty two breaks in the bones of his chest alone, many of them
puncturing his lungs” Mopsy continued. “He has a severe head injury. His legs
are both broken, the left one so badly that it looks as though someone had just
tried to twist it off his body. The doctor says they won’t even try to put it
back together.”
All
the time Mopsy was talking, Willis kept remembering her words, “Only God can
help him now!” Finally he spoke.
“Mrs.
Holloway, “ Willis was emboldened by the promptings of the Spirit. “I am a
minister , an elder in the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day
Saints. The scriptures tell us to call for the elders of the church when we
have need of healing. The elders are to anoint us with oil and pray for us. If
we pray in faith, God promises to hear and answer our prayer.”
Mopsy
responded immediately. “Oh, would you pray for Ken?”
Remembering
Ken’s usual irreverence even with the name of deity, Willis hesitated. “I will,
if he wants me to,” he said.
“But
he ca’nt want anything, “ Mopsy
protested. “He hasn’t been conscious for even a moment since the accident.”
“Well,
let’s go see.” Willis proposed and the two of them entered the injured man’s
room.
Leaning
over the helpless man, Willis spoke his name. Then he asked, “Do you know me?”
The
eyelids flickered and Ken whispered faintly, Willis. Willis Metcalf, Inland
Mills.”
Mopsy
could hardly contain her joy! Tears flowed freely again, but now they were
tears of hope.
Again
Willis explained the Lord’s instruction for the elders to anoint with oil and pray for the sick and asked if Ken would
like for him to act upon that instruction. Ken nodded, and Willis prayed.
Excitement
radiated from room 221 as the news spread that Ken Holloway was conscious.
Treatment that had been delayed because of his condition and the expectation of
death was begun. As it became apparent that life was imminent instead of death,
even the mangled leg began to receive attention.
Arrangements
were made to bring an orthopedic surgeon from St. Paul to perform surgery on
the leg. Fully conscious now, Ken asked Willis to come and pray again that the surgery would be
successful. As Willis prayed this time,
he asked specifically that the Lord would guide the surgeon’s hands.
The
morning the surgery was scheduled, the specialist called to do the intricate
procedure went to Ken’s room to explain what would be done and what results
could be expected. Ken listened patiently as the surgeon explained the need for
a metal rod to be inserted, the complications presented by the twisted muscles,
the many breaks, etc. etc. The operation, the doctor said, would take
approximately six hours.
Impatient
to get on with the surgery, Ken said to the doctor, “What you don’t know, sir, is that the Lord is going
to guide your hands!”
Startled,
the puzzled physician left the confident patient to scrub for the operation.
The
operation did not take six hours. It took less than one hour and a half. The
chief surgical nurse described the experience as comparable to a symphony.
“I
always had the instrument the doctor needed in my hand before he needed it, “
she explained in amazement.” And he worked with a skilled precision that I have never witnessed in all my professional
life ! ” In fact, she was so moved by the experience that she began to ask Ken
questions about his new found faith.
AS
soon as Ken was released from the hospital, Willis called for the seventy to
come to Chetek and teach the Holloways the gospel. Among those who came night after night to learn
about this wonderful Lord whose love
and power could change lives so profoundly was the surgical nurse who had
witnessed that power in the operating room.
During
the time of recuperation, Ken resumed his work as a salesman, calling by phone. As he contacted each of his old
customers he would first identify himself, then proceed to explain his wares
and negotiate the sale. Almost always, Ken told us with a little chuckle , the
customer would interrupt the sale to inquire, “Who did you say this is?” Ken would repeat his name only to hear the
customer protest, ”This can’t be Ken Holloway. Ken couldn’t talk without
swearing!”
The
day came when a baptismal service was arranged for the Holloways in
Minneapolis. Ken was still on crutches and had to be helped into the font. I
was in the congregation, my heart nearly bursting with love and joy for the
wonderful event. But when it was finished and Ken was lifted from the water , I
was disappointed. I expressed my
feelings.
“Ken,’
I said. “ I really expected you to walk out of that font on your own! I
expected you to be healed completely in that water!’
“No,”
Ken smiled quietly and said gently, “The Lord has too much to teach me. He
couldn’t let me loose so soon!” Then he added as if by an after thought or as
an affirmation of the presence of the Spirit in his life to date, “but,
you know, I haven’t used a foul word
since the day Willis first laid hands on me when everyone else had given up
hope!”.
*****
When
the seventy began cottage meetings with Jess and Marie Butcher, one of the
local priesthood questioned the wisdom
of such a procedure. “That man has done everything in the book,” he affirmed, “and
he still does some of them. I don’t think we really want him in the church”
“Don’t
worry,” Delbert consoled the troubled man. “Not everyone to whom I tell the
gospel is baptized.”
But
Jess and Marie Butcher were baptized at the church in Minneapolis. Soon after
the baptisms were finished, the priesthood member who had questioned the
propriety of sharing with the Butchers accosted the seventy with, “Do you know
what Jess Butcher just did?”
“Yes,”
replied the seventy, “he just got baptized”.
“No!”
remonstrated the indignant man. “He went out on the front steps of the church
and lit up a cigarette! Why did you baptize him?”
The
seventy was taken aback, but in that moment the Lord supplied the answer. “I
baptized him because I know that man has caught a vision of the kingdom. For
anyone who has caught a vision of the
kingdom, that sort of thing becomes unimportant.”
Moments
later the Holloways and the Butchers joined the Smiths in the almost empty
living room of their duplex home. Word had been received from the church
officers that the Smiths were assigned to Hawaii and would be leaving as soon
as the Sylvester Coleman family was ready to join them for the journey. Only
bed linens and personal belongings were to be taken with the exception of a few
appliances not available in Hawaii or available at great expense. Everything
else was to be stored or disposed of . We were nearly ready for the transfer.
Our only furnishings left in the living room were orange crates that served as
table and chairs. Jess entered carrying the cigarette he had lit on the church
steps and so offended the priest who had questioned his baptism. I hurried to
find something to be used as an ash tray. Jess guessed what I was about.
“Don’t
bother ,Sister Smith,” he said firmly. “this is the first thing that has to
go!” With that he walked to the front door, flipped the offending article out
the door and returned, never to smoke again.
Once
we were in Hawaii, Ken kept us apprised of the happenings in Chetek,
particularly with respect to Jess and
the church. First he said Jess was going out three times a week on cottage
meetings with the pastor, running the projector for him. Then he wrote that
Jess and Willis were still going out
three times a week on cottage meetings, but now the pastor was running the
projector for Jess!
Jess
was almost single handedly remodeling the church. He had put in new stairs to
the lower auditorium that made that part of the building much more readily
accessible, especially to the older members of the congregation. He had put in
a new furnace. He had made a cry room for young mothers. On and on the reports
went. Jess was ordained. Jess was an elder.
By
now it was confirmed that Jess was one of those chunks of coal tha the Lord’s
finger turns into shimmering diamonds. For a lot of years we lost track of the
Butchers. Then some forty years later, with the help of Seventy Bob Elrod, we
found Jess and Marie again in Wisconsin. Marie was confined to her bed in a
nursing home but her mind was still alert. With a warm smile she welcomed us
and recalled those early days of ministry and still bore her testimony of
the Lord’s goodness to them through the years. Jess was still very much
the minister though now his activity was limited by age. His testimony, too,
was that the Lord had been good to them especially in giving him all those
years in which to minister for Him.
FROM YOUTH UP
Chapter
3
Papa
Learns to Read
“Is
that the best you can do, Alma?” Mr. Adams, the teacher of the one room
Missouri school, had waited patiently for the shy sixteen year old to spell out
the words of the passage he had been asked to read aloud.
“That’s
the best I can do!” my embarrassed father responded. He could only attend
school for three months or less each year, depending on the weather. If it was
good enough for outside work, Papa had to work. His father was schooled in the
tradition of the “Old Country.” His own schooling had ended at age nine when he
was forced to begin supporting himself, and he was certain his own sons should
take their share of responsibility supporting the family. Only if the weather
was bad did Papa get to school.
Even
then , it seemed strange that he could not learn to read. He was very good at
arithmetic. And history? He loved history! He listened intently as that subject
was discussed in the classroom and remembered everything
he heard. But he could not read. At noon when the
other men would scan an entire newspaper, Papa might get one or two headlines
spelled and pronounced well enough to understand them.
“Just
don’t come back to class,” Mr. Adams instructed. “You just take up too much
time!” Embarrassed and ashamed, Papa took his seat.
In
spite of his ineptness, there was one book Papa wanted passionately to read. He
wanted to read the Book of Mormon. Time after time he would open the book , spell out the words and try to
make sense of the small bits he could piece together only to be disappointed.
Finally in desperation he cried, “Lord, I can’t do it ! Help me! Please, please
help me!”
Once
more he took up his Book of Mormon. This time when he opened the book , he
could read! There was no more spelling of word. Not only were the words
recognizable , but their meaning was explained to him instantaneously. Even the
strange names were pronounced for him . Delighted, he read on and on.
My
father’s reading was not confined to the Book of Mormon. Now he could read
anything that he wanted to read with amazing clarity and understanding. The
Bible, Doctrine and Covenants, Church History and other good books became his
passion. At Christmas and birthdays, if we wanted to make him happy, we could
always count of a book for his gift. Scriptures were his first love and poetry
probably his second. Both were used skillfully in his ministry.
As
a very young child, I well remember awakening many times at night to find the
kerosene lamp lighting the dining table covered with books and my father
bending over his tablet with a pen frequently dipped into his inkwell as he
marked his scriptures or made notes of the great ideas that came to him from
them. Time after time Papa would rush into the house as though on some urgent
errand only to enthusiastically share some new insight he had just received for
his next sermon or in answer to a
problem for which someone had asked for his help. Each insight had to be first
shared with Mamma, always with the hopeful query, “Do you get the point?” Once
confirmed, the “points” with their supporting scriptures would then be written down for future use in
inspiring sermons or saving ministries graced by the Spirit of God in their
presentation. Troubled families came from miles around to get his help. Many a
marriage was saved by his inspired counsel.
As
a child, I was constantly exposed to the Book of Mormon along with other
scriptures through his generous sharing at home and in the church. He was one
of the first in our area to take the
course in preaching offered by the Stake officers and was known for his
succinct, scripture filled sermons that were always short and often finished
with an appropriate inspirational poem.
For a long period of time he taught a Book of Mormon class for all ages on
Sunday nights before the regular church services. Farm chores had to be done
early or left until very late on Sunday evenings so we could drive the three
miles to church in a lumber wagon for him to teach. Other farm families did the
same just to be a part of the class.
At
the time of his death, he was the teacher for a church school class. When his
assistant teacher declared that she could
not take the class that first
Sunday after he died because she was too upset by his death, I volunteered. I
could not think of anything Papa would rather
have as a memorial than a good church school class!
Even
in that class, the familiarity I had with the Book of Mormon because of
Papa’s teaching stood me in good stead.
There was in the class a man, older than Papa, who was a pest! Constantly he
interrupted the discussion with some inane observation or errant thought.
I began to wonder why such a man still
lived and Papa was taken. Then the story of the slaughter of the Anti Nephi
Lehi people by their own brethren came to mind. The record says, “We know that
there was not a wicked man slain among them; but there were more than a thousand
brought to the knowledge of the truth; thus we see that the Lord worketh in
many ways to the salvation of his people.” That was it! Papa was ready. The
disruptive class member needed more time!
Chapter
4
Grasshoppers
“
Grasshoppers! Grasshoppers !” The urgent cry went up from the barnyard where my
family was just finishing the morning chores. Even as a very young child I had
been taught how to prepare some of the foods we usually ate for breakfast, and
on this day, as usual, I had remained in the house to prepare breakfast instead
of joining in the outdoor work.
The
presence of the voracious creatures was not surprising. For weeks during that
memorable summer, we had been protecting our equipment from them as much as
possible . If we were hoeing in the corn fields, cutting out weeks the
cultivators could not reach, or pitching hay from windrows onto the wagons
or from the bull rakes onto the stacks, we were continuously cautioned
to bring our hoes and pitchforks in from the fields even for the brief rests we
took. We were accustomed to sheltering the handles of our tools from the
burning sun when we rested, but this summer it was different. Any exposed handle wet with sweat was an
irresistible temptation to a grasshopper, and the person who inadvertently left
his instrument so exposed was almost certain to return to a hoe or pitchfork so
pitted and pocked by the insatiable insects that it was impossible to use the tool without cutting and scratching
and finally blistering the hands that tried to wield it. But the urgency of the
cry from the barnyard signaled something different from the situation with
which we had been coping all summer. This was an invasion of unprecedented
enormity.
I
ran to the window and saw my father racing toward the crest of the hill just
north of the smoke house where our land touched the farm of our nearest
neighbor. Curious and concerned at his evident haste, I quickly abandoned my
current task and sped across the hill following him .He topped the rise just
ahead of me, and we both stopped running, transfixed by the scene of complete
devastation that met us. A horde of grasshoppers had attacked the neighbors
cornfield and was systematically stripping every leaf from every stalk as the
creatures marched inexorably toward our land. Only bare stalks were left
standing where moments before there had been a promising field of corn.
As
the grasshoppers made their way down
the hill toward the barbed wire fence that was the only barrier between our land and them, I heard my father
praying. Simply and earnestly he told the Lord of his need for that crop. He
had a large family to feed , and he
always tried to help others in need. He had always paid his tithing and wanted
to continue to do so, but, he explained, if there was no crop, there would be
nothing with which to pay tithes. In expectant faith he asked the Lord to
prevent the hoppers from stripping our fields.
We
waited breathlessly as the pests ate their way right up to the fence. We
watched in grateful fascination as they lifted in a cloud that momentarily
masked the sun, then flew over our farm, away to the west, leaving our fields
and all the rest of our neighbor’s
fields untouched. Right then and there we offered prayers of thanksgiving
and Papa even helped compensate the Hudson’s for their loss by purchasing the
remaining stalks for feed for his pigs.
Chapter
5
Papa
and the Bull
It
was a beautiful summer day down on the farm in Northwest Missouri. Papa sent me
to the south forty to herd the cows. A violent flash flood had washed out the
fence that separated the pasture from the cornfield, and the cows had a taste
for tender young corn growing across the now docile creek. It was my assignment
to see to it that no cow left the pasture to satisfy either her curiosity or
penchant for tastier food. No one of us even gave a thought to the fact that
not all of the herd was female.
Since
the task was expected to be an easy one, I took a bucket of gooseberries with
me. My intent was to find a nice shaddy
position close to the breach in the cornfield
fence, spread my newspaper carpet around me and the bucket of wild
berries and remove both the stem and blossom ends adhering to the tiny fruit to
while away the time. My presence near the breach was to be adequate deterrent
for any ideas the cows might entertain about eating the corn.
All
went well for an hour or so. The berries were slowly filling the container set
beside me and the cows munched contentedly on the lush pasture grass. Suddenly
a fierce bellow split the summer air. The bull, who had apparently just become
aware of my presence, came charging out of the herd, head down and nostrils
flaring, headed directly for me and my gooseberries.
Instantly
I looked around for some place of safety. There was none except up in a tree, and I had never been successful
at climbing trees. Not once had I found one that I could conquer unless the
branches began very close to the ground! One glance at the shade that I had
chosen showed there were no such climbing aids, however, it did offer some
possibility. I had been sitting under two
trees growing close beside each other so as to form a kind of crotch
between them that I quickly mounted
with alacrity, almost walking up between them, and soon found myself ensconced
in branches just above the reach of the charging bull!
The
trees that sheltered me were, however, quite young and fragile under the
ferocious onslaught of the enraged creature that now assaulted them repeatedly.
For long moments he would paw the ground and bellow then charge the trees,
using his head for a battering ram propelled by his almost ton of weight. Under
each onslaught the trees trembled and I was forced to hold onto their slender
branches in sheer terror to remain above the massive head that was tossed high
into the air after each encounter. With each blow, I because more and more
frightened that the trees would not be able to survive.
Needless
to say, I was praying from the time I first heard the bull bellow. Now my
prayers intensified as I called on the Lord for deliverance from the
intractable creature. Suddenly, right out of the blue sky, it began to rain.
The bull had just raised his face to reach as high as he could into the trees
toward me when the deluge began. With full force the water hit the upturned
face. The bull shook his head as though in amazement, turned and galloped away to join the herd. The rain
ceased as suddenly as it had begun.
As
soon as the animal had abandoned his quest, I surveyed the area looking for a
safer place just in case he should notice that there was no more descending
water and return. The pasture stretched
for several hundred yards around a hill that bordered our neighbor’s forest. If
I could just get to the other side of the hill without being seen by the bull,
I should be able to cross the fence to the wooded area and be safe. From there
I could reach home safely by a roundabout way that I was certain I could
follow.
Hurriedly
I slid down between the trees and ran
as fast as I could for the forest on the other side of the hill. By running
fast, I quickly put the hill between me and the cows, climbed over the fence
and kept running through the forest. After what seemed a long time, I saw an
opening in the trees and was certain that I had reached our neighbor’s farmyard. Imagine my amazement when I cleared the forest only to find
myself face to face with the herd of cows from which I was fleeing. I had run
in a circle through the dense woods and was now on the herd’s side of the hill
on which I had counted for protection.
I
turned and started running again, this time not so sure that I was fleeing to
safety. I was tired and frustrated and scared, probably more so than there was
reason to be, for the bull showed no interest at all in my unexpected presence
so near to him and his harem. Just then I heard my father’s voice calling my
name. I stopped and looked toward the sound. There was the most welcome sight I
had ever experienced. Papa was riding on a horse and calling to me. He had
heard the bellowing of the bull and knew I must be in trouble , so
saddling his horse he had come from the
far end of the farm to rescue me and my gooseberries.
Chapter
6
A
Teacher For His Children
The
current teacher at Whiteford School was a strapping six foot some inches tall and
handsome as a movie star. His coaching skills were phenomenal as could be attested by all the other rural schools
whose districts bordered Whiteford. They had all been beaten by the Whiteford
softball team at one time or another. Recesses and noon hours were lots of fun
for most of the students. The children idolized him! The only trouble was that many of the students were not learning
much from books ! Those for whom learning was easy or who already had a good
start in the basics could get along pretty well, but for those for whom reading , writing and arithmetic were
difficult, there were problems.
The
Nelson family had three children in the school, one of whom was a much better
ball player than he was a student. Our parents were concerned ! School board elections were just coming
up and Papa and Mamma were praying
about the welfare of their children and others in the neighborhoood. They
finally decided that the only way to change the situation was for Papa to get
elected to the school board and see to it that a more scholastically inclined
teacher was obtained.
In
those days one did not declare his or
her candidacy and campaign for a seat on the board. The entire district just
met on the designated day, candidates were nominated and the elections took
place on the spot.
It
was just three quarters of a mile through the fields to the school house where
the elections was to be held, so Papa walked just as the children almost always
did. On the way he was praying, asking the Lord to help him get elected and
promising that if he was successful, he would do all in his power to hire Neva
Ross, a well qualified teacher who was still without a situation.
Suddenly
Papa heard music, beautiful music sung by a magnificent choir. In those days
there were no televisions, no radios , no boom boxes, no tape recorders, not
even any wire recorders from which the music could have come out there in the
middle of the fields. Gramaphones were pretty much confined to parlors of the
wealthy, and there were none such within miles of my father. The music had to
be heavenly music and the choir made up of angels. Papa stopped to listen, awed
by the beautiful sound.
Then
a strange thing happened. Two voices stood out from the others and Papa
recognized them as the voices of Neva’s father and mother. Aunt Letty, as we
children called the beautiful lady who had given us all music lessons until her
untimely death, and Uncle Will, whose years as our pastor were likewise cut
short in death, were singing with the heavenly choir!
No
words were spoken concerning the school board election, but when the music faded away, Papa went on to
the school confident that he would receive the post and that Neva would be the
one to teach the children during the next school year. And it was so. Neva
taught at the school until she was called away to teach other teachers at the
Northwest Missouri State Teacher’s college. Her tenure at Whiteford lasted five
wonderful , productive years !
Chapter
7
Maple
Grove Tongues
Wednesday morning of the Farwest Stake Reunions back
in the nineteen thirties was a special time for the youth. Early in the morning
we would hike to the Maple Grove church several miles north of the camp. There
we would participate in an early morning prayer service and breakfast and hike
back to camp in time to join with the adults in prayer and testimony later on
that morning. The Wednesday morning of which I now speak was even more special
than any other we had ever known.
Many
of our leaders were in the shaded back yard of the church preparing breakfast.
We were inside the white frame church seriously engaged in prayer and
testimony. Suddenly, according to Neva Ross who was our Guilford youth leader,
some of the workers stopped their work and asked sharply, “Did you feel that?”
Whatever
“that” was, many had felt it and were anxious to know what it was all about.
Immediately all of them abandoned the breakfast preparations and ran to the
open windows of the church to see what was transpiring inside.
Inside
I was seated just behind Wayne Simmons when Patriarch Ray Whiting arose and
moved to the front of the rostrum. Suddenly Wayne turned to look at me. I was
not long out of high school and quite shy in the presence of a young man whom I
respected so highly as Wayne. I would have been uncomfortable had I seen his
inquiring glance. But I did not see it. I was totally absorbed in the ministry
Brother Whiting was about to give. It was only later that I learned of Wayne’s
query.
When
Wayne saw that I was not paying any attention to him, he directed his attention
toward those in charge of the meeting. Soon, however, he told me later, he
turned to look at me again. He said he felt a tapping on his shoulder and
thought I was trying to get his attention. When the tapping came the third
time, and I was obviously oblivious to anything that was happening to him,
Wayne became aware that it was a messenger from the Lord who needed his
attention.
As
Wayne looked toward Brother Whiting, he saw not only Brother Whiting but a
heavenly messenger standing by his side. The heavenly messenger was identified
to Wayne as a Nephite. When Brother Whiting finally composed himself and
started speaking in a tongue with which none of us was familiar, that language
was also identified to this dedicated young man. It was the Nephite tongue. It
was the beginning of Wayne’s realization that he had a special calling to
minister to Book of Mormon peoples.
Others
who were there later testified that they saw angels hovering over the youth in
the congregation. My sister saw the Christ with outstretched arms inviting the
youth to come to him . My entire attention was given to Ray Whiting as he spoke
and as he interpreted the language in which he first spoke.
So
far as I know , no one recorded the message that was given that morning. I only
remember the assurance of love that I
felt and the urgency of the counsel that some who were there had only a short
time in which to do all that they would
be permitted to do for the Lord on this earth.
There
were rumblings of war in Europe, but few, if any of us there had the slightest
notion that war would come to the United States or that we would be involved.
War did come, however. Many of us gathered at Maple Grove that Wednesday
morning had to participate in it, and
some of us did not survive it! The Lord had chosen to create a dramatic moment
in our lives to draw us closer to Him.
Chapter
8
Scarred
For Life
I
was eighteen and teaching my first school at Fairview, a little rural school
just north of Barnard, Missouri. The early winter snows had been followed by rain that turned them into
fields of ice that now blanketed the
rolling hills of northwest Missouri. My students skated gaily over the rough
terrain. Those of us not so proficient on
skates wore cleats made of the
triangular cycle sections of mowers bent down at each of the three corners and
riveted to harness straps fashioned into sandals and made to fit over our
boots. Without the cleats, we could not stay on our feet. On that first morning
after the ice storm, I stepped out of the door of my boarding house and suddenly found myself coasting all
the way to the end of the lane without
benefit of a sled, graded papers, books and my sack lunch flying in every direction as I fell. It was coasting
party time, all right. Of that there could be no doubt, and tonight’s moonlight
party for the community had just begun.
I
was eighteen, and here I was staring into the school’s new first aid kit’s
mirror at a face sliced open from above my left eye all the way down to my
collar. Blood flowed profusely from the vent, splashing finally into the basin
of cold water from which I had dipped the clean white cloth that I now held to
the wound trying unsuccessfully to staunch the flow of crimson fluid.
Whether
it was the cold water or the shrill cry of the young girl who had just entered
the building and discovered me, I was suddenly aware of the unusual events of
which I was a part. Perhaps it was shock. Or maybe I really did want to
reassure my student. At any rate, I laughed a silly laugh then asked for my
brother who had come to enjoy the party
and then to take me home for the weekend.
Immediately
Mary Lee disappeared from the door, and again I was alone bathing my bloody
face with the now blood stained cloth. I tried to remember . What had happened?
Why was I here? The school children had been coasting down the hill inside the
neighbor’s fence at every recess of the day. When the neighborhood youth came
for the moonlight party, they started to go directly down the road with their
sleds. That route required driving through a crossroad intersection then maneuvering around a bend and across a
narrow bridge. I thought that too great a risk
to take at night and so suggested that we follow the course the children
had used inside the pasture. Their run took them down the hill where they made
a turn that took them parallel to a barbed wire fence that skirted the
road. That would be safer, I reasoned, than following the hazardous road route!
I
was the first one down the hill. Where the children had been successful in
turning to ride parallel with the barbed wire fence at the bottom of the hill,
I was heavier than they and it was dark. Only the moon lit the area with its eerie glow. I did not see the fence
coming so quickly and I did not make the turn. Instead, I hit the hedge post
with my head so hard that the staples holding the barbed wire in place bounced
out of the post leaving the wire dangling. The force of the impact knocked me
and the sled backwards, and I was riding it unconscious when it passed through the treacherous
barbed wire that now dangled menacingly beside the damaged post. It was the
post that damaged my head and the wire that tore through my face, neck and
knee.
But
I didn’t know all of that then. Vaguely I recalled feeling a warm liquid
flowing down my cold face as some force impelled me to pick up my sled and head
for the schoolhouse. Twice I had reached up to test the fluid and try to
determine what it was. Each time I withdrew my hand more puzzled than before.
Then I remembered nothing.
Now
I was again conscious , standing in front of the first aid kit that I had just
that day hung in the one room school house. I was bathing not only a gaping wound that ran from above my left
eye all the way to my coat collar but also one that slashed jaggedly across my
face under my nose. Whether it was the cold water from the basin below or the
sudden outcry of the young girl who had just entered the room that brought me back to consciousness, I did
not know . I only knew that I was terribly hurt and no one seemed to know. No
one was helping me!
Strangely
enough, my first reaction to the puzzling situation had been to laugh. It
was a silly, embarrassed laugh. Here I
was supposed to be hosting the community coasting party, and I was inside the
school bathing away blood that still flowed copiously from two gaping wounds on
my terribly marred face. What had happened? Why was I there ? How would I get
the blood to stop?
“Kenneth!
Kenneth!” I heard the call go out beyond the school house door.
Kenneth?
Was my brother here? I had already forgotten that I had asked Mary Lee to get
him. If Kenneth was here, I had nothing to fear. Kenneth was two years younger
than I and very small for his age, but Kenneth would take care of everything!
With that assurance , I continued to try to bathe away the blood while I waited
for Kenneth to come and make everything right.
“Sis!
What happened/” I heard his voice and smiled a crooked smile with the right
side of my mouth where the muscles were still connected.
The
next thing I remembered, we were in the office of the country doctor who cared
for all the medical needs of the entire area. Vaguely I heard him talking about
his decision not to try to sew my face
together for fear that stitch marks would only intensify the scar that
was inevitable. Butterfly bandages, he said, were new, but he would like to try
them. The jagged cut under my nose worried him most. Like the slash down the
cheek, that cut had penetrated the oral cavity and he could not tell for sure
that it had not damaged the salivary glands so that there might be drainage to
the outside unless he could get that wound secured perfectly. And there was the
eye. Even though the sinus above the eye was crushed and the wound resumed just
below the eye, the strong bone of the
brow had protected the sight from injury;
but the scar could easily contort the contour of the eye to make it
horribly disfiguring.
Shock,
too, was of concern to Dr. Humberd. Carefully he wrapped his own long fur coat
around me and helped me into the back seat of our family Model A Ford. “Now
take it easy! “ he instructed Kenneth, “And be sure to keep her warm!”
The
roads were rough in those days. There were some five miles of rutted gravel and
three miles of even more deeply rutted dirt roads between the doctor’s office
and home. I felt every bump., even with Kenneth’s careful driving and my
semi-conscious state.
With
my head swathed in bandages made very thick to absorb the still oozing blood
and wrapped in the doctor’s great fur coat, I knew I could be a very
frightening sight to my parents. “Go in ahead of me.” I instructed Kenneth.
“Tell them that there had been an
accident but that I am all right.” Then while my brother ran ahead , I stumbled
to the house trying hard to pretend there was nothing very wrong with me.
Monday
I was determined to go back to school to teach, bandages and all, but the
kindly school board members decided that the school needed a new furnace and
this was the time to get it. They cancelled school for a week!
By
the time school resumed, I was still held together by butterfly bandages, and
the wrappings protecting them were still generous. While everything seemed to
be mending well, there was still one serious problem with my appearance. As it
healed, the cut that had barely missed my eye was now drawing my left eye into
a grotesque appearance, like something one would design for a frightening
make-believe monster. Kindly as the children were, they could not help staring
wide eyed when they encountered me. The younger ones were not
certain that they should not be frightened. I was concerned.
The
possibility of having a scar all the way down my face had not troubled me
greatly. I had known from the time I was very young that I was not beautiful .
One day my aunt was fixing my sister’s beautiful curls for some long forgotten
event. As she worked, she spoke of her beauty. Then she turned to me and
remarked with a little laugh, “And you, you ugly little mutt!” My hair was straight
as a string and very unattractive. The fact that I knew I was ugly, though ,
kept me fro being especially concerned even when I knew my scars would be as
long as my face and very red. If I was not beautiful in the first place, their
presence could be of little consequence. But for my eye to be disfigured to the
point of grotesqueness was more than I could easily accept.
Wednesday
night always found us at church. This Wednesday night, I went with a special
purpose. I asked the elders to pray that my eye would heal in such a manner
that my appearance would never detract from my testimony of the Lord, Jesus
Christ. As is the custom in our faith, the elders anointed my head with oil ,
laid their hands on my head and prayed as I had requested. When next I looked
in the mirror, the grotesque angle was gone from the lower lid. My eye had
returned to its normal shape! The rest of the scars continued bright and red
down and across my face, but rarely did anyone seem to notice.
One
day when I had returned to college to complete my educational degree, I had
dashed into the restroom for a moment. Since I was editing the college paper,
serving on the student senate, doing my student teaching, living in the home
management house and carrying a full load of academic subjects, I had little
time to think of my appearance. This time a timid young woman approached me
cautiously. “I- I envy you your scar!”
She finally blurted out her message and then hastily retreated as though
fearing she might have offended me.
“Why?”
I was startled. Although I rarely gave any thought to the ugly red streak down
my face, I hardly considered it desirable.
“
Everyone on campus knows that you are here,” the meek little voice explained.
“No one knows I am around!”
Still
too surprised to think of anything really intelligible to say, I murmured
something I hoped would be reassuring, and rushed off to fulfill some urgent
duty. I guess the girl was one of those people who just seem to fade into the
woodwork. I don’t remember ever seeing her again.
Years
have passed. The scar is still there. It is
still ugly and clearly defined. I can trace it with my finger from above
my left eye where the sunken place in my head still hurts occasionally, down my
cheek, across under my nose and down my throat where the wire incision barely
missed my jugular vein. There are scars on my knee, too, from the same
accident, but they are rarely seen. But through the years when the subject of
injury and scars comes into a conversation of which I am a part, someone will
frequently ask in surprise, “Your scar! What scar? I never noticed before that
you have a scar!”
Truly
the blessing for which I asked did not stop with returning appropriate
proportions to my eye. Throughout the hundreds, even thousands of lectures I
have given inside and outside the church, even appearing frequently on
television during the six years I worked for the University of Missouri
Extension Service in the St. Louis area, my appearance seems not to have
detracted from the testimony I have to bear. That testimony is not always
telling of the Lord’s many rich blessings to me and mine. More often it has
been sharing the truths God has shared with us both in science and religion.
Thank God I didn’t need a pretty face to share that testimony.
And
I’ll always be grateful for my aunt’s honest evaluation of my appearance . Had
I thought I was beautiful, the presence of the expansive scar might have caused me great distress. Early
in my young life, the Lord had prepared me for a life of joyful service
whatever scars remained.
Chapter
9
Seek
Learning By Study And Also By Faith
“You’ll
never get anywhere in that field !
“ It was my good friend and benefactor,
Harold Jobe speaking as we traveled from Northwest Missouri State Teacher’s
College in Maryville around Harold’s newspaper route which helped pay for his
college. With it, Harold made it possible for me and several others to attend
college, too, by allowing us to ride with him for seventy five cents a week.
When Harold learned that I had chosen to major in home economics, he assured me
that was not a field with a future.
Much
as I valued Harold’s advice, I continued to pray for direction in my career and
found myself continuously guided into the field I had initially chosen. One
happening after another that I could only attribute to divine providence
propelled me from situation to situation until that career was indelibly
established, linking my secular studies with my religious beliefs. The illness
of a dear friend and secretary was the final event that determined the character of my career.
It
was war time. I was working on Delmo Labor Homes , six communities of homes
that had been built by the federal government to house the poor agricultural
workers of southeast Missouri on the delta of the Mississippi that extended
into Missouri. My secretary, Lauree, who had been accustomed to serving the
East Prairie and Wyatt camp s from our
East Prairie office, now found it necessary to move from place to place and
serve seven of the camps plus the main office in Sikeston. After a rather
prolonged absence from east Prairie, she returned to work for a week or so. I gave her work to do and
departed to work at Wyatt for the day. When I returned, the work had not been
done . Lauree said that the women had been in to visit with her and I accepted her explanation knowing that
the residents loved and missed her.
The
next day I gave her the same work to do and left again. Again I returned to
find the work undone. Later I found the words, “I’M SCARED!!” written in large letters followed by the multiple
exclamations points scattered through my files and the library where she had
evidently hoped I would find them. Unfortunately, I did not until much later.
On
the next day, I was with my friend all day. She seemed much like herself except
that she was unusually flighty. Once she wanted out of the car to pick flowers.
She flitted among the flowers joyously and I had difficulty getting her back
into the car to resume our trip. When I took her home to Sikeston that night,
she said she was afraid and wanted me to stay with her. I couldn’t stay because
I had a food preservation demonstration scheduled on the East Prairie camp the
next morning, so I assured her there was nothing to be afraid of and left her alone
in her apartment.
While
I was giving my demonstration the next morning, Paul Cornelison, our area
supervisor in whose office she was to work that week, came to the door, called
me out and into my office. Then he called me into my private office, placed his hands under my elbows as if to support
me and said, “Brace yourself for a shock, Lauree has gone completely berserk!”
That
morning our usually prompt secretary arrived at the area office an hour late
with no apology. She had gone by the dime store and bought a lot of trinkets
with which she tried to demonstrate to Paul how his work of managing the farms
should be handled. Later we found that
she had gone to the Greyhound Bus
station to try to get a bus to work, which was just around the corner. The
attendants there sent her away thinking that she was drunk. Paul , too, aware
that something was terribly wrong, sent her home to her apartment. Very soon
there was a call from a frantic landlady. Our secretary had gone into her room,
locked the door, upset the wastebasket on the floor and set the contents on
fire. Fortunately, seeing the fire sparked something in her brain and she did
put it out, but she would not open her door. Paul came to me thinking that
because of our friendship, I might persuade her to let us and a doctor reach
her.
When
we arrived at her apartment, she had already opened the door. She had taken a
shower and was dressed immaculately as usual. She seemed perfectly normal
except that she talked all of the time.
For our usually timid, retiring young lady, this was not normal! We decided to
take her to her home over toward Poplar Bluff. On the way she chattered about
everything, even those things I did not want our boss to know. For one thing,
several of us had grown adventurous and had applied for transfers to Alaska.
Lauree had typed our applications. She told Paul all about it!
When
we arrived at the Moran home, we simply told Lauree’s parents that we had brought their daughter home for a
rest. She had invited the entire staff to her home to celebrate the Fourth of
July holiday, and we would all be there in a few days. We said nothing about
her strange behavior thinking that this was probably not the first time it had
happened to her and her parents probably would know all about it and how to
handle it. But that assumption proved fallacious.
The
next day I received a call from the most irate parents you could ever imagine.
Lauree had gone to the fields with her father and had gone completely berserk
again. She laughed a silly laugh , tossed dirt over her shoulders and called
for me. The family took her to the hospital and there the doctors said she was
either drunk or drugged. Since she was calling for me, they put two and two
together and decided I had had her out on a
wild party and really got her fixed up!
When
I arrived at the Poplar Bluff hospital, I found my secretary friend locked in
the basement of the hospital so she would not disturb the other patients. The
doctors were still declaring that she had to be either drunk or drugged. People
just didn’t act like she was acting without one or other . All my protests that
that could not be the case since she did not drink or take drugs went unheeded.
For the better part of a week her parents
and I stayed with her in that locked room. She became progressively
worse. She continued to chatter, telling stories of entire books in detail,
talking about all sorts of happenings in her life and that of her family,
sometimes just mumbling unintelligibly. Never did she actually rest except for
brief times when one of us would lie down with her and soothe her like a child.
Finally she became violent, breaking dishes when we offered her food and
otherwise being destructive as her small stature and weakened condition would
allow.
Finally
I demanded that she see a specialist who would know what was happening to her.
Her Poplar Bluff doctors obtained an appointment for her with a specialist in
St. Louis. Her parents and I started with her wrapped in a blanket between the
two of them in the back seat. Soon she was tied in the blanket to keep her from
wrecking the car. Her constant pleading to be in the front seat where she cold
play with the gadgets caused me to finally stop the car and tell her that she
could come up front if she would let her father hold one of her hands and put
the other behind my back. She agreed,
and we rode peacefully the rest of the way to St. Louis.
When
the doctor opened his door to invite his patient into his examining room, she
pulled off her shoes and flung them at him. He ducked the shoes and, shaking
his finger at us said, “Take her away and get her some food! I’ve seen dozens
like her !”
We
retrieved the shoes and while her family took her back to the car, I stayed to
write a sizeable check for his services and to inquire, “Where will we take
her?” His response was, “To the mental hospital at Farmington. There is only
one doctor in the state of Missouri who knows what to do for her, and he is
there.”
My
next question was, ‘Will she ever be well?”
The
doctor looked at me a bit disdainfully and responded, “Of course she’ll be
well, but the state you’ve got her in, it will take six months!”
I
was shocked. I didn’t know what state I had her in, but I did know at that
moment that if food had the power to do this to a healthy young girl’s mind, I
had to know more about it. Before I left that doctor’s office, I was determined
to return to school and learn what was
the connection.
We
took my secretary to the hospital, and when those metal doors clanged behind
her, it had all too final a ring to it. After a couple of weeks we visited her
,then the doctor said for us to make no more effort to see her until he
notified us to come for her. That happened in just about four months instead of
the six the specialist had predicted. We got
back a beautiful, healthy young girl. She weighed more than she had
weighed when we took her in, but now she was her old self.
When
Lauree returned to work, circumstances had changed for Delmo and the poor of
southeast Missouri. Her services were no longer needed in that area and she
declined the government’s offer of a transfer to Chicago. Instead she became
the receptionist for the hospital near the one in which she had been locked in
the basement room. There she worked
until the next fall when Graceland College opened. She graduated from Graceland
with honors and again went to work for the government.
During
this time, she met a young man whom she wanted to marry. Knowing the
seriousness of her illness, the young couple wrote to the hospital to ask
whether they should ever have children. The hospital answered back that her
illness was purely nutritional and as long as she was well fed it would never
happen again. That has been fifty years ago. Lauree’s children have also
graduated from college and had children of their own. Lauree has had other
health problems from time to time as most of us have, but there had never been
a recurrence of this mental aberration.
Back
at Iowa State in a Master’s degree program in Foods and Nutrition I soon learned
that Lauree’s illness was atypical pellagra. Pellagra is sometimes called the
disease of the four D’s: dermatitis, diarrhea, dementia and death. Most
pellagrins first evidence their
deficiency state by a rash on their hands and feet. Gloved hands and feet they
are called. When that symptom was noted, many doctors knew to enrich the
patient’s diet with foods such as
meats, milk and nutritional yeasts. For some reason, Lauree skipped the first
two stages of the disease. Because she went immediately to the dementia, her disease was not recognized until it
was beyond the help of simple foods. She needed large amounts of niacin, but
the knowledge that niacin was the missing nutrient and could be given in
prophylactic quantity was very new. That was the reason that only one doctor in
Missouri knew what to do for her. Pellagra had been known for
centuries. The disease followed corn eating
people, and corn was a staple of Southland USA. In fact, it was a limited diet
comprised principally of soup and cornbread, resorted to in an effort to make
her meager expense account cover her needs as she moved from camp to camp
outside her normal residential area, that had been responsible for Lauree’s
illness.
It
was estimated that about 15,000 people died of pellagra yearly and that as many
as half the people in mental hospitals of the South in the early 1940’s were there because of pellagra. Thousands of
dollars were spent on research to learn what poison if any there was in corn that caused the
devastating disease. No toxin was found, but early in that decade the vitamin,
niacin, was discovered and proved to be the missing nutrient. It was then that
the federal government authorized the enriching of cornmeal and white wheat
flours with niacin along with thiamin, riboflavin and iron, all of which were
missing from corn and were being decimated by the practice of refining wheat.
Pellagra, along with some other deficiency diseases, was virtually eliminated
from the general population. Only one other time have I seen it in all the
intervening years.
I
resigned my position at Delmo to enter graduate school the fall after Lauree
was hospitalized. During my first spring semester at Ames I attended a far West
Stake Conference at St. Joseph. The business session was to be held on Sunday
morning with Arthur Oakman to be the speaker for the conference. First Church
was packed. The first instruction given was to tell us how to leave the
building in case of fire. Although some questioned the advisability of having a
business session Sunday morning because those sessions were not always
pleasant, this one was Spirit filled. It did, however, last much past time for
the morning worship service. We were asked whether we wanted to hear Brother
Oakman preach or break for lunch. We chose
to hear the sermon. When it was finished, we were told that there was
only enough food available to feed the children. We were asked whether we
wanted time to go out and find food or whether we would rather fast and be on
hand for the prayer service scheduled for two that afternoon. We chose to fast.
At
that Spirit graced afternoon prayer service, Brother Oakman spoke for the Lord.
Among other things, he said, “The time will come when though I would like to
protect my people, I cannot except they be obedient to the Word of Wisdom.” or
words to that effect. He said more that I cannot remember, but those words
burned into my consciousness as I realized they were pertinent to the things I
was studying at Iowa State.
My
father carried his Doctrine and Covenants in the glove compartment of his car.
On the way home, I took the book and with great excitement, turned to Section
86 and read, “All grain is good for food, nevertheless wheat for man, corn for
the ox…” “See , Papa,” I explained and
my voice shook a little with excitement, “The Lord knew it all of the time.
Here we have been trying to find a poison in corn, and there was none. It was
something missing that is in wheat. There are no wheat eating peoples who have
endemic pellagra as do corn eating people. Now we know it from experiments but
the Lord knew it all of the time and tried to tell us how to live healthfully!”
Then my father, the farmer-minister, and I had a long talk about the difference
in the digestive system of the ox. Cows have an extra stomach, the rumen, that
we have learned is a veritable factory of vitamins and proteins that are needed
for growth and health. When the cow finally passes the food into her second
stomach for assimilation, the needed nutrients are there. We do not have the ability
to enrich our food in the way a bovine does. The nutrients have to be there
when we eat it. That day the Word of Wisdom became inseparably connected with
my expanding knowledge of nutrition.
Because
of that connection my offer to teach the people of the church has resulted
in my giving many classes o the subject
in a large variety of settings in and outside the church. My professional
teaching and writing was profoundly affected by the knowledge that I could trust
the word of the Lord to guide me through the labyrinth of conflicting
information of an infant science. Because of it , I did not have to make the
mistakes that others of my profession were making in interpreting the available
data. For the church , I wrote The Word
of Wisdom: Principle With Promise published by Herald House in 1977 and its companion
volume, Word of Wisdom Helps :Food, published n 1979 . And because of it, I was sometimes able to
assist my Seventy husband in his ministry. One time in particular I was
thankful for my knowledge of pellagra.
It
was the only time after I left Southeast Missouri that I ever saw pellagra
again. The institution of enrichments for breads and cereal products
essentially eliminated the disease from
the general public. While we were in Canada, however, we had a good
church friend who was a double amputee. One summer we kept hearing that Ernie
was very ill. Extreme depression seemed to have hit this usually affable
Deacon. He had lost his legs to a debilitating disease characterized by blood
clots in his legs. To prevent one of them breaking loose and lodging in his
heart or his brain, he was amputated, but that was not the cause of his
depression. He had long ago adjusted to that life and was very active at home
and at church. Something else was bothering him. Although we were too far away
to visit, we often prayed for our good brother’s blessing.
By
the time we returned to Saskatoon from our summer activities in camps and other
church responsibilities, Ernie had reached the depth of his depression. When we
called to see whether we could visit, his wife told us that he had refused even
to see a relative who had driven some three hundred miles one way to see him,
but he had never refused to see any of the church people. She would ask. Ernie
said we could come.
Mary
ushered us into Ernie’s bedroom. Delbert began immediately to visit with the
sick man trying to cheer him as was his custom. I stood aghast at what I saw.
There, lying on top of the covers were two gloved hands of a pellagrin ! I had
never seen the disease more pronounced on any of its victims that I had
encountered in the South. These were textbook manifestations of the disease.
As
soon as I could graciously do it, I sought out Mary and asked, “Mary , has the
doctor said anything about Ernie’s hands?”
“Oh,
yes.” Mary responded. “He gave me some lotion for his hands and some vitamin A
for him to take. “ Then she hastily explained, “It didn’t do any good!”
“No!
I’m sure it didn’t !” I answered her firmly. “Would you mind if I got him some
niacin?”
Mary
was puzzled but desperate for some solution to Ernie’s plight. “If he needs
niacin,” she said a bit hesitantly, “I’ll just have the pharmacist down at the
hospital fix some up for him.” The hospital was just a block away and the state
of Ernie’s health was well known to all the staff.
Mary
went straight to the telephone and called the hospital pharmacy. The pharmacist
assured her that Ernie had no need for niacin, so she asked him to talk to me.
I introduced myself to the man. “Sir,” I said respectfully but firmly, “I am a
nutritionist and I have seen pellagra. This man has pellagra!”
“Oh,”
was the startled reply. “If that’s true, then he needs niacin!”
“Yes,
sir!” I agreed.
“I’ll
get it ready immediately.” I could almost see him rush away from the telephone
feeling the urgency of the situation.
Delbert
and I stayed with Ernie while Mary went to the hospital and obtained the
niacin. Two weeks later we dropped by the house to deliver something, the
nature of which I have forgotten. Ernie was sitting in the living room surrounded by a number of guests. His
depression was gone. His hands were smooth and pink like a baby’s skin.
Two
weeks later when we were in town for a
longer period of time, we called to see whether we could visit. This time
Mary said they had an appointment for Ernie’s checkup at the hospital that
afternoon. Could we come the next day ? Of course we could.
When
we arrived at the house at the appointed time, Ernie had just finished
scrubbing the floors. His checkup had given him a clean bill of health and he
was eagerly awaiting our visit. The field of study that looked as though it had
no future had once more brought good to God’s people. The Lord’s wise counsel
to “ Seek learning by study and also by faith” had once again been justified.
Chapter
10
Like
Precious Faith
“You
can’t go to Cornell ! Why, I would never get to New York to see you. Please
make it Ames !” It was my good friend Harold responding to the news that I was
leaving my work in southeast Missouri
to return to school to try to find the answers to the myriad health problems
that faced our poor in the Boot Heel of Missouri. The spectacular illness of my
secretary had sparked the decision to make the change. Already I had resigned
my position and there was left only the decision as to where I would go.
Cornell University in New York and Iowa State University at Ames each had
reputable nutrition programs. With Harold’s urging, and the generous offer of
an assistantship by the foods and nutrition department of the school, Iowa
State won.
Harold
was a wonderful friend. We had been dating ever since we had met on an outing
to Reel Foot Lake months before. We had each gone with other friends but had
found so much of interest that we had in common, that our choice had been to be
with each other. On one of our first dinner dates, Harold had observed , “You
don’t drink. You don’t smoke. You don’t even drink coffee. That’s what
attracted me to you from the first.”
Immediately I reasoned silently, “Here is a good
opportunity to share my testimony of the Restoration with this good Methodist
for whom I have such admiration.” Aloud I said, “You know, we believe that the Lord speaks to people of this day just
as he has always done. One of the revelations he has given in our day we call
the Word of Wisdom. In it we are told that these things are not to be used if
we want healthy bodies.”
Harold
drew himself up to his full six feet or so of height and responded, “Can’t
anyone figure that our without the Lord having to tell them?”
This
young man had figured it out and was living a good, clean , healthful life. He
also had a good job with the government and lived in his own beautiful southern
plantation home where he kept a number of excellent riding horses which we both
enjoyed. He was a boy scout leader and the superintendent of his church’s
church school. So far as I could see, he had everything to recommend him as a
companion for life except that he was not a member of the Reorganized Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. About that I was not certain. I was already
in my mid-twenties and had long been looking
for a companion of “like precious faith” as my patriarchal blessing had
instructed me.
I valued the counsel of my priesthood father,
so on my first trip home from Missouri’s delta land, I took my concern to him.
After sharing all that I knew about my friend and advising him of the
instruction of my blessing, he thoughtfully said, “Maybe he is one of like
precious faith. Why don’t you give your friendship some time and see?”
Then
one Sunday morning, I was seated at the piano in the little old one room
country school house just outside Sikeston where our congregation held its
services. The building bore the name “Slap Out” for some long forgotten altercation
that had occurred there, but for those of us living in a radius of some fifty
miles from the city it was a peaceful and valued place of worship. For a long
time we had only church school except on the days that Elder Ralph Wicker was in the area. Ralph
was an accountant with the
O’Dea Finance company of Des Moines, Iowa and came into the area
periodically on business. When we spotted his roadster parked in the school
house yard as we approached, we always drove just a little faster in happy anticipation
of his ministry for that day!
Finally
the war brought a young priest into the area. Orval Hooten was working on the
air base at Malden, some forty miles away, and came to Sikeston with his family
every time he was free to come . Now we had more nearly regular preaching
services and a pastor.
This
morning I was waiting for him to announce the last hymn of the service when he
began to speak in prophecy to the congregation .Although he did not address me
by name, I was aware that some of what he said was for me. When he suddenly
stopped speaking, I whirled around on the piano stool on which I was seated to
look askance at him. He paid no attention to my puzzlement. He just announced
the last hymn, we sang and he closed the service. After it was over, I tried to
reach him to talk to him, but others had the same idea , and soon he had to
rush off, hurrying to get to his work back at the base on time.
All
week I pondered Brother Hooten’s
strange behavior, and when Sunday arrived, I went early to church. The
young priest likewise came early. When I announced that I had come early to
talk with him, he assured me that was the very reason he had come early- to
talk to me. I asked, ,”Why didn’t you complete the message you had from the
Lord last Sunday?” He responded , “Because the rest was so personal that I
thought you would rather have it given in private.”
Brother
Hooten did not know that I was planning to leave the best job I had ever had to
return to school. My father thought I was foolish. My supervisor assured me
that I would never get a position that paid so well. And I knew it would mean
selling my car to finance the endeavor. That in itself didn’t look really smart
during war time when cars were not easily available . I had been praying for direction.
In his public prophetic ministry, the Lord had assured me that He was directing
my life. Now He wanted me to know that He
had seen my loneliness and my desire for a companion. He wanted me to
know that if I would be patient, he would give me His servant to be my
companion , one with whom I could build a happy, Zionic home.
After
I entered school at Ames, Harold came to visit me there, and we enjoyed every
minute of our time together. After I finished my Master’s Degree and was employed by the University Extension
as a Foods and Nutrition Specialist
with responsibilities all over the state, he met me when I was working near the
Missouri and Illinois border. We attended church services at Nauvoo, spent the day with the principal guides there
and had a wonderful time recalling the beginnings of the church to which I
belonged. When time for the World Conference approached, we made plans to meet
in Independence for the first weekend of that event. When it became apparent
that he would be there before I could make it, I made arrangements for my
sister to be his hostess until I could arrive.
By
the time I arrived ,Harold had about all of conference that he wanted, and he
had made arrangements for us to go to Graceland farms south of Independence on
Sunday morning to look at some Arabian horses in which he was interested. I
went without protest, but it was then that I
knew that this was not the person of like precious faith with whom I
could make a Zionic home. As soon as I returned home, I thanked him for his
friendship and advised him to look for another to be his special friend.
Then
I waited for the fulfillment of the Lord’s promise. There were long years of
loneliness. Oh, I had many friends and was constantly busy with people in my
work and in the church, but many a night as I drove from one county seat to
another miles away in preparation for the next day’s work, I looked at families
I could see gathered around the supper table or on the lawns of their homes and
wondered when I would ever have a
family with whom I could spend an evening.
During
the time I was working on my degree at Iowa State , I was asked to go to the
Independence Sanitarium and Hospital one summer to serve as an assistant to
Vera Goff, hospital dietitian, during the time her regular assistant was away
furthering her education. During that time, I often heard two of the cooks
talking about the imminent return from the south Pacific of one of their family
who had been serving there during the war. They described him as a tall red
head named Smith. My sister, who knew something of the young soldier, advised
me that he was a little strange.
After
the summer was over, I stopped at Graceland College to see my young friend who
was once my secretary. She pointed out a tall young red haired man by the name
of Smith who, the rumor was, had just returned from the South Pacific war. He had an immense shock of curly red hair
and a full, bushy, equally red beard that , it was said, was grown in service
and had just been cut. Immediately I identified
him with the Smith about whom I had been hearing at the San.
Soon
after my return to Ames, I received a letter from Lauree. She had met this
wonderful man with the bushy red beard and curly red hair. It was rumored that
he was engaged, but, she wondered, would it be all right for her to invite him
to one of her house functions? I supposed it would be all right, but I prayed
she would not get involved with such a strange one. In fact, by now I almost
had him labeled as a kook!
Lauree
invited him, and the evening was a wonderful success. Now she hoped he would
reciprocate. I prayed for her safety! He did ask her out once to return the
favor of her evening of entertainment, and she was elated. He never asked again
, and she was terribly disappointed. I was thankful!
That
year went by and with the opening from of the next fall semester, a large
influx of students arrived at Iowa State from Graceland. I was a little late at
the first service of the church group, and when I entered room 222 of Memorial
Union where we met, there was a tall, clean shaven red head giving one of the
most exciting worship talks I had witnessed in a long time. I listened with
great interest when I learned that his name was Smith. When he was positively
identified as the Smith who had so excited Lauree, I launched out on a project
to make up for the times I had discouraged her interest in the man.
My
letters now highly recommended the young serviceman, whom I now knew to also be
a priest in the church; and when he passed through Kansas City where she was
working on his way home for Christmas, I gave him her address and asked that he
visit her while he waited for his bus. He made the visit, and I was elated,
certain that I had made retribution for the part I had played in keeping them
apart at Graceland. Lauree wrote that she had enjoyed the visit but found it
especially interesting to hear the way he talked about me and the way I talked
about him. By then she had another
interest.
My
admiration for the young priest grew with every experience we shared in
ministry or in social situations. If Lauree was no longer interested in him as
a companion, perhaps my younger sister would be. Accordingly, I invited Winnie
to spend a weekend with us in Ames. They had known another for an entire year
at Graceland and had no romantic interest in each other. I was disappointed.
Delbert
and five other young men, all priesthood members except one, rented rooms in
one house and had to eat out on Sundays. It became almost routine for the group
to come to my apartment one Sunday for
dinner and then for them to take me out to dinner the next. One day as we were
all walking across campus beside Lake LaVerne, something was said about my having gone bowling with one of the other
young church members. Suddenly, Delbert, who had seen me as an older
professional woman in contrast to his own youthful student status, realized
that I just might be an eligible date.
From
that day on, the young priest and I spent more time without the others present,
and soon I began to realize this could well be the Lord’s servant, one of like
precious faith, for whom the Lord has advised me to wait. When, several months
later, he asked me to be his companion for life, the only hesitancy I had was
that I was a few years his senior .When that difference seemed no longer to be
of significance, we were married. After forty five years, five children and
seventeen grandchildren, we still share that like precious faith that has made
our home as nearly Zionic as I could ever have hoped it would be.
Interestingly
enough, there was a testimony of God’s love even in dimming the significance of
the years between us. Years earlier, when we had no knowledge of each other, we
had both planned to attend a youth conference at Graceland College. Delbert was
going as a high school student participant, I as a young professional on staff.
I was traveling from southeast Missouri
by bus. As I disembarked at the Kansas City station, I was being paged. My grandmother had died and I
was to go home instead of to Lamoni. Had we met then, there would have been
such an apparent difference in our ages that probably we might never have
considered each other for life long companions. That must have been why the
Lord asked me to be patient and wait!
Chapter
11
Blessed
By The Spirit
The
Farwest Stake Conference convened at First church in St. Joseph, Mo. that year
with Apostle Arthur Oakman as our guest minister. The conference was usually
well attended, but when Apostle Oakman was with us, the congregation was always
extra large .When I arrived, every seat on the main floor was occupied and I
was ushered to a place on the far north side of the balcony. There I sat
reverently as the worship service proceeded and Brother Oakman began to preach.
The
sermon seemed to come straight from the throne of God. All around me people
wept tears of joy in response to the
Spirit they felt emanating from the servant of God speaking from the pulpit.
But
I had no tears of joy. I felt left out of the blessing that was being enjoyed
by so many others. I could only wonder why it was that amidst all this outpouring of the Spirit,
all I could do was to remember every bad thing that I had ever done, even back
to the time when as a small child I had deliberately said hurtful things to my
grandmother in retaliation for some disciplinary action she had taken with me.
It was a devastating experience! If I could have shed tears, they would have
been tears of bitter disappointment with myself and humble repentance, but my eyes
were dry and my heart was heavy.
All
of a sudden, ‘Brother Oakman seemed to interrupt his sermon. Looking directly
toward my corner of the balcony, he lifted his index finger and shook it in my
direction as he exclaimed, “It is the Spirit of God that reminds us of our sins!” I was getting my share of that beautiful
Spirit that pervaded the sanctuary that day. And since that day, I have thanked
the Lord each time He has reminded me of the things in my life for which I need
to repent and of the One who takes away those sins and makes me glad again.
A SEVENTY AND HIS FAMILY
Chapter
12
Facing
Oscar’s Death
“
Oscar’s been shot! Oscar’s been shot!” shouted young Tim Rand as he bounded
through the kitchen door of the farm house in which Delbert and I and our baby
son were dinner guests. The Rand family had asked for baptism and the seventy
had come to make arrangements for the service.
Stunned
silence greeted Tim’s proclamation. We all sat frozen in our places as though
under some strange hypnotic spell.
“Oscar’s
been shot!” declared Tim emphatically.
Obviously he felt the need to goad somebody into action.
“Oscar?”
Delbert inquired surveying the bewildered family. He could only suppose that
Oscar must be the prized bull that presided over the herd of dairy cattle Tim
had been milking.
“Who’s
Oscar?” Delbert persisted.
“Oscar
is my brother!” Lester Rand sobbed the reply.
The
spell was broken. Dinner was forgotten as the family scrambled from the table
and surrounded Tim, plying him with questions. “Who shot him? “”How did it
happen?” “ Is he dead?”
“Joe
shot him. His best friend! My brother Joe shot him!” For the first time we were aware that there were others than the
family present. Dave and Nan Westerly and Oscar’s wife, Vivian, were right
behind Tim. It was they who had brought the news.
“We
don’t know whether he is dead! We don’t know where Joe is! Oh, we will be the
next on his list!” wailed the distraught Dave. “Haven’t you got something to
drink? I need a drink!” Dave sobbed in desperation and self pity at the thought
of his crazed brother hunting him down and killing him next!
By
this time Lester had begun to comprehend something of the seriousness of the
situation. “Don’t know whether he is dead?” he shouted. “Why don’t you know
whether he is dead?” The demand was almost an accusation, and pandemonium broke
loose. Everyone talked at once and no one made any sense.
“Del,”
I whispered, “You’d better take over. That man may need help, and these
people are too upset to think clearly.”
“Tell
me,” the seventy spoke quietly but authoritatively as he moved quickly to
Vivian’s side and touched her arm
reassuringly. “Where is Oscar?”
“He’s
in a ditch beside of the road.” Vivian shifted her shoulders slightly as though
grateful to let another bear part of her burden.
“Is
he dead?” Del continued questioning.
“I
don’t know.” Vivian was gaining some of her composure. “I was afraid to go near him for fear Joe might be waiting
for me , too.”
“Can
you tell me right where he is so I can
see if he needs help?”
“I’ll
take you there.” Vivian’s eyes lighted with anticipation of knowing whether
Oscar might still be alive as she turned and ran from the house with Del
following close behind.
Overhearing
Vivian’s offer, Tim charged ahead of them both. “I know where he is, “ he
shouted. ”I’ll take you there!”
“Don’t
you have anything to drink?” Dave demanded again. “I’ve got to have a drink!”
“Nothing.”
Lester brushed the demand aside. “Now tell me what happened!”
“Joe
has been acting strange lately.” It was Nan who spoke. They took him to Dr.
Wakeman yesterday, and he said he should be sent to the hospital. The doctor
was making the arrangements.”
“But
what happened between him and Oscar? Oscar was his best friend!”
“Nobody
knows,” Dave forgot his own fears long enough to reply. “We just know that
Vivian saw Joe in the north pasture with a shotgun early this afternoon. She
didn’t think anything of it. Just suppose he was hunting. But when Oscar didn’t
come home for supper she drove the truck out to find him.”
“
The tractor was still in the field,” Nan broke in.
“But
she found Oscar in a ditch beside the road,” Dave added.
“He
must have climbed the fence to talk to Joe, “ Nan conjectured. ‘ “He was Joe’s best friend!” Dave was
getting upset again. “He’ll be after me next. I’ve got to have something !
Don’t you have something to settle a
man’s nerves?” He looked pleadingly at Suzie Rand this time as Lester turned
thoughtfully away oblivious to the distraught man’s plea.
“All
I have is aspirin.” Suzie spoke
solicitously.
“That will do!” Dave and Nan chorused eagerly.
Suzie
produced the bottle of aspirin. The Westerlys swallowed huge quantities of the
pills!
“I’m
not staying here, “ Dave announced suddenly. “Joe could be anywhere, and I know
he will be gunning for me!”
“Where
will you go?” I asked, speaking to them
for the first time.
“Anywhere!”
responded Dave. “We’ll just get into the car and drive. We won’t let anyone
know where we are so Joe can’t find us!”
With
that, the Westerlys, fortified with aspirin, drove away in Oscar’s car.
Lester
suddenly declared, “I’m going out there where Oscar is. Brother Smith may need help!”
Don’t
you think the sheriff should be
notified?” I asked.” And maybe you
should take a doctor.”
“Sure!
Sure!” Lester rubbed his forehead in the gesture of a man trying to awaken from
sleep. “Why didn’t I think of that
before?” and he headed for the
telephone that hung on the kitchen wall.
“ I
want to go with you ,Dad, “ twelve year old Lester, Jr. spoke urgently.
“No,
son. I’ll take Mother with me. You stay here and bring the sheriff when he
comes. He won’t know where to go.
Reluctantly
Junior agreed.
As
soon as his parents left the house, Junior sprang into feverish activity. He
slammed the front door shut and barred it securely. Then he went from window to
window closing each with a band and turning the latch to make sure each was
secure. The stifling heat of the
midsummer Wisconsin evening was quickly apparent as one source of breeze
after another was closed off.
“What
are you doing?” I finally questioned.
“Gonna
make it so that man can’t come in here and get us!” Junior declared firmly.
“Don’t
you know he has a gun? “ I asked quietly. “If he wanted to get us, he wouldn’t
have to come in. Shutting the windows can’t keep out bullets!”
“Then
what’ll we do?” Near panic had seized the boy with the departure of his
parents.
“God
can protect us.” I spoke reassuringly. “Shall we ask Him?”
“Don’t
know how.” Junior was not convinced.
“I’ll
show you how.” I volunteered. “ Would
you like that?”
“Yeah!”
was the terse reply.
The
frightened twelve year old and I knelt beside a chair in the living room of the
Rand house and prayed. We prayed for protection from Joe, but we also prayed
for Joe and Oscar and for all those who were trying to care for the needs
of both. Tension drained from Junior as
we prayed, and he went about readmitting the cooling breeze to the house and
awaiting calmly the arrival of the sheriff whose guide he was to be.
In
the meantime Delbert drove cautiously as the car neared the cut in the road
where Vivian had spotted Oscar in the ditch. He had not moved. Urging Vivian to
stay in the car, Delbert and Tim hurried to Oscar’s side. There was no need for
haste nor for a doctor. The shotgun blast had exploded at close range and the
hole through his neck and shoulder would easily have admitted a baseball, but
still Delbert reached for a pulse. There was none.
“Is
he…?” It was Vivian close behind the seventy, emboldened by his presence and no
longer able to wait to know if Oscar was alive.
“He’s
dead!” Del turned to look at her, and Vivian saw for the first time the
extent of the wound.
“Oh!”
Vivian gasped, and Delbert guided her gently back to the car.
“Wonder
what really happened, “ Tim queried
when Del returned.
“Oscar’s
body must have rolled down that bank,” my husband mused, noting the crushed
grass above the body. Without a word, Tim scrambled up the bank to investigate.
“Here’s
Joe!” Tim’s excited voice was almost incredulous. “Here’s Joe!” he repeated.
“Don’t
touch anything.” Del advised as he joined Tim atop the rise.
On
a little knoll some ten feet from the fence Joe’s body lay sprawled beside his
gun. After he had shot Oscar, he apparently had knelt beside his gun. The blast
from his second barrel had shorn away one side of his face and head and had
shredded his hat. There was no reason for fear or caution. Joe would never hurt
anyone again.
“Let’s
go back to the car and tell Vivian,” Del suggested, and the two men turned away
from the gory sight.
While
Del and Tim were on the knoll, Lester and Suzie joined Vivian in the roadway
below.
“Someone
will have to tell Joe’s mother.’ Suzie reminded them when they wee certain that
Joe was dead.
“You
wait here for the sheriff,” Del proposed, “and Tim can show me the way to Mrs.
Westerly’s.”
The
light of the long summer evening was almost spent as Tim and the seventy
approached the Westerly home. The house was dark and the doors were locked up
tight. Madge Westerly lay on the couch ill and horribly frightened. Before they
completely left the area, Nan had called to tell her that her son had shot
Oscar. She had heard no more. Where was Joe? Would he try to kill her , too?
Maybe her other sons could help! She had called them, then made the house as
secure as she could and lay down to wait.
Delbert’s
knock and identifying call brought her to the door, visibly comforted to have
someone with her. Even the news of her son’s death brought relief from the
awful, fearful waiting.
Soon
lights in the lane indicated that someone else was coming….probably some of the
family she had called. Halfway up the lane, the car suddenly reversed and
backed away.
“They’re
afraid,” Madge said. “They’re afraid Joe may be waiting here for them , too.”
“Where’s
the switch to the yard light?” Delbert thought quickly. “Turn it on and I’ll go
stand in the light so they will know it’s all right to come on in.“
Assured
by the sight of the seventy standing in the circle of light, Madge’s sons drove
up the lane and joined their mother.
Back
at the Rand house, Lester was worried about his parents and Oscar’s . “I can’t
tell the folks, “ he confided. “They have to know, but I can’t tell them !
Brother Smith, would you tell them for me?”
“Of
course I will,” Del responded reassuringly. “They’re probably in bed by now.”
The seventy knew the faithful old couple, well into their eighties now, usually retired early. “But we’ll go by
on our way home.”
I
was feeding baby Alan when the seventy’s car drove into the senior Rand drive.
“You go on in , Del,” I suggested. “I’ll stay in the car with the baby.”
I
heard the knock at the door. I heard and saw the joyous welcome of the
octogenarians as they recognized the seventy. Then I heard Delbert say, “I’m
afraid I am not bringing good news
tonight, Brother and Sister Rand. Oscar has been shot and killed.’”
I
held my breath, remembering how hysterical some of Joe’s family had become at
the news. This time there was a moment of stunned silence as before. Then dear
old Brother Rand questioned quietly, “Oscar? Oscar Dead?” and Sister Rand
reached for the seventy’s arm. As she pulled him gently inside the kitchen she
asked, “Brother Smith, will you pray with us?”
It
was that simple! There was no panic, no hysteria, no effort to escape from the
awful reality of the seventy’s message! By reason of their long association
with their Lord, they simply turned to Him for strength in their time of
helpless need.
I
listened wonderingly as the beginning of Delbert’s prayer drifted through the
open door. In my mind’s eye I could see the three of them kneeling in
earnest supplication before the one
they knew would supply all of their needs. What a contrast to those who turned rather
to the oblivion of drink or drugs or to the dubious security of running away!
A
thrill of gratitude ran through my body as I pressed our little one close and
prayed, “ Oh, God, please make him and us instruments in your hands to bring such peace to all the
peoples of the earth who will respond to the love of thy son, in whose name I
pray. Amen!”
Chapter
13
Through
the Locked Door
It
was the winter of 1954. The seventy and his family were comfortably housed in
the ground floor of a substantial duplex located on Oliver Avenue North in
Minneapolis, Minnesota. The owner of the building, a widower of a number of
years, occupied the upper floor. The back door of the building opened into a
hallway from which the Smiths entered their kitchen and Mr. Steinberger mounted
the stairs to his quarters. The front doors were separate and each opened onto
a broad screened- in front porch.
On
the night of this unusual occurrence,
Delbert had taken our three boys and me to church in the church car. That in
itself was unusual. Most of the time, the seventy was out in his mission field
and we were without transportation. The five or so blocks to the church were
then traversed on foot!
When
the seventy was at home, the church car was almost always parked in the drive
behind the house. So it was natural that we had exited the house by the back
door on our way to the church. The front door was secured by a combination lock
that included a dead bolt.
While
we were away, Mr. Steinberger came home. As was his custom, he entered by the
back door. As was also his custom at eventide, he locked the back screen,
closed and locked the back door and fitted a heavy bar into brackets attached
to the casings at the sides of the door to make certain that no one entered
that part of the house after dark.
Knowing
there would be no possibility of entering the house by the back door, when our
family come home from church, Delbert parked on the street and prepared for us
to take the children into the house through the only entrance available to us, the front door. When we reached
the door, however, we could not find the key. We searched every pocket each of us had. There was no key. We emptied
my purse. There was no key! Without the key, there was no entrance into the
house!
Thinking
that the key might have been dropped at the church, we returned and searched the parts of the church that we
had occupied . Hard as we looked, we
could find no key! Again we parked on the street desperately trying to think of
a way that we might gain entrance to the house. I stayed in the car with the
children while Delbert went again and tried the door on some vague hope that it
just might not have been locked after all. It was locked!
We
knew that Mr. Steinberger would be sound
asleep in bed by this time and would not look kindly upon any
interruption of his sleep. We had experienced his fury at being disturbed once
before and were certain we did not want to irritate him in any way. The duplex
was the only home we could find that was near enough to the church that I could
walk with the three little ones aged four, two and a few months. Delbert was
away in the mission field three of
every four weeks, and since the church did not allow appointees to have a
personal car at that time, the family
walked.
Retaining
the apartment was a financial necessity as well. All other places we had seen
cost at least one hundred and ten dollars a month. This one rented for only
seventy-five. To awaken Mr. Steinberger was to risk both convenience and
finance. That was not a viable option!
Delbert
tried the door again. It was as firmly closed against his entry as before. He
then returned to the car, took out some of his tools, and headed for the front
porch.
“What
are you going to do?” I was alarmed. Certainly any damage to the premises would be viewed with even greater fury by
our landlord than being awakened!
“I
am going to see if I can open a window.”
My husband explained.
“They’re
all locked, too.” We both knew that the windows were fitted into deep grooves
as a protection against the cold Minnesota winters. There was no way they could
be pried open!
“I
know! “ Delbert did not sound hopeful. “But I have to do something! I guess I
will just have to take off the sash!”
“Oh
, no! “ My remonstrance was almost a prayer. “If you do that , he will surely
hear you! Please __!” I had no other suggestion to make!
Seeing
no alternative, Delbert proceeded toward the window with his tools.
Just
then baby Steven began to cry. It was getting cold in the car, and the children
needed to be in bed. In desperate faith, I bowed my head and asked the Father in the name of His Son to give
the family entrance into the house. Then I laid the baby on the car seat and
started for the house myself.
“Where
are you going?” Delbert questioned, his tools poised to begin removal of the
window sash.
“I
am going into the house!” I replied
firmly.
“But
the door is locked!” Delbert protested.
“I
know the door is locked.” I responded as I reached for the door knob.
This
time the knob turned freely and the door swung open as easily as though it had
never been locked.
Quickly
the seventy returned his tools to the car trunk while I picked up baby Steven
and together we hustled the children
into the house. Delbert, always the gentleman, was the last to pass through the
door.
“Come
here, Mildred,’ he called. “Look at this lock!”
I
looked. The bar, fully an inch from top to bottom , was protruding from the
open door, still in the locked position. “There is no way I can close the door
until I unlock it!’ Delbert declared.
For
a moment we both stared at the extended
bar as the realization of the magnitude of the miracle God had just performed
in our behalf became etched into our consciousness. We remembered how the great
iron gate of a prison had swung open for Peter in response to the prayers of
the Saints and knew we were dealing with the same God who had freed his servant
so long ago. Then with a whoop the seventy gathered me up into his arms and
hugged me joyously before he turned the lock back into the door and closed it.
We
found the keys to the house behind the
pillow on the divan where four year old Alan had been playing with my purse
before church. Prayers of thanksgiving continue to this day!
Chapter
14
Two
Dreams and a Radish Bag
We
were on our way to our new assignment. It had come as a complete surprise as
most assignments did in those days. Delbert read the first letter from
President W. Wallace Smith with dismay. “Your request for time off to complete your Master’s Degree
thesis had been denied,” it read.
How
could the church officials make such a decision? When we had been asked to take
the mission field early in the summer of 1951 , Delbert had been assured that
if he would serve at the summer camps, he would be given ample time to complete his thesis for his Master’s
Degree after camps were finished. He had already completed his course work and
had done much of his research for his thesis. The argument was that we would be
right there with the University of Minnesota and so have an adequate library
for him to use in the completion of the work. When we got into the field,
however, it was a different story. Apostle Chesworth was new in his position
and apparently had never heard of the assurances given to Delbert concerning
his thesis. Instead, his decree was three weeks working in the field and one
week, still working, at home- no exceptions!
So
it was that four years later, Delbert
had not had time to work on his thesis and he was anxious to get the work
completed before his five year grace period ran out. His request for some time
for the work was denied outright ,and we were a little distressed. Then two
weeks later we received another letter from President W. Wallace Smith
explaining that we had already been assigned to Hawaii before the request for
time was received. He assured Delbert
that the officials were certain he was doing his work well without a master’s
degree!
Before
we received the second letter, however, each of us had an unusual dream.
Delbert dreamed that he was standing talking with Brother H.I. Velt and someone
else at General Conference when the person
to whom he was talking asked if he knew that he was being assigned to a
new field with that man, pointing to a man whom Del later learned was Sylvester
Coleman. He did not know where we were being moved until we got Brother Smith’s
letter and his dream was confirmed when the Coleman family was named at
Conference.
In
my dream, I saw our family arriving at a new home with only our suitcases- no
furniture. The house we were to occupy was built high off the ground so that we
had to climb many steps to get into the living quarters. I saw it painted a
sort of buff color with the church situated down the street to the east painted
the same color. Inside the living
quarters I saw a lot of people visiting but only one piece of furniture,
an old divan.
At
the conference of 1956 the Smith family was assigned to Hawaii along with the
Sylvester Coleman family, as Delbert
had dreamed. As soon as we met Apostle Farrow after our assignment was
announced, I asked Brother Farrow about the
mission house. He told me it was built high off the ground. We had to
mount a long stairway to reach our living area, and there was only one piece of
furniture in the house - an old divan. Together he and I would furnish the house when we got there.
On
our way to Hawaii, we visited Delbert’s brothers and their families in
Wenatchee, WA. For our trip to California, from where we were to ship the car
and fly to the Islands, our sister-in -law Laudell packed us a lunch. In that
lunch were radishes in a plastic bag--a bag that proved to be the instrument of a miracle.
We
were stalled in a rainstorm along a long stretch of desolate highway traveling
south through Oregon forests. With a very small measure of hope, Delbert got
out of the car and opened up the hood. When nothing he could do was at all
effective, he climbed back inside and we prayed for help. Very soon a man
stopped. Delbert watched while he took off a glass gizmo, declared that there
was dirt in the gas line, did something inside where that piece of glass had
been, replaced the glass and had us start the car. All went fine for about 5
miles- then the car stopped again and
again we were stalled.
By
now it was raining much harder. Of the very few cars that appeared, not one
stopped. Confident that he had learned what to do from our benefactor, Del
again opened the hood, took off the glass gizmo, which turned out to be the
cover for the carburetor, and laid it on the fender while he worked. Suddenly
there was a great blast of rain. Delbert hurriedly retreated to the car and
slammed the door. The glass cover plummeted to the pavement and shattered!
Again
we resorted to prayer. This time no one came along to help. When the rain
abated, Delbert picked up the shattered glass and tried to piece the cover
together. The pieces almost fit, but there was no way to keep them in place.
Finally I thought of the radish bag and asked if it might work as a replacement
for the broken glass. Del was willing to try. We emptied the radish bag and
replaced the carburetor cover with broken glass, the radish bag and a rubber
band. Wonder of wonders it worked! You can imagine the surprise of the face of
the mechanic, when we finally reached one, when he saw that plastic bag! God
can use some unusual ways to answer our prayers, and we have always been
thankful for that radish bag!
With
Brother Farrow’s confirmation of our living quarters in Hawaii, I was certain
we would find the house of my dream when we arrived at Hilo. When we saw the
house, however, some of the elements of
my dream were missing. There was a long
flight of stairs to the living quarters where there was an old divan, but the house
was white, the stairs were at one side of the house instead of all the way across
the front as I had seen them, and 88 Manulele Street was a long way up the
mountain from the Ululani Street church. I was puzzled until the first Sunday
after church. Our pastor, Miguel de la Cruz, and his wife, Ludi, took us
sightseeing. One of the first places they showed us was a house at the west end
of Ululani Street. “This is the first mission house on the Island,” they
announced enthusiastically. There was the house of my dream with the right
façade of steps and in the right position with respect to the buff colored church down the street.
Before
our mission in the Islands was finished, Delbert was certain that experience
was of far greater worth to his ministry than any academic degree. The church
officials had been wise in asking him to forgo the completion of his master’s
thesis.
Chapter
15
“Whoso
Treasureth Up My Words”
My
friend was a good woman whose greatest hope was to help build Zion. Her elder
husband was a good man who was very busy helping to make a living for his young
family. He was involved with the Scouts with his son. He was the children’s
pastor at church, and regularly participated in other priesthood duties. His
wife, however, felt that he should also be conducting cottage meetings and
otherwise speeding the coming kingdom.
The
day came when they needed some remodeling done in their home. I began to get
letters about the priesthood man whom
they had employed to do the work. He was described as so much like Jesus that
it was a thrill to have him in their home. Letter after letter told of his
Christ like demeanor and of the prophetic messages he was delivering to the
family, but more specifically to her. I was very anxious to meet such a person.
When
I did meet him, I was shocked! The only resemblance to Jesus Christ that I
could see was that he was a male! His dress was indiscreet. His manner toward
my friend was possessive and manipulative. I was frightened for her and her
family! When I expressed my concern , however, she steadfastly affirmed that I
was mistaken. She knew that he was sent from God to bless their home!
I
was told of experience after experience that was supposed to confirm the
spirituality of the man. One overt expression of his prophetic nature was to
have happened one day when he arrived for work asking, ”Where is your diamond?” My friend extended
her ring finger to show him the diamond, but it was not there. The setting was
empty!”
“That’s
all right.” the man assured her. “The Lord has shown me where it is.” She
followed his direction and found the diamond just where he said the Lord had
told him it would be found.
One
day my friend told me that she and the man were making plans for their
missionary work together in the future. “How can that be?” I remonstrated. ”You
have a husband and he has a wife!”
“Oh
, the Lord has taken care of that, “ she said with a smile. “My husband and his
wife are both going to die. We already have plans made for our new home! ”and
she told me of their plans for a beautiful
home complete with a room for cottage meetings with a children’s play
room near by. The intent was that they could attend to both prospective members
of Christ’s church and their children at the same time. “He says we will be the
greatest missionary team the church has ever had!” she announced happily.
At
that I really protested. “haven’t you read your scriptures lately?” I
questioned, the shock vibrating in my voice. “You know that the Lord is not in
the business of breaking up families!”
“You
don’t understand!” she protested. “This
is not to break up families. God is taking care of that! Besides I know that
what we are doing is approved by God. I have more spiritual power than I have
ever had in all of my life !”
“Shouldn’t you be comparing what you are doing with
what is written in the scriptures?” I protested.
“Oh,
I am fasting and praying about it, and the Lord is confirming our way.”
The
next time I was in town, I happened to see my friend’s doctor who was also a
mutual friend. “Have you seen Merna
lately?” He inquired . “She has lost a lot of weight. She looks wonderful!”
Actually
she had lost a lot of weight. Instead of the one hundred and sixty pounds at
which she had begun this chapter in her life, she now weighed one hundred and
twenty five. She had fasted from all
foods but liquids for forty days to be more like the Master. She had
even attended large dinner meetings and
banquets related to her profession but had refused to eat the food set before
her. She said it was embarrassing, but she recalled the scripture that asked
whether we should obey man or God . She intended to obey God!
She
came to a reunion at which I was teaching. One afternoon we sat on my bed and talked. She had already borne her
testimony that she had feared the trip to the camp because it required changes
in busses and she was not accustomed to such travel. The carpenter had
comforted her telling her that she had no need to fear. The angels would
accompany her and keep her safe. It was her testimony that they had done just
that.
Now
she was relating more information that he had given her. One incident that he
had asked her to recall was a time that she was walking to her country school.
He asked her to remember that a man met her, riding a horse. He said the man
was he, and that it was at that time that the Lord told him she was made for
him. He had waited all of this time for her!
At
that I exploded. “He’s a devil!” I exclaimed between clenched teeth. She
expressed her sorrow that I was so spiritually impoverished that I could not
understand the ways of the Lord.
A
few weeks later we were walking through the streets of her city and she was
again extolling the marvelous virtues of this prophetic carpenter. She did
admit that there was a time when she had had
some questions about his directions. He was working with her husband on
an open scaffolding that was quite high in the air. Since her husband was
crippled, he suggested that it would not be hard for him to fall! The thought
of murder frightened her for a moment; but she
soon dismissed the fear believing that awful thought was just hers. She
had just imagined that what the carpenter meant was not Christ like!
Finally
I said, calling her by name, “Have you
had sexual intercourse with this man?” She immediately replied, “NO!”
Two
days later I received a letter from my friend. “It was not until I lied that I
realized that it was not the Spirit of
God who was directing us, “ she wrote, “I am not in the habit of lying!”
My
friend called a priest whom she could trust, and he accompanied her and her
husband to the office of the president of the church. There she retold her
story and confessed her adultery. The
prophet called in the errant priesthood
member. He was silenced and his position as president of one of the local
quorums was removed. Her husband forgave her, and together they raised their
beautiful family, relying on only those spiritual experiences that could be
supported by the written word!
It
was recorded that Jesus Christ responded to the inquiry of His disciples”- what
is the sign of thy coming, and of the end of the world?” with a vivid
description of the events of that coming day and with a caution resident in
these words, found in verse 39 of the 24th. chapter of Matthew, “And
whoso treasureth up my words shall not be deceived.”
Chapter
16
Birth
Customs Changed By The Gospel
“I
wonder if I could get that information from Marian.” I was talking to our
Japanese pastor’s wife by phone about some data I needed for official records.
Marian was our church secretary.
“Oh
, do not ask her now!” Mildred’s concerned voice cautioned me. “You would
insult her whole family!”
“What
do you mean, I would insult her family?” I questioned in surprise. “She is the
secretary, is she not? And the information is not secret!”
“Oh,
but her baby was just born….”
“I
know, “ I interrupted. “We have been wondering whose baby would arrive first.
Her Kevin made it a little before our Karen, but what does that have to do with
my asking for information from the secretary?” This was something new in the
culture of the islands of which our missionary family was not aware, and I was
eager to learn more.
“That
is what I was about to explain. “ Sister Nii reminded me of my interruption
gently. “For thirty three days after a Japanese woman gives birth to her baby,
she is not to use even her eyes for anything but her baby. For her to look into
the records for you now would be unthinkable.”
“Was
that why someone else was taking care of Michael the other day when we went to
visit/” Delbert and I had talked about how strange it seemed that the two year
old always went to someone other than his mother.
“Yes,
and that is why Kokichi was so surprised when he found you doing the laundry
when he and Carole came to bring you a gift for your baby.
How old was Karen that day? “
“Five
days, I guess.” I confessed, “ but I did feel fine and the laundry had to be
done. There was no one else to do it.” I justified my actions.
“But
the traditional Japanese could never allow it.” Sister Nii assured me
tactfully.
“Maybe
that explains something else we have wondered about. When we went to visit
Reiko after her baby was born, we found her and the baby secluded in a rough
room under the house.” I recalled my
amazement at being ushered from the
cheery, beautifully furnished living
quarters, down through the floorless
area under the house where the laundry was hung to dry. Delbert had even
held the clean wet clothes aside for me to pass. Finally we were conducted into
the dreary room equipped only with
an old fashioned bed, a crib and a rough
chest. “Reiko seemed terribly glad to see us.’ I was sympathetic with the young
mother and concerned. “And she did not seem to want us to leave. She wanted to
know everything about everybody as though she had been isolated even from news.”
“Well,
she has no telephone in her room, and her folks are Buddhists . They know very
few of the church people. She is not allowed to read, so I expect she was
completely isolated from all of the recent happenings, especially of the
church.
“But
you were not closeted away when your children were born, were you?” Custom or
not, this was something I could not understand.
“No,
but I have been in the church a long time, you know.” Mildred explained. “That
is the old way. I am surprised that her parents took you to her. Most families
have changed as more of the young ones have become Christian, but the old way
was to keep the mother and her baby completely isolated under the house, or in some out of the way place, for
thirty three days before they were allowed back with the family or anyone else.
“Doesn’t
anyone come to see her?” I was perturbed.
“Oh
yes, they bring her food and fresh clothing and linens. But she is not to do
anything but attend to the baby’s needs.”
I
was still puzzled about such a strange practice when Delbert and I went to
visit another young mother who had just
given birth.
“Please,
Sister Smith, talk to my mother,’ Yoshiko begged. “They insist that I eat only
chicken cooked in liquor and eggs preserved in vinegar for a whole month!”
“Is that why your aunt was cleaning all
of those chickens down by the door when we came in ?” Delbert was curious when
he saw the large array of fouls being plucked.
“That
is my food for the month!” Yoshiko nodded and her nose curled at the thought of
it. “I am sure it is not adequate for
either baby or me.” Yoshiko was a university graduate and had a fairly good
understanding of the nutritional needs of nursing mothers.
“What
else do you get?” I was making notes. I was quite sure once Yoshiko’s mother
saw the nutrients that would be missing from such a limited diet, there would
be no real problem convincing her that the old custom might not be valid today.
I was still surprised at Yoshiko’s answer.
“Nothing!”
The young mother shrugged. “Nothing but rice.”
“And
fruit? “ I was sure that our hostess
was so accustomed to the luscious and abundant tropical fruits that she had
just forgotten to mention them.
“Not
a bite!” Yoshiko was emphatic. “Not even an orange or a papaya!” The anxious
young woman noted the fruits ripening within sight of her window. “Neither
fruits nor vegetables of any kind. Just chicken boiled in liquor, eggs
preserved in vinegar and rice.” She
reiterated the strange diet and emphasized it’s strict limits.
I
took the information home and carefully compared the nutrients available with
those recommended for a nursing mother. Then I went to visit the concerned
young mother’s mother.
“Yoshiko asked me to talk to you about
her food, now that the baby is here, “ I explained timidly, hoping and praying
that I would not offend this highly intelligent and in so many ways modern
woman. I had made a chart of many of the nutritional needs of a nursing mother
and beside it I had placed the nutrients of the chicken, egg and rice diet.
The gentle Japanese -American was
shocked at the discrepancies that the chart disclosed. “If she could have some
fruits and vegetables and milk, they
could do a lot to fill in the missing nutrients,” I explained, not even trying
to change the basic diet that had been prepared. I t might get a bit
monotonous, but would certainly provide good basics.
“I
am getting to eat with the family,’ Yoshiko announced happily the next time the
seventy and I visited her. “Thanks a lot.”
“The
gospel changes more than just spirits. “ Delbert and I mused as we thanked the
Lord for our new understandings and for the changes the gospel was making in
those who received it. We were especially thankful at this time that it was
liberating young Japanese women from burdensome customs that must one time have
served a valid purpose in their culture.
Chapter
17
Hawaiian Christmas Party Celebrates Christ
The
Christmas party for the Saints in Hilo, Hawaii was to be held at the Waikea Kai
Mission. It would be the first time the seventy had celebrated this holiday
with the multicultural
congregation. Many of the Saints
from the older congregation that met on Ululani Street had known the Christ for
generations, but the congregation at the Waikea Kai Mission was different. Many
of the young ones there were first generation Christian as well as first
generation Saints. Some of them had
only come to know the Christ during the previous year. They had never
experienced a celebration of this sort for their newly found Savior. Many would be there whose families still
treasured the pronouncements of the Buddha, and could still not believe there
was another better way.
“What
shall we do to make this Christmas party a real celebration of the Christ?”
Delbert asked as we began to look toward the coming event. We wanted it to be
fun for all ages, as well for those long acquainted with the Savior as for
those just learning to know him.
“Will Santa Claus be there?” It was Glen, the
little Japanese neighbor boy who had heard the words, “Christmas party” who
wanted to know.
Glen
had just come in from his Japanese
lesson and had announced happily, ‘I can sing a Japanese Christmas song.”
“Oh,
“ I responded eagerly. “Please sing it for us!”
Enthusiastically his clear soprano voice began, “Jingle
Bells! Jingle Bells!”
“No”,
I assured Glen. “Santa will not be there . This party is to celebrate the
birthday of Jesus Christ”.
“Jesus who ?” It was apparent that Glen did not yet
know the real significance of Christmas. It was for youngsters like him that we
wanted this party to be special.
We
could tell the story of the Christ’s birth with colored slides. They would all
like that. Colored slides were fairly new to most of the people, and Delbert’s
had never before been shown to either congregation. Slides of Christ’s birth
would be a part of the evening’s agenda.
“Did
you ever play Bible baseball?” The seventy had a budding idea.
That was apparent from the glow on his face as he asked it.
‘Ye-s-s.”
It was equally apparent that I was hesitant about the appropriateness of such a
game with people whose knowledge of the scripture might be limited.
“Why don’t we make up questions about the
scriptural stories of Christ’s birth to challenge the older ones who know the
story?” Delbert’s enthusiasm grew with his verbalization of the idea. “Then
we’ll make it a game so even the very young can be on a team to cheer their
teammates on ! That way everyone can be involved and even the older ones might
learn something.”
“Sounds
good.” I was beginning to see possibilities in the seventy’s proposal. “How do we start?”
We
each already had paper in front of us and sat with pens poised to record
whatever came next.
“Let’s make the first ones easy.” Delbert proposed.
“We don’t want to embarrass anyone. That might take the fun out of the party
for them.”
“Surely
everyone of the older ones will know that Gabriel was the name of the angel who
told Mary that she was to have the baby Jesus” .
I was sure that would be easy.
“Just
in case anyone challenges us,” Delbert queried, “do you suppose we should put
down the references to support our answers?”
“That
would be a good idea. Some of them might be new to even seasonal scriptorians.”
I agreed, remembering how Brother Roy Weldon had surprised us long ago when we
first heard him declare that the real story of the wise men was not all found
in the Bible.
By
the time the evening was over, the seventy and I had pretty well designed
thirty questions to be used in the “baseball” game. Most of them required only
a true or false answer so anyone could play.
At
the party, we began the baseball game after the slide story was told of
Christ’s birth. A table was designated as the field. One corner became the
batter’s box and home base. Each of the other corners was a base. A batter who
correctly answered the question pitched to him or her went on to first base,
and a second batter stepped into the box. If the answer was not correct, an out
was called. Three outs retired the side. A team scored only if a batter
answered correctly when each of the three bases was loaded, thus bringing the
first batter home.
We
were right. The first questions were easy.
1.
Gabriel was the name of the angel who told Mary that she was to have the baby
Jesus (Luke 1:26) It was known to be true.
2.
An angel appeared to Joseph to tell him about Mary’s baby. ( Matthew 2:3) (
1:20 King James.) That was likewise true.
3.
Mary’s cousin Elizabeth also knew that the baby Jesus was to be born ( Luke
1:42-44). True. The bases were filling fast.
4.
Mary and Joseph lived in Nazareth. Why were they in Bethlehem when Jesus was
born? (Luke 2:4-5) . The player knew they were to be taxed. Team one scored.
5.
Jesus was born in a beautiful palace because he was to be a king. (Luke 2:7).
Everyone knew that was not true! Team
two was off to a good start.
6.
The shepherds believed what the angels told them about Jesus, found the Christ
child and spread the news abroad. (Luke 2:15-18). Right!.
7.
The shepherds knew that Jesus was the Christ because they saw the star shining
over his birthplace (Luke 2:12 & 16 ). Wrong! The player was one of the
most knowledgeable of the older church members. Even the opposing team was
stunned! How did they know him? He was wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying
in a manger. The wise men were the first to make mention of a star! Luke did
not record the shepherds or anyone else even
having seen such a heavenly body.
8.
The wise men visited the Christ child in
the stable (Matthew 3:11) (2:11 KJ .Version) Wrong again! Another old timer
out. What was happening?
Where
did they find him? In a house and he was no longer a baby! How could he be
after all that had happened since his birth? He was circumcised on the eight
day of his life (Luke 2:21) . He was taken to the temple after his mother was
purified according to the law ( Luke 2:22-24 & Leviticus 12:2-8). That
meant that at least thirty- three days had passed since his circumcision. Then
Luke says the family had returned to their home in Nazareth (Luke 2:39). Whether they were there or had returned to
Bethlehem or Jerusalem for the feast days, as was their custom, is not clearly
explained in the scriptural narrative that we have. We do know that these
things had transpired, though , because Joseph took Mary and Jesus to Egypt
during the night, immediately after the wise men’s visit and did not return
until after Herod’s death (Matthew 3:13-14).
9.
The Bible teaches there were three wise men who visited the Christ child (
Matthew 3:1) ( 2:1 K.J.). Not the ‘Bible. Henry Van Dyke’s The Other Wise Man.
Sorry . Team two has three outs. The entire room was buzzing! Those were things
we had all believed were true. How could they be so wrong?
10.
According to the Bible, the wise men were kings from the Orient (Matthew
3:1)(2:1 KJ). By this time the players were wary. “The song says they were.”
Team one’s player probed for the answer. “But I wonder. Maybe they were not.”
When
the seventy only smiled in response, that player guessed it might not be true
and was sent to first base.
11.
The Bible names the wise men Caspar , Melchior and Balthazar. If it was Van
Dyke’s story that said there were three wise men, could it possibly have been
he who named them? Team one’s second
player guessed correctly that the Bible gave no such information. Two bases
were occupied, just like team two’s bases had been.
12.
People in America knew when Christ was to be born (Helaman5:55). Unfortunately,
player number three was new to the church and was not yet familiar with the
Book of Mormon stories. She did not know of the prophet Samuel’s message that
Christ would be born in five years from the time of the prophecy. Out number
one.
13.
The prophets of the Bible told of a star to appear to announce the birth of
Christ. Now that seemed obviously true! The confident players started to
advance to their respective bases. “Sorry!” The seventy smiled but shook his
head. Again the whole room bussed as the puzzled players expressed their
surprise.
14.
Prophets in America told of a new star to appear at the time of Christ’s birth
(Helaman 5:59) . If Samuel told when Christ was to be born, maybe he also told
more. The player guessed that he told about a star. Right. The bases were
loaded. Team one’s second score was in sight.
15.
People in America saw the star and knew that it signaled Jesus’s birth (3 Nephi
1:22-24). This time the player really did know. He confidently answered in the
affirmative. Score two for team one.
16.
People in America knew that Jesus would be born in Bethlehem (Alma 5:19).Still
basking in their recent success, team one’s player’s affirmative answer spelled
their downfall. Three outs!
17.
Isaiah prophesied that Jesus would be born in Bethlehem (Isaiah 7:14;, 9:6-7;
11:1-2). The Book of Mormon people had many of Isaiah’s writings. They must
have known his prophecies of Christ’s birth. Surely he did tell them where
Christ was to be born. The answer must be ”true” ! But the seventy shook his
head, and team two was off to a bad start again.
18.
Wise men who studied Hebrew scriptures would have gone straight to Bethlehem to
look for the new king (Micah 5:2). Surely that could not be right. The wise men
went to Jerusalem to ask where he could be found. The statement must be false.
Out number two!
19.
Wise men who studied American scriptures would have gone to Jerusalem to
inquire where the new king could be found (Alma 5:19). Where was this leading?
If wise men who had studied the American scriptures would have gone to
Jerusalem, and the wise men did go to Jerusalem to inquire, could it be that
there was some indication that these wise men were from America? At least it
was worth a try. A slightly hesitant “True” was good for a base hit! (Actually
Alma prophesied that the Messiah would be born at Jerusalem, the land of our
forefathers.”)
20.
The wise men never lost sight of the star, but followed it from the time they
first saw it until they found the Christ child (Matthew 3:9-10) ( 2:9-10 KJ.) That had to be right. How else would
they have found their way?
But
it was not right. If they had followed it all of the way, why were they so
happy to see it again after they came from Herod’s palace? And why did they say
that it was the star they had seen “in the east”? Side two was retired again.
21.
The wise men spoke to Herod in a
language he understood (Matthew 3:7) (2:7 KJ). Herod did call them privately to
ask them when they first saw the star. They must have been able to understand
each other. A “yes” answer started team
one on their way again.
22.
Wise men from America were familiar with the Hebrew language (1 Nephi 1:82
Mormon 4:99) Well, that was certainly true. The ones who wrote the book said
they would have had no errors if they could just have written in Hebrew instead
of the more abbreviated but less familiar Egyptian. The second player took her
base.
23.
Angels appeared to wise men in America about two years before the birth of
Christ (Helaman 5:126 & 129) . So this was where the story was going! There
were wise men in America who knew that Christ was to be born! The bases were
loaded.
24.
The Book of Mormon records that at least one prophet departed from the land
after the angel’s proclamation (3 Nephi 1:2,3 & 46). Nephi gave all of the
sacred things entrusted to his care to his son, Nephi , and departed out of the
land. He was not heard of again for at least nine years. Could he possibly have
been on a journey to see his Savior, the one whose coming he had preached so
long? He at least did leave his land on an unknown journey. Team one scored
again.
25.
The wise men told Herod that the star appeared: a. the night before they
arrived in Jerusalem. B. two weeks before they came to Jerusalem. C. nearly two
years before they came to Jerusalem. (Matthew 3:7 & 16)( Matthew 2:7&
16 KJ.) The wise men were always pictured at the stable, but the “usually
believed” was turning out not to be true. It must have been answer c, nearly two years before they came to
Jerusalem. Correct. A base hit!
26.
King Herod wanted to find the Christ child in order to worship him ( Matthew
3:8, 13 & 16) ( Matthew 2:8, 13 & 16 KJ). Well , that part of the story
was well known. The statement was obviously false. Team one was really on a
roll!
27.
Joseph was warned by an angel to take Jesus and Mary to Egypt in order to
escape Herod’s soldiers ( Matthew3:13) (2:13 KJ). That, too, was confidently
known. Bases were loaded for team one again.
28.
King Herod had only newborn babies killed in his effort to kill Jesus ( Matthew
3:15) (2:16 KJ). So that’s how we know that the wise men did not arrive until
nearly two years after Christ’s birth!
Herod had all of the male children in Bethlehem two years old and under killed,
according to the time he had “diligently inquired “ of the wise men as to when
they first saw the star. Team one scores again, and without an out!
29.
The scriptures offer more evidence that: a. The wise men were kings from the
Orient, b. The wise men were believers
in Christ from America. Before the next player could answer, the seventy
stopped him. “That is a question each of us needs to answer for ourselves, “ he
explained. “We need to study it out from the scriptures. I have a list of the
scriptures from which we got the answers for tonight’s game. You may each have
a copy as a Christmas gift.”
“ I
would like you to answer another question for yourself, too, when you do study
this one out, “ Delbert continued. “Question number:
30.
“What did Christ teach about the danger of substituting human traditions for
scripture? In fact,“ Delbert said, “let’s look that one up together ( Matthew
15:6)” . He then read directly from the scripture he held in his hand: “Thus
have ye made the commandment of God of none effect by your tradition.”
There
were more games and refreshments, but nothing equaled the interest the ball
game had generated. The next morning there were two sermons and an adult class
based on it, all ministry given by the local priesthood who had found a new and
more complete understanding of the Christmas story to share with those who were
not at the party or those whose limited knowledge of their new found faith
could benefit from a more explicit recounting of the story . Suddenly the Book
of Mormon had new meaning for the Saints. Even the story of Christ’s birth was
not complete without it. !
Chapter
18
Angel
On The Road To Creston
It
had been a very busy time during our mission in Lamoni back in the early
sixties. With five children participating in their respective school activities
in addition to their music lessons and paper routes plus the responsibilities
of the home and local church, I had not had time to make adequate preparation
for my assignment with the Creston church women and their guests. I was
even running a bit later than I would
have liked. Always when I had such a responsibility , I tried to be at my
destination at least half an hour to an hour before the appointed time,
depending on the time needed to get organized for my presentation.
I
was traveling north on a gravel road as fast as I felt it safe to travel. On
the seat beside me, I had placed a note pad. In my right hand, I held a sharpened pencil. Periodically, when it appeared safe to do so, I touched
the pencil to the note pad and jotted down ideas that I expected to share with
my prospective audience.
All
went well until I topped a rise in the road and faced a very short hill at the
bottom of which there was a narrow bridge. Just entering the structure from the
opposite side was a farm wagon being leisurely drawn by a team of plodding
draft horses. They took up the entire roadway across the ravine.
It
was apparent that there was not room for both the wagon and my car on the
bridge, and the wagon was already there: so I stepped on the brakes confident
that I could easily stop while the wagon crossed. When I touched the brakes,
however, I hit loose gravel and began to skid precariously toward the team that
drew the wagon. Knowing what a disaster it would be to hit the horses and their
cargo, including the farmer who held the reins of his team loosely in his
hands, I determined to go off the road and down a steep embankment into the
creek on the right side of the road.
No
sooner had I started to steer the appointee car toward the embankment than the
wheel was taken completely out of my hands and whirled to the left, in the
opposite direction from that which I had determined. While I watched helplessly
but in awe, the car was turned back into the roadway and I could almost hear
the crunch of metal against the vehicle now emerging from the bridge. Instead I
saw the horses and their wagon pass safely off the bridge while I crossed the road first to the left and then
again to the right . The front of my car barely missed the horses’ noses as it
arced toward the right side of the road this time, and the rear of the wagon
barely escaped impact with my car as it completed the arc headed back toward
the left side of the road and came to a complete and easy stop immediately
across the end of the bridge.
I
sat trembling at the wheel. My first thought was of the horses, the farmer and
the wagon. They were proceeding up the road as though nothing had happened. I
surveyed my situation. There was a small black hole in my left hand where the
pencil I was holding in my right hand had penetrated my flesh between the thumb
and forefinger when the steering wheel was ripped from my grasp and whirled
violently in the opposite direction from which I was steering. My car was
parked so close to the banisters of the bridge that I had to maneuver my way
out of the parked position to gain access to the structure which I now had all to myself. As I regained
access to the roadway, I drove off to Creston thanking the Lord for sending His
angel to save both me and the farmer and praying that someday I would be
permitted to see that heavenly being who so adroitly guided my car to avoid an
accident that would have been horrendous!
Chapter
19
Unexpected
Surgery for Alan
It
was almost evening when the police car roared up our drive, lights flashing and
siren blaring. The uniformed policeman
jumped from his car and ran toward the door. He didn’t quite make it! I
met him half way. There must have been fear mixed with curiosity all over my
face when the officer straightened suddenly, held out his hand and said
reassuringly, “Now don’t get excited. It is just that your son has had an
accident. He’s at the clinic and they need your consent to do some surgery!”
Not
get excited? Consent ! Surgery! What was all this display of haste and urgency
if I was not to get excited?
Fortunately,
Cleo Boswell, whose son had been attending the football game at Graceland
College with Alan, was just behind the police. “Come with me,” Cleo invited
with a calming smile. When he smiled
like that, his mouth always twisted slightly as though he knew some tremendous
joke that he was about to share with one . I chose to ride with Cleo to the
doctor’s office.
“It
isn’t really that serious,” Cleo assured me as he drove with moderate speed
toward the doctor’s office. “The boys were playing under the bleachers during
the halftime activities at the game. As Alan rounded a cement post, somehow he
just fell against it and cut off his ear!” Again there was that little twisted
grin that told me that he, at least, found some subtle humor in the situation.
I really did not need to get too excited.
At
the clinic I found our twelve-year-old also grinning a sort of sheepish grin as
though he was embarrassed by what had happened more than he was hurt. He was
lying on the operating table patiently awaiting my arrival. His left ear had
been as neatly severed from his head as if one had taken a sharp knife and cut
it off deliberately. His slightly pinkish skull gleamed through the precise
incision. The ear lay upside down across his cheek, held in place only with a
small section of facial skin. If there had been blood, it had been wiped away
before I came in.
Permission
for the surgery took only a moment. The stitching was expertly done, and we had
one more family story to tell the seventy when he returned from his mission!
Chapter
20
Apostle
Oakman’s Story
“I
just heard the most wonderful story!” It was the seventy returning from a
missionary journey with the apostle under whose supervision he was working at
the time. “Here,” he set his tape recorder into the middle of our living room
floor. “Gather around. I didn’t get a
very good recording of it, but you can still hear it if you listen hard.” Then
with an affirmative shake of his head he emphasized . “It’s well worth the
effort!”
We
“gathered round” literally, all of us , and listened, fascinated, to the
remarkable testimony which we heard repeatedly during the intervening years and
never tired of hearing . Each time Apostle Oakman repeated it in our hearing,
we thrilled again to the wonderful love of our heavenly Father. In later years
we obtained a good recording of it which we would like now to record in print.
Following
is a transcript of Apostle Arthur Oakman’s rich testimony, using his own words
so it will be accurately recorded for future generations. We share it now
because we have heard others try to tell it in their words , and it never seems
to come out quite right. Apostle Oakman said:
“When
I was a youngster, very young, at our house we were very poor. We were poor as
church mice. You know how poor church mice are. I’m not so sure about that any
more since we have these modern kitchens in almost every church. I’m not sure
the mice are poor, but they used to be when that saying was invented. I
remember going to school in a pair of pants that had been patched so many times
that the only thing left of the original pants was the shape. The shoes I wore
had the bottoms out of them. I was lucky indeed sometimes if there was brown
paper to go in the bottom of the shoes to keep my feet from off the ground.
My mother would send me to the butcher
shop…..
“Let
me tell you how poor we were. My father was a journeyman plumber, and in those
days before World War One, there was no such thing as economic relief. You
either had to go to the poor house or you sang in the street or you drew
pictures on the sidewalk- put you cap down for people to drop pennies and
halfpenny in , or you starved to death. That was the terrible alternative.
“The
times were bad! Many and many and many is the week when father would earn two
shillings and sixpence which was the equivalent of thirty cents, no the equivalent
of sixty cents, pardon me , in those days. Our rent cost thirty cents a week.
Tells you what kind of a house we lived
in. And with the other thirty cents , I
don’t know how mother did it, she fed the four of us for a week. I remember
going to the butcher shop time after
time after time after time. “Two pennyworth of bones and rinds, please.” The
butcher, if he had them , piled them
out on a big hunk of newspaper. I’d wrap them up and take them home and mother
would put them in a stew pot and stew the bones. We were poor!
“ I
said to my dad one day, “Dad, we belong to the true church, don’t we?” He said,
“We certainly do, Son!” “Well, “ I
said, “Why are we so poor?” He said, “I don’t know, son, why are we so poor,
but two things come to mind.”
He
said, “It may be I’m not the kind of man that can be trusted with a lot of
money and I’d sooner be a poor man with my faith than a rich man without it.’
An unlettered, uneducated, ( No he wasn’t uneducated, was he? ) journeyman
plumber!
He
said, “Another thing I want to tell you, son, is that one of these days the
Lord is going to set his hand to bless our house, and when he does we’ll never
want in basket or store.”
“So,
content with that, we used to wait, my sister and I. We lived in a cul-de-sac, which
is a dead end street, a French name for a dead end street, at least I think
it’s French. We were thirty nine houses down Garfield Road. ( Garfield Road, I
think, was named after President Garfield who was assassinated. They surely
assassinated that street, too. Maybe that’s why it got it’s name.) And these
houses were built row on row. You see, there was just a nine inch brick wall
between you and your neighbors next door, one after the other.
“We
used to stand in front of it. There was a back fence on the other side of which
there was an orchard which was owned by a rich uncle of mine, but do you think
he cared anything about us? We- I had to be like the rest of the boys. If I
wanted an apple, I had to shin over the fence and get it at the risk of being
caught. No! We were poor!
“And
my sister and I used to stand with my mother at the bottom of the street, as we
called it, waiting for father to come around the corner. You know, we knew when
he had any money in his pocket by the way he walked. It’s funny. We could tell
at a distance, about a hundred yards, I imagine. If he had any money, he would
throw his left leg in a certain way. And if he came around dragging his feet,
Mother would turn into the house with a sigh. We’d eat what we had, if there was
anything.
“One
day we stood there waiting for Father. Instead of Father, there stepped out
into the street from around the corner on High Street a man who was dressed in
a black suit, a long black coat. Took his hat off. He had a white beard. He
stepped into the middle of the street
and started to sing. ’Begone unbelief. My Savior is near, and for my relief
will shortly appear. By prayer let my
wrestle, and He will perform. With Christ in the vessel, I smile at the
storm.’
“He
began to walk down the middle of the street singing, ‘Though dark is my way,
since He is my guide, ‘Tis mine to obey. ‘Tis His to provide. Though cisterns
be broken, and creatures all fail, The word He has spoken will surely prevail.’
“Nearer
and nearer he came. ‘His love in times past forbids me to think He’ll leave me
at last in trouble to sink. Each sweet Ebenezer I have in review, confirms His good pleasure to bring me quite
through.’
“We
heard every word distinctly. ’Since all that I meet does work for my good, the
bitter is sweet, the medicine food. Though painful at present, t’will cease
before long, and then , Oh how pleasant the conqueror’s song.’
“By
that time he stood facing my mother, and he said, ‘Sister, do you have a crust
of bread you could spare an old man?’ She did. She had two slices of bread in
the house, and that’s all.
“Yes”,
she said, “I think so”. (We have a saying among us, ‘It’s the poor that help the poor’, you know.) So she
got a sheet of paper and she wrapped one slice of bread in it and she came out
and gave it to him.
“Then
he turned to her and he said, ‘Sister, because of the sacrifice you have made
this day, the Lord has set His hand to bless your household, and from this day
forth, you shall never want in basket
or in store.’ And he bent down and kissed me on the cheek, and he said, “This
little lad will grow to manhood and will preach the gospel of Jesus Christ in
many lands. ‘(Note: Brother Oakman often said that every time he told that
story he could feel that angel kiss on his cheek.)
“He
kissed my sister and told about what would happen to her. Mother said, “If
you’ll wait a minute, I’ll give you a penny.” ( She had two pennies.) ‘You can
buy yourself a cup of tea.’ She turned into the house to get the penny from
that purse that I can see at this moment, well worn, and when she came out, he
was gone. Who was he? That remains with us. It is a topic of perpetual
conversation.
“Just
after he had gone, Father came round
the corner of the street. We knew by the way he walked that he had money in his
pocket. He came bursting into the house and he grabbed mother and swung her
around and he said, ‘I just landed a big contract.’ He said, ‘We’ll never want
for anything anymore.’
“And
so at night when Mother and Father’d pack us children off to bed, they would
sit around the little kitchen stove in the tiny room and sing together and talk
of this mysterious stranger. My sister
and I , who knew the exact spot where every stair creaked, (You know. When you are
going up and down stairs they creak.) avoiding those places would creep
downstairs and sit outside their room for hours and listen to what they had to
say.
“He
was our guardian angel from that time , and I well remember when my mother was
on her death bed in 1918. (We moved to another part of town, to a better home.
My father could hold cottage meetings. He was a priest in the church. Still
talking, and in the background the consciousness that there was another member
of our family somewhere. We didn’t know who he was.)
“Then
when she lay dying, I went to the doctor place to get some medicine for her;
and while I was there, one of my boyhood chums came in and told me that his
mother had just died. And I ran all the way home as fast as I could and burst
into Mother’s bedroom, even though she was gasping for breath and dying- I
didn’t know that. I said, ‘Mum, Skinny
Ennis’ mother has died.’ She said, ‘ Son , you don’t need to worry. Your mother won’t die.’ And childlike, I
said, ‘How do you know?’ She says, “You
remember that man that came to see us when we lived on Garfield Road?’ I said,
“Yes’. ‘ ‘He just came to see me,’ she said, ‘and told me that my sickness
wasn’t unto death but unto life.”
(
In a very few minutes Sister Oakman was dead. Brother Oakman frequently said
that at that moment he learned a lot about life and death.)
This
transcript is from a class in which Brother Oakman told the testimony to
priesthood, but he often shared it with the rest of us with the same assurance.
In this setting he said:
“And
these powers are yours, brethren. When you are committed to the work of God and
know there is no turning back for you, and when there is no way that the All
Mighty can reach you through his servants which are upon the earth, then you
may rest assured you shall be reached by his servants which are in heaven.
Chapter
21
Baptized
at 99
“I
would like to share a bit of good news with the congregation this morning,”
announced the genial pastor of the thriving Leon mission. “I received a call
from the Methodist minister informing me that there is a man at the rest home
who wants to be baptized by a minister of the Reorganized Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter Day Saints. Brother Smith and I are going over there after this service to see what it is all
about. We thought you would like to know.”
With
that and a broad brotherly smile, Elder Clarence Bohall announced the last hymn
of the service.
“Do
you know who it is?” Delbert inquired eagerly after the benediction had been pronounced upon the congregation. “And
how does he know about the church?”
“Yes,”
Brother Bohall responded to the questions in order. “First, he’s George Lasley.
It seems he has lived around Lamoni all of his life and has always admired the Saints but just never
joined them.” Then he went on to explain, “Now he wants to make his covenant
with God , and he believes it has to be done as he has heard the Saints teach.”
The
Methodist minister had explained to Clarence that Mr. Lasley had been telling the personnel at the nursing
home for a long time that he wanted to be baptized. Just the week before this
Sunday they finally took him seriously enough to ask the Methodist minister to
attend to the baptism. When Rev. Daly arrived with the equipment for a
sprinkling, the good minister told Clarence with a bit of a chuckle, Mr. Lasley
protested loudly and assured him that he wanted to be baptized by immersion
like Jesus was, and that by a minister of the Saints.
“Well,
let’s go?” Del was eager to meet this determined man. To have anyone respond to
the call of Christ was exhilarating to the seventy, and the unusual
circumstances surrounding this request promised to be especially exciting.
At
the rest home Delbert and Clarence found a wisp of a man occupying a neat room
sparsely decorated with mementos of bygone days.
“Mr.
Lasley,” Clarence had asked the seventy to take the lead in the conversation.
“We hear that you would like to be baptized by a minister of the Reorganized
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Del had raised his voice and was
enunciating distinctly in an effort to make certain the old man would
understand all that was said. “I am Delbert Smith, a seventy in the church, and
this is Clarence Bohall, an elder. Brother Bohall is the pastor of the Leon
congregation.”
The
old man nodded his acknowledgement of the introductions and hospitably invited
the two ministers to be seated beside him bed.
“How
old are you?” Delbert was curious. The frail body that lay propped against the
pillows seemed to have grown too old for the alert mind and twinkling eyes it
housed.
“I
am ninety nine, soon to be one hundred!” The old man smiled with a trace of
pride in his achievement. His voice, pitched high with age, trembled a little
with excitement.
“How
long have you known about the church?” Delbert questioned without bothering to
repeat the name of the church again.
“All
my life!” The old man paused a moment. “Well, almost all of my life,” he
corrected. “I remember when Joseph Smith III came to Lemony. I used to love to
hear him preach!”
“But
you never asked for baptism.” Del’s statement was really a question.
“No.”
The monosyllable was all that he offered, and the ministers did not press for
an explanation.
“Mrs.
Elliston,” Del addressed the nurse who had admitted them to Mr. Lasley’s room.
“We would like to take Mr. Lasley to the church next Sunday to baptize him.”
“I’m
afraid that will be impossible,” the nurse responded professionally. “He’s
hardly able to be out of bed, and certainly would not be strong enough to leave
the home! We just could not take the risk of his becoming ill from such a
venture!”
For
a moment Del and Clarence exchanged glances trying to think of an alternative
to baptism in the church font. To try to convince the nurse that they would be
responsible for the elderly gentleman seemed unwise. It did not take a
medically trained person to see that his frail body was not capable of exerting
much effort in any situation.
It
was Clarence who offered the solution. “Could we baptize him in the bathtub?”
“Of
course!” The seventy was enthusiastic, but he was not so certain about the
nurse’s view of the suggestion. “Could we use the bathtub for the ordinance?”
He turned to her questioningly.
Mrs.
Elliston wrinkled her brow contemplating the ludicrous request, then shrugged
and gave her approval. “If you think you can manage it, you are welcome to
try!”
Arrangements
were made, the date was set, and a few of the Saints accompanied the two elders
to the home for the service. Mrs. Elliston and her cooperative staff filled the
bathtub almost to the overflow. Mr. Lasley trembled with anticipation as they
brought him to the side of the tub in his wheel chair. His white shirt hung
limply about his shoulders. His pants were gathered into a belt that had long
since become too large for him.
Carefully
Delbert explained just what procedure they would follow and urged the old
gentleman to leave the mechanics up to the elders and just enjoy the Spirit of
the service.
Tears
crept down the old man’s cheeks as Clarence read the scripture, and his lips
moved with the words of the hymn the cluster of Saints sang at the bathroom
door. His head bowed reverently as the prayer of invocation was given. He
listened intently, nodding his head in affirmation, as the seventy spoke of the
significance of the covenant he was making with his Lord and Savior whom he
would soon meet face to face.
Then
Delbert slipped off his shoes and stepped into the tub with his back to the
wall. Clarence moved to a position very near the wheel chair and bent to lift
this eager covenanter. The two elders lowered the trembling body of the old man
gently to a sitting position in the water.
“George
Lasley, having been commissioned of Jesus Christ,” The seventy’s left hand
rested lightly on the old man’s head, his right hand was lifted heavenward, and
his upturned face glowed with his commission. Clarence supported Mr. Lasley’s
body so there would be no difficulty in his keeping his balance in the deep
water that reached to his chest. “I baptize you in the name of the Father, and
of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen!”
Delbert
bent; a bit awkwardly to be sure with his back so close to the wall, and the
two elders carefully immersed the white head and bent shoulders that alone had
remained out of the water. Gently they lifted the newly covenanted one from the
water, wrapped him in a blanket and returned him to his chair while the little
band of Saints sang reverently,
“Find
the old, old path, twill be ever new,
For
the Savior walks all the way with you.
In
this old, old path made strangely sweet
By
the touch divine of His blessed feet.”
The
benediction of the Spirit of God rested warmly on our little band of Saints as
we quietly moved to the hall outside our new brother’s room to await his
preparation for the service of confirmation.
Chapter
22
Sherm’s
Confirming Testimony
“Sherm,
I have heard your testimony. It’s so beautiful that I would like to have it to
share with others. Would you mind telling it again so I can record it?” The
seventy was working in Creston, Iowa and came to the home of Dorothy and
Sherman Phipps equipped to record the unusual testimony of a faithful
priesthood member, father of four, and successful contractor in the community.
Sherm was eager to share the experience that he said had carried him through
many a trial in his life and held him steadfast to the church in which he and
his family were investing their lives.
“It
came about when I was in the service, “ Sherm began, “my experience with the
angel at Hunter Field, Alabama on January 22, 1944. I was twenty-two years old
at the time.
“I
had been given the three standard books of the church as a graduation gift when
I graduated from high school, and I was somewhat disappointed at the time
because I could not read well at all; but after Dorothy and I were married on
May 8, 1942, Dorothy would read to me, and from the time we were married, we
always tried to read some scripture before retiring each evening. What seemed
like a disappointing gift became my most precious possession!”
Dorothy
had been able to be with her husband during most of the first two years of
service during World War II except for a few weeks just before and after the
birth of their first son, but the time came when that was no longer possible.
She had to take their young son and return home while Sherman moved on to other
areas of service. Sherman missed the scripture reading to which they had been
accustomed. He loved hearing Dorothy read the scriptures to him, and after his
young wife had to leave the area, he felt very much alone in spite of the
presence of the many men called into service with him. He tried time and again
to read the church books but he simply could not read them. He could read only
the small words like it, and, but, but of the larger words he could make no
sense.
Sherm’s
inability to read in no way indicated that he was uneducated in other ways. He
was a skilled auto mechanic and worker in wood. He could do almost anything
anyone could do with his or her hands. The lack of ability to read, however,
kept him from progressing to higher rank and better pay even in the armed
services.
At
the time of this experience, Sherm had just been shipped to Hunter Field after
his unit had been simulating combat. Their fare had consisted largely of
dehydrated foods, dried potatoes, and dried cheese to take the place of butter.
In every way the food had been very poor. He had eaten one meal, a delicious
breakfast with pancakes and real butter at the new base and was eagerly looking
forward to his second good meal when this experience of suddenly being able to
read occurred.
“After
eating breakfast at the new base, I went back to the barracks and again
attempted to read the scriptures,” Sherm says. “I was praying about many
things,. Since I was a new father, I had a desire to know how I was to raise my
new son. I asked the Lord if the work was really true. Was Joseph Smith truly a
prophet? I wanted to know because if this really was God’s church, I wanted to
raise my son up to serve Him in it. If it was not true, I didn’t want to waste
my time. “
One
of the last things Dorothy had read to her husband before she left stuck in
Sherm’s mind. Sherman said he thought God had caused her to read it to him so
he could remember it. She had read from James 1:5, “If any of you lack wisdom,
let him ask of God.” Over and over the instruction raced through his mind until
finally he decided to put it to the test. “I prayed about it and did ask God,”
Sherm says, “and when I picked up the Doctrine and Covenants to try again, why,
I was blessed! The Spirit came over me very strong, and I could read! I was
really thrilled! I could read every word that was there- the big ones and the
little ones! I was given to know every word, how to read it and what it meant!
It was like a dictionary there to give me the meaning of every word, so it
really meant a lot to me! It was such a wonderful Spirit!”
“I
thought of the good food, and the approaching dinner hour kept entering my
thoughts. I was really tempted to go eat, but I was having such a wonderful
experience reading and understanding, gaining knowledge I had never had before,
that I decided that I would skip dinner and continue reading as long as the
Spirit was with me. In that Spirit, I could read very fast. I would stop every
once in a while as questions came into my mind, but I didn’t want to really
stop,” Sherm explained. “I was so thrilled with the experience of being able to
read that I didn’t want it to end, and I was afraid it might if I quit
reading!”
Sherm
didn’t go eat. Instead he read on for three days and three nights. “When night
came and it was time for lights out, I took my books and went outside around
the building to the furnace room where I could turn the light on and continue
reading, “ Sherm said. “When morning came, I would return to the barracks. I
continued to do this for three days and three nights.”
On
and on he read. First he read the Doctrine and Covenants. Then he read Inez
Smith Davis’ The Story of the Church.
Finally he was reading the Book of Mormon when another wonderful thing happened!
As
he read, Sherm would often thank the Lord for his blessing. And as he gained
knowledge, he became more and more concerned about things that were important
to his life. He said, “I told God that I really did believe there was a God and
always had, but I kind of wanted a testimony somehow,” he explained,” and I
don’t know what kind of a testimony I expected, but I wanted some kind of a
testimony to know that this work is true, that the church I was reading about
was God’s church.” The young soldier didn’t expect the kind of a testimony that
he did receive.
Sherman
was reading Moroni, chapter seven, verse forty-one, almost at the end of the
Book of Mormon. Suddenly “The worst fear of my life came upon me. I was
engulfed in a dark cloud. It was the worst darkness I have ever felt. I was
afraid and I prayed for God to take away this awful cloud of darkness and
fear!” Suddenly the darkness and fear were gone, and in their place there came
the greatest joy Sherm had ever experienced.
The
barracks just seemed to fade away and Sherm was looking right out into the sky
and space. Sherm says, “I looked upward and saw a pillar of light, the
brightest light I have ever seen, pure white, not as the sun, but pure white,
about a block away and descending toward me. When the light came near, I saw
that it was a personage. An angel was moving toward me in the light. The angel
came steadily down until it stood in front of me about three feet off the
floor, and reached its outstretched hands to my face and smiled a really kind
smile. I’ll never forget the look on that personage’s face!” Sherm exclaimed
when his effort to describe what he saw was inadequate.
Sherm
was never certain whether the angel spoke audibly to him, “But it just as well
have because everything was impressed on my mind as though it was spoken, “
Sherm said. “It just told me - just impressed on my mind, “ He corrected
himself, “Now that you have seen an angel, you can surely believe that there is
a God.’ I replied that I could. Then I was given to know that Joseph Smith was
a prophet and that all these things I had been reading were true. This was the
true church that I belonged to, the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter Day Saints, and that I was given this testimony to help me try to raise
my son in the right way.”
“
And I was- had the feeling that there would be more children in our family and
we were to raise them in a God like way, teaching them about God’s church. It
would not be a waste of time. That I should teach them to keep God’s commandments
and to serve God to the best of their ability throughout their lives, because
they’d have a work to do, which we’ve found out by now to be true, “ Sherm
added, “since the two boys have been called to the priesthood and are doing
some work in the church, as much as they possibly can while they go to
college.”
Sherm
never lost his ability to read. After the experience he was able to make great
progress in the armed services. He completed his training as an air force
cadet, but for very good personal reasons refused his commission as a pilot and
instead flew his overseas missions in another capacity. Back in civilian life,
Sherm testifies, the ability to read, write and spell made it possible for him
to become successful in business and gave his family a much higher standard of
living than they could otherwise have had. By this miraculous blessing, his
ministry, also, was enhanced both in the church and out.
Chapter
23
Casas
and the Offending Fence
At
the 1964 World Church Conference, our seventy family’s assignment was to the
Missionary Development District in the Magic Valley of Texas. Our base of
operations was to be Weslaco, Texas, where beautiful church facilities had been
provided, with the help of the world church, especially for ministry to the
Latin Americans there and across the border in Mexico. We did not speak Spanish
and were told that ours was to be a short assignment. We were advised to rent
rather than to buy a home.
Our
first rental home was beautiful but far too small for our growing family. Even
with the garage converted to provide a bedroom for our boys, the space was far
from adequate. After two years of crowding and constant rent increases with no
evidence that the assignment would be terminated, we began to look for a place to
purchase. One especially appealing place became available. It not only had
space for our family but also had additional apartments from which rent could
be used to pay for the property. In fact, however, the price was so low that
the payments would be less than the rent we were then paying. My brother
offered to loan us the down payment, a mere three hundred dollars. When we
asked permission to complete the deal, however, permission was denied on the
basis of the fact that we were soon to be reassigned. The realtor who had shown
us the property promptly bought it for herself and told us later that it was
the most lucrative investment she had ever made.
The
day finally came that the decision was made to leave us in Weslaco for a longer
period of time than originally planned. We were given permission to purchase a
home. This time we found a big, sturdy, old, brick house only a block from
school and situated immediately back of the church, likewise only a block away.
There was room aplenty for our family, and for the extensive entertaining we
enjoyed so much. We had real bedrooms for the children as well as for
ourselves. There was a hallway at the head of the stairs that had been used as
a recreation room by the former occupants of the house. For them it had even
accommodated a table tennis court. It because Delbert’s study. There was a
family room that stretched from side to side of the back of the house. It was
sixteen feet wide and forty-two feet long, totally glassed in on the three
sides away from the house. It was perfect for ironing, sewing, homework, and
fun!
There
was a beautiful living room with a fireplace and a dining area attached that
exceeded in space anything we had ever experienced. French doors opened from
the living room onto the hall from which there was access to the downstairs
bathroom, our bedroom and the kitchen. There was also a spacious, airy bedroom
opening off the living room, right near the front door. We knew in a moment it
would be Karen’s. There was an upstairs bathroom and a kitchen. The upstairs
had once been an apartment. Up there, there were also closets within closets
that were perfect playrooms for our youngest and their friends. Downstairs, the
spacious kitchen also was equipped with a dining area that easily cared for the
needs of our family and a few of our friends. There was a pantry and a utility
room. There were air conditioners to temper the Texas heat. Orange trees graced
the front yard, hovering close to the wide veranda that shaded the west side of
the house. Often on Sunday morning when the place was cleaned and furbished, I
would stand at the front door on my way to church. Before I closed the door I
would survey the portions that I could see and thank the Lord for permitting me
to live in such a beautiful home.
It
wasn’t all perfect. The chimney for the fireplace was pulling away from the
rest of the house. The bricks were worn and the architecture of the house would
not have won prizes even in its youth. The garage was distinctly tumbledown.
The house was even infested with fleas so badly that when one stepped inside
fleas covered one’s legs almost to the knees. The former occupants had a dog
from which the legacy of the pests had come. A competent exterminator ended the
legacy!
The
price for the property was ten thousand dollars, financed by the owner. When we
asked the elderly gentleman, at what rate of interest, he asked tentatively,
“Would four percent be alright?” Needless to say, the terms were acceptable!
Next
door to our spacious home was the modest home of a Mexican American family
named Casas. Theirs was a neat little frame home, much smaller and less
pretentious than ours but surrounded by a much more lovely, well kept lawn with
gorgeous plantings. Some of the plantings were obviously an attempt to hide the
termite eaten wooden fence that separated our properties.
When
we moved into the property, we tried to be neighborly, but could get little
response. When our children invited the Casas children to go with them to
church school, they were horrified. “What are you trying to do?” they demanded. “Make us sin!” Our children
had not understood the ways of Catholics before. This was a good opportunity
for learning.
We
had been in the house only a short time when we went away to camp for more than
a week. When we returned, I saw Mr. Casas at the post office where he worked.
“We’re home!” I announced cherrily.
Our
neighbor looked at me quizzically and questioned, “Oh, have you been away?”
Once
we were home again, our first task was to get rid of that termite eaten fence.
To our amazement, when the fence went down, all of the Casas Family’s
reluctance to be friendly went with it.
First
Mr. Casas apologized for the plantings and volunteered to remove them. We
objected to their removal, for now, with the fence gone, we could both enjoy
them. The stately poinsettia was our favorites.
Mrs.
Casas and I shared recipes and chores. I learned that she made the most
delicious tamales that could be made, and engaged her to make tamales for two
hundred and fifty youngsters in Alan’s graduating class. I had the
responsibility for providing their food on their graduation outing on a dude
ranch, and of all the tamales I have ever eaten, none have even compared to
hers.
Marcia
joined the Junior Girl Scouts troop at the church, for which I was the leader.
When Vacation Church School time came the next summer, we had twice as many
Catholic youngsters attending as we had members of our own church.
When
the troubadours came late at night on Mother’s Day to serenade Mrs. Casas, we
enjoyed their music along with our neighbors. When the hurricane came, we
shared our water with the Casas family. The Smiths and the Casas were no longer
merely living beside each other. We were neighbors and the Casas were now
friends of the church they had once disliked, even feared. Removing that fence
proved a heaven sent blessing to us all!
Chapter
24
A
Bed for Juan
Hurricane
Beulah had struck the Rio Grande Valley with unbridled fury. Violent winds had
toppled the entire row of stately trees that lined our street. They lay like a
row of fallen dominoes, the tips of each one covering the roots of the one
ahead of it like a verdant blanket endeavoring to protect its companion from
the elements to which it had been so summarily exposed.
There
was no electricity in the house. Poles that once supported the wires lay
snapped like matchsticks strewn over the landscape, their wires dangerously
littering the sidewalks and roadways. There was good reason for the mandate
that no one be on the streets except those authorized to be there.
Our
stately old house had withstood the onslaught of the first segment of the storm
with only one window succumbing to the pressure of the driving rain. Rain
pounding that one opening could have flooded the house, but the children and I
were able to replace the glass with a sheet of plywood that unaccountably lay
near the gaping aperture. All the water that filtered around the edges could
then be mopped up with towels diligently applied to the floor, wrung out and
applied again. There was no time to even think of our rain soaked clothing
until the storm had abated and the house was safe.
The
seventy was one hundred and fifty miles away at Corpus Christi. He had called
when he heard the predictions of the approaching hurricane asking if he should
come home. I had assured him there was no need for him to leave his field of
ministry. We would be safe. After all, we were miles from the Gulf of Mexico.
What harm could a hurricane do us there? Besides, it would all be over before
he could possibly make the trip home.
This was our first experience with a hurricane.
Somehow, we thought it would be like a Midwest tornado. It would roar through
some limited strip of land and be finished. We had no idea of the nature
neither of this unwieldy beast nor of its aftermath.
Fortunately
we had listened to the instruction to fill every possibly vessel with water.
There would be no safe water coming through our usual sources for, no one knew
how long. That seemed unlikely to us, but we were in a habit of keeping a
reserve supply of water all the time, so supplementing that reserve did not
seem too outrageous a response.
We
thanked God for that bit of wisdom when we found our house filled with persons
less fortunate than we, all of whom needed water in once way or another. People
came from houses that had lost their roofs or now had roofs that leaked like a
sieve. Some came simply because they were frightened and thought the seventy’s
house a good place of refuge. Even our next-door neighbor, who had ignored the
advice to gather a supply of precious liquid, found a need that we could help
supply. Two overflowing rain barrels added to our ability to share.
After
the first deluge of water and wind, there was an eerie calm while the eye of
the storm passed over us. That was followed by a second attack of wind and
water driving the opposite way from the first. One almost expected to see the
fallen trees blown back to their places, except that the force of the storm had
somewhat abated by the time the other side of the whirling giant reached us.
But
then came the aftermath, which we had not anticipated. The floodwaters began to
rise. Much to our amazement, they reached from the coast to our town, forty
miles inland, and threatened to inundate us. To prevent that tragedy, the
entire population was alerted to help sandbag the low places. Crews worked
around the clock digging, bagging, transporting the sand. Many of us were kept
busy supplying food and drink for the workers.
Delbert
took his place among the sandbaggers. By the time the storm had passed Corpus
Christi, he had realized that there was no place for missionarying in the
aftermath of the storm. Everyone was busy just trying to survive or recover
from its devastation. He tried to call home, but there was no telephone
service. So he started out by car, trying to outrun the floods that were fast
closing the highways. As he drove down highway 77, he listened to his radio
announcing the closing of first one and then another of the roads he had just
traversed.
Finally,
he was traveling in water far too deep for safety, but he felt he must get
home. What if we did need help? What if the house had not been able to
withstand the storm? Would I have had the foresight to have needed food and water
on hand? There were a myriad of questions surging through his head and driving
him on through the high water.
With
the flooding there came hordes of mosquitoes. They gathered on his windshield
more rapidly than his wipers could dislodge them. Time after time he had to
stop, scoop up water that surrounded the car and wash away the offending
insects just to be able to see the road.
As
he approached Harlingen he determined to go by a grocery store to get
additional supplies just in case we needed them. Though he later realized that
he should have known that we would be well supplied with groceries, that
decision was fortuitous if not inspired. The choice to go to the grocery store
kept him from entering a part of the highway that he usually took but through
which he could never have made it that night. Others who had tried it found
their vehicles quickly buried in the surging waters and were fortunate to
escape with their lives.
With
relief the seventy finally made his way home only to go out again to help
sandbag the town to preserve it. As a youth he had worked in a feed mill and
knew how to tie knots quickly and securely. That memory stood him in good stead
as others fumbled with the task and often allowed the bags to discharge a part
of their hard won contents. He was soon the chief instructor in knot tying and
a full time worker on that detail. Hour after hour, he and his crew secured the
bags that were finally able to save our town. Blistered fingers and sore backs
emerged from the effort, but the floodwaters never reached us.
But
the mosquitoes did. Millions and billions of the hungry insects came swarming
in. Every inch of skin left unprotected when one ventured outside was instantly
attacked. The stores were quickly emptied of all repellents and sprays. Those
fortunate enough to get them soon found their supplies exhausted and the
mosquitoes still hungry!
One
night not long after Beulah left the city and us was about back to normal,
there was a football game at the high school stadium. The city crews came with
their equipment and sprayed the enclosure twice before the game. We who were
spectators came dressed as fully as we could to discourage the mosquitoes, and
the fortunate ones came covered with repellent. Even our most valiant efforts
were not sufficient to prevent the vicious beasts from using us for food. They
bit right through all but the toughest materials. We sat slapping and
squirming, dodging and fuming through the game.
Our
son Alan had the unenviable task of keeping statistics on the game. All year he
had made a little extra money keeping the ”stats” of all the athletic events
and calling them in to the Corpus Christi paper as soon as the events were
finished. This night, he was not fortunate enough to have repellent sufficient for
his entire body, nor did he have his hands free to shoo any of the
troublemakers away. We cringed in sympathy as we saw him periodically swat a
leg covered by the insects, wipe off the blood with his other hand and resume
writing on his blood spattered pad.
Eventually
there was good news on the radio. We were all to cover our cars and any other
exposed equipment and wait for the army to fly over, spraying the entire valley
for the mosquitoes. Much as we disliked the smell and even the thought of the
chemicals, we stood at our windows and thanked God for the relief that came
with the big bombers.
Across
the Rio Grande River, the bombers did not fly. There were reports of animals
that died because of the many mosquitoes that gathered in their nostrils and cut
off their breath. The suffering there of both human and beast was
indescribable.
Across
the Rio Grande, too, sandbagging did not stop the floods. Many people lost
their meager possessions in the swirling waters. We hoped there was some way
that we could help.
Among
other things we had an extra bed. It had been given to us for Karen when we
lived in Lamoni. Charlotte and David Carter were the donors. Two of our boys
had grown too long for an ordinary bed, and we had purchased a queen sized one
to accommodate their growing bodies. Now we could pass on the Carter gift to
someone who had lost their bed to the hurricane’s aftermath.
Mildred
and Harold Smith were part of the Reynosa, Mexico congregation, helping Juan
Reyes in ministry there. They seemed the appropriate ones to ask to deliver the
bed to some needy person. Imagine our surprise when they asked, rather timidly,
if we would mind if they gave the bed to Juan. It never occurred to us that
this young, dedicated national minister for the church did not even have a
bed! We knew he did not have
transportation and had tried to get him a bicycle, but he had refused insisting
that one day soon he would have saved enough money to buy one for himself. But
a bed! How could he be without a bed?
Soon
after the bed was delivered, we received a letter from Juan written in very
good English. “Last night I received a very beautiful present given from you
for me, and let me tell you I’m so grateful with you for such a wonderful
present. From now on I think I’m going to get up very late because I will rest
as a king. I walk all day time, going to visit those who live very far from our
church here in Reynosa and when I go back to my house I’m so tired, but I have
to be patient…”
Our eyes burned with tears as we contrasted our
situation on the north side of the Rio Grande with that of those who were
separated from the abundance we enjoyed by only a stream and a different
culture. A beautiful present that well used bed? Rest like a king that tired
young minister! When would the time come when we would all enjoy the same
benefits as we labored together for the Master? When would the time come when
all the peoples of the earth would enjoy the blessings that we take so much for
granted?
We
have kept Juan’s letter to remind us of the need to continue our efforts to
help usher in that Kingdom of God on earth in which none will have need of the
basics of life but all will have enough and spare!
Chapter
25
Faith
of a Salesman
We
were accustomed to having the Fuller Brush man stop at our house in Weslaco,
Texas periodically, so when one called, there was no reason to believe this
visit would lead to anything but a small purchase. When I opened the door and
found a large, sandy haired, freckled faced young stranger instead of the
salesman with whom I was acquainted, I was curious.
“You’re
new in this area, aren’t you?” I inquired.
“Just
started last week,” the new salesman replied cordially.
“Are
you from The Valley?” I was always interested in people, but this towering young
man with the friendly grin excited my curiosity more than usual. Maybe it was
his coloring that was so much like my husband’s. Maybe it was the space between
his front teeth that matched my own bane. Maybe it was his size that attracted
my attention. Maybe it was the Spirit of God that prompted my inquiry!
“We
just moved here from Missouri,” Howard explained. “We’re sort of looking over
the area to see if we would like to settle here.”
“Where
in Missouri did you come from?” My interest was increasing. Missouri was home
for Delbert and me, too.
“Oh,
a little town named Albany.” The salesman was certain I would never have heard
of it.
“I
know Albany! That’s close to my home town.” This was exciting to have someone
from so near home to be sitting in our living room in The Magic Valley of
Texas.
“What
did you do there?” I persisted.
“We
had a Hy-Klas grocery.” Howard was patient. Until now he had not even had a
chance to show his wares.
“But
we had to sell out when a big chain came in and I got ulcers. In fact, the
ulcers got so bad that the doctor said I had to get out of the store to save my
life. We thought we might like to go into the supply end of the grocery
business, so we’re here to check out the fruit and vegetable business in The
Valley. I had to do something to support us while we look around.” Apparently
Howard had decided he had just as well give me his history all at once so he
could get on to the business of selling Fuller Brushes.
I
could hardly wait for him to finish! “I have a brother in the Hy-Klas store
over in a little town west of Stanberry.” I knew he would know Stanberry. I
wasn’t so sure about Guilford.
“My
wife’s grandfather lives in a little town west of Stanberry-Guilford.” Howard
volunteered.
“Guilford
is where my brother has his store. “ It was like getting a message from home
now.
“Alma
Nelson?” Howard was beginning to get interested in the conversation, too. I
nodded.
“I
know Junior,” Howard continued, and then half apologetically explained, “That’s
what we called him at our store meetings.”
“That’s
my brother!” I confirmed enthusiastically.
“He’s
a Mormon, isn’t he?” Howard remembered something about Junior that was
different, but almost as soon as he said it, it was apparent that he wished he
had not.
“We
are members of the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, “ I
explained, hoping to ease his discomfiture. “My husband is a missionary and is
away up on the coast now. When he gets back, we ought to get together. “ Then
remembering that they were new in The Valley, I asked, “Have you found a church
to attend yet?”
“We’re
Presbyterians, “ Howard explained, “and we went to the church over on Seventh
Street last Sunday.”
“Oh,”
I hesitated for a moment. “If only we were going to be in town this Sunday,
we’d surely like to have you go to church with us and then come home to dinner
so you could get acquainted with the family. But there will be no services at
the church for the next two weeks. We will all be at camp.”
“You
mean when you leave town there are no services?” Howard was puzzled. “You must
be important people in that church!”
“Oh,
not just us!” I laughed . “All of the church people go to camp together, or
most of them,” I hastily corrected myself. “When we got back a week from
Monday, though, we just must get together!”
I
ordered several items that would insure that the young man would at least come
back that designated Monday. This man was someone special. Delbert must meet
him!
Delivery
date arrived. The Fuller Brush man opened the conversation. “My wife says she
has spent more time in your church than she has in her own,” he announced. “She
even knows all about those family camps you have been attending, ‘reunions’,
she calls them. She was the only member of her graduating class who was not a
member of your church, so she was invited to all of the youth activities. “
“Great!”
I exclaimed. “I can hardly wait to meet your wife!”
“She’s
out in the car with our little boy.” Howard was expecting an invitation.
“Bring
them in. “ I insisted happily.
Instantly
the Lynch’s seemed like family. There were dinner dates and sight seeing trips
as we showed the newcomers some of the treasures we had discovered and learned
to love since our coming to The Valley. And when we did invite them to attend
church with us, they responded enthusiastically.
“Tell
them what happened at the meeting you attended over on Seventh Street last
week,” Howard urged. Sandy was obviously glad to share.
Sandy
had been invited to attend a women’s meeting at the luxurious home of one of
her church’s members. While the women were congregating, someone noticed a
Latin American woman, whom they all seemed to recognize as a member of their
church, coming up the walk. The women reacted with consternation.
“She
has made a mistake!” someone said.
“She
knows she doesn’t belong here!” another protested emphatically.
“Why
should she try to crash our meeting?” another questioned indignantly.
“She
will just have to go to her own meeting on the north side.” the president asserted
firmly, and the comely young Latin was sent away!
Sandy
was furious. When someone was asked to take the worship for the next week,
Sandy volunteered. Her service was based on the brotherhood of all. In no
uncertain terms she had expressed her feeling about the hypocrisy of
intolerance among Christians. “I don’t think they want me back!” Sandy
concluded with a wry smile.
There
were happy times together, at church, around the swimming pool of the apartment
complex in which the Lynch’s lived, in the seventy’s home. There were long
talks about Christ and His church. Sandy and Howard kept our children while we
made a business trip to Missouri. We planned a trip to Mexico together. We
would attend a class Bob was teaching at Colonial 16 outside Matamoros that
afternoon. It was the only chance the Lynch’s would have to see Mexico as it
really was because they were soon returning to Missouri to another business
opportunity.
As
the time for the Mexican trip approached, it became apparent that Howard was
much too sick for such a venture. His old ulcer had flared up again. In those
days, milk was the preferred food for ulcer victims, and milk was Howard’s
principle food. One night when we were eating grilled cheese sandwiches, he
tried half of one and suffered excruciating pain. He felt almost as sick as he
had felt back in Missouri when the ulcer had perforated and the doctor had
almost despaired for his life. On the morning the trip was planned, Howard came
to the house to cancel our plans….
“I
just can’t make it!” He said
apologetically.
Delbert
was so anxious that Howard and Sandy have this one last opportunity to see the
church in action in Mexico that he just could not accept this new state of
affairs.
“Howard
do you know what the Lord has told us to do when we are sick?” he asked boldly.
“I
guess I don’t.” Howard confessed hesitantly.
Delbert
got the Bible. ”Here. Read what James says to do.” He pointed to James 5:14-15.
Read it out loud so Sandy can hear it.” The seventy was anxious to have a unity
of faith in this procedure.
“Is
any sick among you?” the sick man read carefully, “ let him call for the elders
of the church; and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name
of the Lord; and the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall
raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.”
Howard
lowered the book slowly and looked questioningly at the seventy.
“You
couldn’t pray for me, could you?” the sick man protested earnestly. “I’m not a
member of your church!”
“I
don’t know why not.” Delbert answered with a mischievous smile. “I don’t
remember reading in the scriptures that Jesus ever asked anyone whether they
had been baptized before he healed them!”
“Do
you really think you could heal me?” How Howard wished it could be true! “If
only I could be free of this awful pain!”
“No,”
Delbert momentarily dashed the sick man’s hopes. “I can’t heal you, but God
can! He has set his ordinance in his church to bring healing to those who have
faith in Him. I think you have that kind of faith.”
The
two men talked for a long time about God’s love as it is manifested in healing
ministry. Sandy and I listened. Finally Howard asked, “Will you pray for me
now?”
The
seventy anointed the big salesman’s head with oil, laid his hands on him and
prayed for healing.
“OK,
let’s go!” Howard announced confidently as he arose from the chair, and soon we
were on our way.
At
the Palmetto Inn in Brownsville, we approached the array of Mexican foods.
Howard started filling his plate generously. Delbert decided there should be a
bit of caution for the man who had been suffering excruciating pain from ulcers
and began to suggest some foods that were less spicy than others. Howard was
obviously surprised at the minister’s suggestion.
“Didn’t
you pray for God to heal me?” he questioned. Delbert nodded. ”Then why can’t I
eat what I want?”
Delbert
beat a hasty retreat, and Howard ate what he wanted.
All
that afternoon and far into the night the Lynchs, Turners and Smiths explored
Matamoros, visited the Saints, attended the church service and talked. Never
for one moment did Howard suffer from his meal of Mexican food.
Another
interesting thing happened that evening, too. While Bob was teaching his class
in Spanish, Delbert sat beside Howard. At first, he was turning the scriptures
to the books of the Bible to which Bob was referring. The seventy did know the
Spanish names for the books even though he could not read their contents.
Suddenly he became aware that he was interpreting everything that Bob was
saying for Howard. That might not have been unusual for some, but for Delbert,
it was a first. He did not know
Spanish, and could in no way translate Bob’s speech into English on his own! It
had to be the second miracle of the day, the gift of tongues manifested in its
unsullied form.
Seven
years after the Lynchs left The Valley, Howard was living in Hawaii. On our
Christmas letter, I penned this note, “How are Howard’s ulcers?”
The
answer came back from Howard’s wife. “Ulcers? Howard doesn’t have ulcers!”
Several
years more passed before we visited Howard. Again I inquired about his ulcers.
Howard smiled and affirmed that he had never had another problem with ulcers
from that day in Texas when the prayer of faith healed him.
Chapter
26
Weslaco’s
Highest Award
Awards
day at Weslaco High was frequent and the number of awards given generous. It
seemed to be the philosophy of the school that everyone deserved to be
commended for their efforts in as many ways as possible. There were awards for
academics in every subject. There were awards for perfect attendance. There
were athletic awards, music awards, citizenship awards, and journalism awards.
You name it; there was probably an award for it. Since the seventy was seldom around to attend the award
ceremonies, I usually took good notes so I could share with him the
achievements of our sons attending there.
One
particular day I remember vividly. I had taken a ruled yellow tablet on which
to record the honors given. Alan’s class was first to be honored. I had filled
one page with citations and was about to turn to the second one when I heard a
conversation behind me. Two of his classmates were listening as carefully as I.
Noting the many honors being awarded, one said to the other, “It’s a shame we
can’t hate him!”
That
was the honor above all honors given Alan that day! It is recorded indelibly in
my memory as the award I found most valuable because of what it said about his
relationship with his fellow students. They could admire his achievements
knowing that there was no arrogance in him.
Chapter
27
Our
Invincible Mama
“There
has been a terrible accident! Mamma has been badly hurt. If you want to see her
alive, you will need to come immediately!”
The
telephone message was from my sister, Lucy Marie Land, who was a nurse at the
Independence, Missouri, hospital to which Mother and several other members of
my family had been taken. I was living in Weslaco, Texas, in the area to which
we had been assigned as a missionary family.
It
was May and our family was preparing to visit Missouri as soon as school was
finished. For me to go immediately to be by Mother’s bedside would mean leaving
the seventy and our five children alone in the Magic Valley of Texas, as least
until Mother’s condition was determined more completely or school was finished,
whichever came first. It was quickly determined that I would go, however, and I
was on the first plane out of the Valley.
“How
is she?” My urgent request was directed to my brother, Dr. Norman Nelson, who
was just buttoning his shirtsleeves as he left the Intensive Care Unit when I
arrived.
The
good doctor shook his head. “We just piled the “hamburger” back around the bone
and poured in antibiotics to keep down the infection until we can amputate, “
was his terse, dejected reply. “We will have to take off that leg if she is to
survive,” he explained, “but every time we start to take her into surgery, her
blood pressure plummets making it impossible.”
When
the accident happened, Mama had been on her way for her check-up to determine
if she was still cancer free. It had been five years since her cancer surgery.
She was a passenger in the back seat of my brother, Kenneth’s, car when they
had topped a rise in the highway to find a large flatbed truck parked in their
lane. There was no time to stop and no place to go. Kenneth swerved to the left
as far as possible, but the parked rig caught the right side of the car, with
the back seat where Mama was riding, getting the worst of the damage. The car
was demolished.
Everyone
in the car was hurt, Mamma worst of all. Her head was cut and battered, her
chest was crushed, but it was her leg, cut, crushed and shattered until it was
impossible to expect recovery, that posed the most immediate danger to her
life. When doctors at the first hospital to which the family was taken
announced that the leg had to be amputated, Kenneth requested transfer to the
church’s Independence Sanitarium and Hospital where there were doctors and
nurses that the family knew and where she could more readily receive the
administration of the elders as the scriptures instructed. There it was that I
found them all.
Every
thing about Mamma was bloody. The nurses wanted to cut off her long, blood
matted hair, but Lucy Marie refused. “Why, without her long hair, Mamma would
not look like Mamma!” was her fervent explanation of her obstinate stance on
the matter. So for hours at a time we sat beside our unconscious mother with
pads of gauze and a pan of rubbing alcohol cleaning the long beautiful hair
strand by strand, preserving the soft white tresses that had so long been
Mamma’s crowning glory.
Day
after day and night after night one of us sat beside the unconscious figure of
our mother. She was finally moved to a private room. Both her broken legs were
put into traction. Her shattered left leg was put in a sort of rigid trough.
There was no way it could be casted. The bones, with jagged, broken ends lying
askew near the middle of her leg, lay exposed from her knee to her ankle. The gaping
wound spread inches apart allowing unfettered access to the decaying blood,
flesh and bones. The stench that permeated the room and seeped into the hall
was almost unbearable! The doctors were still waiting the time when she was
physically able to undergo the surgery that would remove the useless appendage.
Occasionally
Mamma moaned or shifted her position slightly. We were feeding her now. When we
put food in her mouth, somehow she responded by chewing. When we were certain
it was masticated we would stroke her throat and give the command, “Swallow,
Mamma”. Obediently, Mamma would swallow. The words were repeated so often that
they almost seemed to reverberate in the room even when they were not being
vocalized. Whenever I recall those months beside her bed, the memory that rings
most persistently in my mind is of stroking her throat and commanding,
“Swallow, Mamma!”
Tethered
as she was to the traction on her legs, Mamma could only lie flat on her back.
She could not be turned from side to side to provide even
momentary relief. She could be lifted to a partial
sitting position so the nurses could give her a back rub, and the nurses did
what they could to give her ease with an eggshell mattress, a fleece and
frequent massage, but nasty bedsores developed. One day there would be a tape
over the powder that had been used to rub her back when someone decided it
might be the powder that was irritating her. The next it might be the lotion.
Nothing seemed to help, and the situation became increasingly more painfully
serious.
By
now Mamma was aware of much that was transpiring around her, and her back hurt.
She was still very weak and rarely even opened her eyes. One morning, after
noting the consternation of the nurses who found the sores worse than ever and
could find no relief for her, we were all surprised to hear her whisper, “Why
don’t you try consecrated olive oil?”
All
of our lives we had kept olive oil, consecrated by the elders of the church,
for use, with faith, for the purpose of healing ministries in our home. Now we
wasted no time in obtaining a bottle of the substance from the pharmacy. The
Chaplain consecrated it for the particular use for which it was intended, and
Mamma’s back was massaged with it. Almost immediately, the angry sores began to
heal.
Seeing
the immediate improvement of the bedsores, some one proposed that we use the
oil on the leg as well. Prayerfully it was applied knowing that it could do no
harm to a leg that was slated for amputation anyway. But the next day when the
doctor came to examine Mamma, he caught a glimpse of an unexpected movement.
Mamma had wiggled the toes of her condemned leg!
“Here!
Here! What’s this?” exclaimed the good doctor as he hurried to the end of the
bed and gingerly touched the toes to determine whether he had really seen what
he thought he had seen! Mamma responded by moving her toes away from the good
doctor’s touch. Doctor Szabados responded with excitement.
“What’s
happened?” he demanded of everyone in general and no one in particular. “What’s
going on here?”
Since
my sister was this doctor’s office nurse and since she had been responsible for
using the oil on the leg, she responded to the doctor’s inquiry. She explained
how the bedsores had responded to the use of the oil and how she had decided to
try it on the leg as well.
“Here!
Give me that stuff!” the good Catholic doctor demanded, and with the bottle in
hand he poured copious amounts down the fleshy troughs that coursed down each
side or the decaying bones.
We
watched as new bone formed below the shattered ends of the bone that had
fractured during the accident. The splintered ends that seemed so hopeless just
sloughed away from the fresh bone allowing it to grow strong without the bone
ever being set or the splinters being knit together. Then the wound began to
close, and the proposed amputation was cancelled forever.
Mamma
had been in the hospital from May until September when she was finally
released. I was the only member of the family who had been freed to stay with
her most of the time. My family had been scattered for the summer. The seventy
and Alan remained at work in the Valley. My sister, Winifred, and her husband
added the four younger ones to their family on their farm near Guilford.
Now
that school was about to begin again, and Mamma was well enough to be dismissed
from the hospital, some other plans had to be made for her. She was still an
invalid, far from able to care for herself. She needed to be near medical
services so could not go to the Valley with me. She could not return alone to
her home on the farm near Guilford. Some of us thought residence at the
church’s Resthaven just across the street from the hospital would be ideal for
her, and made tentative arrangements for her removal to that facility. Again
Lucy Marie protested, and her protest cancelled the arrangement. She insisted
that she would take Mamma home with her, but she worked sixteen hours a day and
Mamma could not be alone that much of the time. Norman and Arla took Mamma into
their home in Lamoni, Iowa, where Norman was a practicing physician and Arla a
registered nurse,
The
following August we were moved to Independence, Missouri. There we lived in a
large house, once the home of the Dr. Charles Grabske’s, just up the street
from the hospital and from Resthaven. Mamma came to live with us for nine
wonderful months while we were at the School of The Restoration.
By
now Mamma was much stronger. She walked with a walker on a leg that was a
little short but whole. We set up her hospital bed in the library that opened
through glass sliding doors onto the paved patio where she could wander at will
in the beauty of the out of doors. The children made her room their haven.
There she helped them with their homework, told them stories of her own life as
a teacher and mother of seven, watched television with them and discussed the
exciting events of each day. Nightly we gathered around her bed for our evening
prayers.
With
the fall there came instruction for us to move on to our next assignment. This
time to minister in Canada. That was too far from home for Mamma, and she went
to live with Winifred and Ray Negaard on the farm next to her own. Occasionally
she could even go to her old home for a short stay, especially on holidays when
there were some of us to stay with her. We thought she needed us, but that may
have been only our perception.
It
was Christmas time and we were home from Canada for the celebration. Mamma was
delighted to go with us to her farm home for the holidays. The first night we
were there, it snowed a lot. Early in the morning we sleepily discussed who
would shovel a path to the privy. That outdoor facility lay at the end of a
path that meandered from the back door of the house quite a distance down the
east side of the garden, and it was usually the first place each waking member
of the family sought.
Imagine
our surprise when we went, shovel in hand, to scoop the path. The walkway was
already open. Mamma had trampled it from house to privy. Using her walker for
support, she had vigorously dislodged the snow from the path with her booted
feet until the facility was available to us all! Accident or no accident, Mamma
was still in charge of her own home and the leg God gave back to her was no
longer a useless appendage!
Chapter
28
Prince
“Mildred,
do you believe in the resurrection?”
The
seventy spoke in an aside as he held his hand over the mouthpiece of the
telephone. He had just answered a call, and I had no idea who might be calling.
“Of
course I do!” I answered, my voice giving clear evidence of my perplexity.
“The
police say they have our dog.” Even Delbert’s voice betrayed his confusion. The
inflection of his voice was more that of a question than a statement.
“Our
dog?” Mine was frankly a question. “Didn’t you bury him?”
“Well,
not really. There wasn’t time for a funeral.”
“But
his tags are here!” I ran to the closet and produced Lightening’s collar with
license and medical tags still attached. Steven had hung them there after his
pet had been run over by his teacher the last day of school the previous
spring. I was in Missouri keeping watch over my injured mother when the
accident occurred. Delbert brought the rest of the family, except Alan, to
Missouri the following day. After an entire summer away, we were home again in Weslaco_
and the police said they had our dog?
“What
makes them think they have our dog?” There had to be some mistake!
“They
say he is small and black and white like Lightening was and the dog they have
is wearing our tags”
“Our
tags?” I looked at the tags dangling from the collar in my hands. How could the
police have our tags when I had them in my hands?
I
gave a gesture of resignation and suggested that we go and have a look. That
seemed the only way to get to the bottom of this confusing situation.
When
the seventy and the children returned from the dog pound
They were carrying a pitiful scrawny little black
and white dog. He was wearing our tags. But he was not Lightening.
Some
two years before a little black and white puppy was born in our neighborhood
over on Louisiana Street. Our children watched him at play with his family down
the street until one day he disappeared. Steven knew exactly where he had gone.
The dogcatcher had picked him up because he was not wearing a license.
Steven
also knew just how long the city would keep the puppy alive at the pound. So on
the day the dog would have been put to sleep permanently, Steven took his own
hard earned money to the pound, reprieved the puppy, paid for his shots and his
license, purchased food and a collar and leash for him and brought him home. He
named him Prince.
All
of our children were excited about the new puppy. Karen took him for a walk
around the neighborhood where he was noticed by the children into whose family
he had been born. Immediately they claimed the puppy as theirs and tried to
take him away. Karen tried to explain that the puppy was Steven’s but there was
no way the children would listen to her explanation. Frightened but determined
not to lose Steven’s new treasure, Karen snatched Prince from the eager
children and ran home. Quickly she fastened the leash onto the clothesline and
came racing into the house calling for help. We all ran to see what was
happening and found the neighbor child taking the leash off the clothesline and
starting away with Prince.
Delbert
called out to the child and again tried to explain that Steven had saved
Prince’s life and had paid for him. He was no longer theirs. The child could
not understand but did leave the dog.
Very
soon the father of the family down the street came calling and asking for the
dog. Again Delbert explained that there would have been no dog if Steven had
not paid for its life. The father did understand and offered to repay all that
Steven had invested if he could just have the dog back for his children. He
assured us that he had not been aware that the dog was old enough to need a
license.
Since
Steven had been totally responsible for saving the dog and for all the expenses
that entailed, he was given full freedom in making the decision as to whether
he would give up Prince. Steven looked at the pleading children and felt sorry
for them. It took only moments for the sturdy eleven year old to decide to let
the children have the dog. Prince went to his new/old home wearing the collar
and tags Steven had purchased for him.
Claire
and Jesse Weldon and their children were fellow appointees and friends of the
Smith family. It wasn’t long before they heard Prince’s story. The Weldons held
a short family consultation, and then Jesse said, “Velvet will have puppies
soon. Would you like to have one of them to take Prince’s place?”
And
so it was that when Velvet’s puppies were born, one little roly-poly black one
with a white streak from his chin to his breast was given to Steven. That white
streak earned him his name, Lightening, and he was Steven’s constant companion
at work and at play until the day he was crushed beneath the wheels of Mrs.
Eldane’s car. All we had left of Lightening were our memories and his collar
and tags.
The
scrawny bundle of bones that the seventy and the children brought back from the
pound this time could not easily have been identified except that he was
wearing Steven’s tags. It was Prince! Poor, abused, neglected Prince! His
license had never been renewed, and when the family who claimed him moved to
California, they left him on the street with no home and no care. Someone
noticed the poor, starving waif and notified the police. We were living in
another part of town but finding us was no great problem for the officers. It
was then that they called.
Again
it was Steven who paid the bill for Prince’s redemption. He didn’t really have
to do it. We would have helped, but it
was his dog and he wanted to take responsibility for him.
With
all of the love and care that was lavished on him, Prince soon became a
rollicking beautiful dog. His inordinate terror when I picked up a broom bore
mute testimony to the treatment someone had given him during the time he
belonged to others. And he would not voluntarily come into the house under any
circumstance until we lived in Canada and the temperature dropped far below
anything the Texas born canine had ever imagined. Then he would enter the side
door, rush down the steps to the furnace room to his food and water. Occasionally
he would rest his head on his feet at the sill of the door that led into the
kitchen and watch the family at dinner or at work, but he would never venture
inside the room.
There
were a couple of incidents in Prince’s life in Canada that will always be
indelibly imprinted on our memories.
Most
of the family had been in camps almost all summer. Steven had been at home with
Prince. He would normally have been with us, but this summer he had bid for and
received the job of painting the mission house in Saskatoon. When we returned a
few days after school had resumed, Steven announced a bit hesitantly, “Mom, I
have to go to court on Monday, and I don’t want to miss school. Do you suppose
the judge would let you go in for me?
Needless
to say, I was taken aback. It was not like Steven to run afoul of the law. “For goodness sake! What have you done that
got you into trouble?” I questioned seriously.
“Nothing,
really, “ It sounded like a teen-age waffle to escape possible retribution
except that I knew Steven was not that kind of a teen.
“They
say I let Prince out of the yard to roam the streets, but I didn’t.” Obviously
there was a tale here that I should hear.
The
court was glad to allow me to appear in Steven’s place. Person after person
appeared before the judge charged with minor infractions of the law, for many
of whom it was allowing animals to roam the streets. Most of the people just
pled guilty and the fine was assessed. Ten dollars seemed the usual amount.
That might not seem like much for some, but we didn’t have ten dollars in our
appointee budget to spend on fines.
When
Steven’s case was called, I appeared before the judge. He was so intent on the
papers before him that he barely acknowledged my being there.
“How
do you plead?” he growled impatiently.
“Not
guilty , Sir.” I responded firmly.
“Huh?
How’s that?” The surprised judge glared at me as he peered over his glasses in
astonishment. “Don’t you know it will go better with you if you just plead
guilty and take your punishment?”
“But,
Sir, we are not guilty!” I spoke as
firmly as before as I looked straight into his startled eyes.
“How’s
that?” This time it was a real question. “Tell the court what really happened.’
“Sir,”
I spoke respectfully.” Our son’s dog was tied inside our yard fence when our
son left for school. He was tied over on the boulevard when your men found him.
We have no idea how he got there.”
“Is
that right, Bailiff. Check the record.”
Quickly
the bailiff rifled through the papers in his hand. Then he nodded. “Yes, Sir.
The report says he was tied with his own leash.”
“M-M_M,”
mused the judge. “Sounds like someone was being malicious!”
“Sir,
I don’t know about that.” I was becoming increasingly certain that I would not
have to pay that ten-dollar fine. “All I know is that the dog was tied.”
“Look
into that charge, “ the judge instructed the bailiff. He was no longer
officious in his manner. Speaking kindly to me now he said, “You go on home.
We’ll look into it and call you.”
A
few days later the call came. “The charges against your son have been dropped,”
the caller said. There was no further explanation, but our reaction was to
thank the good Lord for His blessing.
A
second incident happened after we had discovered blood on the snow in our
backyard. Prince was bleeding from an abscess on his anus the veterinarians at
Canada’s Western School of Veterinary Medicine informed us. They treated the wound then fitted Prince
with a muzzle made from a dog collar and a plastic bucket. The object was to
keep him from chewing open the wound that they had just sutured and prepared
for healing.
Prince
had been home only a short time when we discovered him chewing on his sutured
wound. His muzzle was arrayed conspicuously on our front porch! Some misguided
animal lover who had apparently decided that wearing the muzzle was some sort
of cruel punishment for the dog had entered our fenced yard and removed the
protective paraphernalia. Little did he or she know the harm their proffered
assistance had brought the object of their sympathy. I wrote a letter to the
editor of the local paper in an effort to inform the person or persons of the
real purpose of the muzzle. The young veterinarians at the school repaired the
damage and Prince recovered without further interference with his treatment.
Prince
lived to be an old dog. We kept him at home with us while Steven went away to
school and finally had a home and veterinary clinic of his own. When finally
the dog could no longer see or hear well and his body became wracked with pain,
we took him to Steven’s clinic and asked what should be done. After a thorough
examination of his beloved Prince, Steven decided his pet had suffered enough.
As we stood talking, Prince lay down on the table and quietly breathed his
last. His friend and benefactor had administered the injection so skillfully
that neither Prince nor I was even aware of his actions.
Chapter
29
Virgil
Perryman’s Story
Seventy
Harry Doty was in charge of the Reunion prayer services at Camp Sionito near
Bandera, Texas that summer of 1967.
Each morning’s gathering evidenced some new and wonderful inspiration by
which God blessed the people through Brother Doty.
This
particular morning followed a disturbing evening class in which the high priest
who directed the class made comments about the use of alcoholic beverages that
were contrary to the Word of Wisdom and the general belief of many of those
present. When an elderly brother had challenged the recommendation to take a
little wine before going to bed and had suggested that there were better ways
to relax, the instructor had responded almost flippantly, “But I like it!”
Following
the class, the youth introduced a skit into their campfire. One of the young
ones went into a bar with a paper cup and asked the bartender to fill it up for
him so he could take it to a friend. The bartender, while filling the cup,
asked pointedly, “Is that (and he named
the high priest) out in the alley again?” Everyone laughed, but the tension was
not entirely relieved.
Brother
Doty had not been either in the class or in the campfire, we learned later, and
no one had approached him about the matter. The prayer service the next morning
began with the admonition, frequently heard in such situations, that those
participating should be brief to give all a chance to speak.
During
the service a couple from a distant part of Texas arrived and quietly took
their place among the Saints. As soon as those immediately engaged in testimony
were finished, Brother Doty pointed toward the newcomer, whom he had never met
and did not know, and announced, “We will hear this brother’s testimony now,
and Brother, you may take all of the time you like!”
The
newly arrived gentleman had not asked for the privilege of speaking, but
without hesitation he took his place at the microphone that Brother Doty
signaled he use and began his story.
Virgil
Perryman had been a successful minister of another faith. He had a radio
program that was highly rewarding to him and his congregation both in
popularity and in monetary returns. He was an active participant with other
Protestant ministers in social as well as ministerial activities.
At
one of the social events, wine was served. When Virgil and his wife Christine
questioned the propriety of the practice, the host quoted Paul’s admonition to
Timothy to “… use a little wine for you
r stomach’s sake.” ( I Timothy 5:25 IV, 23 KJ) And so, reported the minister,
“We were started on ten years of hell!”
Brother
Perryman then described the awful addiction to which both he and Christine
succumbed. Because of their position among their parishioners, both those in
the local congregation and those of their radio audience, they tried to keep
their addiction secret. He told how they first tried to hide their beverage
containers in their own garbage. Then they began going down their alley,
distributing them among the garbage of others in the hope they would not be
found out.
The
more he drank, the more he needed to drink until finally he was taking vodka
into the pulpit with him. He chose vodka, of course, because he felt no one
would suspect that he was not drinking water. There would be no telltale odor
to give him away. What he did not anticipate was that his behavior would not be
so easily disguised as the contents of his glass.
One
Sunday morning as he was being greeted by his parishioners and complimented on
his sermon, one faithful deacon remained behind. When the rest were gone, the
deacon approached his pastor hesitantly. “That was quite a sermon.” He opened
the conversation.
Reverend
Perryman was accustomed to receiving the comments of his congregation as
complimentary and so accepted this one. But the deacon persisted, “As I
remember it, though, Samson slew a thousand men with the jaw bone of an ass,
not beat the hell out of them!”
The
words fell like a pulsating hammer on Virgil’s now listening ear. His speech
had betrayed him! He could no longer pretend to be the shepherd of his flock!
As quickly as he could he resigned his pastorate and left his radio ministry.
He, with Christine, joined an Alcoholics Anonymous chapter and began to try to
put their lives together again. God, seeing their need, sent Seventy Ed Barlow
and Elder Jack Basse to their rescue. They had responded to the gospel and now
found life new and wonderful with their Lord!
When
Virgil was finished, there was hardly an audible breath in the congregation.
Even Brother Doty waited a long moment before continuing the meeting. Many who
had been disturbed by the events of the night before raised thankful prayers to
a living God who sees and fulfills our need in wonderful and unexpected ways!
Chapter
30
Leaving
Weslaco: An unexpected Move
Our
stay in Weslaco, Texas ended abruptly. On five different occasions, most of
them by letter, we were assured that we would not be reassigned during any
foreseeable future. As a result, we prepared our summer schedule of camps,
Vacation Church School, missionary journeys, etc. with the intent of devoting
our entire summer to the work of the church. Work needed on the house would
just have to wait. Among the tasks we had been trying to accomplish a little at
a time were carpeting the stairs and paneling upstairs walls that had seen
excessive damage during previous occupancies. All our plans changed
unexpectedly!
Saints
throughout the Missionary Development Area in which we worked were finding it
hard to accept some of the changes being introduced into the programs of the
church. Delbert had expressed his concern to the apostle in charge of the area
and had discussed with him ways in which he felt the problems present methods
were spawning could be corrected. He was assured that the basic gospel was not
being changed, just the application.
At
a subsequent regional meeting attended by members of each of the three leading
quorums of the church, Delbert joked publicly about the changing application of
the gospel. The seventy was asked to introduce his old friend and previous
Graceland dorm mate, Bishop Pat Hansen. Prior to the introduction Del drew a
picture of the front of a church on the board. Decorating the front of the
church was an upside down cross. He told a little story about a builder who
left the completion of the church for which he was responsible to his helpers
while he went on to another work site. When he returned he found the cross had
been embedded in stone upside down.
The
minister of the congregation was furious! He demanded that the cross be torn
out and placed in an upright position. Knowing how costly that would be, the
builder assured the minister that there was nothing changed about the cross.
This was just a new application! From the back of the room came the high
pitched voice of a friend demanding, “Del! Have you got another job in mind?”
Whether the incident had anything to do with our new assignment, it was always
fun for Delbert to link the two for the telling.
We
had just returned from reunion at camp Sionito when we received the notice. We
were to report for training at the School of the Restoration in time for the
fall session that September. Delbert was to add the orientation of the new
appointee to the area to his schedule. We would need to secure our own housing
in Independence and to dispose of our house in Weslaco.
Brother
and Sister Harry Barto had been guests in our home both in Hawaii and in Texas.
We knew that Brother Barto was in charge of the Central Development
Association, so we wrote to him asking for help in finding housing. His
response was far greater than we could ever dream. We were placed in the home
once owned by Dr. and Sister Charles Grabske, a home equally as spacious as the
one we owned in Texas, well located so far as church and school were concerned,
and with a rent figure that we could hardly believe. The Harringtons, who owned
the house, were sacrificing to make it possible for us to have a beautiful
place in which to live during the nine months that we would stay in the city.
Disposing
of our house in Weslaco was a different matter. There were in our neighborhood
several houses that had been on the market all during the time that we had
lived there. In fact, it seemed that there was little effort to sell some of
the nicer homes until the owners reduced the price and the realtors themselves
were able to pick them up at bargain prices. We knew that we could not put our
house in the hands of a realtor.
But
there was little time to sell it ourselves, either. First there was another
camp that would take us back to Bandera. Then came Vacation Church School for
which I had responsibility. Delbert was supposed to help with it, but now he
had to spend that time orientating the new appointee to the area, which by this
time included a large portion of west Texas as well as the Rio Grande Valley.
All we could think to do was to put an ad in the paper and pray that God would
direct a buyer to our home.
The
Vacation Church School consumed every moment of the week for
me. I hardly had time to think about the house or
to pray for its sale. There was no time to worry that there had been no
response to the notice in the paper. I didn’t have time for a sale!
Friday
afternoon, Vacation Church School was finished. I had just returned home when a
man approached the house obviously looking it over as a prospective buyer
would. After a brief trip through the house he inquired the price and immediately
sat down with his checkbook. Then he thought better of it and asked if I would
wait until his wife could see it before selling it to another. He could have
her there soon after dinner. I agreed.
The
first man had barely left the drive when a second family arrived. Their
inspection of the house was even more cursory than the first when the man
offered to buy. I assured him that I had promised the first gentleman not to
sell until his wife saw the house. This gentleman argued that if the other one
had not paid something down, I had no obligation to wait for his return.
Besides, what assurance did I have that he would return? I had better take his
money and be sure about it.
At
this point the seventy returned from his travels through west Texas. After listening
to the gentleman’s pleas that we sell the house to him and my explanation of my
promise, he supported my decision. The man left reluctantly and called back
every few moments to see whether the other prospective buyer had returned.
Mr.
Brown did return and would have written a check for the entire purchase price
had we asked it. As it was, he paid us half and arranged to make the rest of
the payments over a year’s time.
By
now it was Friday night, Friday of the last full week that we could remain in
Texas. We were due to be in Independence, twelve hundred miles away, for
registration in the School of the Restoration late the following week.
Fortunately, our next-door neighbor was a judge. He said that he did the
fastest bit of legal work he had ever done to have everything ready for us to
leave by Wednesday. His wife even prepared dinner for the family after the
truck was loaded. I was late to dinner. I just had to take a shower after
working hard to leave the house as clean as I always had it on Sunday mornings
when I would stand at the front door and thank the Lord for providing us such a
lovely place in which to live.
Now
I stood at the same door and thanked Him for sending a buyer to make it
possible for us to leave without concern.
Chapter
31
Steven’s
Accident
Cold
snowy days and nights are a given in Saskatchewan, Canada for many months each
year. That is not always the case in Iowa where Steven was attending Graceland
College. So when spring break and the snow came at the same time that year,
Steven and his nature-loving friend Greg decided to take advantage of it for
some fun.
Both
the young men were quite inventive, but this time it was Greg who rigged up a
sled made from the hood of a car. It was designed to be pulled behind Greg’s
truck with a long rope. It had a steering mechanism that was ingenious and
supposed to make it a safe vehicle. The young men knew just the right hill on
which to test the invention. It was a long steep one far out in the country,
and it had a curve at the bottom that they were certain was negotiable with
Greg’s steering apparatus.
On
the way to the hill, the young men explored an unlocked Audubon cabin they saw
sitting on a ridge nearby. There they found information on the birds to be
found in the area and enjoyed watching those in sight.
Just
before they reached their chosen hill, the truck ran out of gas. They walked to
a farmhouse and borrowed some fuel with a promise that they would return the
next day and pay for it. That promise was not to be kept for some time.
Steven
volunteered to be the first one to ride the sled. He had just settled into
place when Greg started down the hill with a tremendous jerk that catapulted
the sled much too close to the truck. Seeing his mistake, Greg sped up to get
in front of the sled. That action jerked the sled again and again hurled it
toward the truck.
Steven
fought with the steering mechanism in an effort to gain control, but now Greg’s
truck tires were throwing snow into his face. He turned to the right to avoid
the snow and completely lost what little control he had hoped to gain. The
makeshift sled left the road and careened down the ditch completely out of
control.
By
that time the truck had reached the curve. With the sled trailing crazily off
the road, the speeding vehicle jerked once more and catapulted Steven off the
sled and into a barbed wire laden fence post.
Fortunately
Steven’s left leg hit the post first and absorbed some of the force behind the
catapulting two hundred pounds or more that was him, but his head met the
recalcitrant post immediately thereafter. Both blows were not sufficient to
stop his hurtling body, however. It shot through the barbed wires head first,
every barb ripping and tearing at his snowsuit and his exposed face. Like a missile
out of a slingshot, he was propelled nearly fifteen feet into a snow bank where
he lay bleeding, face down in the snow. His leg hurt. He felt sure it was
broken, and he didn’t want to move it!
As
soon as Greg was aware that he had lost his passenger, he stopped the truck and
ran back to find him.
“Greg,
I think I broke my leg!” Steve moaned.
“Yeh.
I think you did!” Greg agreed. Steven’s left foot lay at a crazy angle that
certainly could not have been a matter of choice. What Greg didn’t tell him was
that a leg was not all he had broken.
There
was a gaping hole in Steven’s forehead from which the blood oozed out mixed
with wire, staples and debris from a worm eaten portion of the post. His left nostril was ripped open as though
there had been a tremendous explosion form the inside of his nose. It was
exactly that, the doctors explained later. When the sinus above his left eye
caved in, there was a tidal wave of fluid from the sinus that was so forceful
that it blew his nostril wide open! His
face was bleeding from numerous cuts the barbed wire had inflicted mercilessly
as his body passed through the fence.
“Help
me!” Steven realized that whether he wanted to move was not the question. He
had to get help.
Greg
weighed some forty pounds less than Steven and was of slighter build, but they
were both strong. Together they finally got the injured man into the truck. By
now the pain in the foot was becoming excruciating though the other injuries
were not yet sensitized. In fact, only Greg was even aware of them.
Suddenly
Steven’s vision began to fade. He was not sure whether it was an injury to his
eye of which he had not been aware or if it was shock closing in on him. For a
time he contemplated what it would be like to go through life without sight.
Then he hazily began to remember his training.
Steven
was biology major in college with hope someday to be some kind of a doctor. He
had worked as a volunteer at the Sanitarium and Hospital at Independence,
Missouri as a young explorer scout. His training there made him aware that he
must not allow himself to go into shock.
His snowsuit still kept him reasonable warm in spite of the many tears
it had sustained. By talking incessantly, he tried to keep himself conscious
and awake.
Greg
raced the truck with its severely injured passenger back to the campus and
straight up the road to the infirmary, past the restraining barriers and up the
sidewalk to the door of the building. Steven thought that was going a little
far for just an injured ankle. They had made it to the truck. What made Greg
think they couldn’t get him up the walk to the infirmary? Not only did Greg
take him to the door by truck, but he hailed a passing student to help him
carry him in!
Once
inside the sparsely furnished room, Steven thought everyone was acting crazy.
Although he could barely see, he was sure the nurse was acting irrationally!
She seemed to be frantically gathering things together, but he thought she
seemed afraid to do anything for him. Maybe she was doing all of the right
things, but why didn’t she do something about his leg? It hurt dreadfully! In
spite of all his efforts he was going in and out of consciousness! If someone
didn’t do something soon, he just might go into shock! That was it. He was
going into shock! He told her so, and she told him to lie down.
The
next thing he remembered was that he was on a stretcher being taken somewhere
he couldn’t imagine. Four of his fellow students were carrying the apparatus
and the pain was unbearable. When he thought he could stand it no longer, he
prayed to die and asked God to help his parents understand that it was easier
to die than to suffer that awful pain!
What
the nurse had actually done was to call the doctor, who happened to be Steven’s
uncle, and asked him to meet them at his clinic where more adequate attention
could be given to all of the injuries. While he was waiting for his patient,
Dr. Nelson called Saskatoon to tell us that Steven had hurt his leg.
We
were not at home. There was a special business meeting at the church for some
reason long since lost to memory. Normally all of the family would have been in
attendance at that meeting, but this night, Douglas had not been well. Usually
that would not have deterred him from being at the church where he knew his friends
would be, but this night he stayed at home. He was there to get the call.
Immediately
Douglas called the church. I took the call there and thought little of it.
Norman was an excellent doctor. If Steve had hurt his leg, Norman would take
care of it. No problem!
It
seemed only a few moments later that there was another call from Doctor Nelson,
first taken by Doug then relayed to the church. Steve had not just hurt his
leg. It had been a most painful injury. Every tendon had been pulled from its
moorings leaving the foot flopping at will with only the muscles and attached
skin to keep it in some semblance of normalcy, a subtler dislocation, Norman
called it. He had set the foot and casted it.
But
Steven also had a more serious head injury. In addition to the lacerations on
face and forehead, the left sinus was caved in. There were bits of wire,
staples and debris from the post still inside. Norman, Dr. Nelson by
profession, was taking him to Des Moines where there would be a neurosurgeon
who would do the delicate surgery that was urgent if his life and mental
processes were to be preserved. Norman would go with him in the ambulance to do
what he could for him until he could receive the needed surgery.
This
time I took notice. I went back into the business meeting and told Delbert.
Immediately he asked those in charge to suspend business while we had prayers
for Steven, for Norman and for the other doctors who would have his life and
his mental capacities in their hands that night. My prayer was that none of his
injuries would cause permanent disability that would prevent his fulfilling the
purpose of his creation.
The
prayers of the Saints in that Canadian congregation were so Spirit filled that
when they were finished, we had the assurance that Steven would be all right.
We finished the meeting with the congregation, and immediately began making
arrangements for me to take the first available flight from Saskatoon to Des
Moines.
Our
first call after determining when I would arrive at Des Moines was to our son
Alan, who was working as a reporter-editor on the Red Oak, Iowa newspaper.
Since there was no way I could reach the city in time to be with Steven in
surgery, could he go? Of course, he would be there.
Just
how all of the arrangements were made in Des Moines, or who all should be
thanked, we will never know. Cal French was the Stake President and somehow got
the word out. There were elders to administer to the unconscious boy. I was to
stay at the home of Sister Myrtle Shoemaker, where Valle was staying while she
attended College that summer. Sue and David Phipps would pick me up at the
airport and transport me to and from the hospital daily as long as I was there.
Another sister would meet me at the hospital to be with me when I first saw our
injured son. Etc. Etc. It was amazing and wonderful!
Steven
remembered nothing of the ambulance trip to Des Moines, but he was told he was
very vocal with his moans and groans and cries of pain. When he awakened in the
emergency room of the Des Moines hospital, he was terribly thirsty. Why
wouldn’t they give him a drink? Ice cubes helped but did not satisfy his
craving for water! It was not until he watched the heart monitor attached to
the body of a fellow patient go flat that he realized that not just a broken
foot or leg had brought him to this place.
Steven’s
sight, too, had not righted itself. He recognized that periodically he was
blind, or at least partially blind, and again his mind explored the thoughts
and feelings of one who faces life n darkness. It was nice to have one of the
nurses pull up a chair beside his bed and talk to him during one of his lucid
moments. Somehow it took away some of the alienation. Later he said, “I
remember her fondly, even though I don’t remember her!”
Steven
remembered, too, the promise he and Greg had made to return to the farmer’s
home the next day and pay for their gasoline. Whether Greg would remember it in
all of the excitement of the evening, he was not sure, but he was sure that he
wanted that promise to be kept. When he was back at Graceland, he went by the
farm, and finding no one home, he left five dollars in the farmer’s mailbox.
Alan
did go to the hospital to be with Steven when he came out of surgery. As he was
wheeled out, a nurse asked, “ Is there someone here for Steven Smith?” Alan
stepped up, took one look at the form on the gurney and asked, “Where is
he?” Steven aroused momentarily and
commented on the color of Alan’s shirt. He called it the wrong color, but the
effort identified him to his brother.
Alan
was not the only one who failed to recognize the bloated, bandaged face of the
patient. Joe De Barthe, hearing of the accident, drove to the city to see
Steven. When he was told that the patient was in intensive care, he asked to go
in as a minister. His request was granted. Joe examined all of the patients in
the ICU and came out saying, “He isn’t in there.”
“Oh,
yes, he is!” He was assured, so he returned to the unit and again examined each
patient there.
Just
as the good minister was about to leave, Steven awakened and, seeing a familiar
form, he waved a feeble hand. Joe returned to minister to the young man whom he
had not recognized because of his injuries.
It
took a long time to get from Saskatoon to Des Moines in those days. There was a
long layover in Winnipeg that delayed my arrival by several hours. In spite of
it all, I flew and waited without undue concern. I knew from the peace that
followed the prayers of the Saskatoon Saints and our own that I would find
Steven on the road to recovery. He would not be permanently damaged in any way
that would destroy his life’s work.
Steven
was out of intensive care by the time I arrived, and the sister who was to be
there with me missed her appointment by a day. So I saw him alone and was
delighted that he was able to converse intelligently so soon after his surgery.
I could even laugh at his appearance. It reminded me of the way I laughed the
first time I ever saw him. The trauma
of birth had compressed his little face into a caricature of himself that was
at once humorous and lovable.
He
did look scary to one not so blessed by the Spirit of Peace. His face and head
were still swollen out of proportion to the rest of his body and his face was
covered with bandages large and small, some of which still held traces of
blood. Several times some of his friends came from Graceland to see him. Most
of the girls got only to the door and would recoil at the sight. Finally he
asked for a mirror so he could see what was startling them so. I went to the
gift shop to purchase one.
While
I was gone, someone of the hospital staff brought him crutches. It was the
first mobility he had experienced. When I returned with his mirror, he was
hobbling out of the bathroom shaking his head.
“Oh,
I wasted my money!” I moaned, pretending disappointment when I was really
delighted that he was out of bed. “You’ve already seen yourself!”
The
puzzled look he gave me was a mixture of disbelief and disgust. “No, “ he
reported. “I couldn’t see myself! That mirror in there is all covered with some
kind of brown crud! I couldn’t see a thing!”
What he thought was obscuring his reflection was actually reflecting
perfectly the bandages and swollen features of one very blessed young man who
was fortunate to be able to see at all.
Steven
was not Dr. Wintermeyer’s patient, but the good doctor came in daily to see how
he was progressing. His son Keith was a friend of Steven’s at Graceland. The
compassionate doctor made arrangements for the two young men to use his eight
hundred number to keep Steven in touch with happenings back at school.
I
was so optimistic that I did not really understand how very ill our son still
was after he was on the road to recovery. I thought I could read to him and
help him keep up with his classes at college, so I asked a friend to bring his
books. I tried, but after the fist paragraph or so from a technical text, he
would shake his head and ask me to stop. He could not retain the words or their
meaning in his still addled brain.
One
thing he could remember. There was a young Saint who worked in the laboratory
of the hospital. She felt moved upon by the Spirit of God to come to his room
daily after her work was done and talk to him. Her testimony of how God had
filled her life with joy and worth after a sordid childhood and youth that
seemed almost too damnable to overcome impressed him deeply and gave him hope.
Long after the trauma of the accident had faded into memory, he could still
remember the beauty of her testimony and the feel of her rough, dry hands made
so by the nervous stress of her early life.
Another
thing he could remember was the large valentine I had brought with me from his
Canadian family and friends. It was a huge red cloth heart Karen had appliquéd
on a large piece of white terry cloth. We hung it on the wall of his room, and
he could tell something about how much he had progressed as he checked the
brightness of that flaming red message of love as it appeared to his recovering
eyes and brain.
Steven’s
return to Graceland was much more rapid than we had any reason to anticipate.
It may have been more rapid than it should have been. Navigating by crutches
left him extremely tired for a long time. And it was impossible for him to
concentrate on his studies as he had normally done. He would always be grateful
for Graceland. Some of his teachers there put their material on electronic
mechanisms so he could go over and over it without the stress of having to read
it from the technical texts he was accustomed to using. His grades suffered,
but he was able to graduate with the rest of his class.
That
fall, he entered Canada’s Western School of Veterinary Medicine at Saskatoon.
For nearly two years he was often extremely tired and had great difficulty
concentrating and remembering, but again he was able to maintain his grades in
his college and was graduated with his class. His face will always be scared.
His foot will never be quite normal. His head will ache sometimes. His
injuries, though extremely serious, will never prevent him fulfilling God’s
purpose in his creation, and we will never cease to be filled with wonder at
the peace that Christ can give in times of unimaginable trauma.
Chapter
32
Doug’s
Delayed Healing
He
was twelve years old- a sturdy child in love with life. His usual return from
his music lesson was marked by a quick wave of his music as he deposited it on
the piano and rushed away to some new interest.
This
beautiful April day, his steps dragged. His eves were red with weeping and his
cheeks were wet with tears. His music hung limply in his hand.
“What
happened?” My concern resonated in my voice.
“She
hit me!” Doug’s voice was listless, and he didn’t raise his eyes.
“Hit
you?” I questioned incredulously. “Why?”
“She
said I wouldn’t use my thumbs. “ I could barely hear his words. Immediately I
remembered that last week there had been a message in bold letters across
Doug’s instruction sheet demanding, “ USE YOUR THUMBS!”
With
multiple exclamation points following for emphasis.
“And
did you use your thumbs?” I probed.
“I
tried,” Doug responded, “But they hurt.”
“Hurt?”
Doug had said nothing about pain interrupting his practice. In fact, now that I
thought about it, he had not practiced consistently for some time. I had
dismissed his reticence to commit himself to his piano practice because of his
involvement with the opera his school had just presented and with the coming
ping-pong tournament. Karen and Doug had each played a major role in the
“Mikado”, and Doug had advanced to the finals in the all school table tennis
tourney soon to be completed.
“Hurt?
What makes them hurt?” My first thought was of some school ground accident that
he had not reported. He was far from a sedentary child, and he did not find
little incidents worthy of complaint.
“I
don’t know,” was his terse reply as he studied his hands intently.
It
was then that I looked at Doug’s thumbs. Each of them was swollen into a
rounded, shapeless blob protruding at nearly forty-five degree angles to his
long slender fingers.
“Doug!”
I made no effort to hide my alarm. “How long have they been like this?”
“I
don’t know.” was his thoughtful reply. “They have hurt a little for a long
time.”
“Just
give me a minute to comb my hair. We are going to the doctor!”
This
was serious! The condition of Douglas’s thumbs called for immediate attention,
and here I had let it go on for no one knew how long! There had been repeated
trips to the doctor last September when Douglas had suffered a recurrent fever
and an unusually persistent sore throat. Dr. Pettigrew had dismissed the
problem as a minor irritation that would clear itself with palliative
medication, and he seemed to have been correct. Doug had not complained
recently and he had sung the role of Koko in the opera creditably.
This
time the good doctor was not so casual with his patient. “I think Doug should
see a specialist,” he informed me. “I’ll make an appointment for him right
now.” Then as soon as the call was made he announced, “ You may take him to the
hospital now!”
“Now?”
I questioned. It was not usual that one could get an appointment with a
specialist so readily.
“Now!”
Dr. Pettigrew repeated firmly. “Dr. Miller will be waiting for you.”
The
drive to the hospital was a short one. That was one of the nice things about
living in Saskatoon. Everything one could possibly need was readily available
in the city within minutes of home. There was even public transportation to get
there if one needed it, but right now we did not need it, thanks to the
generosity of Bill Calder.
On
the day that Bill Calder graduated from Western Canada Veterinary School of
Medicine, he came by the house, tossed the keys to his Vauxhall onto our
kitchen table and announced with a flourish toward the ancient vehicle parked
by the curb, “She’s all yours!” It was only later when the police came by and
tagged it that we learned that its license had also expired that day. When
Delbert offered to move it off the street, the kindly policeman suggested that
he wait until he was out of sight or he would have to give him another ticket
for driving an unlicensed vehicle! Fines aside, we were grateful for the car.
For the first time in our appointee life since we had been forced to sell our
Crosley some twenty years earlier, the family had transportation when the
seventy was in the mission field.
At
the hospital, there was a preliminary examination. Then Dr. Miller instructed
the nurse to get samples of Doug’s blood. “Most of my patients have to give me
so much blood that they are anemic before I get through!” the doctor announced
cheerfully as he walked away to await the results of the blood letting and
analysis.
I
soon knew what he meant. Instead of the little sample I had expected, the nurse
came with three large test tubes and filed them all with the rich, red blood of
our son. I thought briefly of the early medical practice of bleeding the sick
as a method of therapy and watched Doug’s face for some evidence of trauma.
There was no protest. Only an effort to understand what was happening to him
was apparent in the quizzical look he flashed in my direction. Then he held the
alcohol soaked pad the nurse gave him close in the crook of his arm while we
waited.
“He’ll
have to stay in the hospital!” was the
doctor’s crisp order when he finally did return.
“Tonight?”
I questioned as though some period of adjustment to this new state of affairs
would ease the situation for both Doug and me. That Doug would have to be
hospitalized because his thumbs were swollen was a development I had not
anticipated!
“Tonight!”
the doctor repeated, “ and you can expect him to be here for quite some time.’
Then, without deference to Doug’s feelings or mine, he continued,” I doubt he
will ever walk again!”
I
sat transfixed with shock. Doug offered his first protest. “Do I have to stay
tonight? Can’t I play in the tournament tomorrow and then come back?
“Tournament?”
Dr. Miller was incredulous. “With those hands and feet?”
“Feet?”
Dough had not complained about his feet and I had not noticed any serious
involvement with them. Obviously, the matter was settled. Doug would not have his chance at the
ping-pong championship. I was not even sure he had heard the dire prediction
for his future.
“But
what is it?” My fears were growing by the minute.
“We
don’t know yet, but we think he has rheumatoid arthritis.”
The
diagnosis, even though a preliminary one, struck terror to my heart. I knew
something of the seriousness of the diagnosis from my own studies and from
observing adult victims of the disease. For an active young boy to be victim of
such a debilitating condition was almost more than I could comprehend or
accept. Before I could ask any more questions, the doctor was gone from the
room and Doug and I were left to await the further instructions of admission
personnel of the hospital.
“I
will go home and get him some pajamas and other clothes.” I volunteered when
the paperwork was competed.
“Oh,
no!” the nurse who now had us in her charge protested. “We have clothes here in
the pediatric ward for our children here. We would rather use them.”
“Are
you sure you have clothes that will fit Doug?” I questioned.
“Of
course!” The tone was scornful. “He isn’t the first twelve year old we have
admitted here!”
But
Doug was not the average sized twelve-year-old Canadian youngster. He was much
taller than most and heavier than the charts said a twelve year old was likely
to be. ”Sturdy” was the term the doctor in Texas had used for him and his older
siblings. “Overweight” was Dr. Miller’s term for him.
So
it was with interest that I watched the nurse’s consternation as each of the
pants and shirts from the hospital’s available store proved to be ridiculously
inadequate. “I guess you had better bring him some clothes, “ she reluctantly
conceded.
So
began a long siege for Doug in the hospital. He was immediately put on a diet
to reduce the weight and copious amounts of blood were drawn to satisfy a
variety of tests. Now he was in a wheel chair, for his feet were badly swollen,
too. But his spirits were high. The wheel chair became a racing vehicle for him
and his newly found patient friends.
My
daily visits were greeted with glowing accounts of the movies he was seeing,
the fun he was having in the craft room, the school lessons he was being taught
along with others of his grade (and there were several of that age group there
with him), the frequent visits of Frank Ward, Orval Fisher and others of the
priesthood who came to visit and to pray for him. His cheerful acceptance of
his hospitalization eased my fears. My letters to Delbert, away in Alberta
fulfilling his commitment to his Lord and His people, became increasingly
optimistic.
Finally
the testing was finished. ”It is definitely rheumatoid arthritis,”
Dr. Miller
informed me. “He will not be able to go to school at least for the rest of this
year, but after he is at home, the school will send a teacher there to keep him
up on his studies. He will have to take twelve aspirin a day to try to curb the
inflammation. That may cause him to have stomach trouble. You will have to
watch that. You will need some warm wax applications to prevent his joints
stiffening. The nurse will give you instructions. And I will need to see him
next week.”
Abruptly
the doctor was gone and Doug was wheeled to our waiting car. Delbert was home
now and could carry him to his bed. We had converted the study-guest room of
the mission house into a room for our now invalid son.
The
reducing diet was discontinued. As a nutritionist, I preferred strong bones and
musculature to scale weights that conformed to “average” twelve year olds irrespective
of height or water retention resulting from disease. I had already watched
Doug’s three brothers use the extra weight acquired just before their teens to
fuel growth spurts that culminated in heights ranging from six feet one and a
half to six feet four inches. I was fully convinced that Douglas was following
their growth pattern.
April
passed and then May. Faithfully Doug’s in -home teacher brought him his
assignments, taught him, and checked his work. She said Doug was one of nine
students she served, all diagnosed as having rheumatoid arthritis. Doug was
lucky, she said, At least he was still on a small enough amount of medication
that it did not interfere with his thought processes. He did have a bout with
stomach problems that the doctor said bordered on stomach ulcers. After a
series of tests that included x-ray, his prescription was changed to coated
aspirin to give him some protection. Some of the other children, the teacher
told us, were on such huge doses of medicine that it was almost impossible for
them to respond to her efforts to teach. She felt that the visits had only
social significance in their lives.
With
the end of May, Graceland College closed. We had to go to Iowa to bring our
college sons home. Doug was showing no improvement. His hands and feet were
badly swollen. His joints were tender. Although he seemed to accept it all
stoically, it was evident there was trauma far beyond the pain. There were
episodes of bed wetting that were entirely foreign to this formerly confident
young man, and there were times when there were tears. We decided to take him
to our former doctor in Missouri for additional consultation.
Armed
with records from Canada, we started on our way. One stop we were making was
with friends in Nauvoo, Illinois. Harold and Mildred Smith were living in the
old William Marks home where there was only one bathroom. The bathroom was on
the first floor and we were sleeping on the second floor.
During
the night, Doug had to go to the bathroom. He awakened me. I told him I would
go on down stairs to open doors and put on
lights. I did just that and waited for him to hobble down. When he did
not come, I went back upstairs to learn the reason. There he sat on the edge of
his bed obviously in pain. His shoes were out of his reach, and the pain was so
intense that he could not step on the floor without them.
The
following morning, Doug was waiting his turn in the bathroom to brush his
teeth. Since there were many of us using that facility, I suggested that he
might use the kitchen sink some ten feet way from his chair. He looked at me
pleadingly and asked, ”Away over there?”
At
Independence we were disappointed. Doctor Link, with whom we had made the
appointment, was out of town but had left instructions for another physician to
care for Doug. Much to our disappointment, this doctor did not examine. Doug.
He merely looked at the Canadian records, pronounced them thorough and
prescribed prednisone. That was not the reason for which we had brought our son
all of the way from Canada. We had anticipated a thorough reexamination!
Back
in Canada, Dr. Miller was furious that any doctor would prescribe prednisone
for a growing child. He predicted all kinds of terrible consequences from the
brief use that we had made of the medication. I was soundly reprimanded for allowing such a dangerous happening for
our son. Needless to say, the prescription was discontinued!
Shortly
after our return from the States and the termination of the prednisone, Doug
had a very bad night. His feet were swollen even more than usual and the pain
was excruciating. During the night, he
was unable to awaken me and unsuccessful at getting out of bed by himself to
get to the bathroom . Wetting the bed embarrassed him profoundly, and when I
finally did respond to his call, I found him in tears.
I
had finished changing the bed and was rubbing his feet gently as I prayed for
the pain to subside so he could sleep. By now the Lord had heard thousands of
prayers in behalf of our loved one. There were the prayers of family and
friends both in and out of the church.
There were the prayers of the Elders who had administered to him repeatedly. My
own prayers had ascended constantly for months now, but tonight was different.
I had an overwhelming sense of the presence
of the Lord and the assurance that Doug was healed! In thankfulness, I fell to
my knees beside his bed and thanked God for nearly an hour while he slept
peacefully.
When
morning broke, I rushed to Doug’s
bedside expecting to find him entirely well. Instead, he crawled from his bed
with the same hesitancy with which he had
greeted every morning for such a long time. His feet were as badly
swollen as they had been during the night, but he said they did not hurt as
much as then. The only thing that seemed really different was his determination
to return to school and finish the year
in the classroom instead of at home.
To
this request, the doctor gave hesitant approval. “He can go,” he said,” only if
you will take him to school, carry him to his desk, and he will stay there
until you come to take him home.”
So
it was arranged. Each morning we took
our son to school. Each noon we carried him home to lunch and back again. It
was a rule at school that students could take their lunch to school only if it
was thirty degrees below zero or colder, and by now it was spring with no such
temperatures in sight. Each afternoon we carried him home again.
When
school was finished, our entire family went to the Hills of Peace Reunion
grounds in Alberta for the church’s family camp. This July my sister, Winifred
Negaard, and her family joined us from Missouri. Jim and Carol Negaard were not
just cousins. They were very close friends of Doug and his sister, Karen. We
could carry Doug to his classes and to
services in the mornings and evenings with them, but the afternoons when
recreation was in full swing were very difficult for him.
One
day he lay in his bunk crying. He hurt, but even more he wanted to participate
with the rest of the youth in the activities he loved so much. My heart cried
out, too, as I remembered that night when I had felt so certain that he was
healed. I didn’t understand it, but I was still sure the experience was not a
figment of my imagination. I had had too many experiences with the Spirit of
God not to have some idea of His identification.
My
sister was touched, too. “Why don’t
you let us take Doug back to the States
with us, “ she proposed. “We’ll take him to Norman and see what he can do for
him.”
We
had thought of taking Doug to Norman
when we took him to the States before, but I hesitated to ask my brother
to go to all of the trouble that I was
sure it would require to duplicate all of the tests the other doctors had
performed at such expense of time and effort. Fortunately for us, medical care
was almost entirely free in Canada. Even hospitalization cost only a deterrent
fee of two dollars and fifty cents a day. I knew that Norman would not let us
pay him, so I had not asked. Now things were different. We were at the end of
our hope so far as Doug’s treatment was concerned. Anything was worth a try.
“Would
you like to go?” I put the question a bit hesitantly. Doug nodded ascent
through his tears.
It
was nearly two weeks before we received Winnie’s first letter. They had taken a trip through the
West on their way home but were now well established back on the farm. Doug,
she said was down at the pond swimming with Jim and Carol. That was not too
surprising. Many arthritics find swimming a happy therapy., and the pond was
not very far from the house.
The
next letter said Doug was at the fort with Jim and Carol. Now that was different! The fort was quite a long distance from the
house and the only way to get there was to walk or be carried. We knew that Jim
and Carol could not carry Doug that far
alone and nothing was said about anyone
helping!
With
each letter we became more excited. Doug was working in the hayfield. Doug was
hoeing in the garden. Doug has no swelling in either hands or feet! Doug has no
pain!
Norman’s
test had shown no trace of rheumatoid arthritis. What he did find was a heart
murmur and other evidence of rheumatic fever. A short time on penicillin
therapy and the swelling and pain were gone and healing was well underway.
When
Doug returned to Saskatoon in the fall, we again took him to the hospital for
his check-up. This time a female physician came to check him first. There was no swelling or tenderness in hands
or feet . She asked how many aspirin he was taking. The answer was, “None”.
It
was then that she asked what was happening. I explained the penicillin therapy
that my brother prescribed with near miraculous results. Immediately she
reached for her stethoscope and began first to examine his chest and then to
look through his record. She looked puzzled and repeated her search of the
record.
“Are
you looking for a record of a heart murmur?” I asked.
“Yes,”
she affirmed, “but I don’t find one.”
“I
know,” I responded. “There was nothing said about one here, but my brother
found one, too.” I was certain this doctor had heard what Norman had heard when
she listened at Douglas’s chest.
The
doctor left the room and we could hear her giving her report to Dr. Miller and one she called Peter who seemed to
be accompanying him.
“He
is free of swelling and pain,” she reported to the doctors.
“How
much cortisone is he taking?” Dr. Miller’s voice betrayed the anger he had
expressed when he first learned that prednisone had been prescribed for Doug on
our first trip to the States.
“None,”
the examining physician replied.
“Then
it must be aspirin!” Dr. Miller’s voice was still very gruff. “How much aspirin
are they giving him anyway?
“None at all,” the female voice assured him, “but he does have a heart murmur!”
“I
don’t believe it!” Doctor Miller spat out the words. “They must be lying to you!” With a flourish he swept into
the room followed by a young medical student and the lady doctor.
Again
he asked the questions he had asked his associate, and received the same
answers from us. Like his associate, he reached for his stethoscope and
examined Doug’s chest . When he turned away without comment, the lady asked,
“Did you hear the murmur?”
“There
is none!” Dr. Miller declared firmly.
“Oh,
yes there is !” The lady doctor was every bit as firm as Dr. Miller.
“Then
my ears are ossified!” The doctor was clearly upset. With a flick of his hand
he beckoned his student to follow him as he turned to leave the room.
“Dr.
Miller!” The lady doctor spoke authoritatively. “Don’t you think Peter should be permitted to hear a distinct heart
murmur?”
“He
can listen if he wants!” The words trailed back as the door slammed behind the
retreating physician.
Dr.
Miller would not sign the necessary papers to put Doug on the government’s
program to provide penicillin for a year to victims of rheumatic fever. We
gladly paid that bill ourselves. And it was not long before it was announced
that Dr. Miller had been dismissed from the hospital staff .
We never did learn what happened to the other
children who were being given massive doses of aspirin for their illnesses, but
I have long believed that Doug’s proper diagnosis, treatment and recovery was
probably the clue to their proper treatment and recovery as well. After all,
there was quite an epidemic of sore throats when Doug first suffered his, and
the female doctor of some authoritative stature was checking Dr. Miller’s
patient for some good reason.
As
for the healing? When Doug underwent a thorough physical examination as a
slender young man, there was no trace of the heart murmur nor any other
evidence that he had ever had rheumatic fever. The Spirit was right. Doug was
healed. We just had to wait until God could work out the details and the
illness had finished its work on bringing
a blessing to others for the healing to become apparent.
Chapter
33
Father
May I?: A Memorable Worship Service
The
Saskatoon congregation waited quietly for the morning worship service to begin.
The announcement said the youth were in charge of the service, but there were
no youth in sight, nor anyone else who seemed to be preparing for the service.
There was not even a prelude playing, but the congregation was not restless. We
waited worshipfully. By now we knew that we could trust this group of youth to
have made the necessary preparation for an inspiring service.
Faintly
we began to hear the camp song, “Walkin’ Down Zion’s Road” coming from the
foyer of the church behind us. The song gradually grew louder as though the youth were approaching
from a trip to Zion’s road.
Suddenly
the doors at the back of the sanctuary burst open and the youth tumbled in
loudly making plans for a game of “Father, May I?” One volunteered to be “IT”
and ran to the platform at the front of
the building. Others dispersed, and it was not long until we were able to
identify each one. Only one
announcement was made. Patty Aird asked us all to put our fingers in
number 98 of our hymn books. We would be singing “Let us Pray For One Another”
at the close of the service.
Eldon
Wig was “IT” on the platform. We soon recognized that he was representing the
Christ. Steven Smith was in the balcony providing the voice of God. Keith
Jeffrey was posing as the Tempter,
otherwise known as the Devil. All the others were us, the people of the earth,
trying to make our way to a life with the Christ.
Satan
had a different plan for each of those asking permission to take the necessary
steps to approach the Christ. One
person is convinced that he dislikes the game altogether. He decides he
has better things to do and leaves the game before it really gets started.
Satan
convinces another that there is no reason to go toward the Master just yet. It
is silly to ask for one step at a time when one can ask for as many steps as he wants whenever he wants them and
reach his goal I plenty of tie. He gets Doug Fisher to take a seat near the
back of the room and hands him a comic book to keep him distracted from the
game.
Kate
Turnbull was well on her way when Satan approached her and showed her a more
exciting way to go. He convinced her that she could not stand traveling in a
pack. Carol Middleton wanted to go
straight to the front but Satan made her aware that she was not worthy to ask
permission for the necessary steps to approach the Master, Her progress was
painfully slow. One of the others had
become proud of her progress and God had to remind her that it was He who had given her the ability and the
permission to move so quickly. She apologized and asked more reverently for
permission to proceed. Another did not want to be embarrassed that way so she
only very humbly asked for baby steps so as not to offend. She took baby steps
almost as long as she was in the game.
Patty
Aird was really making progress. Every step took her nearer the Master, and she
refused to be distracted. Satan ran to her side and asked subtly if she
wouldn’t , please, sit down with him and tell him of the wonderful testimonies
she had experienced on her journey thus far. She hesitated only a moment
looking at the Master briefly before she went aside to the pew to rest and give
her testimony.
All
of this time God and Christ have been urging the players to stay on the straight path. God has been giving
permission for the proper steps to be taken and had been admonishing those who
have chosen to try to take shortcuts or to move out of the way. One who bragged
about the good grade he got on an exam last week by cheating was refused
permission to take the steps he wanted toward the goal. Another with a lesser
grade but one obtained by great effort by which she learned a lot was permitted
to move ahead.
At
one point Christ reminds one in the lead that she has been blessed richly and
asks why she is not telling her friends about God’s love for them.
She responds that it is just not the kind of thing
that usually comes up in a conversation. Christ reminds her that some of her
friends are having troubles of all kinds, financial, marital, health and she
knows where they can get help. He asks her if she does not care. She realizes
that she does care and that she can help. Her steps that have slowed now are
renewed with His permission.
Another
overhears the conversation and chimes in that he finds it really hard to talk
about the church. His friends turn him off when he begins to talk about tithing
or the Book of Mormon or modern day revelation. Christ advises him to start by
telling them that God loves them and wants them to be happy. Then tell them
what God has done for him.
While
this conversation has been going on, the Tempter suddenly breaks out laughing .
“You mean you really go to church three times a week.!” he says derisively.
Another hears the laughter and responds, “People will think I am crazy if I
start telling in them that I go to church three times a week, that I pay tithes
of a tenth of what I have, that we get healings when we pray for them. Nobody
likes a fanatic! I’m doing all right right now and people accept me. That’s
good enough for me.” Her baby steps grow
even shorter.
Periodically
, the voice of God is heard speaking through the scriptures, urging the people
not to forget His way, not to become lax in following nor fearful in asking
permission for the next step, neither to be proud of their achievements nor
remorseful for their neglect so that they forget His mercy and desires for them.
Now He reminds them to find his promises, to trust Him , to prove His promises,
to test them. They will all hold true. Some decide to test the promises by
asking for frivolous information. Their progress is stopped until they repent.
Another, overhearing the Lord’s instruction, determines to test God’s promise
by keeping all of the commandments as well as he can. He believes he loves God
with all his heart but determines to try harder to love his neighbors. He moves
forward with his Father’s permission . Others get into the spirit of the new
understanding of Christ’s promises and begin to respond and to move forward
with their Father’s permission.
The
response is too much for the Tempter. He singles out the one reading the comic
book and says confidentially, “Sure. These promises are all right for others,
but you have special problems, don’t you?”
That
one responds. “Yeah! It is one thing for the richer members to pay their
tithing, but I really need all of my money to pay my tuition and keep my car
going. And do you know how many commandments there are to keep? There’s no way
I could keep them all! When I ‘m older and settled down, there’ll be lots of
time to keep the commandments. I know God has a work for me to do, but I’m just
not ready for it yet. Later on it will be easier.” He doesn’t move from the
seat he has occupied since the beginning of the service.
By
this time one Is heard to say that she is really happy with her church life.
She loves going to church three times a
week. She always has something to contribute when the offering is passed. Christ responds that He and His
Father are not entirely happy with her. She isn’t doing badly, but when did she
really sacrifice for the needs of the church or for someone else? He reminds her that of one whom much is
given, much is required. Immediately she responds with resolutions to help her
brother with his car payments and to spend more time visiting sick and helping
those who have difficulty getting to church. She moves ahead.
Another
tells of the great guy she met the other day. “He says God speaks to him every
day. He says he prays for hours and can fast for days. He thinks it really
doesn’t matter what you do as long as
you remain at peace with God, and in a way it makes sense. He says most of what
we consider wrong is merely what society has arbitrarily said is bad, and it
changes as often as the weather. Anyway, “ she concludes, “I’m going to hear
him lecture again tonight. I like what he says!”
Christ
responds that she must study the scriptures to be able to judge what she hears.
Only those who “treasure up my words,” He explains, “will not be deceived.” The
one who likes what she hears protests petulantly that she is just going to hear
the man speak! She moves sideways instead of toward the goal.
Another
is sure his studying the scriptures has nothing to do with his progress to the
goal. He declares that he could jump forward if he wanted to do so. “I could
study my scriptures all of the time I am not in church. I could pray and fast
lots, but I would be alienating my friends who don’t go to church. I wouldn’t
have any time to be with them. I would be so changed, they wouldn’t know me!”
He stays right where he is.
God
enters the conversation reminding the players that it is He who made them. Why,
then , should He not know what would make them really happy? That is why He
gave them promises and commandments, He explained, because they lead to
happiness. “You are welcome to keep your
friends,” He assured them .”Only
don’t let them block your way to the kingdom. Get them to come along, too!”
“They’re
not the kind that would want to be in your kingdom,” one responds and turns
away from the Master.
God
affirms what Christ has said. “My purposes cannot be frustrated. They must be
accomplished, and there is not much time!”
Christ
pleads, “Not yet! Give them a little more time. We want as many to join us in
the kingdom as possibly can . It will be that much more joyous that way.”
God
responds, “It can’t wait much longer.”
The
Tempter becomes agitated, but speaks seductively to the one closest to the
Master. “Congratulations Just look how far you have come. You sure must have
worked really hard to get this far, and sacrificed a lot. Here, sit down and
take a rest. You deserve it.” She
hesitates momentarily but doesn’t sit down as she is being urged to do.
The
one who went to hear the lecturer again expresses her feeling about the man.
“That guy was really convincing last night. He claims he is a prophet sent to
the world to relieve it of its sadness and tension. The world sure needs that!
I am the way, he said.”
“I
am the way, “ Christ responds emphatically. “Only through me can you reach the
Father!”
“I
am the way!” the Tempter trys to speak authoritatively as he contradicts the
Lord.
“Many
will claim to represent me” , Christ speaks earnestly, “but beware of false
doctrines.”
“My
way is easier!” the Tempter nods convincingly. Two of the players join him.
The
one who has made the most progress with the least diversion now asks the Master
to take her life and make her whole. She dedicates her life to Christ’s kingdom
and joins him on the rostrum.
The
one who has been creeping forward with baby steps finally decides that she can
trust God with her life. She takes a full sized step and the Tempter protests, “Hey now. Don’t get greedy. You’re
out of your depth!”
Christ
counters with the assurance, “All you need is a particle of faith. I will lead
you along!”
Just
then God calls loudly , “The time has come. My Son has gathered His own!” Christ
reaches out and pulls everyone within his reach onto the rostrum with him. A
gasp runs through the congregation as we see the wonderful love of the Master
manifest as he tries to save as many as it is possible for him to reach.
The
sleeping comic book reader hears the commotion, jumps from his seat at the back
of the room and rushes forward calling out , “Hey! Wait a minute. I’m with you.
I was just now on my way to join you. Wait!”
Christ
looks at him sadly and shakes his head. “Not everyone who calls my name will be
with me in the end.”
The
voice of God speaks, “My purposes are great and require the effort of all who
would enter my kingdom. It must be built, and great are the rewards of those
who work diligently for it. Great sorrow awaits those who become sidetracked or
are waylaid.” With great emphasis he
declares, “The way to the kingdom is no game!”
With
Christ encircling those he was able to reach with His arms, Patty gave the
signal and we sang with the youth, “Let us pray for one another, for the day is
fading fast, and the night is growing darker while the scourge goes flaming
past. That our lamps may then be burning bright enough to guide our way. And
that we may be unwavering, for each other let us pray.”
Our
hearts were brimful. Tears graced the cheeks of many a faithful worshipper as
we filed quietly from the sanctuary that wonderful day, praising God for the
truth and majesty of that inspirational service with which the youth had
brought us to our knees in worship. To this day, I cannot remember it without
shedding tears of joy as I feel the presence of the Spirit with which we were
blessed then! *
( * The script for the service described in part
above was written and directed by Keith Jeffrey, a member of the Saskatoon
Zion’s League.)
Chapter
34
From
Drugs to Hope
Allan
was a young man to whom life had dealt an extremely severe blow. He had come
home from work that previous summer to find the door open and the screen door unlocked. Assuming that his sister
Linda had just run out to the store or somewhere equally innocuous, he went
straight to the bathroom to clean up a bit before going to his own room. Once
in his dimly lit room, he was amazed to see Linda lying on the floor!
“Linda!”
he called. “Linda! Get up!’
When
Linda made no move, he approached closer and nudged her with his foot. Still
there was no movement. Then he saw his rifle lying under Linda’s body. His only
sister had just taken her own life!
Allan’s
world was turned upside down! What kind of a God would let this happen to this sister be loved so dearly? What was
there in life for him? If Linda could have her life cut short so
unceremoniously, what might there be in store for him? Why should anyone put
forth a lot of effort to prepare for a life that might end in a moment of time?
Allan
quit college, and began to do drugs. When his parents left the house for the
day to work, Allan would draw the shades, brew a pot of tea, sit on the
Chesterfield, smoke pot and strum on
his guitar. He did take up the guitar so that when anyone asked what he
was doing, he could tell them that he was learning to play the classical
guitar.
Allan’s
grandmother loved the precious young man . In her later life, she had come into
contact with the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and
had married a gently elderly gentleman of that faith. In due time, she had
joined her husband in his faith, and now she determined to try to do something
to help Allan see that the future for him did not end with Linda’s death.
Grandmother
was wise in her approach. She first asked Alan if he would do her a favor.
Loving her as he did, Allan assured her that
he would be glad to comply with her request. It was then that she asked
if he would go to see a couple of her
ministers. Now, Allan has told many a congregation, ministers were the last
people on earth that he wanted to see, but he had promised! So he called his
grandmother’s ministers and asked for an appointment. It was to the seventy and
Ronald, who happened to be ministering in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, at the time , that she referred him,
Upon
arrival at the church, Ron was the first to greet him. Allan could hardly
believe his eyes. Here was a young man about his age, wearing a full beard and
dressed in casual clothes. Even when he met the senior Smith, there was no
clerical collar or any other evidence that he was in the presence of a cleric.
Their attire and demeanor caught him
completely off guard, but at the same time set him at ease.
The
conversation quickly advanced from getting acquainted to talk about the
promises of God found in the scriptures that hold hope for each of our lives.
All too soon, Allan noticed that half an hour was about to end. He had to
excuse himself to go put money in the parking meter at which he had left his
car some distance away. As he was preparing to leave, Ron suggested that he
drive the car up to the church where he could park it indefinitely without
cost. Parking at the meter had been deliberate insurance that there was a way
to escape the ministers if their presence proved to be obnoxious or even just
too intrusive into his life style.
Allan
did park near the church until it was necessary that the afternoon session be
brought to a close. Then he asked if he could come again the next day and bring
a friend. Without hesitation, the appointment was made. When he called later to
say that something had come up making it impossible for him to keep the
engagement, Delbert and Ron were disappointed and feared they would never see
the youth again. He did ask for a new appointment, however, and they prayed he
would keep it.
At
the appointed time on the third day, Allan appeared with his friend Tim.
Tim was curious. Later he told us that
Allan had asked him, “How would you like to see a couple of Hobbitts?” That
sparked his curiosity, and he came willingly to see these strange creatures.
After
quite some conversation that again centered on God’s promises, Ron opened his
Book of Mormon. Tim noticed and asked, “What is that book?” When the book was
identified, Tim continued, “You must have that book open for some reason. Can
you share it with us?”
Ron
was delighted and handed Tim the book open to Moroni’s counsel addressed to all
who were ever privileged to read the record. Tim read aloud , “And when ye
shall receive these things, I would exhort you that ye would ask God, the
eternal father , in the name of Christ, if these things are not true; And if ye
shall ask with a sincere heart, with real intent, having faith I Christ , he
will manifest the truth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost ; and by
the power of the Holy Ghost , ye may know the truth of all things. “
Tim
was obviously moved by the words he had just read. He rose to his feet and
facing the two ministers squarely he asked earnestly, “Is that really true,?
Will the Holy Ghost help us to know the truth of all things?” When the seventy
and the young priest who was accompanying him assured Tim that it was a promise
of God, the earnest young man then asked sincerely, “May I have one of these
books?”
Without
hesitation, a missionary copy of the book was produced from the seventy’s
possessions and given to Tim. Then it was Allan’s turn to be curious. “May I
have one , too?” he asked.
Delbert
had only one extra copy with him, but he knew there were some in the
display case of the local
congregation’s book steward. With a little dexterous
effort, he obtained a copy and gave it to Allan, assuring the young men that he
would compensate the congregation for
the copy he had just “borrowed” from them.
One
evening Delbert and Ronald were invited to the Grandmother’s home for dinner.
Much to their surprise , they found Allan, Tim and a young lady there as well.
Dinner was barely over and there came a slight lull in the conversation.
Suddenly Allan asked, “Well! Aren’t you going to tell them?”
“Tell
the what?” The ministers were taken by
surprise.
“Tell them about the promises that you have been
telling us about !” Allan sounded as though they should have known without
having to be reminded!
So
the seventy and the priest went to the car, brought their scriptures inside,
and had the joy of again sharing the beautiful promises of a living God with
people who were anxious to hear.
Allan
and Tim continued to visit their “Hobbitts”, to read their new found scriptures
and to get better acquainted with the Christ those scriptures portrayed. One
night , Allan was preparing for bed
when he prayed a fervent prayer. He asked earnestly how he could know whether there was such a
Christ as Delbert , Ron and the scriptures described or could it be that he was
just “praying to that wall”.
Suddenly
, he testifies, the light in the room
became increasingly intense, and the
Lord himself stood beside his bed, radiant in that light. When he saw him,
Allan says, he felt so unworthy that he just rolled up in to a ball down beside
“that wall” and cried like a baby. The Master reached down, picked him up and
cradled him in His arms as one would cradle a frightened child.
Allan’s
first concern was for his many sins and the wasted time of his depression
following Linda’s death. The Lord assured him of His forgiveness. Then he asked
the Lord if he would let him minister for him. “If you will,” he promised, “I
will go up and down the streets telling everyone I see who you are and what you
will do for them!”
With
the assurance that his ministry was very welcome, he next had to know whether
Ron and Delbert were telling him the truth about Christ’s promises and His
church. Leaving the church of his family and entering one so little known as
the Saint’s church was not a trivial choice for a young man to make, but when
he asked the Lord, His only answer was, “Allan , how have you come this far?”
Allan
knew that without the hope of the
Christ that these two ministers had brought him, his life would still be a
hopeless quagmire of depression and morbid
searching for meaning in his drugs and his music. He didn’t answer the
Lord with words, but as he understood the significance of the Lord’s question,
His unspoken answer cleared the way for the most important decision of his
young life. Allan was baptized into Christ’s church determined to love and
serve this Savior who had rescued him from a living hell.
A
few weeks after Allan’s first introduction to the two “Hobbitts”, there was a
youth meeting in the area. Delbert and Ron had gone on to other areas of
ministry but Ron came back for the meeting. During the discussions, Allan would
frequently ask, “Doesn’t the Book of Mormon say_ ?” and he would give quotation
appropriate for the topic at hand. Usually Ron would finish the statement just as it was in the scripture, thus validating Allan’s contribution to the discussion. A number of
the youth were talking about Allan and his knowledge of the scriptures after the
session. “Why, he constantly quotes from the Book of Mormon!” they said. “He must really have studied that
book”.
“Yes.”
Ronald agreed. “He has had it for all of two months or so now!”
A
few months later there was a youth retreat at Wainwright, Alberta. During the
retreat, Ron was leading a small group discussion, and they were talking about
hope. Without hesitation , a number of the
young ones asserted, “Why! Everyone has hope!”
Ron
turned to ‘Allan and asked, “What about it, Allan? Does everyone have hope?”
Allan
spoke from the depths of his suffering. “Absolutely not!” he declared
emphatically.
“Tell
us. What’s it like, this being without hope.” Ron pressed the issue.
Thoughtfully
the youth answered, “Why, being without hope is like being in a box where there
is no light. Then when hope comes, it’s like the box bursts open, and there you
are in bright sunlight!” Then Allan stopped and corrected himself. “No!” he
said, “it’s like being dead and suddenly you are alive!”
Ron
had to go on to a paying job that next year, and Allan, who was now a
young priest himself, accompanied the
seventy and the rest of his team on a year’s worth of missionary journeys
throughout the central part of Canada and some portions of the United States of
America bearing his testimony of a God who keeps His promises and gives the
hopeless hope!
Chapter
35
God
Cares
Tim
Affolter accompanied his friend, Allan White , to a church in Edmonton,
Alberta, Canada to see a ‘couple of hobbits”. To his surprise, they were two
ministers, one a young man very like himself and the other the young man’s father . Both were enthusiastic
in their affirmation that God had made
promises to mankind that He would always keep if we would fulfill the
conditions that God set on those promises. During the conversation Tim noticed
that the younger of two was holding an open book in his hand.
“You
must have that book open for a reason,” Tim observed .
Ronald
responded enthusiastically, offering Tim his Book of Mormon and designating the
passage with which he was concerned. Tim took the book and started to read.
“And
when ye shall receive these things, I would exhort you that ye ask God the
eternal Father, in the name of Christ, if these things are not true;” Tim rose from his seat and started to pace
as he read.
“And
if ye shall ask with a sincere heart, with real intent, having faith in Christ,
he will manifest the truth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost; and
by the power of the Holy Ghost, ye may know the truth of all things.” Suddenly
the young man stopped reading . Turning to the two ministers he asked
earnestly, “Is that really true?”
More
than twenty years later Elder Tim Affolter visited our home with his wife and
four sons and recalled those pivotal events in his life that brought him into
Christ’s church and have held him there, with the help of his good wife and
subsequent experiences, for almost a quarter of a century. “ The thing that
surprised me,” Tim’s voice was animated as he began to recall those early experiences,
“was that the scriptures contained promises that God had given us where if we
fulfilled His condition, then God was bound to fulfill His part of the promise.
I had never pictured God as a being who cared much about us, let alone one who
could be bound by an agreement or promise that He had given us in the
scriptures.
“You
introduced me to a very real God,” Tim spoke directly to the seventy, “a God
who was very personal. You introduced me to a God who cares!
“I
had grown up in the Catholic church,” the narrative continued, “and in the
Catholic church, there was always the priest between me and God; and I guess I
was never encouraged, or else I never took advantage of doing it, to develop a
relationship with God. That’s what you , Delbert and Ron were holding out to
me, that I could have this relationship with God. You were teaching the youth
about eternal life and how proving the promises led to the building of the
Kingdom of God, and that was something that I got quite captivated with!”
It
was the loving actions of the Zion’s League of Edmonton and the Alberta and
Saskatchewan districts of the church who then brought Tim into the church. Tim asserted. “I wasn’t the
most savory character when I first joined the league. I had long hair and I was
into drugs. I just wasn’t living a life that was very exemplary . I was kind of
running away from everything, and yet that group of youths at the eternal life
series and you, Delbert, and Ron, just pulled me in- just loved me into the
church!”
As
Tim studied with the youth and the two
“hobbits”, he said, he became convinced that what he was learning about eternal
life and proving the promises was true, that there was a possibility of having
a relationship with God that would be very real.
“I
remember the first time I ever asked God for something,” Tim reminisced. “I was
alone in my mother’s apartment and had
a bad sinus headache. I’m prone to sinus headaches, but I think that smoking
marijuana and cigarettes and everything else at the time made it even worse.
The headache that night was just driving me
crazy. I searched all over the apartment for just anything I could take,
I couldn’t even find an aspirin!
( the next
day I looked in my mother’s drawer and there was a capsule of 222’s sitting
here and I could have taken one of them , but I couldn’t see it the day before.
Maybe God didn’t want me to see it!)
“Anyway,
I remember this terrible headache, and I wandered around the apartment for
awhile then decided I would just go to bed. So I was lying in bed. I felt like
my head had two vises on it, one from
front to back and another from side to side- just terrible! So I propped myself
up with my face very close to the wall, and my chin propped on the pillow and I
prayed. I wasn’t very good at praying yet, at least not very flowery prayers. I
basically said, “Well, OK God. I don’t know how to do this very well, but if
you can help me with this headache, I’d sure appreciate it.” My prayer was
about that simple. I didn’t even say ‘In Jesus name’ or anything like that! It
was a direct request to God, and I had never done anything like that before.
“And
the moment that I asked, it was like a little breeze blew across my face- like
somebody was in front of me and whiff , blew lightly on my face. Of course,
there was a wall directly in front of me, and I knew nobody was there. But I
felt this little breeze go across my
face , and as it passed, my sinuses cleared, completely clear.
“I
was absolutely shocked! IN fact I was scared! I thought, ‘Wo! This really works!
I’ve got to be careful what I ask for!”
The
experience led Tim to asking God for other things in his life and eventually it
became apparent that he must ask whether he should be baptized- whether he should join the church of which his young
friends and the two ministers were a part.
“Now
I was raised a Catholic. Most of my family was Catholic, and I had a lot of
friends in the Catholic church, “ Tim explained. “When I heard people say that
this, the RLDS church, is the only true church, and others, especially the
Catholic church is an abomination, the church of the anti- Christ- I didn’t
like hearing that stuff! So my prayer was whether God wanted me to join this
church or not. I didn’t want to hear whether this was the true church or
anything like that. All I cared was that I loved God and because of his
reaching out to me, I wanted to serve Him. So all I wanted to know was whether
this is where He wanted me to serve.”
Time
came for a youth retreat in Ribstone,
Alberta. The meetings were held in the high school at Chauvin. On Friday, Tim
says, he decide that this was to be the weekend that God was going to tell him
where He wanted him to serve. “So I sort of gave Him a timeline.” Tim recalled.
“A little bit arrogant!” He added with
a smile. “I told God, ‘OK Lord, if you want me to work in this church, I want
you to tell me through Delbert. I want Delbert to tell me that this is the
church you want me to work in . I don’t want to hear any other words! That’s
all I want to hear! Just that!’ I set some awful limitations!” Tim shook his
head in wonder at the memory.
Tim
then determined to fast from Friday night until the retreat was over or until
he received his answer. Each time there was a meal or a snack, the young
supplicant would go off by himself, read his scriptures and pray. “I’d say ,”
he recalled, “Remember God, I’m waiting
for this answer this weekend. Better tell me!”
Friday
evening passed. Tim had no snack with the others. Saturday breakfast passed and
Saturday lunch. Still there was no answer.
“So by the time Saturday dinner time came around I was getting kind of weak,”
Tim explained. “I think it was God’s way of giving me some humility. Every time
I’d go off to myself, I’d think, ’What is this? Why am I not getting my answer?
What is taking so long?’ A day seems long when you’re fasting. At least it did
to me because I wasn’t used to doing it!”
With
Saturday evening dinner, Larry Boot was to be speaking. Although Tim would have
liked to hear Larry, since the talk came with the dinner, he excused himself and went upstairs in the school. There
he seated himself at a teacher’s desk and read his scriptures a little bit but
mostly he prayed, “Lord, why aren’t you answering me? Is it that you don’t want
me to join this church?”
“As
soon as I opened the possibility that God didn’t want me to join this church, “
Tim said, “ it felt like someone came in and slipped an arm around my shoulders
and said- almost like they whispered in my ear, ’You know, you’re putting
yourself through a lot of grief for nothing.
There really is no such thing as God! You’re being led down a garden
path, and you’re putting a lot of energy into something that doesn’t really
exist except in the minds of the people who are doing it!’
The
voice was persuasive and the startled young man began to think, “Maybe that’s
true. Maybe there is nothing to this church. Maybe it’s just a nice club to
belong to !”
Then
just as suddenly Tim became aware that no Spirit of God would testify against
God saying that there was no God or that God did not care for him! “I suddenly became aware that it was the Spirit
of Anti-Christ or Satan or whatever you want to call it whispering in my ear,”
he declared,”taking advantage of my moment of weakness.”
Light
was coming through the windows, but as soon as the realization that it was not
God who was speaking came to Tim, the room became completely dark. “It was as
if a great darkness surrounded me,” Tim described the event,” just like a great
big buffalo robe or something like that was thrown over me; and it was totally
dark in the room, absolutely smothering, and I was afraid! I was really afraid,
and I called out, ‘ Jesus, help me!’ but I felt like my prayers were only going
that high.” Tim held his hand just above the top of his head to illustrate.
“Just above the top of my head they were hitting this blackness. But the more I
called on the name of Christ and asked for release from that power, the more
the darkness lifted until finally the room was light again and I could see my
way to get out of there. And that’s just what I did. I made a beeline for the
door and got the heck out of there!”
Tim
was pretty discouraged by the whole experience and was headed downstairs and
out of the building when Delbert stopped him. Dinner was over and the group was
assembling for a panel discussion. The seventy invited Tim to join them. At
first the puzzled young man declined the invitation. His mind was reeling.
“What on earth is going on ?” he questioned. “Here I am thinking of joining
this church. I’ve prayed to God and the Devil answers! What kind of a line have
I got, anyway?” But the seventy persuaded him to come into the room with the
others even if he just sat back and listened.
There
were five people on the panel with two rows of chairs arranged in a semicircle
for the youth. Tim pulled a chair outside the back semicircle so that no one would make a mistake and think he was
really participating in the activity. The discussion proceeded on items of
doctrine about which Tim thought he had no interest at all. He was still after the very basics of the gospel! But at
one point he did raise his hand and ask, ”You know that promise that says that
once you study it out in your mind and ask about whether it is true, then if it
is true, you get a burning in your bosom?”
Although
Tim is not certain to whom the question was directed Delbert answered, “Yes, I
remember that, and it’s true.”
Tim
asked, ”What happens if you don’t - if
it isn’t true?”
“Well,
you get a sort of a cold feeling or stupor of thought, “ was the seventy’s
response. “You just won’t feel particularly one way or the other. You won’t get
that spirit of confirmation.
Tim
cued in on the cold feeling and thought, “Well, that’s what I had upstairs, so
that cements it! I know that I probably should not join the church.” He did not pursue the question further.
After
the panel closed, the group stood for a circle prayer. The youth in the back
row pulled a reluctant Tim into the circle, but he did not offer a prayer. He
did listen intently, however, when he heard Delbert’s voice praying, “Lord,
please help those who are here this weekend seeking to know whether you want
them to work in this church.” Tim says, “My ears perked up . That was close,”
and the young man waited expectantly for more, but the prayer was ended. The
seventy said no more. Tim was disappointed.
The
prayers went on around the circle. Suddenly and unexpectedly Delbert was
praying again. This time his prayer was, “Lord, help Tim and Glen (Glen Bounty
was also inquiring about his place in God’s plan) to know that this is the
church in which you want them to work.”
Tim
says, “And I thought, ‘Bingo! Those are the word I’ve been waiting for!”
After
the prayer ended, Tim recalled, “I kind of buttonholed you , Delbert, and
pulled you aside, and said, ‘What was that you said there in your prayer?”
The
seventy explained that during Larry Boot’s talk about how the Lord’s Spirit had
led him into the church, that same Spirit made it known very clearly to Delbert
that he was to let Tim and Glen know that God wanted them to work in His
church. Tim says, “There was the answer to my prayer. It had come through the
person that I wanted and in the words that I wanted and in the time that I
wanted! To this day it amazed me that God would let us- let me put such
limitations on how he will respond! But He loved me enough to see through my
brashness!”
Tim
continued, “And I remember that I went outside the school and knelt in the
snow. It was February in Chauvin, and I
knelt down in the snow and prayed a prayer of thanks to God for
making His will known to me- for
leading me to this church. I was looking up and I was crying and so had my
glasses off, and I’m nearsighted; but you
know, it was as though I could see every star as clearly as if I had
binoculars and even more! And I just had such a Spirit of confirmation that
this was right! That this was true!
“That
testimony has held me in the church, with the help of my good wife who has kept
me from wandering from time to time. It has held me in the church all these
years and will hold me until the day I die. And I still praise God for it!”
Delbert
listened to Tim’s testimony with deep emotion stirring his memory. “I was doing
some praying, too, but I didn’t - wasn’t aware that was what you were doing when
you kept leaving the group.”
“No!”
Tim replied, “You couldn’t have been. I didn’t tell anybody!”
“That
was your- that was the turning point?”
it was the seventy’s half question, half statement.
“Yes!
It certainly was. There have been times since then that I have asked God for
specific blessings and have received very specific answers as well, but that
was certainly the first one! I think it’s like a baby taking its first steps.
There has been and there will be lots more steps to be taken- a lot of growth.
I don’t think the Savior ever stops challenging us and giving us opportunities
for growth!”
With fervency born of long experience, we all
praised God with Tim and his family that we know a God who cares!
Chapter
36
Gretchen’s
Grief
When
Gretchen phoned, I knew it was a desperate call for help. Surely thins
beautifully talented young wife and mother of three could not be seriously
thinking of suicide! Why would she even
mention it except to get quick relief
from whatever it was that was troubling her?
Quickly
I ran down the stairs to where Delbert was working at his desk. “Gretchen needs
help!” I spoke urgently.”Please call her!”
At
first Gretchen refused to talk to the seventy insisting that everything was
fine with her. My husband trusted my message to him and so
believed
otherwise. He soon gained the distraught young woman’s permission to come to
her house to talk. With all possible speed, we drove from the mission house to
the modest home of the troubled woman.
Gretchen
was discouraged. There was not doubt about that . It was not easy to cope with
a child with severe handicaps under the best of circumstances. But that could
not be a the root of her present depression. Neil was making amazing progress
since he was getting therapy and the family was getting instruction concerning
ways to help him.
The
seventy had helped bring about that situation in the home after our first visit
there. This mute child, who could do nothing positive for himself, was
dominating the family with his incessant violent activities. He could not walk
or even stand, but he could roll and roll he would from one wall to the other and pound with head or hands or feet
so there was continual noise drowning out conversation or TV and even muddling
efforts to think. The family thought the boy knew nothing of what he was doing and so could not be disciplined.
Delbert suggested a play pen, well equipped with toys to keep him occupied but
able to prevent his reaching the walls. It was interesting to see how quickly
the walls were no longer pounded when the play pen was just placed in the room.
Neil knew far more than the family ever suspected! One thing was certain , he
quickly learned how to keep from being confined to that pen!
When
it was apparent that he was teachable, the family was encouraged to get help
from agencies designed to teach children with disabilities. To everyone’s
amazement, it was not long until the young one was feeding himself and
participating in family activities, a smiling responsive young member of the
family.
“What’s
up?” Delbert could be casual and direct with this young woman with whom we had
maintained a close friendship for so
long. We had even been with the family through the adoption of their little
girl shortly after we arrived in Canada. Gretchen and her husband brought the
beautiful little one to our home for her first meal in the city the day they
brought her to her new home.
“I
just can’t go on!” Gretchen moaned. “I’m so wicked!”
“Now!
Now! “ The seventy comforted her. “You can’t have done anything so bad that the
Lord can’t forgive you!”
“That’s
just it”, moaned the unhappy woman. “I thought when I was baptized that all my
past would be washed away. But it
wasn’t ! It keeps coming up to haunt me!”
“Would
you like to tell us what it is that haunts you?” The seventy was certain that
whatever it was, this young woman needed to talk about it.
The
story spilled out like captive waters gushing over a broken dam. All of the
pent up guilt tumbled from her mouth as though it had been waiting for this
moment to escape.
The
story went back to her childhood with
all of its fears and frustrations. When she was fairly spent with emotion,
Delbert reached out to touch her hand.
“When
you were baptized you gave your best self to the Lord, didn’t
you?” Gretchen responded with a tearful
affirmative nod.
“But
you didn’t giv3e him the bad things, did you?”
This
time the nod was negative.
“Don’t
you know that He died to take away the bad things that you can do nothing
about? He doesn’t want just your best self. He wants all of you!” he affirmed.
Then he asked Gretchen to get her Bible.
There
the seventy turned to the fifty-third chapter of Isaiah and had Gretchen read
with him from verse 4-6.”Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our
sorrow; yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God and afflicted. But he
was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities; the
chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes are we healed. All
we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and
the Lord hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.”
Tears
still sparkled in the young woman’s eyes as she looked up questioningly at the
seventy.
“Don’t
you see?” the minister’s voice was almost pleading. “The Lord took all those
things that trouble you to the cross with him. He knew there would be things
happen in our lives that we could never fix. So he bore all our griefs for us
so we could be free of them. He wouldn’t want you to have to go through what he
did to get rid of them. He knows there is no way you could help what is so long
past. All he asks is that you give that burden to him and freely use those
wonderful talents he has given you to bring joy to your family and to those
about you.”
“But
what can I do?” Gretchen was still not certain she understood.
“Oh,
Gretchen!” and the seventy began to count many of th eways this dear one was
already giving outstanding servide. “Most of all, accept the freedom from your
past that Jesus Christ offers you so that which you cannot change will not
hamper your ministry now. Give Him al of you.Not just your best self!”
“I’ll
try!” It as barely a whisper, but there was a fresh smile on the tear-stained
face, and the hug we each received told us for sure that this young mother had
a new lease on life.
Chapter
37
Ellen’s
TestimonyIs Heard Around the World
Ellen
Pow sat in the chair one of the Gracelanders had brought outside Unit A for
her. Around her, students from many nations fanned out to hear her testimony.
Karen had invited all of her friends to meet the gracious octogenarian who was
seeing Graceland, and the other properties of the church of which she had just
become a part, for the first time. Humbly with pathos and humor she told her
story.
Ellen
had grown up I a very faithful Catholic home. All of her life she had tried to
do what she thought her Lord would have her do. Her Catholic faith told her to
do some things that she could not reconcile with the Lord she read about in her
Bible. When she asked questions, she was advised to stop reading her Bible.
As
a young woman she was visited by an angel who assured her of God’s love for her
and encouraged her to continue her
search for what the Lord really wanted her to do. Eventually she quit
attending Catholic Mass and began searching in other Christian faiths for the
God of her scriptures. The Baptists seemed to have some of the elements for
which she was searching, and she was baptized in a memorable experience that
she knew was graced by the Spirit of God.
In
her young womanhood , as a wife of a well respected Baptist man, she became the
good friend of Tina Loucks, a member of the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter Day Saints who, like Ellen, lived in Sasakatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada.
Tina and Ellen often discussed the scriptures that meant so very much to them
both, and Tina often invited Ellen to attend women’s activities and missionary
meetings in her church.As she became acquainted with Tina’s church friends,
Ellen sometimes invited Tina’s church women to meet in her home .
As
Ellen’s interest in what she was hearing in those meetings with the Saints
increased, her husband’s aversion to her association with the group and with
Tina grew. On the days that she invited some of the women into her home, she
had to be certain to remove all evidence of their presence before he returned
from work in order to keep peace in the family. Every piece of the Saint’s
literature, too, had to be carefully concealed if it was to survive his antipathy.
It
was in 1955 when the seventy, Zed Zed Renfro, known as Z.Z. Renfro in the
States, came to Saskatoon that Ellen became convinced that she had found that
for which she had been searching all of her life. She had found a Gospel that
reflected the God she read about in her scriptures. She even found more
scriptures that ran true to her. After an especially Spirit filled encounter
with those scriptures, she wrote in her Doctrine and Covenants that Tina had obtained for her, “This day,
1955, I know this book is true!’
Ellen
was anxious to affiliate with the church that she now believed was the one the
angel had assured her she would someday find, but her husband would not hear of
such a thing! When she appealed to Brother Renfro he advised her to accede to
her husband’s wishes and remain with him in the Baptist faith until the day
would come when she would be free to make her own choice without disturbing her
marital realtionship.
For
some twenty-five years Ellen was an active member of the Baptist faith. She
held leadership roles in church school, women’s counsels, on church boards, in
every conceivable position available to a women of that persuasion . At the
same time she kept in touch with her friend Tina and eagerly accepted every
opportunity to hear more of the faith to which she now believed the Lord had
led her.
Early
in our Canadian Experience we met Ellen and frequently shared with her our
perception of the gospel as we listened eagerly to her inspiring testimony of
the Lord’s action in her life. We were aware of her husband’s death and burial
and her subsequent move from her modest but beautiful home overlooking the
Saskatchewan River, but had refrained from intruding on her family’s life
during this period that we felt belonged to her and her life-long friends,
particularly those of the Baptist faith.
Then
early one evening our telephone rang and Ellen invited us to come to her new
home. There was a sense of excitement and urgency in her voice as she assured
us that she had news for us that she thought we would enjoy. Hurriedly we made
our way to the beautifully appointed apartment into which she had moved soon
after her husband’s death.
Ellen
was all smiles as she greeted us at the door. She seemed just bursting with
good news. We were barely inside the door when she announced happily, “I want
to be baptized!”
As
soon as we had expressed our elation at the news, Delbert remembered how Ellen
had first become convinced of the truthfulness of the gospel through Brother
Renfroe’s ministry.
“Let’s
call Brother Renfro.” Delbert suggested. “He will be delighted to hear of your
decision!” then as an afterthought he asked,”Would you like for him to come to
baptize you?”
Ellen
nodded and smiled broadly at the thought of talking again to the dear minister
who more than twenty years before had counseled her to wait patiently for this
day.
It
was only moments until we had Zed Zed on the phone at his home in Independence,
Missouri. “How would you like to come to Saskatoon for a baptismal service?”
Delbert asked his fellow seventy.
Zed
Zed was surprised by the question and
couldn’t think of a quick answer to what he knew must be some sort of a riddle.
By
way of partial explanation Delbert asked,”Do you remember Ellen Pow?”
“Of
course, I remember Ellen!” was the prompt reply.
“She
would like to speak to you.” The seventy explained as he handed Ellen the
telephone.
The
conversation was animated as Ellen explained her freedom to make her own choice
now at age eighty and her wish to be baptized. Brother Renfro was delighted
with her decision but had to decline the invitation to be a participant in the
service. His health would not permit the long trip to Saskatoon. The service
was arranged with other participants who had also long awaited this day. It was
during the confirmation service that God spoke through one of His servants and
told this dear sister that her testimony would be heard in many lands around
the world. Needless to say, at age eighty and with crippled feet that
restricted her movement, that prophecy seemed unfounded, but her faith made her
look for its fulfilment.
So
there would be no unfounded rumors or mistaken notions about what was
happening, Ellen called her long time minister and his associate to her home.
There she thanked them for all they had done for her and her family and tried
to help them understand why she now chose to join with the Saints. Then she asked for a time to explain
her decision to her fellow church members. That privilege was granted, but with
the explanation did not come understanding or approbation. Instead, Ellen’s old
friends with whom she had shared so many church experiences through the years,
no longer called her or had any association with her that they could avoid. To
their understanding, she had made an unforgivable mistake!
It
was not long after Ellen’s baptism that Delbert was taking his missionary team
to the States. Two of the four young people who were traveling with him had
lived in the States, but two of them had only known the CenterPlace and other
points of historical significance through others. One, in fact, had only
recently come into contact with the church and the other had never been outside
Canada. The seventy was certain that some experience with historical settings
of the church and with the officials and places occupied by the church in and
near the Centerplace would enhance their ministry.
Di
Calford was one of the team. When she met Ellen Pow and heard her story, she
impulsively asked,”Wouldn’t you like to go with us to Independence?” Then with
enthusiasm typical of this devoted Canadian school teacher , she described in
glowing terms the adventure she anticipated on the trip.
“Oh,
I couldn’t keep up with you young ones
on a trip like that!” Ellen responded regretfully,. Di had described the
Auditorium, Graceland College and Nauvoo as focal points of our journey.
Nothing could have pleased Ellen more than to see the places in which the
church was cradled, places about which she had only read. And the possibility
of seeing Brother Renfro again and maybe the prophet made her heart race at the
very thought even though she felt sure she should not even dare let herself
dream of it!
“How
would I ever get around all those places on these crippled feet?” She looked
longingly at the offending members of her anatomy.
“Why,
we would get a wheel chair and push you around!” Di affirmed without
hesitation. “Didn’t you know I am a pushy person?” she added facetiously.
It
didn’t take much by way of encouragement for Ellen to consent to go with us, and
preparations began immediately . Seven in a car was not at all unusual for the
appointee car traveling nonstop from Saskatooon to Independence. Besides there
were no seat belt laws then .In fact, there were no seat belts to describe the
area one person should occupy in any passenger vehicle of which we had any
knowledge except airplanes. Delbert and
I would take turns driving. Ellen could have a front seat next to the passenger
side door. That would also give her a door to lean against when she slept on
the thirty hour trip. The four young people would occupy the rear seat.
That
was the original plan, but before we started we decided to make an exception on
this trip and stop one night in a motel to give our gracious elderly sister a
rest. After all, going all that way would be of little value if she were too
tired to see the things of which she dreamed.
It
was at Graceland that Ellen was welcomed with unexpected warmth. Karen
introduced her to one of her classes, and the
students overwhelmed her with questions about her life and testimony.
The hour was just not long enough.Karen then suggested that we gather again
that evening, this time at Unit A where we could talk as long as we wanted.
Evening
found us clustered around Ellen outside of Unit A. It was a beautiful night.
Karen and her friends had decided that we should be outside just in case
everyone became too interested to stop their conversation with Sister Pow when
it was no longer legal for male visitors to be inside the building. This was the
night they were accustomed to gathering for worship, and they had invited many
of their friends especially to hear Ellen’s testimony. They brought an easy
chair outside the door for Ellen. The rest of us either sat on folding chairs
or on the ground.
Again
the students bombarded this gentle woman with questions that resulted in her
sharing her testimony from girlhood through the visit of the angel, to her
friendship with Trina, to her rejection by her friends with whom she had
labored all her days, to her second baptism, actually her third when one counts
the one she did not remember as a babe. She answered questions about the
scriptures that had become so dear to her. She explained scriptures that were
obscure to some of the youth gathered there. She was there long after the rules
would have sent us out of Unit A. Then we trundled her off to bed.
It
was then that Ellen remembered that confirmation prayer in which God had
promised that her testimony would be heard in many lands around the world. She
had wondered how that could possibly be. Now she recalled the faces of students
from widely flung nations who just moments before had sat at her feet listening
intently to her testimony. It was as the elders had said! Her testimony was to be heard around the world. It was
also enriched by the happenings of that memorable day at Graceland!
Chapter
38
Let
No One Take Your Crown
It
was our first night out of Canada on a caravan to Book of Mormon lands for
which the youth of Saskatchewan and Alberta had worked for two exciting years.
We were at the church in Minot, North Dakota, and the youth were presenting the
worship service for which the congregation had gathered. One of the youth who
had suffered much from a broken home and bad companions was giving his
testimony.Suddenly I felt an overwhelming love for him and heard the words
directed toward him,” Don’t let anyone
take your crown!”
I
was startled !. I knew the message had come to another people at an earlier time, for I recognized the
words. Eagerly I searched the scriptures as soon as I could to find the
circumstances under which they had been given so I could better understand the
message that was meant for this youth. I so much wanted him to feel the
assurance of God’s love for him that I had felt in that moment!
I
found the scripture in Revelation 3:11. Christ had commended the Saints at
Philadelphia for keeping His “word of patience “ and had offered them
protection by His Spirit in the time of temptation if they would hold fast to
the way of righteousness that they had learned and had begun to follow. It was
heavenly counsel that holding fast to that way of life was the only way to
protect their future. It was really a warning that there were temptations
coming against which they should be on guard. They should hold fast to that
which they had learned of the gospel. Living righteously, there was no man who
could take away their crown. Living carelessly, that crown could easily be
lost.
That
was what the Lord meant when he instructed me to tell Asa not to let anyone
take his crown. Asa must know that God loved him and was anxious to be his
counsellor and protector. Whether I was ever
able to convey that message to him effectively, I have serious doubts; but
that the Spirit of God made tremendous
effort to convey the extent of His love to us all has ample evidence in the
happenings of that caravan.
Every
evening as the youth presented their songs and testimonies, I felt an all
consuming love for them all. As they fanned out through each congregation
singing “God loves you , and I love you, and that’s the way it’s a gonna be--
forever”, with that assurance touching each individual, I was not the only one
who found tears coursing down my cheeks! When
they encircled the congregations at each evening’s close singing, “God
love you, and not let you out of His sight. God keep and protect you, by day
and by night. “Til we meet again may his love follow you. Where’ere you go and whatever you do.’ I never cold keep
back the tears.
It
was on this trip that we first sand “God forgave my sins, in Jesus’s name. I’ve
been born again, in Jesus’s name. And in Jesus’ name we come to you, to share
his love as he told us to.
“He
said, “Freely, freely, you have received Freely, freely give. Go in my name and
because you believe, others will know that I live..” Delbert had heard it on
the radio and Patty Fisher taught it to the youth from his rendition of it from
memory. One congregation was so impressed with the song that they had a copy of
it made for each of their hymnals. Now it is in all the latest hymnals of the church.
The
caravan was replete with blessings for everyone of us, and we were certain the
Saints who had fed and housed us had likewise felt they were blessed. But one
is never quite sure about the way benefactors have felt about their ministry.
There were thirty of us, and we were not certain we had not imposed on our
hosts until we received a letter from one of those whose gracious hospitality
had blessed us.
“Dear
Brother and Sister Smith,” the letter read. “As you know, many ‘thank-you’
notes are written out of a sense of duty, but such is not the case as I write
to you. Words just cannot express the deep appreciation Frank and I have for
the beautiful ministry given by you and your young people last August 23. The
service was a most beautiful experience and God’s spirit truly was with you.
“During
the service , I became very conscious of God’s great love for you and I wanted
to rise to my feet and testify to the fact that God was pleased with you and
the young people in your caravan but felt perhaps it would not be wise to do
so.
“How
thankful you must be for your lovely family and for the opportunity you have to
work with young Saints who are eager to participate in the work of building the
kingdom and who give of their time and talents and who enjoy doing such
worthwhile activities.
“We
did receive so very much strength from
your ministry that evening and as is the case, we know you, too, received a
great deal.
“Please
convey our thanks to the young people in the caravan and may God continue to
bless each of you in your service to him. May He always keep you in His tender
care is our prayer.”
Bernadine’s
letter put into words what we had so hoped many had felt. Thankfully, for at
least some members of one congregation we had not been a burden to the Saints,
but a blessing. Hopefully, the intensity of the love of God that we had all
felt would help all of us, those who gave and those who received ministry, keep
our crowns forever.
Chapter
39
Stephenville
Samaritans
When
we left Anadarko, Oklahoma early that Wednesday morning, we had every
expectation of being in San Antonio long before nightfall. Our hope was to have
time for our Canadian youth to see the Alamo or Camp Sionito or both before the
day was through. Instead we were less than half the way there when our engine
began to fail. We limped along most of
the day and arrived at Stephenville, Texas near nightfall. Fortunately there
was a garage open where we could get help, but that help would take at least
two days, they informed us. We had to have a new engine.
Earlier
in the day we had called San Antonio Saints to tell them we would be very late
if we made it at all for our appointment with them that night. They were not to
meet us at the church with dinner . Now they were not to come expecting a
service or to house us for the night Instead we had to find a place for the
caravaneers to stay for at least two days!
We
had planned to by-pass Dallas- Fort Worth on our way to Mexico, and to spend
two days and nights there on our return trip. At that time we planned to attend
church on Sunday and experience Six Flags Over Texas the following day. My
sister, Fiona Greene had made all our arrangements for food and housing. So now
we called her to see if it would be possible for us to bring the caravaneers
there a week and a half early. Permission was granted, but how could we get
thirty people over ninety miles late at
night with no bus service available and
only the appointee car operating?
Delbert began calling churches in the area to see
whether one of them might have a bus
that we could hire. “How would you like to be a Good Samaritan ?” was always
the seventy’s opening question before he explained our plight.
Some
of the churches had busses but could
not trust them on such an impromptu journey. One Baptist group said they had a
new bus, well equipped with air conditioning and everything needful, but they
were gathering at their church right then preparing to take their youth to New
Mexico early the next morning for their young camp.They would like to help, but
a hundred and eighty mile round trip that night was out of the question. They
were very sorry.
We
were sorry, too, and their refusal left us no other known group to call. We
prayed for direction and help.
In
minutes the telephone at the garage rang and someone asked for Delbert Smith.
That was surprising. Who of all our acquaintances would know that the seventy
was at that garage in Stephenville? It was not an acquaintance. I t was the head of the Baptist board who , with the
other members of the board gathered to inspect their new bus, had decided that
the bus could do with a shakedown cruise before they started to New Mexico with
their young ones. They would be by in a few minutes to pick us up and take us
to Dallas! The cost? Oh, nothing. They just wanted to do it! Several of the
board members would make the trip with us to make sure everything went well.
Once
in the luxurious vehicle, our young Canadians asked the seventy to see if they
could sing. The driver gave rather grudging permisson limiting them to a few
quiet numbers.
Joyfully
the group began to sing some of the numbers they were using in their worship
services in our host churches. After the first two or three songs, the driver
told the seventy to tell them they could sing all they wanted, and sing they
did, all ninety miles of the way! Later, though, they complained that they did
not really like the luxurious bus because they could not see each other over the
seats and feel close to each other as they sang.
Once
in Dallas, the beneficent Baptists discharged their load amid cheerful and
sometimes tearful good-byes. When Delbert tried to pay for the bus service, the
board members would only take enough to pay for their gas.
Fiona
and her husband Wally met us at the new Oak Ridge church in Dallas with
refreshments and instructions for use of the church as our home away from home
for the next two days or as long as we needed it. We missed having church services
with the Dallas Saints, but we did have all the time we needed at Six
Flags. The Saints even arranged needed transportation for us to the park and
back so no time would be lost! We did have the appointee car. I had followed
the Baptist bus with it so there would be a way back to Stephenville when our
bus was roadworthy again. One car to shuttle thirty people to the park and back
would have taken a lot a time, however, that the Saints thought could be better spent experiencing
Six Flags!
A
large part of our tour had to be rescheduled, but we did not have to miss many
of our planned events. Our funds were experiencing unexpected pressures, but
there were always unexpected services available at unexpectedly low costs. The
Baptist Samaritans will never be forgotten and the ministry of the Dallas
Saints will always be a source of joy and thanksgiving for thirty thankful
Canadians stranded in the middle of Texas while their bus’s engine was
replaced!
Chapter
40
Angels
Carried the Bus
It
was Tuesday, August 13, 1974, late in the evening on a frighteningly narrow and
busy highway leading from San Luis Potosi to Queretaro, Mexico, that we
received the ministry of angels. Let me tell you our story.
For
two years the youth of the Saskatchewan ( Canada) District of the Reorganized
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints had planned a tour of Book of
Mormon lands south of the United States of America with the seventy as their
guide. The idea had sprung from the youth as we returned from an exhilarating
church history caravan to the States in 1972.
“In
two years we are going to Mexico,” the
young ones announced on the trip home.
“Yeah!
Yeah!” we respondd, never dreaming they could really accomplish such a feat but
hesitant to dampen their enthusiasm.
Their
determination had been phenomenal ! They had studied the Book of Mormon. They
had seen pictures of ruins that might have been associated with its history.
They had listened intently to the travel-lectures of those who had made the
journey before them. They had passed an extensive qualifying test to insure
that they would understand at least some of what they were seeing on the trip.
The
youth had worked hard to earn money so they could take some young people who
could not afford the trip with them. They had planned and rehearsed worship
services they cold share with host congregations along the way. They had
received permission from the district to use the ancient school bus the
district had purchased for eight hundred dollars and equipped with a luggage rack
for us to use on the church history tour two years before. . They had even
painted the vehicle and affectionately christened it “The Love Bus”!
Delbert
and I had coordinated the studies, contacted congregations who would give us a
place to stay and a good evening meal in exchange for the worship service the
young ones would present, calculated costs, arranged entrance to such
recreational attractions as Six Flags Over Texas and otherwise taken care of
details necessary for such a venture. There were about thirty youth and staff
on the bus most of the time. Someties one or more of them joined me in the
appointee car. I drove it, loade dwith food and supplies, behind the bus. My task was to keep them all well
fed and to provide transportation in case of emergencies.
Once
before this eventful day our schedule had been interrupted. The engine of the
bus had to be replaced at Stephenville, Texas. But now we were in Mexico and
scheduled to be in Mexico City by nightfall.
Early
that Tuesday morning, Delbert and Vernon Dreher, our major relief driver and
mechanic for the trip, had driven our ancient bus with its brand new motor outside the gates of the
Quinta Restaumex, high over the city of Saltillo, to load it. Going up the hill
the night before, our bulging baggage, packed skillfully atop the bus, barely
scraped through the arch, even after a day of settling. We knew it would never clear the arch freshly
packed and going downhill.
Once
outside the gate, our special loading crew attacked the mountain of luggage
eagerly. Allan, Myron and Doug had done it repeatedly since we embarked on our
pilgrimage just over a week before. They were anxious now, as we all were , to
arrive in Mexico City where we could begin to explore archaeological sites that
would help us view our legacy of the Book of Mormon with greater appreciation.
Five
hundred forty three miles to the city, our travel log said. Eleven to twelve
hours we had estimated. We could easily drive in good daylight all of the way
and not miss a single sight in this strange and wonderful land! To my usual
store in the appointee car I had added bottled water to last until evening.
Supper would be with the Saints in the City where we were to stay.
Up
the first mountain there were signs of trouble. Following the bus, my
speedometer began to slow. At first I thought it was just the long pull up the
steep incline, but when even the level areas produced speeds not to exceed
eight miles per hour, I knew we were in trouble. Finally the bus was pulled
over to the side of the road where it coughed to a stop. Del and Vern were
quickly under the hood.
“What’s
the matter?” I yelled to the men high above me on the snaking highway.
“She’s
not getting gas?” Del yelled back.
After
a thorough examinatin with tapping here
and adjusting there, they decide to try again. It worked for awhile, then the
bus began to slow again. Again there was examination, tapping, adjusting. We
crept ahead laboriously.
“It
must be the gas filter.” Vernon finally proposed.
Surely
enough, the filter was clogged with gummy debris. That would be simple. Just
get a new filter. But where? We had left Arteaga far behind and San Roberta
Junction was at least sixty miles ahead. Chances that either would have a
filter to fit this Canadian vehicle were slim.
“Let’s
make a hole, clean out what we can and let the rest through, “ Delbert finally
suggested as the only viable solution. The filter was cleaned- the puncture was
made with a piece of wire, and we were on our way: but not for long.
All
of a sudden the bus seemed to be taken by a seizure. It’s erratic movements
were frightening to behold. I was thankful when it reached a place wide enough
to pull off and stop!
“What’s
wrong now?” I was puzzled when Vern went under the bus, this time, instead of under
the hood.
“It’s
the clutch. It keeps slipping. Vern thinks he can fix it.” Del was optimistic.
Vern’s
efforts to fix the clutch were only temporarily successful. Every few miles
into the mountains Vern was under the bus, tool in hand, adjusting the clutch.
Even when we traversed the vast valleys between the mountains, the clutch often
had to have attention.
San
Roberto Junction proved to be of no help with bus repair. There were no gas
filters and no parts of the clutch there. We did gratefully use the restrooms
and some of the caravaneers bought souvenirs. Eighty three miles we had
traveled, and the morning was nearly gone!
All
afternoon we limped along with Delbert and Vernon alternately blowing out the
gas line and adjusting the clutch. Shadowy outlines of our humpbacked bus were
falling long across the roadway when we were passed by a yellowVolkswagen.
Being
passed was no novelty. One could hardly expect the traffic of all Mexico to
slow to our snail’s pace. When the Volkswagen stopped down the road and the
driver began flailing his arms in an obvious effort to stop us, though, we were
more than a little curious.
As
we approached,Delbert recognized the driver. It was Seventy Umberto Salas. He,
with his wife, Digna, was returning from a church conference in Reynosa to
their home in Jojutla.
They had been informed of our venture , and
recognized the huge church seal with which
the youth had marked the bus when they christened her. They knew we were
not where we were supposed to be that late in the day.
“It’s
almost night.” Umberto counseled in Spanish. “I can help you get food and a
place to spend the night in San Luis Potosi.”
Gratefully
we accepted the proffered help and followed Umberto and Digna to a restaurant.
There over tacos and chili, tortillas and enchiladas we discussed what we
should do.
Our
day’s travel had taken us two hundred and eighty miles instead of the five
hundred and forty three that we had anticipated. Even when the gas seemed to
flow freely, the clutch had to be periodically adjusted. Only the downhill runs
had been easy!
Sandy
Woynarski, our nurse, was carrying our maps. “Queretaro is just down the road a
little way,” she advised. “Why don’t we go there for the night and get an early
start for Mexico City tomorrow?” It was agreed.
Umberto
seemed a bit startled at the decision to go to Queretaro for the night, but he
didn’t understand our English any better than we understood his Spanish. He
must have decided that we knew what we were about. At any rate, he agreed to go
there to arrange the night’s lodging. Queretaro was on the way for him and
Digna, and they had to get home befor morning to relieve those who were caring
for their children while they were away.
Jojutla
was still a long way off, and to ask the Salas’s to travel at the slow pace the
bus had to take seemed unfair. It was decided that I would go ahead with the
car, follow Umberto until he found a suitable place for us to stay in
Queretaro, then come back to the highway to guide the bus load to the place prepared
for them. Confidently I left the restaurant to follow the Salas’s to our haven
for the night.
Our
daughter Karen was feeling ill and asked permission to ride in the car.
Rarefied mountain air always took a bit of acclimatization for her. Our nurse and
her husband Stan chose to accompany her. So, also, did our son Ron for some now
obscure reason. I think it had something to do with protecting me.
Umberto’s
little yellow Volkswagen darted into the evening traffic at such a pace that I
had difficulty keeping up. “It’s just a short way,” I thought, “ but I must not
lose him. How could I choose a safe place for us all to stay? How could I
arrange for such a place without knowing Spanish?” So I strained my eyes and
pressed hard on the accelerator to keep the Volkswagon in sight. Sixty miles,
sixty five, seventy miles an hour we sped down the highway, and I was barely
keeping pace with the little yellow vehicle!
Forty
miles we drove pell-mell through the traffic with no sign of Queretaro in
sight. Then a huge road sign loomed on the left side of the highway. “Queretaro
one hundred thirty eight kilometers”. One hundred thirty eight kilometers! Why
, that was nearly eighty five miles, and my gas tank was nearly empty.
Suddenly
fear gripped my heart. One hundred and twenty five miles from San Luis Potosi
to Queretaro! That was almost half as far as we had traveled all day! There had
been no repairs available for the ailing bus in San Luis Potosi. Now it was
dark, and I was carrying the only flashlight that we had on the trip. It was
always in the appointee car. Delbert and Vernon would have to stop to adjust
the clutch! How could they even see?
How
could they even stop? The traffic was frightening! Huge trucks sped by us
rolling dizzily down the mountains, passing anything in their way, often
topping the rises on the wrong side of the road. We had just passed a large
passenger bus that had been forced off the road into rough terrain to avoid a
head-on collision.
For
miles now, too, gravel had been piled on the right side, the mountain side, of
the road ready for spreading. It narrowed the roadway and eliminated any
shoulder that might once have been available for stopping. There was no place
to stop! The constricted highway forced traffic toward the outside of the road
often perilously near precipitous drops
to the valley below. The bus would be on the inside, but if it stopped, it
could hardly avoid being rammed from behind by one unable to stop or to veer
around it!
The
gravity of the situation overwhelmed me for a moment. How could the bus with
its precious load make that trip?
I
had been praying all of the way from San Luis Potosi, mostly that I could keep
up with Umberto safely. Now it was not our safely, but the safety of the bus
load of youth that gripped my mind. How could they make it?
Suddenly
I remembered that the Aaronic Priesthood of Christ’s church hold the keys to
the ministering of angels. Ron was a priest. “Ron,” I said solemnly , “if that
bus is to make it tonight, you are
going to have to exercise the power of your priesthood and ask for
angels to bring it in.”
Immediately
Ron responded with a prayer that angels would be sent to bring the bus in
safely. Peace settled over us in the car, and I concentrated in keeping the
yellow bug in sight.
By
now our gas tank was perilously near empty. Certainly we could not go another
eighty miles without gas. Pressing
harder on the accelerator to get closer to Umberto, I prayed and signaled with
horn and lights until he finally noticed and pulled onto a side road tosee what was wrong.
“ I
need gas-petrol.” I shouted. Umberto nodded and led us into the next station.
In
spite of our concern, there was no turning back now. It was too dark to hope
that we might even see the bus if we did try.
A
few miles north of Queretaro, Umberto signaled for a left hand turn. I followed
onto a side road and finally onto the grounds of the Azteca Motel. With much
gesturing and rapid conversation which none of us could understand, Umberto
arranged housing for those of us in the car and the bus load to follow.
Umberto
and Digna went with us to our quarters. Satisfied that they were acceptable,
they started to leave.
“Will
you offer a prayer for us before you leave?” I asked gesturing to make sure
Umberto understood.
On
the balcony that spanned the north of our motel units, Umberto offered an
earnest prayer. We could understand only a few of the words , but we felt the
Spirit of them and knew that God understood them all.
There
were quick embrazzos, our grateful thanks,and Umberto and Digna were on their
way.
I
went back into the room where Sandy had already put Karen to bed. “Mother,”
Karen said anxiously, “if the angels are bringing that bus in, you had better
get out there on that highway so they
will knowwhere to come!”
“Yes,”
I agreed. “I’ll go right now!” It was only later that I realized how
preposterous it was to asssume that angels would have difficulty finding our
quarters!
I
really couldn’t imagine how the bus could travel all that distance in less than
another hour or two even if there were no difficulties. We had traveled at
speeds up to seventy five miles an
hour, and the bus’s top speed, except
on a downhill run, was about fifty five. Up the mountains it had been closer to eight to
twelve that day. There was no way it could keep the pace we had , and they,
too, would have had to fill with petrol. But to please Karen, I would go to the
junction and wait.
I
started toward the door but stopped quickly and for a moment stood rooted to
the floor, listening, motionless with astonishment. I heard Delbert’s voice
coming through the open doorway. I
raced out of the door to investigate. There, right under our balcony, the bus
was parked beside the appointee car. It had come quickly and safely, not only to Queretaro but straight to the
Azteca, to the very unit in which we were housed! God had truly answered all
our prayers! He had sent His angels to carry that ailing bus and its precious
load of Canadian youth to their impossible destination!
Epilogue:
When Delbert with his bus load started to leave the restaurant in San Luis Potosi, a young man asked for a
ride and offered to guide them to Queretaro. For a few blocks, Delbert followed
the youth’s directions. Soon, however, he became aware that they were not going
toward Queretaro.Finally Dlebert asked where he was taking the, and the young
man answered truthfully, “Mi casa!” He
was just getting a free ride home!
Chagrined
at his own credulity, Delbert let the young man walk the rest of the way home.
Having gone out of the way to accommodate him, however, he realized that it was
getting very late and he should fill with gas before getting outside the city.
The bus used a gallon about every eight miles, and it would be nice to be
filled, ready for the drive to Mexico City the next morning. As with me, it had
not occurred to him or any of the rest of those riding in the bus that
Queretaro was not just outside the city.
Once
underway, though, there was never a moment ‘s hestiation on the part of the
motor or the clutch. All of the way to Queretaro they performed
superbly.Neither was there any hesitation about leaving the highway when they
came to the side road that led to the Azteca, even though there was no human
way possible that any of them could have known that we would be there awaiting
their arrival.
Chapter
41
Canadian
Youth Find Friends in Mexico City
Negotiating
Mexico City in an ancient Canadian school bus took all of the skill that the
seventy possessed. None of the others on the bus even dared try it! I was glad
to have the bus run interference for me and the appointee car!
When
Delbert and I were last in Mexico City, the church was well situated inside an
enclosure high above the city in which there was ample room for our caravan.
The house in which the seventy in charge of the area and his family lived was
spacious. The gardens were beautiful and contained a lovely outdoor baptismal
font. The meeting place was comfortable.
This
time , however, our instructions took us to a door in a row of houses that
opened directly onto the street. A letter from the seventy now in charge of the
area had at first told us there was no way they could accommodate a group our
size. Later, not only was permission
granted but an invitation was issued by the local pastor for our entire group
to stay with his family.
There
was a small room on the ground floor in which the church was accustomed to
meeting. Only a few chairs and a small homemade pulpit gave evidence of the
room’s utility. The pastor and his family lived in cramped quarters just above
the church. It was to the home upstairs that we were invited to take the food
and supplies that I carried in the seventy’s car. The welcome we received was
effusive in spite of our inability to communicate in the Spanish language, but I had no idea how far the good people
would go to make sure we knew that they
wanted us!
In
the kitchen was a small refrigerator. ON the counter beside it there lay a
dressed chicken, some fruit, beverages and other items one would expect to find
inside a refrigerator Instead, everyting had been removed to make room for our
supplies. My protest was greeted with some relief on the part of our hostess.
With the use of our ice chest, there was ample room for our food and theirs!
It
was already nearing evening when we arrived at the church home. We had stopped
to view some of the places of interest on our way in. Since there was no way we
could get our troupe inside the room designated as the church and still have
room for an audience, the youth elected, with the consent of the pastor, to
conduct the evening service on the street in front of the church.
With
the first strains of music with which
the young ones began the service, windows and doors began to open all up and
down the street. In moments the street was filled with the impromptu audience.
Though our young ones sang and spoke in English, there seemed to be no lack of
appreciation on the part of the Mexican audience, young and old alike. Every
song and every testimony seemed to be understood by the gathering crowd.
When
the service was finished, there was a sudden rush of embrazzos for every member
of the troupe. Home after home was opened to the youth. Invitations were
extended so freely that it was only minutes before every one had a place to
stay with one of the neighboring families. I could not believe what was
happening., and was a little apprehensive, but one look at the pleasure on the
face of our pastor and his wife told us that it was all right. The neighbors
really did want to share their homes
with the Canadians!
Before
we left Saskatoon, Brother Rod Thompson, who had a small factory in which
plastic jewelry, pen and pecil sets and other art pieces were made, supplied us
with hundreds of small Canadian flags attached
to a substantial brooch-like
pin, each equipped with a clasp to make it a valuable gift likely to be
serviceable for a long while. Each of us wore one, and treasured it. Now the youth were passing out the pins to their
new-found friends. Every young Mexican seemed to be wearing a Canadian flag!
Gleefully the young people carried their
possessions to the homes of their hosts. We of the staff were given comfortable
quarters provided somehow by our pastor and his wife.Our suspicion was that they were less comfortable than we!
Our every venture during the four days of our stay
in the City was accompanied by some of the Mexian youth. It was amazing how
quickly they were communicating with our Canadians. For some, the French
language became their common tongue. For many Mexican youth it was an
opportunity to practice the English they already knew. For all if was
delightful!
After
we had traveled to Teotihuacan and Cholula, our bus and car stayed parked on
the street near our quarters while we
used the marvelous underground
transportation of the City.
Very
early the morning we were to take our leave of the City, we were awakened by
the sounds of a mariachi band playing in the street in front of our church
home. Much to our amazement, our hosts were all up and dressed. In fact, we
would not have been surprised to learn that they had not been in bed all night.
The marachi serenade was their parting gift to thirty some Canadians with whom
they now had a lasting bond of fellowship in the Lord.
Again,
at five o’clock in the morning, it was the entire community that
celebrated with us. Again doors and
windows opened the length of the street
and people poured out to tell us
good-bye as though they had been waiting all night to say farewell to friends
they had known forever!
When
the seventy went to start the bus, we were in for another surprise. Several
young men came running, waving their arms wildly in gestures designed to keep
him from trying it. Upon reaching the
bus, they swarmed over the engine with some serious purpose evident in their
actions, though they were smiling broadly as they worked as though they had
some tremendous secret that they knew would please us. And please us it did.
The
young men had taped wads of paper in strategic places in the engine of the bus.
With those obstacles, no one could start it without someone in the neighborhood
knowing it. The bus would be safe from all predators!
Nor
did the celebration end with our bidding farewell to our hosts on the street.
Several of the young Mexicans piled into two sleek little Volkswagens and
escorted us out of the City. It was too early for most of the City to be awake, so the six lane roads
usually crowded with traffic were almost deserted except for our little
caravan. There were the bus with arms
waving out of every window, the appointee car following close behind and the
two Volkswagens doing a choreographed dance weaving first across in front of
the bus then behind the appointee car. They crisscrossed in rhythm that set all
of us smiling broadly as the young ones called names and addresses to each
other from the bus and from the cars. When we reached the toll gates outside
the city the Volkswagens turned back.
Still waves and good-byes were seen and
heard as long as either vehicle was in sight! Our visit to Book of Mormon lands
had given us more than an increased appreciation for that sacred book! These
were friendships that would be remembered forever!
Chapter
42
Breakdown
in the Desert
Once
we had found the new fuel filter and had the clutch repaired, our Canadian
caravan ran smoothly. It ran smoothly, that is, until we were well into the
desert some seventy or eighty miles south of
Laredo. There in the heat of the desert the engine stopped. There was no
apparent reason. It just stopped. We were not out of gas. The engine was hot,
but so was the ground and all the surroundings.
We
had traveled some seventy miles since the last stop in Monterrey. The passengers in the bus were
ready to stretch their legs . At first it was a relief to have some space, but
soon the hot sun made even the space
seem oppressive. There was no shade.
There were no bathroom facilities. We did not dare leave the group in
the desert sun for long. I did have
water for us all and a bit of a snack, but that could not dissipate the searing
heat or the concerns of the young.
We
had the appointee car with which we could go back to the last town we had
passed for help, but that would take an indeterminate amount of time during
which the group would be left to swelter in the heat either inside or outside
of the bus. That gave us great concern.
“Come.
Gather round and let’s have a prayer.” Delbert proposed.
Seeing
the tension that was developing in the group, the seventy asked us to form a
circle. Then he pointed to a cactus that was at the center of that circle. “See
that cactus?” he questioned. “Now let’s
dump all of our problems with each other or with our situation on that cactus
and give the Lord a chance to come to our rescue!”
Thirty
heads bowed. Thirty earnest prayers ascended heavenward as we all prayed for
rescue. Later one of the young friends of the church who was a part of the
group testified in prayer service that you don’t really know how to pray until
you are stranded in the desert looking for a way out!
Almost
before the prayers were finished, there
was a rumbling in the direction of
Monterrey. Every eye focused on the highway. There came an old public
bus chugging up the road with its load of passengers. Seeing our predicament,
the driver stopped to see if he could help.
“Can
yo take our people in to Laredo?” The seventy gestured as he spoke, hoping the
driver would understand.
“Si!
Si!” the kind gentleman responded and likewise
gestured to the group to enter his vehicle.
But
before we were all mounted, the good man held up his hand in a gesture to stop
us while he shook his head and instructed, “No! No! No mas!”
We
were puzzled. In broken English he explained that the seats were all full.
“But
can’t the rest stand?” again Delbert gestured to make his meaning clear.
“
Oh, si! Si! Si!” said the man with a
broad smile and a nodding head.
While
the rest of us climbed aboard to stand in the aisles, Delbert paid the fare.
The driver would not charge for those who stood. Only those with seats were
paying passengers.
As
we headed for Laredo, Delbert and Vernon took the appointee car and
returned to the last little town we had
passed to look for help.
We
thought of nothing but the wonderful way the Lord had answered our prayers and
delivered us from the desert heat until
we were near Laredo and the border of the USA. It was then that I
remembered that we did not have our visas
with us. Without those important papers we would not be permitted to
reenter our home country!
In
spite of my concern, I smiled a little as I recalled what was on those papers.
At the aduana at Reynosa I had watched as the clerks gave some of the young
ones husbands and wives, even children and strange histories. When I protested,
I was told that it did not matter what was on the paper. Only the signature of
the clerk was important. Well, the signatures were there all right, but the
papers must be back in the bus!
At
Nuevo Laredo, our beneficent Mexican driver discharged his passengers. We
walked across the Rio Grande and into the United States. Of course, we didn’t go far into theStates,
just to the aduana to report to the authorities our reason for appearing
without either luggage or papers. Upon hearing our story, the immigration
officers held an animated conference before graciously giving us permission to
remain in the facility until Delbert and Vernon arrived with the bus and our
visas.
The
hours passed slowly. We amused ourselves with reading everything in the place ,
playing little games that took no props, watching the border patrol work as
they tried to prevent drugs from crossing the border with the travelers. It was
especially interesting to see the dogs at work with the patrol.
As
suppertime approached and there was no sight of our men or our bus, I began to be concerned for the young ones.
Finally I took our plight to the officials again. It was then that we learned
the reason for the conference that
preceded permission for us to remain free without our papers. Shortly before we
had come to the aduana, a bus carrying a group of church youth of another
persuasion was found to also be smuggling marijuana into the USA. Since the
officers had watched the good behaviour of our group for hours and apparently
decided they could trust us, I was given permission to take all but one of the
group to a park for food and recreation. One was to be at the aduana when the
bus arrived so they could tell its escort where we were. While our son,
Douglas, and Al Perry remained at the
aduana and staff members supervised the trek to the park, I found a Kentucky
Fried Chicken establishment from which
we got our supper.
In
the meantime, Delbert and Vernon had found a tow truck to bring in the bus.
They had also found two other families stranded in the desert. The crippled Volkswagen
they tethered to the appointee car and towed
to the border. The other car was too large for towing, but they took the
Mexican family traveling in it into the already crowded appointee car and
brought them to safety.
That
bit of Good Samaritanship proved to be a blessing to the seventy and Vernon as
well as to the Mexican family. As they approached the check points of the
border patrol with the crippled bus, the officials asked to see the papers for
the bus. They were not in the bus. They were not in the car. In fact, they were
no where to be found! From all appearances there would be long delays at best
if they were permitted to bring the bus home at all.
Finally
the Mexican gentleman asked Delbert to let him go in and talk to the
officials.”And be ready to go quickly,” he instructed, ‘when I return!’
Moments
later, the gentleman emerged from the check point with the instructions,
“Let’s go!” What their benefactor said or did we will never know. We only know
they had no more difficulty in spite of the missing papers.
While
looking for the papers for the bus, Delbert had discovered the packet of visas
and placed them in his hip pocket. In his haste, he saw only the visas and did
not notice that the bus papers were with them. When he arrived at the border,
he removed the visas to secure the release of those of us who awaited his
arrival , and there, stuck to his clothing and drenched with perspiration were
the bus papers as well. There was no difficulty gaining entrance ot our home
country.
There
was some delay in getting the bus repaired, however. It was quickly determined
what had caused the problem. When the new engine was installed at Stephenville
on our trip to Mexico, a vital hole through which the oil should have circulated freely was accidentally
plugged. Wtihout proper lubrication, the engine failed. Since it was still
under warranty , we had to await service from Stephenville before it could be
repaired.
Again
we were blessed. We had planned the trip on a meager budget. One hundred forty
dollars and fifty cents per person was our asking. That was to pay for housing,
our excursions to Six Flags Over Texas, the Folklorica and other attractions
besides the transportation and the food.
Most
of our housing and generous amounts of food had been provided by gracious
congregations along the way. At each stop we gave a beautiful worship service
in exchange for a pot luck dinner and a place to sleep. Sometimes our hosts
even insisted on giving us breakfast.
Already we had added additional transportation costs and one motel stay to our
agenda because of the ailing bus. Now we had to postpone our second appointment
at San Antonio and get motel accommodations again.
Much
to our surprise and delight, the Motel Six manager invited us to use his facility
for two dollars per person per day. He even gave permission for me to feed the
group at the motel and was enthusiastic about our using the swimming pool.
Having an active group of young people in the pool would be good advertising,
he explained. He just hoped, though , that his supervisor did not appear while
we were there!
Two
days later the bus was still in repair. It was decided that the seventy would
stay with the bus and the rest of the staff would take the youth on to San
Antonio by commercial bus so we would not be too far off schedule for the rest
of our host congregations. Again we were surprised and thankful when the commercial bus agreed to pick us
all up at the motel instead of having us try to get to the bus station on our
own.
God
had heard our prayers. He not only provided us with safety but with some
opportunities to minister to others and wonderful memories of his loving
care as well.
Chapter
43
Drowning
At Hills of Peace
We
had chosen to remain in our cabin visiting with Olaf and Alice Turnbull that
summer afternoon of 1973 at the Hills of Peace campground in Alberta, Canada.
Our younger children and the Turnbull’s were with many of the other campers
down at the lake swimming or playing on the raft tethered to fifty gallon oil
barrels a little way away from the shallow water near the beach.
Suddenly
our conversation was interrupted. Marge Hodgins came racing up the hill, flung
open the door and exclaimed breathlessly, “Greg Fisher has drowned! They’re
searching for his body now!”
With
that she turned and ran back toward the
lake. We followed as fast as the rough terrain would permit.
By
the time we reached the beach, the limp body was sprawled across the floating
dock.Greg’s face was a shade of gray
that I had never seen before. Articicial respiration was being administered by
Lois Aspvik, the camp nurse, and there were anxious people all over the raft
trying to help.
The
rest of the swimmers and campers watched helplessly from the beach. There was
an eerie hush over the entire scene. Some were crying softly.Others obviously
were praying. Every eye was fixed on the motionless figure on the raft.
As
we approached we saw our daughter, Karen, run from the gathered group, drop to
her knees in the middle of the gravel road that led up the slight incline
toward the dining hall, lift up her hands and face to the heavens and pray.
Certainly, we too, were praying, and her demonstration of all of our need
touched our hearts with empathy.
It
was evident that if Greg did revive, he would need more medical attention than
the nurses on camp could give him. If he didn’t revive, we would still need a
doctor’s certification as to cause of death.
“I’ll
go for the doctor!” I volunteered. I knew that Delbert and Ron would be needed
on the grounds soon when the paralysis of the moment was lifted.
There
was no phone at Hills of Peace. The nearest telephone was at the home of a
farmer five miles across the common pasture that empraced the camp from
lakeshore to lakeshore. The sandy roads were deeply rutted. Cattle often stood
in the road leisurely chewing their cuds, caring not at all that there was an
emergency. I drove as fast as the terrain
would allow, often circumnavigating both the deepest ruts and the
recalcitrant cattle.
Once
on the phone, I called for an ambulance, a doctor and the police, assuring the
emergency personnel that, unless there was a miracle, the drowning had been
fatal. Knowing that the sign at the gate to the pasture that usually announced
the approach to Camp Hills of Peace had recently been vandalized making it
difficult to find the camp, I also
explained that I would be standing at the gate to direct the emergency units to
the site of the tragedy.
As
soon as I left the lakeside, Delbert assessed the situation. First he began a
search for Greg’s parents who were not yet in the group by the lake. It was
soon determined that the Fishers were not on camp. Before they left, several of
Greg’s friends had heard them invite
Greg to go with them to visit family friends outside the camp; but Greg had
chosen to go swimming with his young friends instead.
Knowing
something of the response of large groups to tragedy in their midst, the
seventy next turned his attention to the assembled campers. He knew that the
people could not be allowed to just stand helplessly by nor to disperse with
nothing but the horror of the situation on their minds. His next thought was to
gather them together for prayer. That would at least give them an active part
in the effort to save Greg’s life.
Quickly
he made his way through the gathered crowd to Elder Danny Belrose’s side. In a
moment Danny was alerted to the seventy’s concern.”Help me call the people to
the chapel for prayer!” Dlebert whispered.
Dan’s
response was immediate. Together the two ministers gathered the people for the
trek up the hill to the chapel. Ron ran ahead and tolled the bell that usually
called us to worship. Within minutes, the beach was deserted, the dock was
occupied only by those who were actively engaged in efforts to revive Greg, and
the camp was at prayer, doing what each one could do to help.
My
heart pounded violently and my own prayer ascended constantly as I waited at
the gate for the ambulance and the police. It seemed an eternity before the
wail of sirens alerted me to their approach. Gesturing wildly to make certain
the crews knew that it was I that they
were to follow, I raced to my waiting car and sped off through the labyrinth of
cattle paths to Hills of Peace.Even with the memory of that limp, ashen body
indelibly imprinted on my mind, I could not quit hoping that there might still
be life awaiting us.
Back
at camp, the congregation was still at prayer. Those trying to revive Greg had
long since realized that their efforts were futile, and had brought his body to
the shore where it was carefully wrapped and ready for transport. Delbert,
Danny and Ron joined me in the appointee car and we followed the ambulance back
to the hospital. On the way we talked of the
Lord’s ability to restore life.
Dan
and Del wanted to go into the hospital with Greg’s body, but that opportunity
was denied.They were not family . We returned to the camp concerned now for
Greg’s parents who surely would be coming soon if they had not already arrived.
We were disappointed that we could not report that God had given us a miracle
and Greg was alive.
Ole
helped a lot. He was philosophical
about the death. He reminded us that death is just a part of life and it
is a part of life over which we often have little if any control.
All
of this time Greg’s parents were
blissfully ignorant of the drama being played out at Hills of Peace or of the
part their son had in it. Upon their return , the devastating news broke upon
them with numbling force. Greg was an excellent swimmer! How cold it have
happened? No one would ever know!
Of
course, it was necessary for the police to make an investigation . Kate
Turnbull had called from the floating dock to ask the lifeguard sitting on the
beach to make Greg quit horsing around. She thought he was just teasing her
when he went under the dock. Karen had seen him roll over in the water just
before he submerged for the last time and protested that he should not go down
without getting more air. His face looked very strange. Karen was so concerned
that she dove into the water from the beach where she had been playing with
some of the small children.Others including Greg’s cousin, Doug, dove in at
about the same time, all headed for the spot where Greg had last been seen.
It
was Doug who found the body, closer to the raft than had been expected, and
brought it to the surface. Karen was close enough to touch Greg’s leg as it
emerged. Many wanted an autopsy to be performed, for they could not believe
that Greg, good swimmer that he was, could just have drowned. There was no
autopsy. Greg’s young friends were comforted some when Greg’s father said, in
spite of his grief, that if it had to happen, he was glad it happened there
with Greg’s friends and among the Saints.
Greg’s
aunt Elaine Olson and his grandmother were also on camp and were tearful
witnesses to the drama of the afternon. Later Elaine wrote a beautiful piece
for the church’s youth magazine, Stride,
musing wha tit must have been like for Greg to meet his Lord, Jesus Christ,
under those circumstances.*
Olaf
Turnbull was trained in social processes and marveled at the way the camp
responded to the crisis. He said everyone acted as though they had been trained
for just such a time as this . He was right. When the Lord’s spirit is our
constant companion , we do meet even the most unexpected vicissitudes of life
with grace and skill born of that Spirit of Truth.
* See Saint’s Herald Vol. 122, Pg. 35-41, Oct.
1975
Chapter
44
Helmer’s
Blessing
The prayer was finished. The two other ministers and
Ray arose from their knees, but Helmer did not. It was then that Ron and
Delbert found that Helmer had an excruciating pain in his back that limited his
ability to work or even to move at times. This was quite evidently one of those
times. Compassionately they helped Helmer to his feet and to a nearby chair.
Ronald
and Delbert were ministering in Paddockwood,Saskatchewan, at the time. Helmer
Aspvik was the only priesthood member resident in that congregation and the
only one close enough to give consistent ministry in the congregation at Prince
Albert. A call had come from God for Ray to be ordained. Ray well knew that
this ordination would mean immediate acceptance of ministerial assignment in
one of the congregations, and he was not certain he was ready for such a
responsibility. The men had all knelt to petition God for guidance and for
strength for Ray. It was when the prayer was finished and Helmer was not able
to rise that his pain became known to his fellow ministers.
Ron
was the first to speak. He was well aware, as were they all, that God was able
to heal and had set the ordinance of administration in His church for that
purpose. “Would you like to be administered to?” he asked simply.
Helmer
shook his head. “It wouldn’t do any good.” he protested.
“Why
would you say a thing like that?” Ron was surprised at this good priesthood
members refusal.
“Don’t
you know how many times Frank Lowe was administered to , and he was never
healed. If God did not heal that good man, why should he heal me?” Helmer spoke
earnestly.
“For
one reason , “ Ron responded, “You are the only priesthood He has to help build
the kingdom in this area. If you are incapacitated, who will do the work?”
“And
for another,” Delbert added, “God’s blessings are His to give. Theyare more
about faith than they are about goodness.”
“I
have my pain pills.” Helmer dismissed the subject for the time being.
Wednesday
night prayer service was at Prince
Albert. The time between the discussion of healing through faith and the service
had been one of fasting , studying and ministering on the part of the seventy,
Ron and Helmer. Helmer had decide to receive administration as Ron had
proposed.
When
the prayer was finished, Helmer started to throw his pain pills away . For some
reason, Delbert suggested that he might want to keep them for awhile. The pain
was eased but did not completely disappear.
Some
time later there was to be a priesthood meeting at Regina. Helmer arose very
early to do some chores that had to be completed before he could make the long
trip to the city. Among other tasks he had to haul in and stack nearly two
hundred bales of hay. That required that he lift the two front legs of the
heavy stacker onto other bales of hay
to make it possible for the last bales to reach the tip of the stack.
As
he started to mount the tractor, the pain hit with excruciating fury. There was
no way he could finish the chores or make the meeting with that pain. With his
whole soul he cried out, “Lord ! If You want me to be at that meeting, You will
have to take the pain away!”
The relief was instantaneous . Without pain,
Helmer hauled in the bales, stacked them, finished his chores and drove some
two hundred and fifty miles to the meeting. At the meeting that day, he arose to bear his testimony of the healing that
had occurred. In his great joy, he stretched his arms wide to demonstrate his
freedom as he declared, “And I feel great! Thanks be to God!”
Although
there had previously been evidence of deterioration of discs in Helmer’s back
and disease in his colon that the doctor had feared might be cancerous,
subsequent medical inspection showed no trace of either disease.
Chapter
45
Governor
General’s Award
“Could
you come to the first assembly of the new school year to accept an award for
you son, Ronald?”The invitation came from Mr. Smith, superintendent of Aden
Bowman, the academic track high school of Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada.
“Your son has been awarded the Governor General’s award for excellence in
academics and citizenship,” the superintendent explained, “and since he is away
at college, we would like for you to represent him by receiving the award.”
There
was no question about our being at that assembly. The Governor General’s award
is not something given out yearly as are so many awards. It is given only to
outstanding students who show promise of continued achievement. Aden Bowman, in
spite of its standing as an academic track school, had not received the award
in a number of years. This was big news for the entire community. The local
radio station was interviewing Ron by telephone, the superintendent said, and
that interview would be broadcast at the assembly as well as on the air.
The
award was first announced to the waiting assembly of students, teachers and guests.
An “Ah-h-h-h” of amazement rippled through the auditorium in which we were assembled. Then Ron’s grades were
read, subject by subject. The “Ah-h-h’s “cascaded around the room with each
revelation. Finally the radio personality’s voice came over the speaker system
with the question, “Ron, how did you do it?”
Without
hesitation, Ron’s voice came clear as a bell, “I prayed a lot!”
The
interview went on for several minutes, and we received the medal for our son
with great dignity and ceremony, but I remembered only those first four words,
“I prayed a lot!” God had been good to give us such a son and now his testimony
was broadcast for all his friends and fellow students to hear. What was that
scripture? “In all thy ways acknowledge him, and He shall direct thy paths.”
With such a teammate, Ron would make it all the way!
Chapter
46
Peter’s
Brother
It
was early evening when the call came. Peter explained that his brother had just
come home from the hospital on a brief leave and was unable to keep food in his
stomach. Because he knew that I was a
nutritionist he thought I might be able to help them find something he could
retain when he ate.
First
of all, we were surprised that Peter had a brother. In all of the time we had
known him,there had never been mention of one. Later we learned that the family
had been so incensed that Peter and his family would join the Reorganized
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints that they had banished them from
the family. It was only in near death that Isaac had called on his younger brother for help.
After
a number of questions relayed from me to Peter to Ike and back again, I asked
if we could just come to where the sick man was so I could talk to him
personally. I was certain we would have a greater chance of finding some
satisfactory solution to his problem.Sensing the great need for other ministry
as well, Delbert asked Elder Danny Belrose to go with us.
Whe
Delbert, Danny, and I entered the home that we did not know existed, the sight
that greeted us momentarily shook our composure. Ike was half reclining against
a table. He had been straining against the wretching of his stomach that kept
him from keeping his food. There was a
quilt draped across his shoulders, but when he turned to face us, his chest and
upper abdomen were completely bare. Every rib was clearly visible and his
sternum stood out like the lodge pole of an ancient roof. The fragile skin that
seemed to try to wrap the bones in safety, served only to accent their stark
projection.
Deepset
eyes peered out of scarcely hidden sockets. His beard hung loosely from too
prominent cheek bones made so by the absence of flesh beneath the skin. Cancer
of the pancreas, they explained. The prognosis was not good! The sick man was
obviously hungry , but hunger was not uppermost on his mind.
As
soon as Peter introduced us and Isaac was aware that he was in the presence of
ministers, instead of turning to me for help with his food, Ike turned to the
seventy.”They wouldn’t believe me! I tried to tell them, but they wouldn’t
believe me!” The tone was pleading as though the most important thing in his
life now was to have someone with whom to share some strange and wonderful
happening.
“What
wouldn’t they believe?” Delbert asked compassionately.
Strength
seemed to return to the sick man as he told his story. Ike was in the last
stages of cancer. When it was apparent that he was not beating the disease that
ravaged his body, he had made a decision to end the suffering. He had gone to
the end of the hall on the hospital’ s upper floor with every intention of
throwing himself out of the window to end his life quickly. The suffering was
more than he could endure and his doctors could give him no hope that it would
ever be different.
As
he started to mount the window sill, a hand closed over his, an arm embraced
his shoulder and he found it impossible to jump. Startled, he looked around to
see who had followed him. He had been certain the hall was empty! There stood a
heavenly messenger who smiled encouragingly at him and invited him to see how
beautiful his life was in the eyes of God. Then there opened a vision of the
wonderful life that could be his. He saw things that he could never desscribe
and heard sounds that he said could not be heard with ears. Finally the
angel slowly rotated his hand so Ike could see that it held a metal plate with inscriptions on it. He was given a
moment to examine the inscriptions but he could not read them. Then the
messenger just faded away.
Isaac
hurried back to his room filled with desire to share his experience with his
minister. His minister came, heard the story and told him that he had been
visited by the devil! All of his protests were to no avail. When other members
of his congregation visited him, most of them agreed with the minister. Some
were not so certain but thought that he might have been just hallucinating.
“Well,
we believe you!” The seventy looked at Danny and me for confirmation of his
statemnt . We nodded ascent. Then Danny added emphatically , “We certainly do!”
“Do
you know why the messenger would have shown you a metal plate with inscriptions?” Delbert was puzzled by that
part of the narrative.
“I
think I know”. It was Peter who entered the conversation. “The one thing that
disturbed my family most about our becoming members of the Saints church was
the Book of Mormon. They could not believe that it was translated by the gift
and power of God from metal plates with inscriptions on them in a foreign
language. I believe the Lord wanted Ike
to know that the Book of Mormon is true.”
Ike
was nodding ascent.
It
was then that Ike asked the seventy if he would pray for him. Delbert explained
the instruction of James that the elders should anoint with oil and pray the prayer of faith for those who
had faith to be healed. “That’s what I want!” Ike’s dep set yes glowed with
anticipation.
The
administration was completed. Ike no longer needed my advice. He could eat. It
was not many days before he was at home for good.
Isaac’s
doctors had advised him that the cancer came from heavy drinking and smoking and both must stop.For a time
that advice was heeded. Then the pressures of friends and family and old habits
became too great and Ike rejoined his old way of life. Soon he was back in the
hospital again.
Twice
more Ike was visited by the heavenly messenger. At one time a nurse was trying unsuccessfully to get a
sample of his blood.The angel came, laid his hand on Ike’s arm and the blood
flowed freely filling the nurse’s tube. At another time Ike was suffering
unbearable pain in his abdomen. This time the heavenly being placed his hand,
still holding the metal plate with inscriptions , on his distended stomach and
eased the terrible pain that wracked his body. Again his unexpected umprovement
made it possible for him to return home. Again his pastor, family and friends,
insisted that he had been visited by the devil.
They
refused to believe that his visitor was a messenger from heaven. Only Peter and
his family and friends believed. To go with Peter into the Restoration,
however, meant alienation from the rest of the family , and Isaac was just not
strong enough to take the shunning that Peter had taken for so many years.
Again he returned to the life style that the doctors had warned him was responsible
for his illness and finally died of the cancer that had devastated his body.
Chapter
47
Kathy’s
Missing Contact Lens
“Has
your faith been tested lately? I don’t mean, ‘Has something bad happened to
you?’ That is what so many times we think of as a trial of our faith.
Resignedly we accept bad things that happen as a ‘trial of our faith’. But I
believe there is a better meaning for the term. I mean, ‘Has the Lord given you
an opportunity to try out the promises He has given you in the scriptures?” It
was our son, Douglas, now a priest in Christ’ church, who was asking the
question in one of his sermons. He then followed with this story:
“A
trial of my faith occurred when I was living in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan,
Canada. I was a freshman in high school and , even though I was the youngest
member of the group, I had recently
been drafted to be the president of the youth organization then called
the Zion’s League. In that group there was one, Joni Turnbull.
“Joni
had come to a very small group of youth, usually about four, with a friend who
was also new to the group. Her friend came just because she had promised her grandmother that she would attend at
least one youth meeting in her grandmother’s church. Since she did not want to
go where she knew no one, she invited Joni to go with her.
“Joni
was immediately enthralled with the message of the gospel that she heard there.
She would have been baptized soon after
being introduced to the church, but her parents thought it best that she wait
until she was sixteen so she would be sure she was not making a mistake. The
delay did not stop Joni from inviting her friends to church activities and from being at the church every time the
doors were opened. Her enthusiasm was so catching that soon even non-members
were inviting their friends, and the League meetings would have forty people
instead of four. This was especially true of the night we planned fun activites
like the hayride on which I found just what faith can do.
“We
had had a great time throwing hay at each other, pushing people off the wagon
and doing other risky things one should never do. The sun had set about 5:00
pm., so the entire ride was in the
dark, lighted only by our flashlights.The ride began and ended at the Louck’s
farm, and when we returned there, everyone was having a wonderful time when
suddenly Kathy, Joni’s younger sister, began to cry. She had lost her contact
lens. This was actually the second time she had lost a lens, and after
replacing the first set, her parents had told her that if she lost another, she
would have to pay the seventy five dollar bill herself.
“Kathy
was frantic. No one of us knew what to do until Joni stepped in.”Don’t get all
upset,’ she said. ‘We’ll just pray that we will find it’.
“My
heart sank as Joni gathered everyone to
have prayer. What did she think she was doing? It’s hard enough to find a
contact lens on a hard wood floor, let alone in a snow covered field or a pile
of scrambled hay in the dark. What if God didn’t answer our prayer? Here were all
of these non-member friends who were going to be witnesses to God’s failure to
answer prayer. I mean, I believed in general that God answers prayer, but I had
no confidence that He was going to answer this prayer! Joni had become so
caught up in the things she was hearing at church that she was actually going
to try out a promise of the scriptures right in front of all of these people!
She must have taken literally the promise we had read in church school from the
Book of Mormon which says,”… whoso
believeth in Christ, doubting nothing, whatsoever he shall ask the Father in
the name of Christ, it shall be granted him; and this promise is to all, even
unto the ends of the earth.
“I
wasn’t able to get to Joni in time to stop her, so we found ourselves holding
hands in a big circle and praying about finding Kathy’s contact.
I
couldn’t think of anyting else to do, so I prayed as hard as I could that we
could find the missing lens.
“As
soon as the prayer was finished, we all stood around wondering what to do next-
all except Joni, of course. She grabbed a flashlight, walked over to the hay
wagon, lifted a handful of hay and exclaimed ,’Here it is!”
“When
Joni picked up that lens, I learned a lot about how God can answer prayer when
we believe in Him. Certainly I knew that
the answer to that prayer had nothing to do with the amount of faith I
had that it would be answered, but Joni’s trial of her faith was justified. It
was her willingness to try her faith that brought the victory.And whenever I
hear anyone talking about finding the proverbial needle in a haystack, I
remember how the Lord led Joni, because of her faith, to find that contact lens
in a stank of hay.
“Incidentally,
several of those present that night were later baptized, not because of the
miracle of the missing lens but because they, too, found fellowship with the
Master who invites us to try our faith!”
Chapter
48
A
Youth Retreat of Faith
“Fifty
one, fifty two, fifty three-” Keith Jeffrey and our son Ron hovered over the
mustard seeds piled on the kitchen table of the mission housein Saskatoon,
Saskatchewan, Canada. “How many of these do you suppose would be required to
yield enough energy to blow the Prairie Pimple off the face of the earth?”
Keith paused in his counting to inquire. “I don’t know ,” Ron responded. “How
big is the Prairie Pimple?”
The
subject of their inquiry was an artificial hill that had been built by civil
engineers on the edge of an arroyo south of Saskatoon to provide a ski site for
competitors in the 1971 Canadian Winter Games. The hill had been maintained to
provide a recreational opportunity for Saskatchewan skiers even after the
competition was history. Functional as it was, it stood like an errant blemish
on the surrounding prairie landscape, and was the object of many local jokes.
“Let’s
find out how big it is,” Ron proposed as he headed toward the phone to call the
engineers.
“How
many cubic feet of dirt did you use in
building the ski hill south of town?” Ron asked the engineer who answered his
call. There was a long wait while the engineer found the information for him.
Then
it was the engineer’s turn to be curious. “Why would you ask?” he wanted to
know.
“We
are having a youth retreat here in Saskatoon this Thanksgiving weekend with the
focus on faith.” Ron responded. “You know the Bible says that if one has faith
as a mustard seed, he can remove mountains. We are trying to see how many
mustard seeds it would take to remove your mountain. We just wanted you to know
so that if the hill disappears this weekend , you will know what happened.” Ron
said it with tongue in cheek and a broad smile on his face. The engineer
laughed heartily with him.
The
weekend did turn out to be remarkable. Youth came for all over Saskatchewan,
Alberta, Montana and three carloads even made the long journey from Graceland
College in Lamoni, Iowa!The Gracelanders came
principally because one of their number was to be baptized along with
other youth with whom many were friends, Ken Ward had found his faith renewed
at Graceland and wanted everyone to know of his new life.
Allen
Perry and Murray Foster were also among those making their covenant with God
that day. Murray’s parents did not understand or approve his baptism and so did
not attend the service. Murray asked me to receive him out of the water , and I
was thrilled to substitute for his mother in this sacrament. I can still see
the broad smile he wore when the baptism was completed and feel the imprint of
the kiss he planted on my cheek as I
wrapped him in one of the new terry cloth robes I had made just for such
an occasion. Murray had been comforted about his parent’s objections to his
baptism by a dream he had before the day of commitment. Because of the dream,
he felt assured that they would not always object to his decision and that his
father might one day join in the church’s ministry.
After
the three young men were baptized, there was another unforgettable moment. I
had made long white terrycloth robes for use at the Saskatoon church so
baptismal candidates could remain in the sanctuary until the service was
finished. Dressed in the robes, the three young men put their arms around each
other and sang with the congregation, “Unto God who knows our every weakness,
With faith we lift our hearts in prayer. Asking in humility and meekness, For
his love, his direction and his care. In these Latter Days, With Songs of
Praise , we all must help to spread the gospel story. Our every deed from sin
be freed till Zion we redeem” Some said
they reminded them of the three Nephites about whom we had talked in one of our
sessions that weekend. All of us were inspired!
The
weekend began with the arrival of the youth on Friday night. The church had
been damaged severely by a recent flood and there had not yet been time for
repairs. We had rented a school building for the weekend activities, but it was
not available until Saturday, so we had them all come to the mission house for
assignments. Since it took eight to ten hours for even our Northern Plains and
Prairie Province youth to come from their homes, they were arriving most of the
night. After about 1:00 o’clock we did not send anyone ot another hosue but
bedded them down some place in the mission house. We went to bed for th elast
time at about 4:00 o’clock in the morning!
I never did get a count on how many stayed with us, but we were pretty
well wall to wall people, and we had somewhere between twenty-five and thirty
there for breakfast on Saturday.
Although
the rally officially closed at three thirty on Sunday, many of our guests did
not leave for another twenty-four hours or so. Two carloads from Calgary could
not leave. The drivers of their
cars had gone to celebrate Thanksgiving
with family and friends elsewhere, and the young ones had no choice but to
spend the holiday with us. Some of the local youth wanted to stay with them as long as possible, so we
had something like thirty for Thanksgiving
dinner, counting neighbors and friends we had already invited for that
occasion. I know we served two turkeys and a ham that Thanksgiving , but did
have some leftover turkey considering that we had also served that traditional
bird at the school on Sunday and some had celebrated Thanksgiving at home
before the rally. They were a little tired of turkey!
Tlhe
weather was supposed to have been dreadful for the weekend, but we exercised
some of the faith we were to discuss, and there was only a brief downpour on
Sunday morning that should not have bothered any of us. Two of the fellows,
however, stayed in bed during the first service and got caught in the deluge on their way to the second. They were
so soaked that they went home to change and missed the entire morning.
Lives
were changed at that rally. At least one young man came whom we had not seen at
any church event in five years, not even at camps held close to his home. Some
who knew him declared that it was the Lord who brought him knowing that he
would go away with new direction for his life.
Our
son Doug was responsible for one of th eactivites. On Friday night he became very ill. Knowing the need for his
ministry and his need to experience all the weekend had to offer, I suggested
that he read Doctrine and covenants Section 23: 6a. There he read that the
elders were not to require miracles
unless so commanded except for casting out devils, healing the sick, against
poisonous serpents and against deadly poisons, and “these things ye shall not
do, except it be required of you by them who desire it.”
Doug
asked for Elder Orval Fisher and another to administer to him, informing them
that,”I require a healing!”
The
elders were surprised at the intensity of Doug’s request. They administered
with more than usual faith.Doug was instantly healed and carried his share of
the responsibilities all weekend.
There
were no classes as one usually defines classes. There were continual activities
in which acts of faith were explored by scripture study, by visual
presentation, by drama, impromptu and otherwise, by movies, by interviews with
those with testimonies to share and by games. Every life was touched by the
Spirit of God renewing and increasing faith in both young and old. Those of us
who provided food and housing were blessed to be a part of the experience.
We
never did find out how many mustard seeds it would take to remove Saskatoon ‘s
mountain, but we learned a lot about how faith makes life exciting and new!
Chapter49
Timmy
Woynarski’s Healing
It
was Wednesday night and the Regina, Saskatchewan, Canada congregation had met
for prayer service. Ronald was traveling with his seventy father in mission at
the time and they were both present at this meeting.Stan and Sandy Woynarski
had asked for prayers for their newly adopted son, Timmy. Twice since his
recent adoption the family had made plans to take him east to Ontario to introduce
him to his extended family, and twice
it had been necessary to hospitalize him instead.
Timmy
was unusually sensitive to allergens. Already the family had removed pets, rugs
and every known source of allergies the boy suffered, but still there was
difficulty. Although Sandy was a nurse, life threatening attacks continued to
force the family to resort to medical procedures available only in the hospital
to save his life. This time it was particularly disappointing because it was
holiday time and one of the rare times that Stan could get away for an extended
period of time.
By
way of introduction to prayer, Delbert quoted the scriptures that assure us
that if two or more are met together in prayer, their minds touching one thing,
the Lord will grant whatsoever they ask. He then asked the group to have a
circle prayer for Timmy. Each one was to take his/her turn as the opportunity
came to them in the circle to pray for Timmy to be healed.
Enthusiastically
the people entered into the prayer, but soon the seventy became aware that the
participants were not united in their requests. Reluctantly he interrupted the
prayers with a caution that if they were to expect their prayers to be
answered, they should remember to pray for Timmy’s healing with faith and with
unity. Again and again the effort was made to be united but always without
success.
Finally
the service ended, but the seventy asked that any who would like to continue
the prayer should gather at the Woynarski home for that purpose. Almost the
entire congregation responded. The prayers at the home became increasingly
united. At about eleven o’clock the group disbanded.
Early
the next morning Sandy called to report to the two ministers. “You’ll never
guess what happened!” she announced excitedly. “Try me!” It was the seventy who
responded expectantly.
Very
early that morning, Sandy had gone to the hospital. Timmy, the little one who
had been housed in an oxygen tent, barely able to survive the night before, was
sitting up and eating !”In fact”, the puzzled nurse on duty explained, “He has been eating
ravenously since just before midnight last night! I don’t know what happened.’
“I do”, Sandy had declared confidently
as she explained to the duty nurse what had transpired at the church and in their
home the night before. Then Sandy checked her new son out of the hospital, and
, she reported to the seventy, the Woynarskies were soon to be on that long
anticipated trip to the homefolk in
Ontario. Certainly, now it was time for prayers of thanksgiving!
Chapter
50
Ron’s
Summer Job
Ron’s
first year at Graceland College was finished and three more were yet to come.
Appointee families were not allowed to put money in their budgets to be saved
for advanced education for their children. There was a policy that promised
some help when the children chose to go on past high school. When the policy
was established back in the late sixties, there was a stipend of one hundred
fifty dollars available for each year in college. The plan was to increase the amount
by one hundred and fifty dollars a year until the amount equaled the tuition at
Graceland. With Graceland’s tuition increasing yearly, that goal seemed a long
while off!
Graceland
was helpful because it offered scholarships for academic achievement and for
participation in school activities of a number of sorts. Ron, like his brother
Alan before him, had obtained those scholarships, and there was no question but
that he would be able to retain them. Like all of our children, he had also
saved his money since a small child to be certain he had a start on college.
Both he and Alan had carried papers from the time they were able to lug a pack
of them and their carefully kept record books testified to the fact that their
money was never squandered. In fact, little of it was spent except for tithes
and offerings, gifts and a rare treat for themselves and friends. Saving for
college was always an activity that most of our children’ friends just could
not understand.
Long
before Graceland was recessed for summer, calls had come in for Ron to serve on
camp staffs throughout the region. His ministry was already known from his
working camps all of the summers we had lived in Canada and he knew almost all
of the youth who would be served. He wanted to fulfill every request. To do so
would mean no work and no money to use for that next school year. We could help
a little from our family allowance for food and clothing, but with two sons in
college, the help would be minimal.
The
decision was not really difficult. Ron knew from the start that he would work
at the camps until they were finished and trust that there would be money for
his year at Graceland when the time came.
Camps
for the summer were nearly finished when the call came. Jared Ingram was short
a man on his crew that installed and serviced measuring devices on elevators
throughout the northern tier of prairie states in the USA. Could Ron possible
join them for the rest of the summer? The work would be hard and dangerous, but
the pay would be good and all expenses would be paid. Ron could and did and
ended the summer with as much money as he would have had at any of the regular
jobs available to him when the summer started. God has wondrous ways of
providing for those who trust in Him!
Chapter
51
One
Memorable , Heaven Blessed Year
Nineteen
seventy seven was a memorable year for the Smith family. During the previous
year Steven had been in his serious accident. Then he was graduated from
Graceland College, accepted at Western College of Veterinary Medicine in
Saskatoon and became engaged to a charming Missouri girl named Cindy. They had
set their wedding for a day in May, 1977 and the place at Guilford, Missouri,
Cindy’s home town.
We
were well aware that a young veterinary student marrying a girl with years of
her own college yet to finish would find it difficult to meet the financial
obligations of his family. We had nothing in the way of money to contribute,
but there was ample room in the mission house for two families now that our
other children were all gone from home.Cindy and Steve could have the
downstairs for an apartment.
Meanwhile
Ron had entered graduate school at Ames, Iowa. He had become engaged to a
lovely Canadian school teacher named Di who had her own home with furnishings
accumulated from her own endeavors and from her mother’s untimely death. For
the past year, she had been one of Delbert’s missionary team traveling through
the Northern Plains and Prairie Provinces Region. Ron and Di likewise set their
wedding date for May, 1977 and set the place in Ames, Iowa. Di’s parents were
no longer living, and she chose to be married near Ron’s place of residence.
In
anticipation of the weddings only a week apart and in adjoining states, I
accepted an invitation to be the guest speaker at a women’s institute in Iowa
just prior to the happy events. The plan was for Delbert and his team to finish
their work at Porcupine Plain, Saskatchewan, pick up Di’s possessions in
Calgary, Alberta, transport them to the States in the old “Love Bus” that had
carried the Region’s youth on two memorable caravans but which the district had
retired and sold to Steven for one dollar.After the weddings Steven was to
transport his new bride’s possessions back to Saskatoon in the bus while she
followed in the car that her parents were giving them for a wedding gift.
The
plan sounded quite reasonable to us all, but a couple of unexpected situations
muddled it a bit.
I
was to stay on Graceland’s Campus with our daughter karen during my wait fo
rthe weddings. Karen saw me coming and ran to meet me. Instead of “Hello” or
any such expected salutations she greeted me with the question, “Mother, did
you know that we are being moved?”
In
those days it was not unusual for appointee families to be moved without being
consulted. We usually accepted the procedure without question.But this time it
was different. How would Steve and Cindy live if they had to pay rent as well
as their living and school fees? Steven had received good bursaries and loans
from the Canadian government. Whether they would be so generous with his new
bride from the States was another question. This was something we had not
anticipated or even suspected might happen!
“Moved!”
I repeated the word in disbelief! “Moved where?”
“I
don’t know,” Karen responded, “ but Harry Black has been telling the Canadian
students that we are being moved!”
“Well,
Harry is our Regional Administrator. He ought to know. Where is he now?” I was
anxious to get to the bottom of this new development.
“He’s
gone. I don’t know where he is.” Karen had told me all that she knew.
A
few minutes later, I was crossing the campus when I was hailed by seventy Don
Comer. “Hi!” he said cherrily.” I hear you are being moved!”
“Moved!”
I responded as though I had never heard the news . “Moved where?”
“You
mean you don’t know?” Don was surprised and not a little embarrassed that he
might have spoken out of turn. “No.” I responded. “I didn’t know until I got to
Graceland, and I have no idea where we are going!”
Don
refused to give further information if , indeed, he had any more to share.
Somehow
the news got to the apostle in charge of the field that I was at Graceland and
he called asking for Delbert. He said he had been trying unsuccessfully for
days to find him. I told him where he was working and that he would soon be on
his way to the States. Could I do anything for him? Oh, no! He
just wanted to talk to Delbert. Little did he guess that I had already
been informed of what he wanted to talk about, but I bit my tongue just to see
how far this charade would go before someone decided to break protocol and give
the family some information.
In
the meantime back in Canada there had been a complication arise in clearing Di
for her entrance to the States. At one time she had been in England and Wales
for a year as a member of the church’s Older Youth Service Corps. In reviewing
her application for her visa, which she had been assured was already cleared,
someone finally noticed that little detail. The consul had as much trouble
trying to catch up with her and the team as the apostle had been having trying
to find them. So it was not until she was enroute to her wedding and had gone
to the consulate in Calgary to pick up her papers that she learned that she was
refused legal engrance to the USA until officials had time to check with the
police in England and Wales to see if she had a criminal record there.
Di
protested that she had been told that all of the papers were in order. She had
complied with every requirement of which she had been informed. The response
was to ask her who had given her such information. Of course , she could not
identify the person.
When
it was apparent that Di was about to dissolve into tears, Delbert took over the
inquiry. He suggested an overseas phone call would quickly determine the facts.
That would not do. They had to have her clearance in writing! What about a
telegram? That was not acceptable, either. It had to be signed by the proper
authorities. But the wedding was
scheduled for that weekend. If she had to wait for the clearance, there could
be no wedding. Well, that was just to bad! Laws are laws! They had to have the
certification in writing and properly signed!
In
desperation, Del called me to relay the news and to see whether something could
be done from this side of the border since it was US immigration that was
holding up Di’s entrance for her wedding. As was customary in the family, he
also asked us to pray with them that
this impasse could somehow be resolved.
I
called Ron, and together we spent the day callign every one we could think of
and praying as we called. We enlisted the help of Iowa’s senators, immigartion
officials, you name it! We ketp the phone lines buzzing! Every one was
sympathetic, but no one could lpromise anything to help.
Back
in Canada, Delbert finally asked the consul,”What do you suggest we do?” and Di
added her tearful, “What can we do?”
Touched
by Di’s consternation, the officer’s demeanor softened. “I can’t tell you this
and you didn’t hear it here, but I think if I were in your place, I would just
go to the border and take my chances.”
After cautioning them to be sure
everything was in order, no contraband, complete agricultural inspection if she
wanted to take any of her houseplants, no liquor, the officer said,”Don’t tell
any lies, but don’t answer questions you are not asked! Don’t say any more than
you have to.”
Relieved
to have this tacit approval of their venture, the little caravan headed for the
border. Di and her friend and teammate Kathy Garrett were in the bus with
Delbert. Allan White and Charmaine Chvala followed in the appointee car. They
had all been instructed to let Delbert do all of the talking. The rest were to
speak only if spoken to! And all of them were to pray!
As
they approached the border, Allan parked at the side of the drive wehre he and
Charmaine prayed as they awaited the final verdict. Di and Kathy had their prayer post inside the bus.
Delbert identified both vehicles as hes responsibility. Th inspector casually acknowledged the automobile and
then entered the bus.
“Where
are you headed?” was the first question.
“To
our son’s wedding.” was Delbert’s prompt reply.
“Have
you any liquor?” The response was prompt. “No!”
“What
are these?” The household furnishings were being pointed out.
“Household
goods”, Delbert responded truthfully. No more questions were asked about their
purpose or destination, and no one volunteered any more information.
“have
these been inspected?” The officer had turned his atttention to the array of
Di’s house plants.
“Yes,sir!” and Delbert produced the proper papers from
the department of agriculture that certified that the plants were healthy and
acceptable. They could be admitted into the States even if their owner could
not!
The
immigration officer studied the papers carefully.
“Have
you any liquor?” He repeated the question as he absentmindedly handed the
papers for the plants back.
The
answer was prompt as before. “No, sir!”
A
third time the officer asked whether they had liquor. Apparently he could not
conceive of a wedding party without some form of intoxicating beverage.
Di
could resisst no longer and spoke up. “Sir , we don’t drink.”
That
seemed to satisfy the man, and without a single question about the furniture’s
destination or of anyone’s intentions or eligibility he dismounted the bus and
waved both vehicles on across the border and into the USA.
Prayers
of thanksgiving ascended from both the bus and the car. The occupants thought
the passing reminded them of Peter Harder’s stories and the stories of Brother
Andrew crossing into Eastern Germany with their scriptures or even the Smith
family going into Mexico with the Fishburn legacy of photographic equipment so
needed there for missionary work. Di was on her way free and clear long before
Ron and I knew it was safe to stop trying to get her past the border.
Nearly
a year later when Ron and his Canadian bride went to Omaha to immigration to
try to make her a legal alien instead of an alien illegally living in the
country, the immigration officer had a hard time believing their story. He
vowed that he had worked on that border , and no one could get across on the
terms they chronicled.
For
Steve and Cindy, the way was miraculously cleared as well. When we left for our
new assignment in St. Louis, we were able to leave some furniture and equipment
to help make their neat two story duplex cozy and efficient.
Yes!
Nineteen seventy -seven was a memorable year for the Smith family. The
testimony of the crossing of the border and the provision for both young
couples would long be favorite stories to share.
Chapter
52
First
Fruits
When
we learned that we were being transferred away from Canada, leaving Steven and
Cindy without the free housing on which they had planned, it was too late to
stop Steven coming to the States for his wedding. He was already on his way.
And it was doubtful that the young couple would want to change their plans
because ours were disrupted. When Steven and Cindy heard the news, they smiled
nervously, but didn’t change a thing.
When
the wedding was over, there were gifts to be packed and acknowledged. For Steve
and Cindy, those gifts were also to be evaluated. They wanted to pay tithing on
their value. Parternership with God had long been a tenant of their lives. Of
all the things they wanted in their home, the Lord’s blessing topped the list.
Among
the gifts was an automobile that Cindy had been driving. It’s value brought the
total of the gifts to five thousand dollars. One tenth was five hundred dollars. With the money they had been given they would pay the
tithe.
The
decision startled Delbert and me a little. Although we had taught Steven the
promise of the Lord to bless those who remembered to give of their first fruits
in tithing, under the circumstances, this seemed a bit foolhardy. After all,
God could wait. They could not. They had to have a place to live and food to
eat!
The
wedding was in May, and we had until August to move. That would give a little
time for finding a place to live and for arranging loans for both their college
and living.
As
soon as we all returned to Canada, they began looking for a place to live.
Between our home and the University of
Saskatchewan there was an area of government subsidized housing.
Everyone to whom we talked said there was no way one could just walk into
Gladmer and become a resident without suffering through a long waiting period.
But somehow, Steve and Cindy did just that. While Steven was in school, Cindy
went house hunting. They were admitted almost immediately. Some of their
friends had tried repeatedly to gain access to similar housing without success.
Steve and Cindy knew they were doubly blessed. They had the housing and the
rent was based upon their income, which
at the moment was almost non-existent. They were even given bursaries and loans
that made it possible for Steven to continue his veterinary medicine education
and Cindy to transfer to the University of Saskatchewan to continue work on her
degree in music.
Furnishing
their new home began with the myriad of beautiful gifts they had been given.
Then there were second hand pieces of furniture and appliances and some that we
were able to leave with them because of our move. Their new home was
comfortable if not palatial.
Not
the least of their blessings was the friendship of Peter and Amy Beuckert and
their family. The Beuckerts lived on a farm outside the city. Cindy was at home on the farm, and being there enhanced
Steven’s studies of animals and animal life. From the farm, Peter and Amy
furnished the young couple milk by the gallons, chickens, eggs, honey, the
equal of which they had never seen except for that which the Beuckerts had
furnished the seventy’s family through
the years.
Just
before Steven was to graduate with his Doctor of Veterinary Medicine degree, he
received a letter. Years before, while he was in Chrisman Junior High in
Independence, Missouri, the Explorer Scouts had asked him what he wanted to do
for his life work. He responded that he wanted to be a veterinarian. Immediately
the Scouts invited him to join their
medical unit. He was delighted even though they were involved in human
medicine, not animal.
The
troupe had arrangements for training with the Independence Sanitarium and
Hospital. First the Scouts were taught first aid by hospital personnel. They
were then allowed to work in the emergency room of the hospital. At first it
was just to carry messages and assist with patient belongings. But before long,
they were more specifically involved with the patients. Steven loved it! Even
on Sundays, he would run home from church, eat whatever was available even
before the family arrived for their more sumptuous dinner and run to the
hospital just a couple of blocks away.
As
summer approached, Steven decided he should find out whether he really wanted
veterinary medicine or whether human medicine might be a better choice. To help
determine the course he should really prusue, he asked Dr. Wendell Kelly if he
might work at his pet hospital for the summer. “You don’t have to pay me,’ he
explained. “Just schedule me in with your other help so I can see what it is
like.”
Dr.
Kelly did as Steven requested. Steven worked faithfully, and at the end of the
summer, the good doctor gave him one hundred dollars for his work.
Although
Steven had never suspected it, Dr. Kelly had kept track of his progress through college. Now that he
was about to graduate, there was an invitation to go to Independence to work in
the same clinic in which he had volunteered all those years before. So Steve and
Cindy moved to Independence and started their career, and their family.
Soon
they were pregnant. In Canada there was no concern about financing the birth of
a baby. All medical care in the province of Saskatchewan was completely free.
By now Steven was working at two veterinary establishments trying to save money
to purchase their own facility. There were no medical benefits with Steven’s
work at either clinic, and they had not thought of purchasing medical
insurance. They had saved enough for the birth and about five thousand dollars
towards their owning a clinic of their own.
Thiera
was born a healthy, beautiful baby with a APGAR rating that was almost perfect. Before the day of her birth was
over, however, the pediatrician who was attending her noticed that there was
something wrong. Closer examination revealed that she had become infected with
a very serious blood infection. No one was ever certain how the organism gained
entrance to her blood stream. They were sure, however, that Thiera would have
died had not the doctor been recently trained and that training had made him
familiar with this particular type of infection, sometimes picked up by
hospital babies.
In
spite of immediate medical attention, the little one became increasingly ill.
She became lethargic. Her white blood cell count soared. There was serious
doubt that Thiera would live. We were all praying for her healing, and after
the administration prayer in which the prophet, himself, participated, the
medical records show there was immediate response on the part of the little
one’s body.
When
the ordeal was over, however, the bill nearly wiped out the young couple’s
savings. Of the five thousand dollars saved for the clinic, there were three
hundred left.
“It’s
no use!” Steven reported dejectedly to Dr. Dylie, the one from whom the
proposed purchase was to be made. “I have no way of buying the clinic now.” The
purchase price of one hundred twenty five thousand dollars seemed entirely out
of reach!
“Could
you buy it,” countered the good doctor, “if you could get it for eighty-five
thousand?”
Steven
shook his head. He knew that the doctor wanted to sell the clinic quickly so he
could give his full attention to his primary clinic in another part of the city. “I have nothing for a down
payment.”
“Could
you buy it , “ again the doctor countered, “if you could have it for a five
thousand dollar down payment, and you could work out the payment?”
Of
course, Steven and Cindy were delighted. The deal was made. Although it looked
for awhile as though God had forgotten his part of the partnership, nothing
could be further from the truth. What was taken away in medical payments was
returned many fold. God does honor his promises! He is worthy of our first
fruits!
Chapter
53
Beloved
Dummy
Bert
Morris had had a discouraging day. The work in which he and Janice had invested
their lives and their material possessions was not fulfilling their
expectations of kingdom building potential . Bert came to the prayer meeting
unhappy with himself and the choices he had made that had put them in this
untenable position.
Bert
was in charge of the service. LGordon Swetnam gave the theme talk. He used the
story from John 8:3-11 of the adulteress who was to be stoned until Christ
stooped and wrote on the ground. None of us knows what he wrote, but her
accusers knew and each one quietly slipped away, leaving her alone with the
Master.
Picking
up on the story, Bert said he wondered what the Lord would write about him if
he were to write for others to see. The good elder spoke dejectedly.”If I were
to meet my Lord tonight, I’m sure he would write, “Dummy!” He then told of some
of the times when he felt that he had failed his Lord.
One
time in particular, Bert explained, he was attending a dinner meeting of his
company. Many of his coworkers gathered very early to drink. By dinner time
they were quite drunk. Bert reacted to their behavior with anger . When the
atheist president of the company asked him to offer the blessing, instead of
being thankful for the opportunity, Bert said he had never in his life offered
a prayer standing so straight and tense.
Sometime
after that event and somehow connected with it, a woman that Bert did not know
came to his attention. He learned that she was married to one of his coworkers
who had been at that dinner meeting at which he had prayed so reluctantly.
Somehow he felt impressed that he should tell her about Jesus Christ. Because
he did not know her, he hesitated and procrastinated the Spirit’s direction.
Several times, he felt that he must tell her about the Christ, but each time he
hesitated and waited for a more convenient situation.
One
morning as he rounded a corner on his way to work, he met his coworker’s wife
going the opposite direction and felt strongly that he must tell her about the
Christ. He started to touch the brake, hoping to stop her and share his
testimony, but somehow that seemed a
foolish thing to do, and he procrastinated again. That day she took her own
life by hanging. Bert was burdened for nearly a year and a half because of his
failure to follow the Lord’s direction.
Then
one day as he sat at his desk, he felt impressed to go tell his atheist boss
about Jesus Christ. Determined tha the would not fail again, he got right up,
walked down the hall, knocked at the
door, and upon being invited to enter said abruptly, “The Lord has just
told me to come tell you about Jesus Christ.” Promptly he launched into his
testimony.
His
employer listened politely, then thanked him. He told Bert he still did not
believe in Jesus Christ. He believed that we had our beginnings in the ooze of
an ocean bed, but he did appreciate Bert’s willingness to come and tell him
differently. Bert said the burden he had carried for nearly eighteen months
lifted from him, and he was free!
Patriarch
Roland Stratman was visiting the St. Charles congregation that night. As soon
as Bert finished speaking, Brother Stratman spoke. “Im sure, Bert,” he said, “
that if our Lord wrote the word “dummy “ concerning you, He would write, “Beloved
Dummy!”
Relief
spread over Bert’s face as the Spirit of God confirmed the words of the
patriarch, and we all wept with him for joy at the affirmation of the Savior’s
love.
Chapter
54
An
Unexplained Highway Patrolman’s Saga
“Bert,
please tell us again!” Even after the family had heard his unusual story, we
wanted Elder Bert Morris to share it again and again with each friend who had
not heard it. Then there was a happy day when the story was printed in Bert’s
own words and distributed throughout the St. Louis Stake congregations. Here is
his story just as he told it;
“Several
years ago, while a member of the Missouri State Highway Patrol, I was awakened
in the early morning hours and told to go to an accident on highway 54 west of Bowling Green, Missouri. I may have
received a phone call, but I’m not sure exactly how I was notified. As I drove
to the accident, I met no traffic and the weather was wet and foggy forcing me
to drive slowly.
“’As
I arrived at the scene of the accident, I saw a Ford automobile sitting in the
ditch on the wrong side of the highway. The complete right side was torn out. I
could see the items inside, including a lady’s purse, because a very bright
light filled and surrounded the area around the automobile.
“I
parked my car in the ditch on the opposite side of the road, tilted at about a
30 degree angle. I could not draw the spotlight down across the hood to light
up the area around the wrecked automobile. I could not determine a source from
which the other light came.
“The
driver of the wrecked car was standing on the shoulder and crying while leaning
on top of his car. As I approached him, I was given to know that he lived in
Independence, Missouri,and that he was a member of the church. I then said to
him, “you live in Independence and you
are a member of the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day
Saints.” He immediately gained his composure and told me that his wife had been
seriously injured and that an ambulance had picked her up. He was told by the
driver that I would know where he was taking his wife.
“I had not called an ambulance, nor
had I met one as I traveled to the accident. When I questioned this man, he
kept telling me the ambulance was there when the accident occurred. That’s the
only answer I ever received from him- the ambulance was here when the accident
occurred.
“Walking
down the highway about 100-150 yards, I found another wrecked automobile with
two intoxicated men who had very minor injuries. Around their automobile and
along the highway, it was so dark and wet that even my flashlight failed to
light the area. Yet each time I would bend over in tall grass, I would pick up
a can of cold beer or a bottle of whiskey that had been thrown from the
automobile to get rid of evidence. I never saw any of this until I would reach
down into the grass and it would be in my hand.
“Gathering
several for evidence, I loaded the two drunks and the driver of the other car
into my patrol car and started to the hospital in Louisiana, Missouri. As I
passed through Bowling Green, I radioed my Troop Headquarters and asked that a
doctor be sent to the medical clinic in Bowling Green and that he should
treat two men that I left on the front
steps. When the doctor was finished, he was to put them back on the front steps
and I would pick them up and take them to jail on my way back. My Troop headquarters questioned this
procedure. To me it seemed the normal thing to do.
“I
then proceeded to the hospital and interviewed a very injured lady in the
emergency room. She had three limbs broken in several places. In her arm, which
was open from the elbow to the wrist, I could see the bones in several places.
Yet she was happy, smiling, full of joy and thrilled to see her husband. She
acted as if she had no injuries at all.
“I
questioned three nurses that were present, trying to determine who the
ambulance driver was for insurance purposes. They stated they were each from
different floors of the hospital, and had no idea why they were gathered at the
emergency room door visiting this night. They stated they had never done this
before. They were surprised when the ambulance backed up to the door. A man of
average height and build got out, unloaded the
patient and helped them transfer the patient from the ambulance cart onto
the emergency room table. He never spoke, and they could give no further
description of him. He took his cart , put it back in the ambulance and
disappeared.
“I
was never able to find out any more concerning this man nor his ambulance. I
believe that it was angelic in nature.
“It
is also interesting to note that when I returned to Bowling Green, the two
intoxicated men had been treated, bandaged and left on the front steps. I
picked them up and placed them in the Pike County jail.
Chapter
55
Alan
Goodman Learns He’s A “Sheep”
The
fall of 1992 brought a number of families to Graceland College with youth who
were hoping to learn of her ways and one day be a part of the church’s premier
college. One such family called ahead from Illinois to find lodging with the
seventy and his family. Alan Goodman had hardly entered our door when he began
to recall his testimony of his acceptance
of the way of Christ’s kingdom as his way of life.
“I’ll
never forget that day when Delbert followed me to my car and told me I was a
sheep.” Alan spoke reverently with a sidewise movement of his head that said
plainly, “It stil puzzles and thrills me!”
“Tell
me about it.” I urged. If I had ever heard the story, I had forgotten it, and I
knew even if I had heard the story from Delbert, this first hand recital of it
would be different. This would be Alan’s story of what happened to him instead
of the seventy’s story of what he thought had happened to a wonderful young
husband and father who had just begun to find what great promises lay in the
kingdom of God.
“Well,
Delbert was holding a series of meetings at Taylorville, and of course, Karen
wanted me to go with her. Now that the children were old enough to be in church
services, she had some idea that we should all be in the church together!”
He said it with a wry smile, then went
on to explain, that being in church with his family really had not been
particularly important to him. He had other things to do. ”Since I was hesitant
to go with ther, she brought Delbert to
me,” he said with an appreciative grin. Karen invited the seventy to have
supper at their home.
“From
the time this fellow came into our house, he never stopped talking about the
kingdom of God and all of God’s promises in the scriptures.” At first, Alan admitted
that he didn’t listen very well but something finally caught his attention. He
was hearing ideas he had never heard before. It really sounded good, but he had
to leave to go to work.
“This
man followed me. “ Alan pointed toward the seventy and shook his head at the
remembrance as though it was still hard for him to believe what had happened.
The minister had leaned on the car door, still talking even after Alan had started the engine.
“Alan”,
the minister spoke earnestly, “You are a sheep!”
“Now
that really caught my attention!” Alan nodded to emphasize the significance of
the experience. He said he wasn’t sure whether that was a commendation or an
insult! So he asked, “A sheep? How do you mean I am a sheep?”
“Jesus
said, ‘ My sheep hear my voice, and I know them , and they follow me; and I
give unto them eternal life.’ He has let me know that you are a sheep!” The seventy spoke earnestly. It seemed
apparent that he really knew something Alan did not know.
“Well, that was food for thought!” Alan said he
couldn’t shake it all that night at work, and when morning came, he knew he had
to know more about who he really was! “What I found out changed my life and the
life of my family!’ There was no
question that he felt that the change had been for the better.
Since
his baptism, ‘Alan declared, Christ and His kingdom have been the center of his
life and the life of his family. Now they want their daughter to have every
opportunity to learn, in association with others of like precious faith for whom
the kingdom is as important as it is to them.
Fortunately,
we had the opportunity to counsel Alan that it is too much to expect that other
students or teachers anywhere have the same vision of the kingdom of God that
he has come to share with his family. Instead we urged him to help his daughter
learn for herself what the kingdom means and share tha knowledge with her
friends and associates where ever she lives or attends college.
Chapter
56
Rhonda
“Makes It” With God’s Help
“Wait!
Wait! Wait!”
We
heard the plea coming from across Brush Creek camp grounds as we started to
town to respond to our realtor’s call concerning the sale of our house in St.
Charles, Missouri. The closed windows of the car along with the sounds of the
motor and air conditioning fan distorted our sense of direction so that it was
difficult for us to tell from where the call was coming.Delbert slowly brought
the car to a full stop as we searched the area to find the one making the
urgent request. Soon we spotted a man running from between the cabins and
trailers to our left frantically flailing his arms in an effort to get
Delbert’s attention. Breathlessly he approached the car, slowing from his
frenzied pace to rest against the car a moment before he could speak.
“Can
you come and administer to Rhonda before you go?” Ron’s pleading eyes vividly
revealed his desperate need of an affirmative answer.
“Of
course I can !” The seventy quickly shifted the car into gear and parked it
beside the road. “Just wait right here,” he instructed me as he joined Ron as
they hurried off to the Phares’s quarters.
Rhonda
Phares was the youth director of her congregation, a beautiful person with a
nasty habit that she hated with an ambivalence characteristic of those addicted
to nicotine. Earlier when the seventy had visited her at home with the
venerable patriarch of the congregation, they had found her smoking. She was
very embarrassed and apologized. “I’m so sorry that you caught me smoking !”
she affirmed.
“Don’t
worry about us catching you smoking.” Delbert assured her. “It is the Lord you
need to be concerned about. It is to him that you have to answer, not to me! By
the way, “ he continued, “why do you smoke?”
“Because
I just like to smoke!”Rhonda answered pertly, and th subject was immediately
dropped.
It
was some time later that Rhonda was walking with the seventy over the foot
bridge at Brush Creek on their way to lunch. “I’m going to quite smoking”, she
announced quite unexpectedly. “I’m going to do it for Ron.”
“You’ll never make it!” The
seventy pronounced the prognosis solemnly.
Rhonda
was stunned. She had expected that the seventy would be delighted. “What, what
do you mean?” She stammered. “Why do you think I won’t make it?”
“You’ll
never make it if you do it for Ron,” the seventy explained. “Until you do it
for youself, it will never happen!”
The
rest of the walk to lunch was silent.
During
the week of Reunion, Rhonda’s experience with the Master caused her to really
want to stop smoking for herself. She threw away the cigarettes that she had
brought with her to camp and really tried to quit, but the trauma was too great
for her. On this day she was suffering as she had never suffered before. In desperation she had begged Ron to
go to town and get her replacements for the tobacco she had discarded.When he
had tried to support her in her effort
to quit and refused to go for the cigarettes, she had flown into a frenzy that
frightened them both. Ron had run to get the seventy’s help.
Ron
and Delbert hurried to the cabin and to the suffering young woman. Carefully
the seventy reassured her of the presence of the Master in her life and in her
desire to be rid of the terrible addiction that held her fast to her old
habit.After she was calmed and sure of her deepest desire to really quit the
addiction, another elder was called in and the ordinance of administration was
performed. Rhonda rested quietly and Delbert rejoined me in the car for our
errand into town.
The
evening service had just finished and we were visiting with those around us
near the front of the tabernacle when Delbert noticed Rhonda pressing her way
through the crowd toward us. Her face was aglow in such a way that he knew she
had something exciting to share with him. The seventy began to make his way
through the crowd to meet the beaming young woman.
“It
happened! It happened!” Rhonda’s upturned face wore a smile as broad as her
features would allow and her voice trembled with joy.
The
seventy could not help returning the smile as he responded questioningly. “What
happened?”
“The
Lord!” rhonda’s words tumbled out. “He took my desire to smoke away!”
Delbert
looked back over the crowd to the place where he had first seen Rhonda. There
Ron stood smiling almost as broadly as Rhonda while a tear glistened in his eye.
The seventy put his arm around Rhonda’s shoulders and together they made their
way back to where Ron waited.
“Tell
me about this!” Delbert demanded. “What
did happen, anyway?”
“It was during the last hymn,’
Ron explained. “Rhonda suddenly stopped singing and nudged me hard. When I
looked at her, she looked like she had
just seen an angel! She kept repeating over and over again, “It happened! It
happened!” When she finally could explain it , she told me that in that instant
the Lord had taken away her desire to smoke.
“Praise
the Lord!” was the seventy’s fervent
response as he hugged both man and wife. “Now, Rhonda, with God’s help, you’ll
make it!” was his new assessment of her future.
As
the seventy turned his attention to others who wanted to visit with him that
evening, Rhonda and Ron disappeared in the crowd. It was not long, however,
until the seventy noticed Rhonda again pressing through the crowd. In her hands
was a carton of fruit juice, a thanks offering for him for insisting that she must
do this thing for herself and then involking God’s help to bring it to pass.
Chapter
57
Rob
Rider’s Education
The
youth class had just closed at the Brush Creek reunion. The seventy was picking
up his books and clearing the area for the next activity there. One young man
lingered after the others had dispersed.
“Brother
Smith,’ Ron approached the seventy, his concern showing in his voice, “I have a
problem.”
It
was not unusual for young ones to remain after class to ask for help, and the
seventy always offered a prayer that he would be directed in giving the
ministry needed at this crucial time in young lives.
“What’s
up?” The question was intended to put the young man at ease.
“You
know I just graduated from high school.”
“Congratulations!”
In the area from which Rob came, not every young man or woman passed that
milestone in education.
“I
have just been accepted at Graceland College.”
“Congratulations
again !” The seventy was enthusiastic. “That’s great!’
“But
I don’t know whether I can make it!”
The tone of voice and the worried look on Rob’s face told a story of
uncertainty bordering on fear of failure in a costly area unfamiliar to the
youth.
“You
can if you want to.” The seventy’s pronouncement was without equivocation.
“Let
me tell you about my experience. “ The seventy’s educational pursuits had not
always been easy , and he felt that he had learned lessons valuable to others
who faced the future with uncertainty. “I wasn’t sure I could make it when I
started to Graceland , either.”
All
through high school , young Delbert had been more interested in the
extracurricular activities than in the academic ones. In the latter field, he
said, he had maintained only the grades that would keep his parents from
disciplining him.
He
loved band and chorus enough that he would run the mile home, gulp down his
lunch and run the mile back in half an
hour in order to be at school for their rehearsals. Sometimes moving
cars to make the trip on time.
Drama
at school and at church were first loves for him, and football! Ah, football
was of paramount significance to him. Two of his older brothers were stars on
the gridiron, and he aspired to follow their footsteps. The only trouble was
that they were big men fit for the line either of offence or defense. He
started high school weighing less than a hundred pounds!
In
English he had a friend who aspired to
be a teacher who created tests for him ahead of time and challenged him to
excell. Together they made a game of it, and both of them did just that,
excelled. But in math, it was a different story. He had never been proficient
even in the elemental areas of math, and when he started algebra he was
completely confused. One day he asked his teacher, who was also his coach, what
earthly good algebra could be. If they were just substituting letters for
numbers until the problem was finished then filling in the blanks with numbers,
why didn’t they start out with numbers in the first place? The coach replied
that it was of no value unless one was going to college. Then it was a
requirement for entrance.
That
did it. Delbert had no intention of going to college. For one thing the family
had no money for such a pursuit. The two
older brothers who played football were offered college scholarships,
only one of which was accepted. Their father’s fear of the dangers of football
on the college level caused him to
cancel that opportunity for the oldest. By the time the offer came to the
second one, the father had relented a little and Marion went to college on a
football scholarship. Another older brother had gone to Graceland for one year by reason of hard work and the
accumulation of heavy debts with which Delbert did not think he wanted to be
burdened. Algebra became just a chore that had to be endured until the end of
the year brought relief.
Ronald’s
tantalizing tales of college life intrigued Delbert, however, and he began to
think that Graceland College just might be for him, too. There was still no
money for the venture, but there was work at the J.C. Penney store that paid
ten cents an hour and gave him opportunity to return to high school to take a
post graduate course or two in fields of interest to him.
From
his Penney job, Delbert went to a painting job at which he became foreman with
a paycheck reflecting his advanced status. Now he got paid thirty cents an
hour. When work began on Fort Crowder, which the armed services were
building near Neosho, Missouri to house
prisoners of war, he was again advanced in pay to the point that he was able to
save money to enter Graceland during the fall of 1942.
World
War II was now in full swing and young men of Delbert’s age were being drafted
for service. Those who were in college were given the opportunity to volunteer
for service and receive training to become officers. Delbert volunteered in the
Navy and became a part of the V12 program training officers.
After
Graceland, there was Montana School of Mines out west, Notre Dame in Indiana,
Wright Junior College in Chicage, electronics training at Gulfport,
Mississippi, San Pedro Island in California and finally Navy Pier in Chicago.
The studies were arduous. Training was tough. Adding academics to that program
made every day’s studies intense. Radar and sonar were new techniques. No
sooner was one concept mastered than an advanced in technology made it
imperative that further training be received. Failure to perform meant
immediate drafting into a combat unit. There was no relief from the pressure.
The young recruits carried their books with them to the dining tables, to their
beds. Their books were often propped up beside their mirrors as they shaved.
They even took them to the bathroom with them trying to absorb every detail of
the information that might someday determine whether they or other men would live
or die.
For
young Smith, the pressure became almost unbearable. Early in Montana School of
Mines he had received divine help when he had called upon the Lord during an
especially difficult test. He had looked over every question. Every answer
depended on the solution to the first problem, but he could not remember the
formula with which to solve that problem. It was then that he remembered the
counsel of the Lord that he had heard quoted so many times during his young
life, “… ; seek learning even by study,
and also by faith!’ ( Doctrine and Covenants 85:36a) And he recalled the
promise of the scriptures that it is a function of the Holy Ghost not only to
teach but also to bring to remembrance those things we have learned. ( John
14:26) Remembering , he prayed for help. Soon he was able to derive the formula
needed and through applying it, to answer every question correctly.
As
the pressures increased, however, he found less and less time for anything
outside his studies. By the time he was in Gulfport, it had been a long time
since he had taken time to read his scriptures or to participate in any church
related activities. In spite of all his efforts, his grades were on a downhill
slide. Finally, in desperation, he told the Lord that he was going to try an
experiment. He was going to read scriptures whenever there was the slightest
opportunity and he was going to take time out to attend church services
whenever possible . He asked that the Lord use him as he would in these and all
his endeavors.
Delbert
wrote to his mother to send him his Book of Mormon. He kept the book under his
pillow where it was easily accessible. At any free moment just before a meal,
while preparing for bed or just when he needed a break, out would come the
scripture and he would read a bit of it. And he found the church at Pascagoula
where he and some of his friends were welcomed with open arms. His grades began
to recover, and he remained in the navy until the end of the war.
After
the war was over, Delbert returned to Graceland, this time without concerns
about finances because the GI Bill was now paying for his further education. He
faced new challenges as he reentered the academic arena preparing to become a
candidate for a degree in engineering. Math was now at the crux of his program.
In his first calculus class, Dr. Mortimer sent him to the board to work a
problem. Completely puzzled by the data given him, he stood looking at the
problem, scratching his head instead of working with his chalk. Seeing his
puzzlement, Dr. Mortimer approached him.
“What’s
the matter,Smith?” he questioned.
Sheepishly
Delbert shook his head and confessed. “I don’t know. I think I have forgotten
everything I ever knew about math back to the fourth grade!”
“Well,
we wouldn’t be human if we didn’t forget once in awhile.” The good professor
assured him as he proceeded to explain the rudiments of the problem before
him. With Dr. Mortimer’s tutelage and
the principles he had learned during his wartime experience, this young sailor
went from complete uncertainty to an ‘A in that course. The C average of his
first year at Graceland gave way to a three point eight average for his second
year and on to exemplary grades all the way to the completion of the course
work toward a Master’s degree.
When
the seventy had finished recounting his experience, he returned to Rob’s
uncertainty. You see , Rob, “ he assured him, “the principles laid down by the
Savior are the same for you as they were for me. You give Him and His work
place in your life, and He is always there to help you. When you seek learning
by study and also by faith, you have an unbeatable combination! The Lord has
promised to be there to bring to your mind those things that are important to
you and to His purpose in your being. Remember, that doesn’t mean you can lay
down on the job and expect the Lord to pull you through. You have to do the
studying before there is anything in your mind for the Spirit to recall for
you.But you can study those things that are of greatest importance to you by
allowing the Lord to direct even that study.”
There
was more to the conversation, and Rob went away encouraged. At the next year’s
reunion, Rob came, his face beaming. “Brother Smith, “he announced thankfully,
“I made it with a four point average for the year!”
Several
years later, the seventy was recounting his experience with Rob in a sermon at
which Rob’s wife was present.After the service, Suzette came to speak to him.
“Would you like to know the rest of the
story?”she asked a bit proundly. “Rob not only finished that first year with a
four point average, but finished four years carrying a four point.”
After
Graceland, the young man who had not been certain he could make it in college
entered the medical profession and became a successful anesthesiologist, one of
the most demanding of all branches of
that profession. The last time we heard from him directly, he called to get
some materials with which to teach other youth the way of the kingdom of God.
Chapter
58
Love
Graces a Worship Service
We
left our home in St.Charles, Missouri early that Sunday morning bound for the
worship service in Taylorville, Illinois at which there were to be testimonies
of the reunion experience just past. Delbert was pasturing the Taylorville
group in an effort to reunite the congregation in love and service. We could
not resist remembering those past months in which he had actually lived in that
town, away from our home in St. Charles for almost all of the time. Conditions
were such that he could not live in any home of the saints because of the
division among them. To live with any one family was to alienate those aligned
with another faction of the congregation.
At
first it seemed impossible to find a place to live that the seventy could
afford and could justify as an expense on his elder’s reports. Then he found
that a neighbor of one of the families was
leaving her home for the winter. There was a suggestion that he might
house-sit for the Catholic neighbor. Encouraged by the possibility, the seventy
accepted the family’s invitation to go with them to see whether that was
possible.
When
the suggestion that the seventy house-sit for Mrs. Duncan was first broached,
the dear lady was taken aback. She did not know this strange minister. How
could she leave all her precious possessions in the care of one of whom she had
no knowledge unti that moment? How could she be certain that he would stay in
the house all the time she wanted to be in warmer climes? What if she wanted to
return earlier than previously planned? Would he be willing to give up
possession of the place for her return?
All
of her questions were posed and the seventy gave as much reassurance as he
could that he would be a responsible caretaker of the property only as long as
she wished. When she asked what he would do for a place to live if she did come
home early, he assured her that the Lord would provide a place for him just as
He had always provided for his needs.Mrs. Duncan smiled. “I do believe the
whole world would be a better place if everyone had that kind of faith,” she
rejoined.
The
seventy’s expression of faith seemed to be the
deciding factor in the good lady’s decision to make the agreement with
him, and Delbert had his place of residence for the winter. We laughed as we
recalled some of the dishes he devised to make his provision of his own food
quick, easy and nutritious at the same time.
The
first business session of the congregation held some surprises. One woman had
previously resigned her position, not because of the new administration but
because she had been elected to a position for which she was never provided
materials and supplies. The seventy first offered to help her obtain needed
supplies. She was adamant that she did not want the job. He then responded by
accepting her resignation gracefully. Now two from the building committee
resigned their positions on the spot. There had been such unhappiness in the
congregaion about a recalcitrant roof problem that they felt they could not
continue to serve. Their resignations were accepted, and under the inspiration
of the Spirit of God that was present, the seventy asked two others to fill
their vacated places. Those two proved to be knowledgeable and capable of
solving the vexing problem that had so plagued the others.
The
seventy then suggested that frequently people get elected to positions in which
they do not feel comfortable. If there were any others there who were in
positions with which they were not happy, he would be glad to accept their
resignations, also. He promised that if that happened, he would attempt to find
places for them to work in which they could find real satisfaction in service.
Four more resignations were immediately tendered.
Almost
a month passed with the seventy carrying much of the responsibility once shared
by others. Then one day a woman called to offer to help. When asked what she
would like to do, she did not know. Pressed as to her interests, she said she
liked history. The seventy than asked if she would like to be historian for the
congregation. Her response was that she did not know how, so he made
suggestions that she keep a photo record as well as a written one of all that
transpired in the congregation and make an album of it for all to enjoy. She
was excited about the possibilities and took the task with delight. Soon others
joined the ranks of the volunteers, each asking for a position for which he or
she felt eminently qualified.
The
next official meeting was with the priesthood. The new pastor announced that he
had heard that there was unhapppiness among the men because of the practice of
rotating preaching assignments. “From now on,” he asserted, “there will be no
such assignment. Each man will preach only after he comes to me to tell me
that he has a message from the Lord
that he wants to deliver.” There were a number of Sundays during the weeks that
followed at which times the seventy was the speaker.
Finally
the other priesthood began to come forward with their willingness to serve. One
of the first was Norman. When he asked to speak, Delbert asked how much time he wanted to prepare. “I think
a month would be about right,” the
good priest responded.
Some
two weeks before the appointed time for his ministry, the seventy talked with
Norman about his assignment. “How are you coming with your preparation?” he
asked.
“Fine.”
was Norman’s reply. “I have found a chapter in on eof Brother F. Henry
Edward’s books that I think I will read
to the congregation.”
“Oh,
no you won’t!” was the seventy’s emphatic response.”You may take some of
Brother Edward’s ideas, but you have to
make them your own and present them in a message of your own to this
congregation. Can you do that, or do you need more time?”
Norman
was a bit shocked at the vehemence of the pastor’s response but agreed that he
thought he could do as he was instructed in the time yet remaining.
The
day of Norman’s sermon arrived. The seventy was teaching a Church school class
when Norman came to ask him if he could see him in the pastor’s study before
the sermon. The class was closed a bit early and the seventy hurried to the
study to see what was needed.
“I
am scared to death!” Norman trembled under the intensity of his concern.
“Do
you want to concel out?” the seventy questioned. “You know the scripture says
that unless you have the Spirit you shall not teach.”
“No
. I still want to do it, but I’m not sure I can.”
“That’s
good!” the seventy smiled reassuringly
at the frightened man. “If you thought you could do it all by yourself, I
wouldn’t even let you try. This way I know you will be depending on the Lord.
You know that same scripture says that
you shall have the Spirit by the prayer of faith. Would you like for me to pray
with you?”
Norman
nodded and the seventy placed his hand on the trembling priest’s shoulder. Together the two men
bowed their heads while the seventy petitioned the Lord to send His Spirit in
power on this, His chosen vessel that there might be a blessing for the
congregation that morning.
The
sermon was inspiring. Norman was able to bear his testimony of the Lord’s hand
in his life. That week he had gone into the bank just as a robbery was in
progress. The exciting details formed the basis for his affirmation of faith.
With power he had not experienced before, he delivered the message of hope he
had for the congregation.
When
the service was finished, there were unrestrained expressions of appreciation
for the sermon. One of the older elders questioned brusquely, “Norman, what
happened to you? In all these years, I never heard you preach like that!”
Norman
glowed with thankfulness. Exictedly he spoke to the seventy, his voice filled
with joy. “I don’t think I looked at my notes once!”
People
had begun to return to the congregation. Attendance was increasing week by
week. The new members of the building committee had been successful in getting
the problem roof repaired at about half the cost previously expected. The
Catholic lady decided to remain in Oregon longer than she had planned. After
all, the house was being well cared for .There was no reason to hurry back!
When she did come home, another family who had heard of the house -sitting
arrangement asked the seventy to care for their house while they took a trip to Panama.
The
second house-sitting task was just finishing, when the news that the seventy
was being transferred to another state
and another region was announced. The congregation was not yet ready to be set
adrift. Some of the priesthood were still not sure of themselves and declared
they would not even try to take over leadership when the seventy left.
When
time came for the Reunion at Brush Creek, several of these priesthood families
were among those attending.It was a wonderful week of rich ministry. Lifes were
changed, and we were all returning to the congregation to report what had happened
to us. Plans had been made before we left the camp.
“This
is not to be a report that says,’We got up at such a time and went to these
classes and saw these people,” the
seventy instructed us. “This is to be a worship service in which each of us tells
what happened to us on this campground.”
One
of the songs we had sung repeatedly at the Reunion was new to this
congregation. It was introduced by one of the families as a life changing
experience for them. It’s opening phrase announces, “My life flows on in
endless song above earth’s lamentations and closes with the refrain “Since Love
is Lord of heaven and earth, how can I keep from singing?”
Two
of the priesthood confessed their reticence to continue to serve when they
heard that the seventy was to be taken from them. In fact, they said, they had
even vowed just to drop out of any participation with the group. Their
experiences at the reunion, however, they testified, cause them to determine to
do all that was in their power to carry on the work under the Lord’s direction.
One
family told of healing from a devastating addiction that had plagued their
ministry for years. A father told of his decision to join his family in the
church.
The
hour passed all too quickly. As the one in charge started to close the service,
an elderly gentleman seated in the very last row next to the center aisle arose
and waved his hand to get the attention of the presider.
“May
I say something?” he questioned, struggling to control his emotion. The entire
congregation turned curiously toward the voice. The elder in charge nodded his
permission and we all waited expectantly. “I have attended this church for
forty-seven years,” the man’s voice trembled, “ and I have never felt love like
I have felt it here this morning!”
There
was awed silence in the sanctuary. Reverently we sang the closing hymn and
filed from a worship service long to be remembered.
Chapter
59
Overheard
On A Russian Ship
“This
is Eric Halbach, Jr.” , the voice on the telephone said. “I have Mr. Smith’s
letter, and I would like to spend some of my Christmas vacation with you.”
O
course, we would be glad to have him come. Delbert’s letter was an invitation
for just that purpose. When would we expect him? The time and flight number had
already been determined and were quickly communicated.
Karen’s
letters from France had spoken of two young men whom she had met in her travels
who seemed interested in her testimony of the Christ and his church.One of them
was Eric Halbach, Jr. Rick was planning to go to the great northwest to work
when his last year of college was finished. His interest in the things he had
heard about Karen’s faith had prompted him to ask for the names and addresses
of churches and people with whom he might make contact out there when that time
arrived. Without even guessing how deep an interest her testimony had stirred
in this serious young student, Karen, who carried the church’s directory with
her, gave him a list of all of the churches in the area and the name and
address of Delbert’s brother who was the pastor of the Wenatchee, Washington
congregtation.
Our
first contact with the youth came in the form of a letter Delbert received from
his brother in Wenatchee. Ronald had receivd a letter from Rick asking for
information concerning the church in that area .That request was forwarded to
the seventy with the hope that he might help the youth in his quest for the
church.
“I
met your niece on the ship going to Europe,” the letter read, “and she gave me
your name and address as someone who could tell me about the Reorganized Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints in that area.” It then explained that the
author was a university student of chemical engineering specializing in the
production of paper. Because he had always liked the mountains he decided he
would like to work in the mountains of the northwest when he was graduated as a
chemical engineer the following year.
When
he heard Karen’s testimony, he knew that he wanted to combine work in the paper
industry with participation in her church, so he asked Karen how he could
contact the church out here, hoping to be employed in the paper industry somewhere in the
mountains of Oregon and Washington. He
wanted to make contact with the church there before he decided where to settle.
Ronald
lived in the apple producing area of Washington. There was no paper industry
available in Wenatchee Valley, and graduation seemed a long time to wait for
one anxious to know something about the church; so Ronald sent Delbert the
letter and asked him to make contact with the young inquirer.
It
isn’t every day that a seventy gets a letter from a perfect stranger asking to
know about Christ’s church. This seventy reacted with enthusiastic and
immediate response. Delbert sent Rick some literature about the church and
invited him to contact us for more information. He even suggested the
possibility of his coming to St. Charles, Missouri, during the upcoming
holidays for that purpose. Rick had responded to that invitation
enthusiastically with an outlike of possible dates for his visit.
“I
am looking forward to the opportunity to discuss the Reorganized Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints with you.” His letter read. “I am still
reading the Book of Mormon and have found it helpful in my everyday living. I
should be finished reading the Book of Mormon by the time I visit you so there
will be plenty of things to talk about.”
Delbert
had, in turn, given Rick his schedule for the proposed time. This call from
Massachusetts was Rick’s response.
Eric
and his sister were passengers on the Russian ship on which Karen and her group
from Knox College had traveled on their way to study in France. Karen and
Eric’s sister became good friends on the journey and talked a lot about things
that were important to them. Among other things, Karen shared something of her
faith and it’s story. Rick was not a part of the conversation, but he overheard
it and listened with excited interest. He determined that he must know more
about this fascinating story, but they were already nearing their destination
and there was not time to learn more from Karen.
Rick’s
tour abroad was only for the summer. Upon his return to the USA for school in
the fall, he was surprised and elated to find a Book of Mormon in his own father’s library. Immediately he
began to read it. It was then , also, that he wrote to Ronald asking for
information about the church. From what he had heard,he knew Karen had
something he wanted in his life and he was anxious to pursue it.
When
Eric’s plane landed, we met a tall young man who reminded us of Charleton
Heston in looks, speech and action. He was full of energy, a good athlete and
an avid fan of the Boston Celtics we were soon to learn, even though an injury
from early childhood kept him from being the proficient basketball player he
woujd have liked to have been. It seemed that the injury had really motivated
him to be a good athlete in an effort to overcome its deleterious effects. In
spite of his efforts, his ailing back kept him from doing all that he would
have liked even while he was with us in St. Charles.
He
was also serious about his desire to know what this church that Karen loved so much was all about. The seventy and
he were in deep conversaton about it for most of the day, only it was mostly
the seventy who talked. After the first few questions, Rick seemed content just
to listen. It made us wonder whether he was disappointed in what he was
hearing. He did accept the written materials Delbert offered him and spent many
hours reading them.
The
second day Rick was with us, Delbert took him to the East Central States Region
office with him. It was the day on which the office had its regular worship
service for all the staff. As others were telling of their recent experiences
and expectations for the new year, Rick spoke up, too. “I came to St. Louis
looking for Christ’s church, and I think I’ve found it.” he said joyously.
A
few days after Rick went back to Massachusetts, we received another letter. “I
expect you wonder why I did not ask more questions while I was with you,” it
read. “That first day when Mr. Smith talked about building the kingdom of God
on earth, I knew I had found what I was looking for. It seeemd he had answered
all of my questions before I could ask them. Now I want to be a member of the
Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints before the winter is
over.
We
had given Rick the address of the church nearest him and the name of the
appointee in the area. His next letter said, “I can tell you exactly how many
people attended church last Sunday. Exactly one!”
Rick
had taken his father to the large church of his affiliation and left him there
with the other two thousand or so regular attenders and had driven on through
New England’s snow covered landscape to the stately little church at the
address we had designated. He had no difficulty finding it, for he had made an
exploratory run to the area earlier and was amazed to find it only about a mile
away from the Grace Chapel he and his father were accustomed to attending. He
had also found that the name in the church directory and the number on the
marque of the church did not represent the present pastor of the congregation.
When he had called that number, he found it not in service. He had then called
the second number which turned out to be that of the appointee seventy assigned
to the area who told him the former pastor had been in Peru for more than a
year. The appointee then gave him the name of the present pastor, times for the
services and other pertinent information. When he arrived on Sunday, however,
the church was locked and empty. Rick waited. No one else came.
You
could say that I was ‘slightly confused” , the young man wrote, “when I was the
only one there!” Rick went home disappointed but he was persistent. He called
the appointee again. Services had been cancelled because of the storm, the
seventy explained.
There
had been a snowstorm on Saturday night, Rick reported. There were some six
inches of the gleaming white stuff on the ground, but the roads were clear.
“Maybe I’m just a crazy New Englander, “ Rick wrote, “ but I’ve driven over 50
miles through blizzards several times, and never thought anything about it. I
couldn’t help but think of the hardships the early Saints endured while serving
Him!”
The
appointee seventy did contact the present pastor with information of Rick’s
efforts to meet with the church in Lexington. “The pastor’s wife is very nice.”
Rick wrote. “She called and invited me to their home for dinner next Sunday. I
can hardly wait to meet th eSaints in Lexington.”
Rick’s
family was not as enthusiastic about his new found faith as he. His sister
suggested that he wait until he was finished with school and away from home to
change his affiliation, so he wouldn’t “make waves” in the family. Rick didn’t
feel that he could wait, and declared , “When I visit with the Wallace’s on
Sunday, I’lll be asking about church membership.”
Rick’s
plans for the future were fundamentally changed by this new turn of events in
his life. Of his previous plans to work in the Northwest, he wrote, “The
Northwest would have been my first choice but it is God’s first choice that I
am concerned about. There are paper mills in each of the 50 states and in
almost all of the countries of the world. I am willing to go anywhere to serve
Him. I only ask for His guidance when it comes time to decide. Scenery is nice
but it is the people that you live and work with that make living worthwhile. I
only hope that I can experience a small fraction of the joy and excitement
which is so obvious in your lives as you work to build God’s kingdom here on
the earth.”
In
a letter to Karen, Rick wrote assuring her that it was no romantic notion about
her that caused him to decide that he wanted to know about the Reorganized Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. “Although I probably would never have
heard of the church if I hadn’t met you, the decision was the result of much prayer and thought. “ He then told
her about his reading of the Book of mormon, his contact with Ronald and with
us, his finding the church in Massachusetts and finally said, “I can’t tell you
how happy I’ve been as everything I’ve studied has confirmed my initial
decision to join the church. It’s been fantastic!”
He
ended his letter saying, “You could say that I’ve been wandering through the
foothills all my life but now that I’m joining the church I feel like I’ve made
it to the mountain. There is still a long climb ahead, but I’m looking forward
to it. I don’t know what lies ahead after school but I’m not worrying about it
any more. It is out of my hands now.”
Karen’s
testimony on that Russian ship to Europe had truly touched a responsive chord
in the life of one gallant young man whose determination to be a part of
Christ’s family stirred us all to greater dedication to the kingdom than we had
previously felt. If such a young man could pursue it so intently, then there
must be dozens of others out there who would find it similarly enticing if only
they knew where to look. For their sakes we determined to be more diligent in
telling the wonderful story of God’s purpose in His creation to all those with
whom we had opportunity to share! Eric just overheard it on a Russian ship!
Chapter
60
Short-term
Travel Agent
Karen
was competent in the French language. It was a required subject in her Canadian
high school. After her junior year she received a bursary to attend Laval
University in Montreal for an intensive six week summer course in the language
. If the students were found speaking anything but French five times during the
summer, except for long distance calls home,they lost their credit.
After
two years of independent study at Graceland with a professor fluent in the
language, she spent an entire year in France. During the summer she served as a
nanny in a weathy French home. During the school year she studied at the
university in Besancon. Graceland
graduated her with her degree in International Studies.
By
the time she returned to the States, the family had been reassigned to the St.
Louis Area. Karen came home and immediately started looking for a job that
would have some relationship to her proficiency in French and her specialty in
International studies. While she waited for such a position,she saw an
advertisement for a travel agent’s position in a nearby suburb.
The
owner of the travel agency was then one who interviewed her. After determining
her qualifications and her values, the man said, “We would like to have
you in our agency, but I don’t think
you will stay with us long.“
Karen
was surprised. She had never been fired from a job, and even though she knew
that she wanted the job only until she could obtain one more in keeping with
her expertise, she was curious to know why he would make such a statement. She
did not have to wonder long. “Your moral standards are too high, “ he
explained. “You will not want to do what you have to do to be successful in
this market.”
The
man was right.It was not long before there were demands for her to actively
sell packages to people who would go on gambling junkets to Las Vegas. There
were demands that she overbook, knowing
that someone would be disappointed when they thought they were assured of their
place on a flight. She was not fired, but she did not remain in the agency
long. Her conscience would not allow it. Her standards were too high!
Chapter
61
Return
of the Errant Notebook
The
letter from the apostle was caustic. “You have violated your appointeeship!” it
read in part. “Why were you outside your area when I knew nothing of it, the
apostle of that area knew nothing of it, the regional administrator of that
area or of your own knew nothing of it? What were you doing in Aurora?
The
seventy was stunned! He had not been outside his area to minister without
permission. There had to be some error somewhere. If only he had the notebook
that we had lost in Minnesota, he could prove that his ministry in Aurora had been approved months ago by all the
proper authorities. But that notebook was long gone, and with it the needed
evidence that surely would have lifted the censure of his supervising minister.
The
missing letter was from the missionary coordinator of the Chicago District. It
had come during May before we started our missionary journey to the Red River
District. Brother Jim Daugherty had been planning for four ministers to preach simultaneously in four
quadrants of the Chicago District. In part his letter had read, “All the plans
are nearly complete for the series in Chicago District. You have been approved
as have Kenneth Stobaugh and Al Strait from Ohio. We just need one more and the
District will be covered.”
The
seventy had carefully placed the letter in the notebook in which he carried his
important information and planned his work. In that notebook also was the list
of people now residing in the Red River District to whom he and Ron were then
giving ministry.
We
had gone to visit Saints in a rural area of Minnesota. At one farm, we found no
one at home. Ron and Delbert pulled out the notebook and the map to try to
locate other Saints in the area whom we might visit. Once they had determined
where we would go, we left the farm headed west.
A
few minutes outside the farmstead, Delbert asked to see the list of names of
family members in the home they had decided should be our next point of call.
No one had the list or the map.Ron remembered that they had had both spread out
on the tip of the car as they were making their plans. So we turned around and
retraced our route to the farm. Each one of us was carefully scanning the road in
an effort to spot the missing objects that we were sure had fallen from the car
top. There was nothing visible for the entire way.
Back
at the farm we did find the map where it had fallen onto the driveway. But
there was no notebook to be found.
Again
we searched the roadway, prayerfully this time.Down the drive and for almost a
mile several of us walked beside the ditches
searching diligently for the precious book. Even after we returned to
the car, we scanned the right-of-way all the way to the fences hoping to get a
glimpse of the steely blue object. The corners claimed our especial attention
in the belief that it might have been catapulted from the car top as we rounded
a corner. There was just no notebook to be found!
Considering
the value of the contents of the notebook, we returned to the farm the
following day in the hope that the family would be at home, and maybe might
have located the precious object. The family searched with us. One of the
little boys even crawled under the front porch where the dog sometimes
deposited his treasures. There was no sign of our missing treasure anywhere!
Finally
we gave up. I had been praying, as was my custom when our need was great, and I
have a suspicion that I was not the only one in the attitude of supplication.
But we had done all that we could think to do. “We’ll just have to leave it in
the Lord’s hands and let Him use it for His purposes,” I proposed as we bade
farewell to the family that had been trying to help.
Now
it was November, and we were in dire need of the letter that was safely filed
in the missing notebook. With it, it would be easy to correct the error that had elicited the apostle’s mistaken
accusations.
We
were still petitioning our Heavenly Father for direction when the mail arrived.
In it was a large package, wrapped in brown paper and from Minnesota. In the
package was the missing notebook. There was no explanation as to where it had
been found or by whom, but contained in it was the letter confirming the
approval of Delbert’s ministry in Aurora for the Chicago District series.
Immediately
the seventy sent a copy of the approval letter with an apology for causing such
distress for the new apostle. All the approvals had been given before his
assignment to the area, and he had apparently not been informed of the plans.
It was difficult to understand how others named had been ignorant of the
arrangement since all of them had very recently been informed and at least one
of them had been that fourth person who was directly involved in the series.
The
seventy closed his letter with this explanation, “As to what I was doing in
Aurora, I was preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ to a people much in need of
ministry.“ The he added, “And they still need ministry!”
The
return of the notebook with its precious missive just in time to validate the
seventy’s ministry was to us another testimony of the Savior’s love and power
to care for our every need.
Chapter
62
Jonathan
Ammon’s Testimony
“I
want to bear my testimony.” It was young Ammon who spoke up while Delbert and
Ron were planning the final service of our missionary journey into the Red
River District of the church.
Ronald
and Delbert were both members of the second quorum of seventy in the
church.When vacations were planned for that summer of 1986, Ron proposed that
the two families travel together to Minnesota and North Dakota in response to
the invitation of the missionary coordinator of the area to visit the scattered
Saints and to hold services wherever it was possible.
For
two weeks we were the guests of the Saints. Much of the time we lived in the
pleasant cottage of Brother and Sister Otis Phelps beside a beautiful Minnesota
lake near Clitheral. Moments on the beach watching the boys in the water, under
the trees visiting with our hosts or other guests at the pleasant retreat, in
the shed viewing the many trophies and other memorabilia of Brother Otis’s many
years in scouting or around the table enjoying the sumptuous meals that Sister
Eleanor prepared so generously were moments long to be cherished.
Part
of the time we were in the hospitable home of the David Watt family in Fargo.
There again we were blessed with new understandings that have enriched our
ministry through the years. There we met a blind man who, with his wife, was
receiving refreshing knowledge of the Lord and his purposes through the Watt
family’s ministry.
One
particular bit of knowledge that thrilled them and brought them nearer to the
Master was new to us as well. Since we had used the Inspired Version of the Bible
as our chief source of biblical knowledge, we were not aware of the very
different story of Lot and the heavenly messengers who came to warn him of the
plight of Sodom and Gomorrah as presented in the King James version of the
scriptures. During our conversation with this inquiring couple, we learned that
they were very perturbed by a God who would support Lot in his offering of his
daughters to the men of the wicked city to do with as they pleased. It was
Sister Watt who was able to immediately show them a God of righteousness
portrayed in the Inspired Version who would not sanction such a procedure.
Instead of offering his daughters as ransom for the three men whom the men of
the city sought for illicit sexual purposed, the Inspired Version records that
Lot refused, saying that God would not justify him in doing such a wicked
thing, and he pled with the men not to do so wickedly with either the men or
his daugheres. With this profession of righteousness, which the men of the city
interpreted as judgment on them, the angels found it necessary to protect Lot
and his family from the angry mob.
Our
surprise at the contrasting story was mirrored by the excited couple. They were
being introduced to a God of righteousness whose acts they could understand and
whose ways they found enticing!
Wherever
we were, there was always some travel time from one appointment to another.
During the trip to the area, we had begun reading the Ammonite, a wonderful
fictional story of one of the peoples of the Book of Mormon as told by Blaine
C. Thomsen. Six year old Lehi and eleven year old Ammon were fascinated by the
story, whose main character bore the name that Ammon had chosen for his own.
Indeed, we were all thrilled by the story whose hero was made so very real to
us by the talented author of the book! Travel time was not always enough, and
we spent cabin time reading through especially exciting portions of the
adventure.
Ammon and Lehi had become Ron and Di’s sons less
than two years before our Minnesota missionary journey. I first learned of their coming when Delbert
called from Lamoni to our home in St. Charles, Missouri.
“We
have a new grandchild!” The seventy announced over the phone. “He’s five years
old and weighs a hundred and eighty-five pounds!”
“He
what?” , was my startled response.
“Well
that’s what it feels like when he hits you!” Came my husband’s reply and he
chuckled as he said it.
“Hits
you?” I was stilled puzzled. It was difficult to visualize a five year old
attacking my one hundred eighty pound ,
six foot husband. That Delbert would enjoy such an attack didn’t make any sense
at all.
“It’s
just Lee’s exuberance at having a
grandfather. When he was told that I am
his grandfather, he spread his chubby little arms and came at me spread eagle as
fast as he could come, calling with delight, ‘Grandpa! Grandpa!’And he is quite
a chunk. He really does weigh eighty-five pounds!”
Ammon
and Lehi’s entry into our family had come so suddenly and unexpectedly that we
were all a little dazed. Ron and Di had wanted children for a lot of years.
Even Di’s corrective surgery had proved
inadequate for them to have their own, so they began proceedings to adopt. Once
they thought they had everything in place for an adoption, but the young mother
was persuaded at the last minute, not to give up her baby.
Then
one day there was a telephone call from a church acquaintance from another
city. “I hear you are trying to adopt a child,” the kindly minister introduced
the subject of his call. “Would you consider an older child? And how would you
like to make it two or three?”
Ron
and Di were thrilled at the prospect of having children but were hardly
prepared for an entire family all at once.
“You
see, “ continued the caller, “There is a woman whom we had as a foster child
years ago who has to enter the hospital for a lengthy stay. She has two weeks
to find homes for her children or turn them over to the state. As soon as I
heard of it, I thought of you.”
There
was a hurried consultation between Ron and Di. The minister had called them
both to the phone before telling them the purpose of his call.
“Could
we see the children before making a decision?” they inquired a bit hesitantly.
They certainly did not want to lose an opportunity to have a family or to help
the children, but the idea of a ready made family of four or five was more than
they had considered!
“Of
course, “ was the considerate reply. “Why don’t you go tomorrow and see them.
Then you can decide.”
Arrangements
were made for the trip. Ron and Di were to meet the children’s birth mother at
her Council Bluffs home and discuss with her the possibility of caring for the
children while she was hospitalized and maybe beyond. There were three of them
in question. John was ten years old. Leon was five, and Sissy was three. Di was
especially happy to know that one was a girl.
The
next morning was Saturday, and the two Graceland professors were free to make
the trip to the city. At the designated address they were met by a pleasant
appearing, youngish woman whose immediate response startled them.
“You
must be Ron and Di,” Joey welcomed them enthusiastically, “Well, the boys are
ready. These are John’s things and these are Leon’s .” She pointed to bags and
boxes already packed ready for the trip to Lamoni.
“And
Sissy?” It was all that Di could think
to say.
“Oh,
my sister decided she might want Sissy,” Joey affirmed. “She will not be going
with you now. Maybe later.” Joey’s voice trailed off so that if there was more
said, Ron and Di did not near it.
“And
what bout the boys?” Ron was still shocked by the turn of events. “We can’t
just take them! Will we be able to adopt them?”
“I
don’t think John wants to be adopted. “ The subject obviously had been
discussed. “Brother,” and she named the
minister who had first called them, “says you
should be given guardianship over them, though. That would only be
fair.”
“And
you will let us have guardianship over
them?” The question seemed redundant after what Joey had just said, but Ron
wanted no misunderstanding.
“Sure,”
agreed Joey. “Just send me the papers.”
“And
what about adoption? Will that be
possible later?” Ron and Di still wanted a family of their own.
“Maybe.
“ Joey was not certain. “You’ll have to see what John wants.”
Already
John and Leon were on their way to the car. It was as though they were on their way to a very exciting
adventure and Ron and Di were their fairy godparents, only they called them
“Mom” and “Dad” before the car left Joey’s drive.
There
had to be some legal paper before Ron and Di would risk taking the boys away
from their home, and that was quickly arranged.
So
it was that Delbert and I became grandparents
to two boys who made an instant family for Ron and Di. Guardianship was
quickly established. Joey’s sister did want Sissy, and , in fact, adopted her
giving Ron and Di hopes that one day
they would be able to adopt John and Lee. Joey kept in touch for awhile, but her telephone calls
gradually ceased, and her promised visits rarely occurred at all. For a time ,
Ron and Di took the boys to see their birth mother, but their interest in the
visits waned.
Once,
too, Bill came for a visit. Actually, he came to bring some of John’s clothes
and toys that had been left at his
house when Joey had claimed John for the last time. Bill was kind and
solicitous, but made no claim to the
boy when he delivered his possessions. In fact, when asked outright, he
declared that he was not John’s father but felt sorry for the boy and let him
call him “Dad.”
John
had lived with Bill and his wife for some time and thought that Bill was his
father. When John was baptized, however, and the names of his birth parents
were needed for the baptismal certificate, Bill’s name was not the one on the
document. Instead John’s name appeared on the birth certificate as Johnny Walker
Abel. When he saw it , John questioned, “Who’s that?”
Once
it was apparent that Bill was not John’s father, John was more amenable to the
idea of adoption. He said he had had so many “fathers” that he couldn’t even
remember all of their names.
Leon
was ready to be adopted from the start. His father was dead. That was known for
a certainty. He was receiving Social Security benefits from his father’s
account.
The
day came when adoption proceedings were
begun with Joey’s full cooperation. Delbert and I were in Ron and Di’s home the
day the social worker who was to make her final recommendation to the judge was
there. It was a Saturday, and she was not sure she wanted to be working that
day, but she was gracious about the assignment.
Among
other things the adoption investigator asked of the boys was her inquiry about
their activities at school. When she learned about their involvement in music
she asked for a demonstration. Lee played his violin for her and John played
his saxophone. Both were surprisingly proficient on their respective instrument
in spite of the short time they had been involved. The worker was very much
impressed. Of John, she said, “He doesn’t just play at that instrument. He plays it!”
When
the musical demonstration was finished and we had all been interviewed, the
social worker was visibly moved. She expressed her great pleasure at having had
the opportunity to offer her recommendation to the court that the adoption be
completed. It was not usual that she could
be so forthright with prospective adopting parents or prospective adoptees, she
said, but this was such a pleasurable experience that she could not keep
silent. She had to congratulate us all! She had not wanted to work that
Saturday, she confessed, but instead of work, she had been entertained and had
found this day a very special day in her career.
When
it came time for the adoption to be completed, the boys were told that they
could choose new given names to go with their new surname if they wished. Both
of them would have liked to have had Ronald’s middle name for their own, but
Leon already had it. He chose Lehi for his new name and became Lehi Kenneth
Smith. John chose Jonathan Ammon. For a time he was still called John, but
gradually he came to insist on the use of one of his new names, Jon or Ammon. (
As a teenager he again became called John.)
Life
for both of the boys was now very different from the life they had known from
birth, of that we were very much aware. When Ammon expressed his desire to give
his testimony at the service in North Dakota, we were all delighted and a bit
curious. We had seen great changes in this youth since his advent into the
family, and he had seemed to enjoy all of the facets of this missionary
journey, but what was this special testimony
of his?
When
the time of the service arrived, and it was his time to testify, Ammon was too
shy to speak. But when the service was finished, he did get the courage to tell
us what he had wanted to share.
“Before
I was baptized,” the youngster said, “I used to swear a lot. Since I was
baptized, I have not sworn once. Somehow, I just never want to swear any more since I was baptized!” Ron’s face
beamed and he gave his eldest son a big hug as we all rejoiced at this
testimony of the power of the Holy
Spirit in this young man’s life.
Chapter
63
God’s
Answer to a Young Man’s Prayer
“I
don’t care what the scripture says, I’m going to continue to serve open
communion to anyone who wants it!” With that affirmation , our instructor
closed the class. It had been an all day session during which the seventy
cluster of which we were a part had wrestled with the now prevalent idea of
opening the sacrament of the Lord’s supper to everyone. We were all aware that
this instructor included non-Christian as well as Christians of other
denominations in his practice. Ronald had been particularly persistent in
pointing out scriptures that warned the priesthood of the responsibility they
assumed if they violated the Lord’s mandate that had been the practive of the
church since its inception. Only those who had covenanted with the Lord in
Baptism should be served the emblems of the Lord’s sacrifice . On the way home,
Delbert reaffirmed his testimony which I subsequently wrote for our congregation’s
newletter as follows:
“That’s
it! That’s it! Isn’t that wonderful?”
It
was my husband whispering excitedly as he pummeled my arm as I sat next to him
in church. Patriarch-Evangelist Ray Whiting was reading from the scriptures,
First Corinthians, chapter eleven, in preparation for a sermon in his series of
missionary sermons at Boone, Iowa. I was puzzled. I saw nothing especially
unusual or revealing in the words Brother Whiting had just read. “But let a man
examine himself, and so let him eat that bread, and drink of that cup. For he
that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh condemnation to himself, not discerning the
Lord’s body. For this cause many are weak and sickly among you , and many
sleep.” It was a passage often repeated, especially in services in which the
Lord’s Supper was being served. Delbert and the other young priesthood serving
the college congregation at Ames used it frequently in their ministry. What was
so wonderful about it now, all of a sudden?
Delbert
could hardly wait until the service was over to shake Brother Whiting’s hand
and fervently express his appreciation for this new light that had so radiantly
filled him with new understanding! I could hardly wait to discover what it was
in that familiar scripture that could
so enliven and excite him.
On
the way back to our home in Ames, my husband explained. He had served in the
navy during World War II. It was his custom to attend church services on
Sunday, and so he was found in navy chapel on those Lord’s Days that he was not
privileged to be with the Saints. When the emblems of the Lord’s Super were
served, he was accustomed to passing them by.
One
Sunday the chaplain was particularly insistent that no one fail to accept the
proffered symbols of the flesh and blood of the Savior. “I was annoyed,”
Delbert explained, “as the Protestant Chaplain verbally tried to coerce all who
were present at the service to partake of the bread and wine. He said that all
it meant was that we love Jesus and if we didn’t partake it meant that we did
not love the Lord.”
The
young sailor knew that he loved the Lord but really felt uncomfortable with the
idea of accepting the emblems that he had long believed meant far more than the
congregation was being told. “I didn’t know very much about the sacrament , “
he explained, “but something just didn’t seem right, so I refrained from
partaking.” He would have liked to have walked out of the service and away from
what he felt was unwarranted pressure to conform, he told me, but he was too
shy to embarrass himself and the minister by that behaviour.So he stayed in
spite of refraining from partaking of the proffered bread and wine.
The
experience started him on an extended search for the reason for his hesitancy
to receive communion from other than
the priesthood of his own church. “I needed to know how the Lord viewed the
sacrament which he had instituted, “ he said “ and this experience motivated me
to search the scriptures, ask most people whom I thought might give me an
answer and seek the Lord in fasting and prayer.” His scripture search was
hampered by the absence of a concordance, he explained, no one whom he asked
seemed to be able to give him a satisfactory answer and his fasting and prayer
were not always as consistent as they might have been.
All
through his navy career and beyond he had tried to find an answer to why the
Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints practiced close
communion. Recently that search had been intensified. A young Baptist friend
was participating with the Saints in many of our activities. He liked the
people and he liked what he saw and heard among us except for the fact that he
could not partake of the emblems of the Lord’s flesh and blood on Sacrament
Sundays. He wanted to know why. “I tried to explain,” Delbert reminisced, “ I
gave answers that seemed inadequate even to me. I ended up lamely with ‘It is
the practice of the church!”
Obviously
Delbert felt far from convinced that he had given his friend an acceptable
answer. If it did not satisfy the young pastor, why should it satisfy the
earnest young Baptist? Now he was jubilant because tonight he had found the
answer that he felt sure would satisfy them both!
As
Brother Whiting read his scripture, the words ”Not discerning the Lord’s body”
burned into the young elder’s consciousness. “Previously my mind had stopped
after the words ‘drinketh condemnation to himself,’ “Delbert explained,
“leaving the words ‘not discerning the Lord’s body’ dangling without meaning.”
Now it was clear. The Apostle Paul was not talking only about the Lord’s
physical body that hung lifeless on the cross! He was talking about the Lord’s
living body, His church!
“Other
scriptures raced through my mind,” Delbert went on . “Ye are the body of
Christ, By one spirit we are all baptized into one body. Christ is head over
all things in the church, which is His body. God hath set some in the church,
first apostles, secondarily prophets, etc.”
Far
into the night my husband and I searched the scriptures for the affirmations of
this “body of Christ”. They were abundant and explicit in their description of
the purpose for which God had designed that church, to bring to pass His desire
that all the peoples of the earth should one day choose Him and enjoy the
righteousness, peace and joy which would characterize His kingdom on the earth.
We
read chapters before and after chapter eleven of First Corinthians to be
certain that we were not taking that
chapter out of context. The consistency was striking. In chapter ten we read,
“The cup of blessing which we bless, is it not the communion of the blood of
Christ? The bread which we break, is it not the communion of the body of
Christ? For we being many are one bread and one body; for we are all partakers
of that one bread.”
In
chapter twelve we read , “For as the body is one and hath many members … so
also is Christ. For by one spirit are we all baptized into one body… Now ye are
the body of Christ…. And God hath set some in the Church, first apostles, secondarily prophets…” . Paul
reaffirmed this concept of the body of Christ in his letter to the Ephesians,
chapter 1, verses 22-23 when he wrote that God gave Jesus Christ “ to be head
over all things to the church, which is His body, the fulness of Him that
filleth all in all “.
There
was no mistaking. Paul was talking about discerning Christ’s church, the body
of Christ that ministers with all of the spiritual gifts that God has prepared for the peoples of the earth. He was
talking about the church into which Christ had called and ordained apostles,
prophets and other priesthood for the specific purpose of carrying out the
ordinances through which the people would be blessed. He was talking about the
body of Christ in which every person would have a part to play in performing
the ministries with which God had designed
His creation to be blessed!
That
was why! That was the reason for ‘unworthiness”. If we do not perceive what the
Lord’s body/church really is, we do become weak and sickly and many sleep. One
who does not recognize and become a part of this body of Christ can not enjoy
the riches of the blessing the Lord hoped for them and so does condemn
themselves to a life far less purposeful and rewarding than the life Christ had
planned. If there is no discretion as to whom the sacrifice is tendered, even
the priesthood help to prolong or confirm this condemnation!
Scriptures
other than those written by Paul further identified the body of Christ, Delbert
explained, indicating clearly that the body of Christ is not just anyone who
loves Jesus or even the “universal “ or “transcendant” church. It is a specific
body/church which Christ established with its organization (apostles, prophets,
and other priesthood ) gifts (wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, prophecy,
discerning of spirits, tongues and interpretation of tongues, miracles, ) and
message of God’s kingdom to be established on the earth. It is the specific
body/church which John saw go into the wilderness ( Rev. 12:5,14) and which was
called forth out of the wilderness ( D.and C. 3:13 a-b; 32:2 a-b). It is the
church/body to which the Lord referred as “The only true and living church upon
the face of the whole earth.” (D. & C. 1:5e) . It is that church whose
members are baptized into the everlasting covenant that God made with our forefathers
(Gen. 9:21-23 Inspired Version only)that when a people would keep His
commandments, embrance the truth and look upward for their life direction, Zion
would come again on the earth and “all the heavens shall shake with gladness,
and the earth shall tremble with joy.”
There
were five other students, four of whom were priesthood members, living in our
home at the time. In his excitement, Delbert shared with them this new
understanding that had so wondrously answered his question. They were not particularly
impressed. Mitchell Juergens even shrugged and asked, “So what?” Delbert, his
enthusiasm dampened, placed the experience somewhere back in his consciousness
where it was to remain for some time.
It
was again sacrament Sunday and the young priest who had responed with,”So
what?” was in charge of the service. Delbert was to give the sacrament charge.
There was a male quartet scheduled to sing for whom we had special prayers
after their rehearsal at our home on
Saturday night. They were awful!
The
business meeting that was to replace the church school that Lord’s Day used
more time than was anticipated. When it was completed, there was not enough
time for the sacrament service before some of the students had to leave for
work assignments in food service at the dorms. Rather than have those students
miss the Lord’s Supper, Delbert announced that service would be postponed until
the next Sunday. We would have a regular preaching service this Sunday for
those who could stay.
Immediately
Sister Mae Weeks arose and asked if that decision could be reconsidered. She
explained that her sister Roxie had come all the way from Marshalltown where
there was no Reorgainzed Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints just for
this sacrament. Delbert looked over the congregation that would be left after
the students who had to go would leave and determined that those functioning in
the service would still be present. Without hesitation he announced that we
would continue with the Lord’s Supper as planned this Sunday and would have
another next Sunday to include those who had to leave.
When
it was time for Delbert’s sacrament charge, he hesitated just a moment then
explained to the congregation that very early in the service it was made known
to him that the message he had prepared was not the message the Lord wanted
shared that morning. Instead, he said, he was impressed to tell us what had
happened to him when he attended Brother Ray Whiting’s series at Boone a few
weeks before.
As
the story unfolded, it was apparent that the Spirit of the One whose body we
were remembering was prompting the telling. Many if not all of us felt the
presence of the Master confirming the new understanding that had so enlightened
our young pastor. When he was finished, the quartet, confirmed by that same
Spirit, sang like angels! Then Roxie arose and asked permission to speak.
With
tears streaming down her face, this gentle woman said, “You may not know why
you gave this message today, but I do!” She then went on to explain that being isolated
from this church, she had for a long
time attended another church with a friend. Recently the friend and her fellow
church members had been urging Roxie to take the bread and wine with them.
Their explanation of the significance of the sacrament had been much like that
of the navy chaplain who had so pressured the young sailors that memorable
Sunday of which Delbert spoke.
Roxie
confided that she had about decided that it would be all right for her to
accede to the wishes of her friend, but she had come to this service
specifically asking the Lord for His direction in her effort to follow Him in
this action which seemed of such
eternal significance to her. It was not her desire to reject the sincere entreaty
of her friend if truly there was no good reason to do so- if she was only
following the mistaken tradition of her church. Humble she affirmed that it was
the Lord who promped the young pastor to share the experience which gave him
his answer. In his sharing, God had given her the answer to her dilemma as
well.
The
service closed. Mitch, the priest in charge, turned to Delbert. His eyes
glistened with tears as did Roxie’s and many of ours. With a firm grip he
embraced the young elder’s outstretched hand and pumped it vigorously as he
rejoined, “Now I understand what you were saying!”
It
was the Spirit of the Master that confirmed that it is His living body that He
wants us to discern. It was the Spirit of our Lord and Savior whose name we had
taken upon us, whose commandments we had promised to keep, whom we had
covenanted to remember always, who had made an everlasting covenant with us as
with His servants of old that when His people would embrace the truth, keep His
commandments and look up, Zion would again come upon the earth, the heavens would
shake with gladness and the earth would tremble with joy. With crystal clarity
He had confirmed His intent that all people come to know and remember His
living body that His peace would one day reign over all the earth!
Chapter
64
Ted
Beck’s Story
The
caller that June day in 1992 identified herself then asked, “Sister Smith, do
you know me?” the name was familiar, but I could not recall just to whom that
name belonged. I had to confess that I was not certain. So the elderly lady on
the other end of the line further identified herself and asked, “Do you know
any church appointee whose wife’s name was Sunshine?”
Now
that rang a bell. Of course. Sunshine Beck was the wife of Bishop Ted Beck.
“I
just knew that name but I couldn’t remember for sure.” the dear lady responded.
“I was reading the Master’s Touch and
something made me think of Sunshine and their story. Is it in your book?”
“No
, I replied. “It isn’t there, but I do know it. Brother Beck allowed Delbert to
record the story on tape a long time ago. It is a precious story.”
“I
just remember bits and pieces of it and can’t put them all together. Could you
help me sometime? “ The request seemed urgent.
“I
could tell you the story right now if you have time to listen.” I told her.
“Oh,
could you?” was the eager response.
So
I launched out into one of the most beautiful testimonies of God’s love that I
have ever known. Ted Beck was a Catholic who was married to Sunshine, a member
of the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
Ted
and Sunshine had first met when they were both living in Council Bluffs, Iowa.
Ted was employed in a bank and Sunshine was working as a secretary across the
Missorui River in Omaha, Nebraska. Sunshine’s employment had to be abandoned,
however because of ill health, and she went to live with her parents in the new
home they had established on a farm in Kansas. Her father also suffered from
ill health and had traded his printing business in Dow City, Iowa , for the
farm at Yates Center, Kansas, in response to his doctor’s orders to get out in
the fresh air. Even that move, however, proved insufficient, and he was soon bedfast, unable to work.
At
her father’s request, Sunshine wrote to Ted asking him to come and operate the
farm for them. It was while he was doing just that that they were married with
Sunshine’s father, a priest in the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ,
officiating. This was, of course, contrary to Ted’s Catholic faith, and his
family disowned him for the action.
Although
not of the Sunshine’s faith, Ted had seen something of the action of that faith
in various ways. One experience in particular that baffled him was a morning in
which he had a visitor. He was choring when a man appeared at the barn and
asked if a Latter Day Saint lived there. Ted acknowledged that one did. The man
said God had sent him to heal her.
Now
Ted had not told the man that his wife was the Latter Day Saint who lived there
or that she was ill. Puzzled by the man’s assertion, he led him into the house
and introduced him to Sunshine who was confined to her bed. The doctors had
diagnosed her condition as consumption, the usual term for tuberculosis in
those days. She was so weak that she had not been able to leave her bed for a
long time, and no one expected her to live.
After
the introduction and a little conversation, the man who said he had come to
heal, administered to Sunshine according to the instructions found in the book
of James. When the prayer was finished, Sunshine arose from her bed, prepared
breakfast for them all and never again showed signs of the illness.
After
Sunshine’s father died, Ted received a request from his former bank in Council
Bluffs to return and resume employment there at a considerable increase in
salary. It was when they returned to Council Bluffs that Ted learned the extent
of his family’s alienation because of his marriage outside the Catholic faith.
His mother would have nothing to do with him, and his father and brothers would
go to great lengths to avoid meeting him on the street or they would pass him
without looking at him or giving any sign of recognition.
Ted
was hurt deeply by his family’s rejection and finally prevailed upon Sunshine
to take instruction in the Catholic faith so they could be married by a
Catholic priest and he could return to be a part of his family. The instruction
was not a complete success, but the priest did marry them and Ted became very
active in his faith while Sunshine was equally active in hers.
After
a year or so in Council Bluffs, Ted
received an offer to go to Norfolk, Nebraska, to work as a cashier in the bank
there at still another increase in salary. It was while they were living in
Norfolk that Ted became seriously concerned about the differences in their
faiths.
A
son had been born to Ted and Sunshine and Ted knew that he was becoming of an
age that as a Catholic, he had to do something about the boy’s religious
upbringing . Ted wanted to be fair to Sunshine but knew that he could never let
her take his son into her faith. So, he said,”I started talking to the Lord
about it in fasting and in prayer.”
For
a long time Ted fasted, sometimes from one meal a day, sometimes from two meals
a day, and sometimes he did not eat at all. He went to Mass in the mornings
before going to work and prayed earnestly about his problem. He wanted to know
whether his church was Christ’s church or whether Sunshine’s church was or
whether there was another. No answer came.
Finally
Easter was approaching and Ted decided to fast from all but one meal a day for the
entire forty days of Lent, praying constantly for an answer to his dilemma. H e
went to Mass every morning and prayed in the church for his answer. Easter
came, and nothing seemed to have happened except that Ted was thirty three
pounds lighter than he had been when he started his fast on Ash Wednesday.
Disappointed
but undaunted, Ted continued his fasting and prayer. The fasting was not so
intense as during Lent, but it was just as much in earnest and his prayers were
continuous until the third day of August.
“On
the third day of August at about five o’clock in the morning,” Ted testifies,
“I was awakened, and the moment my mind became conscious at all, the thought
came to me, ‘Which church is right? Which church is right? Certainly one of
them is. Certainly there is one that the Lord approves. There is one that has
been started by His son, Jesus Christ!”
T
ed turned over and tried to go back to sleep but he couldn’t. So he got up,
went downstairs, got on his knees and poured out his heart to God. He told the
Lord that he had done everything that he knew how to do,and he recounted the
fasting, the praying, the church attendance, the counseling, everything that he
had pursued so earnestly for months now. Then he said to the Lord that he had
to know! He said that he knew that the Lord could speak to him in an audible
voice if he chose, but his parents would never believe that, so someone else
had to be involved in the revelation for which he asked.
Then
, explaining that he had gone as far as he could go and that he needed to know
that day which church was the Lord’s and what he ought to do about it, he told
the Lord that he wanted His ,Christ’s , minister to be at his, Ted’s, house by
no later than seven o’clock that evening. He knew that such an event would
identify for him the church to which he should give his allegiance. He did not
limit the choice to Catholic or Latter Day Saint. He named the Methodist, the
Presbyterian, the Lutheran , and left the list open for any other minister that
the Lord would choose to send by seven to represent Him. He promised that he
would fast until seven, then he relented a little and said, “I’ll wait until
five minutes after seven, but at five minutes after seven, I’m going to eat,
and I’m going to remain a Catholic as long as I don’t know anything else to
do!”
At
home from work that afternoon, Ted said to Sunshine, “Please don’t get supper
ready at the usual time. I have some yard work to do and I won’t be finished by
then.”
Sunshine
gave slight recognition to her husband’s request, and at five thirty, the usual
time, she called him for his meal.
“Sunshine,
I asked you not to have supper so
early,” he protested. “I want to finish this work before I stop and clean up.”
Sunshine
retired to the house to wait. A second time she called him , and a third. The
third time she said a bit peevishly, “Ted Beck, if you don’t come in and eat
this food, I may have to throw it out!”By then it was about six thirty. At
first Ted hesitated then he looked at his watch and offered that he would come
in ten minutes. That would give him twenty minutes until seven. He was sure
that he could spend that much time putting away his equipment and cleaning up
in th ebathroom.
While
Ted was in the bathroom he heard the sound of car wheels on their gravel drive.
Almost afraid to look, he pulled aside the curtain enough to peer out to see
whose minister it was.
In
the meantime, in an area of Nebraska far away from Norfolk the elder who was
district president of the Reorganized Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints lived on a farm. Elder Fred Gatenby
and Mary, his wife, had made plans to go to another city in the opposite
direction from Norfolk that day on business. At about five o’clock that same
morning, Elder Gatenby was awakened by a voice that said to him, “Fred, get up
and go to Norfolk!”
Fred
didn’t know any reason to go to Norfolk, so he rolled over and tried to go to
sleep.When he couldn’t sleep, he got up and went to do his chores. While he was
milking the cow, again the voice came as though someone had stepped up behind
him and shouted in his ear, “Fred, hurry up and go to Norfolk!” Fred ,
startled, looked behind him but saw no one. Still puzzled, Fred did not tell his wife about the strange
instruction.
As
they entered their automobile, again Elder Gatenby heard the voice directing
him to go to Norfolk. Again he tried to ignore the instruction and started off
in the oposite direction. At the first possible turn in the road, the voice
said, “Fred, turn around and go to Norfolk!” Fred ignored the instruction and
proceeded toward the original destination.
At
the next mile corner there was no voice, but the car was physically turned
around and headed in the direction of Norfolk! Fred pulled to the side of the road and stopped. “Mary,”
he said, “do you know any reason for us to go to Norfolk?”
Mary
was most interested in why Fred had turned the car around at the corner,but
upon his insistence, she did affirm that she knew of no reason to go to
Norfolk.
It
was then that Fred explained to Mary the strange happenings of the morning. At
first she thought he was kidding her, but when he declared with all seriousness
that he had tried with all his strength
to keep the car from turning around at the corner, she was convinced,
and they agreed to go to Norfolk. At a quarter until seven, just twenty minutes
before the time limit that Ted had given the Lord to have the minister of His
church at his home, Fred and Mary drove into the Beck’s yard
When
Ted saw Sunshine‘s minister in the drive instead of his own, he was
crestfallen. “Lord, “ he said, “What does this mean? Am I to become a Latter
Day Saint?”.
This
time, it was Ted who heard the voice. “My son,” it said as clearly as though
the Lord had been in the room with him, “I have answered your prayer!”
“But
Lord,” Ted was still perplexed. “How can it be? My family will not understand!
I have my job, at least in part , because I can draw the Catholic trade. What
will I do?”
Again
the voice said distinctly, “My son, I have answered your prayer!”
Resigned
but shaken, Ted emerged from the bathrom and greeted the Gatenbys.”What are you
doing here?” was his first question.
“I
don’t know,” was Brother Fred’s puzzled reply. Then he recounted the events of
the day that had led them to Norfolk.
“Fred,
how aobu tyou and I going down to the river fishing/” Ted’s response to the
story was completely unexpected .’
“Fishing?”
Brotehr Gatenby couldnot understand that propositon this late int
heevening.”All right, but I didn’t bring any clothes with me for that!”
“Ill
furnish the clothes,” Ted responded.
Then seeing Fred’s curiosity when Ted didn’t get his fishing gear out, Ted told
him simply, “You’ll not need any of that tonight. You’ve got a bigger fish. I
want to be baptized!”
Supper
was forgotten. Preparations for the baptism were hastily made. Saints were
called to gather at the river, and the Gatenbys and Becks joined several car
loads of them there for the service.
As
Elder Gatenby raised his hand for the baptismal prayer, Ted noticed a man
dressed in a full suit of clothes standing near the opposite side of the river,
in the river, with water up past his knees. The man bowed his head during the
prayer as though participating in the service.
No one noticed what happened to him until the ordinance was finished.
Most of the congregation had left the scene, and the two wet men were changing
into dry clothing each behind a clump of bushes. As Ted emerged from his
makeshift dressing room, the man who had been in the water came walking up to
him with his hand outstretched. He grasped Ted’s hand, and as he shook it
vigorously, he said, “Young man, I’m very happy to see you take the step which
you have just taken. You’ll never be sorry for it!”
Ted
said, “Thank you. I hope that’s right!”
The
stranger spoke earnestly, looking Ted squarely in the eye with his own piercing
grey eyes, ‘That’s right, my boy!” and he grabbed Ted’s hand and shook it vigorously again as he
repeated his first assurance that “You’ll never regret what you have done this
day!” With that he turned and walked again toward the river.
Brother
Gatenby, who had witnessed the encounter , asked Ted, “Who was that fellow?”
Ted
replied that he did not have the least idea. Brother Gatenby proposed that they
find out who he was. It was then that they realized that he wasno longer in
sight. They serched the area and
followed his footprints in the damp earth. They led directly to the
wate’s edge, but the man was nowhere to be seen, even though they could see for
at least a quarter of a mile in each direction up and down the river.
It
was then, too, that Ted remembered that although he had seen him wading the
river, when he greeted him so earnestly, the man’s clothes were completely dry.
Finally
Fred Gattenby realize who it must have been. Joyfully he introduced the newly
baptized man to the story of the three Nephites to whom Christ gave the
privilege of remaining on the earth to minister to people of great faith and to
bring faithful souls to Christ. It was the good elder ‘s firm belief that the
man who so eagerly confirmed Ted’s
acceptance of the Gospel was one of them.
Ted
Beck became a full time minister for the Christ in His church, known among men
as The Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
When
I finished the story, the dear sister who had asked for it responded joyfully,
“That’s the story that I couldn’t remember. I just knew that it was true, but I
couldn’t put it together right! I am so glad my mind wasn’t playing tricks on
me!”
“No,
your mind wasn’t playing tricks on you “, I assured her. ‘Would you mind if I
asked how old you are?”
“Eighty-six,
“ was the prompt response.
“If
I’m as good at eighty-six as you are, I will count myself blessed.” I assured
her and gratefully thanked our heavenly father for allowing me to be the custodian of the wonderful story of His
love and power that had so enriched my elderly sister’s life.
Chapter
65
Thiera
Heeds God’s Voice
It
was Thiera’s twelfth birthday. Her father had brought her and her brothers to
visit their family in Lamoni and Mount Ayr for the weekend. Aunt Di had given
Thiera a special invitation to celebrate her birthday at their house with the
rest of the family at Sunday dinner. Tiera was even given a choice of food for
the event.
Dinner
was served on the deck at the back of the stately old house in which Ron and Di
lived with their sons, Ammon and Lehi. Thiera
blew out all twelve candles
with one mighty puff. Her dessert was served on a bright red plate on which was written in ceramic letters, “You
are special today!” Gifts were opened, and we were preparing to go to Mt.Ayr
where the Lamoni Stake youth of Thiera’s age group were to have a special
event.
Alan
and Valle’s carload went early to be at the church when the first youth
appeared. I was to take Thiera and Lehi to the church to join the rest of the
youth on their scavenger hunt and hike to Poe Hollow. Later, Steven, Thiera’s
dad, was to bring Di and Delbert directly to the park where they would have the
fire ready for the wiener roast and campfire when the rest of us arrived.
Thiera
and Lehi were tossing her new silly football in the front yard when I went to
the car and called them to come. Lehi raced to the car and jumped into the
front seat.
“Oh,”
I queried, “ is Thiera going to sit in the front with us? She won’t want to sit
back there alone.” Lehi did not move. On his face there was a look of distress
that was not characteristic of this jovial young man.
I
called to Thiera again, but Thiera made no move in the direction of the car. I
called again. There was no response.
“What’s
wrong with Thiera?” I questioned Lehi.
“She
says she isn’t going!” In Lehi’s voice was a mixture of disbelief and tears. He
was obviously puzzled.
“Isn’t
going?” I questioned. “Why not?”
Lehi
shrugged his shoulders in a gesture of helplessness and shook his head
indicating that he had no idea why.
Well,
if Thiera was not going, then her father and the boys would not be going
either. And if her father and the boys were not going, Delbert and Di had no ride
except in the car I was driving. I did not dare go now and leave them on foot.
It was some twenty miles to the park and they were carrying the dry tinder and
wood for the fire!
Why
would Thiera so suddenly make a decision that would foul up even her plans for
the afternoon and early evening? I thought I knew.
Several
times since the family had arrived at our house for th e weekend, she had
mentioned that her mother had been telling her for a long time that she had
something special planned for her birthday. When Cindy realized that Thiera
would be in Lamoni for that day, she assured her that if she got home in time,
she could still have her surprise on her birthday. If she came home after the
campfire as scheduled, it would be too late and she would have to wait until
her mother could find a break for the magnificent surprise. It was no wonder
the child was torn between the two exciting choices?
Thiera
tossed the football aside, ran into the house and plopped herself down in the
middle of the couch where she sat staring at the floor. Soon we were all
gathered round with no one knowing what to say. I looked quizzically at Steven
on the way in. He shrugged, too, and explained that at a time of separation for
the family, it was tough for the children. “Everyone has to assert themselves
at one time or another!” he said
resignedly. It was clear that Thiera’s decision was not to be challenged.
The
room was quiet. All eyes were fastened on Thiera’s bowed head, but no one said
anything. At least some of us were praying. Finally someone asked, “Won’t you
change your mind and go?”
Thiera
shook her head.
About
that time Di went into the kitchen. Her intent was to package a few brownines
that she had made for Steven to take home. They had been teasing each other
about the brownies since Steven smelled them baking when he and Thiera stopped
by on their long evening walk on Saturday.
For
some reason Thiera followed Di into the kitchen. When they emerged it was with
the announcement, “We’re going to Mount Ayr!”
Everyone
scrambled to the vehicles. It was time now that the fire builders needed to get
on their way, too. No one even paused to ask questions concerning the sudden
turn in events. We were all too happy for it to question it. We could only
thank God for whatever had caused it to come about!
Di
and Thiera took the back seat of the Taurus I was driving. Steven and Delbert
could start the fire. Di had more important ministry to give on the road to Poe
Hollow. Lehi joined me in the front again. We had a very pleasant trip to Mt.
Ayr and arrived at the church just in time for Thiera and Lehi to join the rest
of the group for the scavenger hunt and hike.
As
soon as the campfire ended, Steven herded his little brood into the van and
headed for home. They had gone from Lamoni only a few minutes when a Mr. Webb
called to tell us that their van engine had blown up on them and they were
stranded about eight miles into Missouri. He asked us to notify Cindy that they
would not be home when she expected them at eight.
Delbert
and I were just settling down for a
relaxing Sunday evening when the call came. We called for Cindy immediately,
but could get no response. To make sure that she would know what had happened,
we called for Donna Ingram to put a
message on her door. Then we hurriedly packed our pajamas and toothbrushes,
just in case we would not be home before morning, and set out to find the
stranded family.
As
we topped the rise near the one hundred and six mile marker, the van came into
view. Perched high on the bank away from the freeway traffic was the little
family. Our arrival was greeted with shouts of joy and relief as the children
all descended to us, everyone talking at once. Steven finally got all our
attention. “See,” he spoke to the children, ‘We prayed that everything would be
all right, and now it is.”
He
then explained how frightened they all were when the van suddenly was engulfed
in smoke. They were passing a car when without warning there was a cloud of
smoke all around them so thick that he could not even see the car they were
passing. Whatever the circumstance, he knew he had to get the van to the
shoulder and the children to safety. So he steered blindly to the right.
The
driver of the car that he was passing saw the explosion of smoke and pulled to
a hurried stop on the shoulder behind him. By the time the van was stopped,
that driver was out of his car and running toward them with a fire
extinguisher. Mr. Webb was a race car driver and was well equipped to care for
such an emergency as appeared to be at
hand.
There
was no fire. The engine had thrown a rod and the profusion of oil and
antifreeze fluid that spilled onto the hot mechanism caused the huge pale of
smoke,but did not ignite.
“Oh
, Grandma, I was so scared!” Seven year old Keston explained. His fright had
been so intense that he had vomited just at the door of the van.
Steven
smiled comfortingly at Keston and continued his story. He had given Mr. Webb
our phone number and asked that he give us the message for Cindy. It was not
until their benefactor was gone that Steven remembered that calling from Eagleville to Lamoni was a
long distance call, and he had not even thought to offer to pay for it! There
was no assurance that this perfect stranger would use his own money to make the
call. Without it, there would be no way that we would know to come to their
rescue. They could only trust God to see that the message was delivered.
The
message did get through, thanks to the beneficent, unknown stranger. “Why , I
didn’t even get that man’s name so I
could properly thank him!” Steven remonstrated with himself. I was sorry that I
could only supply the last name of the caller. I, too, had let my concern for
the family blot out my need to adequately thank the gracious messenger.
Once
out of danger, Steven gathered his children into a circle, and they prayed that
all would be well. Now they were ready to express their thanks.
Everyone
pitched in to transfer the contents of the van to the Taurus wagon , everyone
except Thoric, that is. He timidly tugged at his father’s shirt. “Daddy, I
pooped my pants!” he announced a bit sheepishly. His fear had been expressed
differently than Keston’s!
Without
hesitation Steven asked if we had any wipes or anything else that could be used
in the emergency. We had only Kleenex. The only thing that was wet in either
vehicle was some leftover pop .Steven choose the orange pop and with Kleenex
for a washcloth Thoric was soon ready
for a clean set of clothes. I emptied a plastic bag that was holding a new pair
of panty hose to have an odor proof container for the feces laden pants.
“Where
are we going?” It was Anan who wanted to know.
“Home.”
Steven responded.
“Oh,
let’s go back to Lamoni.” It was almost a chorus.
“We
can’t do that,” Steven answered their pleas. “You have to be in school
tomorrow.”
“I’ll
go to school in Lamoni !” Thiera answered facetiously.
Steven
tousled her hair a bit and joshed, “What would they do with you there?”
It
was then that Delbert spoke to Thiera in a more serious vein. “You know,
Thiera, I believe you were listening to the Lord when you decided to go to Mt.
Ayr. Can you imagine what would have happened if you had started home when we
all went to Poe Hollow? This would surely have happened to the van and there
would not have been any of us to get the message that you needed help, not us
or Ron’s or Alan’s. What would you have done?”
Thiera
smiled her most beautiful smile and we knew that she was happy that she had
heeded the Lord’s direction.
Chapter
66
Keith’s
Bounty
“I
will be in Graceland next semester!” Keith’s voice exploded with pent-up relief
and joy! “There will be money for my fees!”
Keith
Seidel was one of our college “sons” when we retired at Lamoni. He was a
biology student hoping to be a doctor someday. When the fall semester started,
however, it was not certain that it would not be his last, at least until he
took time out to earn more money. Many times as we talked he had expressed his
concern that there would not be enough to pay his next semester fees. We had
prayed with him about it and had felt assured that the money would be
forthcoming. His mother, too, had urged him to have faith.
Delbert
and I were both on the phone line as we usually were when one of our” children”
called. “Tell us about it!” the seventy and I were both eager to hear what
miracle the Lord had performed in this young man’s behalf.
“This
is incredible!” Keith was the possessor of a fantastic story. That , we could
easily tell.
“What’s
incredible?” We were both smiling broadly into our respective telephones,
enjoying the moment of anticipation with Keith.
“Mom
called,” he began. Then he told us how
his mother had received a call from a bank in a neighboring town, one in which
her grandmother had lived. When she was positively identified, the caller told
her that they had recently been going over their old accounts. They found one
that her grandmother had opened for her when she was a baby.
“That
account is now valued at ten thousand
dollars,” the banker informed her. “What would you like us ot do with it ?”
Promptly,
Keith’s mother called her anxious son. After telling him the remarkable story,
his mother addressed him. “Keith,” she said, “I have put two thousand dollars
of the money in your bank account! Is that enough to finish your fees for the
next semester?”
Keith
did finish Graceland and at last
account is studying to be a doctor. His faith, always strong, has not been
diminished by the gracious providential supply of funds for that year’s second
semester at Graceland.
Chapter
67
Peace
in the Midst of A Storm
We
had just celebrated Steven’s thirty- eighth birthday after the close of the
reunion services that Friday evening in 1992. There were Karen and her
children, Judi and their children, Alan and his family, Steven with his
children, and Delbert and I . Last year Cindy had celebrated Steven’s birthday
with us at the same reunion grounds, but this year she had chosen to absent
herself. She was asking the court to dissolve their marriage of fifteen years
and no longer wanted to participate in family events. Karen’s husband and
Judi’s were absent because their
employment demanded it. Ron and his family were ministering to youth encamped
in Washington state.
The
celebration was over. The others had gone to their rooms leaving Judi and her
children and Steven and his children to bunk in our room with us. We had
offered our prayers, each one praying from the youngest, except for one year
old Natalie, to the oldest and had
settled in our bunks for much needed rest. The older children had gone to sleep
when the storm broke with sudden fury.
Lightning
crackled and flashed just outside our window. Each flash penetrated our
darkened room with a momentary eerie brilliance followed by crashing thunder
that rocked the sturdy building in which we were housed. Natalie began to cry
and Thoric climbed into his father’s narrow bunk where he lay trembling with
fright snuggled close in his father’s strong, protective arms. I lay in my bunk
praying for peace to be granted the frightened children when suddenly I heard
it.
Across
the room Judi was kneeling beside her baby’s crib softly singing. I could only
hear the tune, but I knew the words and knew that Natalie, young as she was ,
knew them , too. “I love you, Lord, and I lift my voice, to worship you. Oh, my
soul , rejoice. Take joy, my King, in what you hear. May it be a sweet, sweet
sound in your ear!”
Behind
me there was the rich male voice of Steven singing quietly to his frightened
son held close to his heart. His words, too, were almost imperceptible as he
sought to avoid disturbing Judi and her children and the rest of us. “God will
take care of you, be not afraid. He is your safeguard through sunshine and
shade. Tenderly watching and keeping his own. He will not leave you to wander
alone.” I knew that this song was not just to quiet a little one for the
duration of the storm. It was the prayer of an anxious Father for all of his
children during the many days ahead when he would be separated from them
because of the impending divorce.
Tears
filled my eyes and spilled onto my pillow while the prayer that had become so
constant during the past few months returned to my heart to match our son’s.
“God will take care of you still to the end. Oh, what a Father, redeemer and friend.
Jeus will answer whenever you call. He will take care of you. Trust him for
all!”
Lightening
still crackled and flashed and thunder still rocked our dorm, but the fears of
the frightened children were calmed, and peace reigned over our crowded room as
the children slept.
Chapter
68
Reunion
Rescue
It
was the summer of 1991. Several of our Smith families were gathered at the
family camp for reunion. The evening worship service was finished. Delbert had
run ahead of the congregation to reach the dining area where he was to cut
watermelon for the evening treat for the camp.The children were anxious to
get to their grandfather and the watermelon feed. Jerah, aged six, ran
ahead of her mother grasping the hand of Jonah, aged two, as she mounted the
suspension bridge that spanned the
murky lake lying some twenty feet below the bridge at the shoreline. Karen
followed, pushing the stroller in which their three month old baby son lay
sleeping. She had not yet reached the bridge. Douglas and his family were ahead
of the children on their way to the dining area on the other side of the lake.
I was just emerging from the shadow of the chapel, behind them all.
Suddenly
the cry went up.”Jonah’s in the water!” The two year old had somehow slipped
from his sister’s grasp and slid under the hugh banister, falling more than the
height of a story high building into the filthy, algae laden water below. There
was no sign of him in the turbid liquid. All we could see was a slight ripple
circling out from the point at which he had entered the slimy substance.
Doug
heard the cry and immediately turned around to face the lake. Quickly he pulled
his wallet from his pocket, placed it on the bridge and without hesitation
mounted the railing, jumped into the lake, and began making his way toward the
center of the circling water. As he neared the site, he dove into the darkness
and emerged with the little one in his arms. Jonah was sputtering and coughing
.Both the child and his rescuer were covered with foul smelling underwater
debris.
Spontaneously
cheers and prayers of thanksgiving rose from the waiting congregation as the
lithe young doctor, uncle of the nearly drowned boy, climbed the slippery bank
away from the treacherous waters that could easily have been Jonah’s grave. He
did not immediately deliver the frightened boy to his mother. The slime and the
odor were such that he insisted on getting them both through a cleansing shower
first.
Needless
to say, the bridge was off limits to
the little ones of the family from that moment on. We took the longer but safer
roadway to and from the chapel when our schedule took us there for family
activities. Later, additional barriers were erected by the camp to make certain
no other child would suffer Jonah’s so
near fatal fate.
Awe
still embraces us as we wonder: What would have happened if the young doctor
had not been on that bridge at that particular moment? Would any of the rest of
those nearby have been able to have
made the daring leap that put him in the water so quickly that the
little one did not even have a chance to inhale the unbreathable substance?
What if the children had been on the bridge alone? The questions are
innumerable, but it is our thanksgiving prayer that the children were not
alone. Not only Doug was there but the Master of men who watches over all of
His children and longs to keep them safe.
Karen
was particularly impressed that we will not always be close nor will there
always be time for prayer for our loved ones at the time of danger. Only the
constant presence of the Holy One and His angels can provide the protection
needed, and for that protective presence we need to be continuously in prayer!
Chapter
69
Prove
All Things
I
met my friend of many years at the 1992 World conference. She was ecstatic!
“Oh, I have that wonderful article you wrote about diet and health!” she
declared. “I’m going to use it for our women’s meeting in May.”
I
was puzzled. “What article is that?” I inquired. “I haven’t written anything
recently that I know of.”
“Oh,
it’s that one about using the instructions of th eLaw of Moses as a guide and
avoiding all of our usual sicknesses.”
Now
I was certain I had not written the material which had so elated her. “Sorry, I
said,” I did not write that, but I would like to see what is being taught.”
“I’ve
sent a copy to each of my daughters-in-law.” She smiled reassuringly. “You can
get Donna to let you see hers.”
Donna
was our niece but we lived a long way apart, and I was not certain I would ever
get a look at the exciting material.”I
would like to see it,” I reiterated.
“Well,
if you didn’t write it , I don’t know who did; but I know you’ll love it!” and my friend rushed away to catch up to her
party.
Soon
after Conference. I received the
material in the mail. Alice had decided to send a copy directly to me.
I
had only to read the first sentence to know that this was not only material
that I did not write, but material with which I was absolutely in disagreement,
for both scientific and scriptural
reasons. I had to let my dear friend know my objections to it before she made
the mistake of teaching it as Word of Wisdom advice to her church women and
daughters-in-law. To make sure she knew the truth, I wrote her a letter in
which I commented on many of the errors in the article in question.
The
first affirmation of the article was that “The Laws of Moses are as up-to-date
as the latest newspaper.” Obviously, the author confused the Ten Commandments
with the “laws of Moses”. The Ten
commandments were God’s commandments, not suggestions as that author
erroneously called them, but they said nothing about diet! To say that the Laws
of Moses are as up-to-date as today’s newspaper is to contradict Christ’s own
statement that He came to fulfill the Law of Moses.
Paul
had a hard time trying to convince the Jews that Christ had made it
unnecessary to continue dietary
restrictions, circumcision as a religious rite, observance of certain feast
days, etc. His letters to the Gentile congregations which he had established and
taught at the command of God, are replete with instructions calling for faith
in the living Christ to replace the Law of Moses which he said was a
‘schoolmaster” to bring us to Christ. He even went so far as to tell the
Galatian Saints that if they returned to that law as a basis of their religious
activity, “Christ shall profit you nothing.”
Paul
was a peculiar fellow in some ways. Frequently he gave instructions which he
identified as his own ideas, not necessarily the will or commandment of God.
But when he wrote to Timothy about teachings that would come in the latter time
concerning marriage and the use of animals for food, he said, “Now the Spirit
speaketh expressly!” He made it very clear that the Spirit was the one telling
him that “every creature of “God is good, and nothing to be refused, if it be
received with thanksgiving; for it is sanctified by the word of God and
prayer.”
Peter
got a dramatic lesson in the same vein when the vessel like a sheet was let
down from heaven and he was told to kill and eat all sorts of creatures that he
had been taught were unclean. The voice from heaven instructed him not to call
anything that he ( Christ ) had cleansed unclean. He was to “Kill and eat”!
Just
in case we might be confused today, the Lord had told us again in Doctrine and
Covenants sections 49, 59 and 86 of his
intent that flesh of animals be available for our use as food. He had made it
clear, however, that such food is to be received with thanksgiving , used
sparingly and that He did not intend that some should have access to more than
others. He even has gone so far as to
advice us that it will please Him if we fast from flesh of beasts and fowls
during a part of each year. I believe it is His way of challenging us to find a
way to make the foods we enjoy so much available to all people, not just the
privileged few of which we who live in the United States of America are a part.
It
is not just scripturally that the material my friend mistook for mine is
deficient.Scientifically the author gives some inane information. In addition
to the elimination of pork, catfish and many other creatures from the diet,
he/she would eliminate fat.
Now,
fat can be detrimental when used to excess, but without it we have no way to
utilize vitamins A,D, E and K. Without
it we have no way of cushioning our vital organs, no insulation against
trauma, heat or cold. Without it, mothers risk babies hemorrhaging severely
during child birth and may drown their babies in their own blood. Wtihout it we
have no reserve of energy when the primary stores of carbohydrates are
depleted. Without it skin erupts in eczemas. Fat is a vital part of every
person’s diet who wishes to survive. It is an excess of the nutrient that causes problems.
Cholesterol,
too, is not a bad word. It is so essential to life that our bodies make large
amounts of it daily. God made us so that our bodies do not have to depend on
the amount that we eat for sustenance. To do that might risk our failure to provide enough to assure
continuance of life. Without cholesterol there would be no cell repair, no
growth, no hormones, no antibodies, no life! It is when that substance gets out
of control that there is danger.
The
author declares that only fat and carbohydrates go into our blood stream, and
they make the blood ‘thick as honey”! Surely he/she has never bled or seen
anyone bleed! With blood of that consistency , how could blood circulate? How
could nutrients or oxygen reach the cells of the body, including the brain? And
if protein does not go into the blood stream, how can it reach muscles to build
or rebuild them or to contribute to growth?
It
is highly unscientific to confuse alcohol with sugar as the author does. Sugar
is a carbohydrate that the body uses for food. Alcohol is a toxic chemical which
has a very different effect on the brain and other organs of the body. It must
be detoxified by the liver to make continued living possible.
Sugar
has been accused of causing many health problems. It has been shown to promote
cavities in teeth that are not properly cared for, but scientific evidence of
its relation to many other problems is lacking. Of course, it is such a pure
source of carbohydrate that when used in excess, it leaves one without the
other nutrients needed for good health. Although less refined sugars as brown
sugar, honey, sorghum or molasses have small amounts of other nutrients, their
contribution to the total needed is very small, and excessive use of them can
be deleterious to health as well. Even the ancients recognized that fact. Proverbs 25:27 warns, “It is not
good to eat much honey;….”
Comparing
sugar’s use now with that of colonial times as a reason for many present health
problems is untenable, especially when there are no data with which valid comparisons may be made to
establish what was happening healthwise then. Of course less refined sugar was
used in those early times. The more highly refined product was not
available! Not to be forgotten,
however, is that life expectancy of those early times was far less than it is
now, and many did not live long enough to get diseases that are common today.
Cigarettes, too, are a modern invention, and they are known to be
responsible for many of the current
ills in many nations.
Vitamin
B 17 is highly recommended by the author as a necessary part of a good diet.
This “nutrient “ is to be obtained from eating the seeds of many fruits.
Actually there is no vitamin named B17 . A man named Krebbs named a substance
he wanted to market “vitamin B 17.” It is a nickname, just as we sometimes
nickname our children or give each other a pet name. Just because we called my
brother “Doc” during his growing up years, did not make him a doctor. It was
when he had qualified with his medical degree that he became a real doctor.
Krebbs’ “Vitamin B 17 “ has never
qualified as a vitamin or any other nutrient essential to life. In fact, the
seeds that contain the substance Krebbs calls “Vitamin B 17” contain highly
lethal cyanide in such large amounts that there have been deaths reported from
eating seeds as the author recommends.
It
is true these cracked fruit seeds taste a little like almonds, and for that
reason our grandmothers did sometimes add a peach seed to a jar of peaches as
the author states. But there was just
one seed, and it was not eaten! To crack and eat the seeds , as the author
suggests, instead of discarding them is a dangerous recommendation that should
never be given to anyone, certainly not in the name of the Word of Wisdom.
The
recommendation that one try single seeded fruits because they have fewer
Calories is likewise erroneous. Where the idea comes from is a mystery.
Certainly a reliable food chart as the USDA Handbook 456, Nutritive Values of
American Foods does not validate that assertion. One will find many many-seeded
fruits like melons, berries, citrus fruits , papaya, etc. with fewer than two
hundred and fifty calories per pound of edible fruit. The same weight of
many single-seeded fruits such as
cherries, mangoes, or seedless grapes
has closer to three hundred Calories. Even the author’s documentation will give
one a clue as to the unreliability of the information. Twice in the material The National Enquirer is sited as the source. Surely everyone
has read the outrageous headlines of
that publication as they waited in line at the grocery check-out counter! It is
a huge farce! Even those who publish it do not expect it to be believed! For it
to be used as a source of scientific information is this article is incredible!
Prevention Magazine, too, is hardly a scientific publication. Although it is
gaining in reliability, as the time it was quoted, its information was accurate
about ten percent of the time.
I
was tremendously appreciative of Alice’s response to my evaluation of the material that she had mistaken for a
delineation of the Word of Wisdom. Armed with the facts, she quickly changed her perception of the article she
had at first believed implicitly. Now she used it and the Word of Wisdom to
help her associates learn how to evaluate information about diet that comes
into their hands. To seek learning “by study and also by faith”, as the Lord
instructed in Latter Day revelation, is a most valid method of arriving at
truth of any matter that affects our lives.
Chapter
70
More
Value Than Sparrows
“I’m
afraid there isn’t a very good chance that we will save him, Mr. Beckworth. He
has parvovirus. “ It was our veterinary son on the phone shouting to the
elderly gentleman on the other end of the phone connection who was inquiring
about the young dog he had left at the clinic earlier that day for observation.
“ I
think he must have a bone in his throat”, Mr. Beckworth had surmised when he
brought the dog in. “He hasn’t eaten
for three days and he seems to gag a lot. “
Steven
examined the dog. There was no evidence
of obstruction in his throat . “To be really sure, we will need to
X-ray,” he explained. “That is an expensive procedure.”
“That’s
all right, “ the old gentleman responded as he placed a comforting hand on the
dog’s upturned nose. “Do whatever you
have to do. I have to go into the city
for awhile and I will call from there to see what you find out.” Now Mr.
Beckworth was calling as he said he would to learn about the dog.
“Parvovirus
is a very serious disease, especially for a dog as young as yours. “ Steven was
trying to help the old gentlemen understand that his expenditure of fairly
large amounts of money might not save the dog. “With the very young and the
very old, we have ony about a thirty percent chance of saving them under the
best of circumstances, and your dog has been sick for several days.” Steven
paused to receive the old man’s response.
“Par-vo-virus.”
Steven raised his voice and spoke very distinctly. It was apparent that the client was not yet understanding
the diagnosis. “It’s a disease we vaccinate for.” Steven went on . The virus
attacks the lining of the intestinal tract and it sloughs off in a terrible
odorous diarrhea with vomiting.” There was a pause. “It’s extremely contagious.
Be sure no other dog goes into his quarters until you have cleaned it
thoroughly with Clorox. “
I
knew the chlorine treatment was mandatory. I had just finished cleaning up the
cage in which the pup had been housed at the clinic as he awaited the diagnosis
. Steven had been very specific in his instruction. Even the bars of the cage
and the spots on the floor where excrement
had been dropped on the way to the examining table had to be thoroughly
cleaned and disinfected. My hands smarted from the strong solution and I had to
hold my breath when I passed the cage. The fumes from the chemical were
hazardous.
“No.
It couldn’t have been your nephew’s dog that gave it to him if he was just
in that cage last night. The conversation was continuing . “It takes
several days for the disease to develop. Be sure to clean that cage well,
though,or your nephew’s dog may be the next victim. “ This young doctor was
always careful to help his clients prevent disease as well as to cure it.
Even
before Mr. Beckworth called, Steven had started treatment on the placid animal
and had placed him in the quarantine area of the clinic. As soon as the
conversation with the elderly client ended, he turned his attention ot
inserting an instrument for intravenous feeding into the leg of an apparently
lifeless cat.
The
cat had been lying in her cage all morning without a flicker of movement. I
thought she was dead and when Steven’s four year old daughter had inquired
about her earlier in the day, Steven had said simply, “She’s a very sick cat!”
Now
I could see his frustration as his own crippled hand failed to handle the
intricate equipment with his usual dexterity. I was in the clinic that Saturday
morning because of Steven’s injury. A ninety pound dog had chewed his right hand severely and had inflicted a
minor injury on his left. He had started to muzzle the dog, but the dogs owner
strenuously objected. She was certain that she could control the dog during
treatment, and she viewed the muzzle as an object of cruelty.
In
deference to his client’s concerns and against his better judgement, Steven
permitted the insistent lady to hold the dog’s head in lieu of a muzzle. As
soon as treatment began, however, the dog lunged at his benefactor,
sinking a long canine tooth into the middle
of the doctor’s hand. The frightened client fled to cower in a corner of the
room while the dog chewed fiercly trying to extricate his tooth. With only his
left hand free with which to control the dog, it was a long time before the
doctor was able to subdue the dog enough that the hand could be freed. By that
time Steven’s right hand was mangled so severely that it had to be subjected to
corrective surgery. For more than a week it had been necessary for him to refer
emergency surgeries to other veterinarians and to postpone elective ones. Baths
had been turned down.His surgery and
surgical instruments that he could use could not be maintained in their usual
state of readiness. I was glad to try to be helpful, but I was not equipped to
help with the delicate procedure Steven was attempting on the cat.
“She
came in so dehydrated,” Steven explained, shaking his head with discouragement
now evident in his voice, “ that it is almost impossible to find a vein through
which to feed and medicate her,” With a deep sigh of resignation he threw away
the bent needle that he had tried unsuccessfully to insert into the freshly
clipped leg.
“What
are her chances?” I knew she was not able to eat on her own.
“None,
unless I can get her vein.” Steven reached for another pack, deftly clipped the
fur from another leg and tried again. “She was so sick when she came in that I
tried to dissuade her owner from even trying treatment. Her kidneys were
already so badly damaged that it will
be a miracle if she pulls through even with the best treatment I can give her.”
With that he tossed away another damaged needle and chose an alternate treatment for the desperately
ill animal.
“What
happens if the animals die?” I was genuinely concerned. The spring of the year
is the time when small animal clinics must make enough money to support themselves during the lean winter months,
and Troost had already suffered severe curtailment of income because of
Steven’s injury.
Steven
laughed wryly. “As a matter of course, we rarely get paid for a dead animal.”
he explained.
“Even
after you do all you can for the animal-invest your time, medicines, x-rays and
all in them?” I knew no people hospital would take the loss just because the
patient died. “And even when you warn the owners that there is little hope for
survival?” Nothing seemed just about this state of affairs!
“Even
then.” He made the affirmation matter-of-factly. “Some do pay anyway, but they
are the exceptions , not the rule.”
“So
if this dog and cat die, you will get nothing for the work you have just done
or for the medicines and materials you have invested in them?” It still did not
seem fair!
“Nothing.”
he repeated the word resignedly as he began making preparations to leave the
hospital for the day.
I
stared after the broad back slightly stooped with the weariness of a hard day’s
work impeded by the condition of his mangled hand. Even in his stance I could
sense the concern for both his patients and for the meager income that had been
the legacy of his injury.
“I’ll
go get some filing done while you finish up back here,” I volunteered.
As
I passed the cages holding the provirus afflicted dog and the kidney damaged
cat, I could not be reconciled to the idea of the possible loss of income from
the care and concern and the overtime work that had gone into those animals .
At the door of the kennels I paused a moment, bowed my head and breathed a
prayer. “Lord,” I prayed, “You know that Steven has done all he can do to save
those two very sick animals-animals that are sick unto death! Please intervene
for their sakes and his and bring them
safely through.”
Weeks
passed and I was not near Steven or his clinic. When at last I did call steven
and Cindy on their wedding anniversary, I asked first abot the dog.
“Oh,
yes, He came through fine!” Steven responded.
“But
Mr. Beckworth didn’t even want him.” Steven’s wife chimed in cheerfully.
“Yes,”
Steven explained , “He was just a stray that Mr. Beckworth didn’t want to see
suffer. When he came back to the clinic, that good man paid the bill in full
and then told me to find the dog a good home!”
Tears
invaded my eyes and there was a bit of a frog in my throuat as I asked faintly, “And the cat?”
“Oh,
she came through fine, too.” Steven spoke with a tinge of joy in his voice.
“And we have a new home for the dog. His new mistress has already paid for his
shots and for his board until she can get him
in a few days.”
“And
were you paid for the cat?” I had to be sure.
“Absolutely!
And a mighty pleased owner she had , too! That lady was almost as convinced as
I was that she would get back a dead
cat!” This time I didn’t bow my head. “Thank you, Lord!” I fairly shouted as I
hung up the
phone and danced my way joyously across the
kitchen floor.
Chapter
71
Woman
of the Year
Karen
was well known in the Independence community. She occupied a prominent position
of responsibility in Outreach International, an agency successfully ministering
to the needs of needy peoples around th world. The women’s organization of the
area wanted her on their roster. She was nominated for their prestigious
award,”Business Woman of the Year.”
It
was a heady trip for a young woman in her first significant career position
after college. She was highly complimented by the nomination and considered the
advantages to her business and career opportunities offered by being a apart of
this distinguished organization. Before she accepted the nomination, however, she asked to see the organization’s charter and by-laws. Much
to her displeasure she found that membership in the organization required her
support for efforts to achieve freedom for abortion on demand and government
support for the provision of the procedure for all women.Without hesitation,
she declined the nomination.
She
never became ’Business Woman of the Year”, but she had a greater honor.She was
truly “Woman of the Year!”
Chapter
72
A
Colossal Error in Mathmetics
The
youth class had just been dismissed, and I was walking across the campground with the instructor.Something
he had said in class caused me to inquire, ’If what you said in class was true,
what was on the brass plates?” (Brass Plates were the records the Book of
Mormon states were obtained from Laban and brought to the promised land from
Jerusalem by Lehi and his people.)
“Now
Mildred,” the instructor placed his hands solicitously on my shoulders, “you
know there were no brass plates . In
fact , you know there were no plates at all! Why those plates would have
weighed over six hundred pounds, and Joseph Smith could not have handled them!”
By
this time we had crossed the grassy lawn and were seated on a slatted swing
that hung from a massive old oak tree whose shade sheltered us from the midday
sun. The newly appointed high priest was so intent upon correcting my belief in
the story of the coming forth of the Book of Mormon that lunch was forgotten.
For nearly an hour he explained why Joseph Smith’s story of that event just
could not have been true!
All
the while as I listened, I kept wondering about that six hundred pounds. How
much would a stack of gold plates that measured six inches by six inches by
eight inches weigh?
As soon as I returned home, I
called the local librarian and asked, “How much does a cubic foot of gold
weigh?”
There
were a few moments of waiting while the information was sought. Then “twelve hundred
pounds!” was the reply.
Immediately
I knew what was wrong with my informant’s statement. He was making a common
error in mathematics. He thought that a six inch cube of gold would weigh half
as much as a twelve inch cube! Since
Joseph described the plates as measuring
six by six by eight, they would be larger than a six inch cube, and so,
according to that logic, would weigh more than six hundred pounds!
But
a six inch cube does not weigh half as much as a twelve inch cube. In fact, it
takes eight six inch cubes to weigh as much as one twelve inch cube. Instead of
dividing the weight of a twelve inch cube by two, one must divide by eight to
get the weight of one six inch cube. Twelve hundred pounds divided by eight,
then , is one hundred and fifty pounds.
Since
Joseph said one dimension of the set
was eight inches, one must add a section six by two inches more to the
calculation. That is adding one third more to the volume of the package. One
third of one hundred fifty is fifty. The weight of a solid gold brick measuring
six by six by eight inches would be two hundred pounds.
But
there are two errors in applying that information to the plates of the Book of
mormon. This was not a solid block of metal that Joseph was handling. First,
there were plates on which there were inscriptions. There would be space
between the plates and space around each of the carved characters. With that
much space, the weight would be lessened considerably. And second, no one who
had ever seen or handled the plates ever said they were gold.
When
Joseph wrote his own story in his letter to Mr. John Wentworth of the Chicago Democrat in 1838, he described
the plates as having “the appearance of gold”. (See Times and Seasons, Vol. 3,
Pg. 707.) The eight witnesses, whose testimony that they saw and hefted the
plates was in the first issue of the Book of Mormon published in 1820-30 and in
most if not all subsequent publications of the
work, said the same thing. The plates had the “appearance of gold”.
When
Nephi told of making the plates on which he kept the record of his people, he
said, “And we did find all manner of ore, both of gold, and of silver and of
copper. And it came to pass that the Lord did command me,wherefore I did make plates of ore( emphasis mine), that I might
engraven upon them the record of my people.” ( I Nephi 5:217-218) .
As
I discussed this information with our son, Steven, Steven recalled an article
in the Scientific American just a few
noths past concerning the metallurgy of the artifacts of Central and South
America. I found th earticle in the June, 1984 issue of th emagazine,pages
56-63. It was titled “Pre-Columbian Surface Metallurgy”.The subtitle reads,The
metal smiths of the Andean culture knew how to plate copper with gold or silver
and how to treat alloys of copper, gold and silver so that the surface of the
metal consisted only of gold.”
The
article’s first paragraph reads,”When the Spanish conquistadors melted down the
gold and silver objects they looted from the Incas, they were surprised to
discover that the bullion they got was quite impure. Although the objects
appeared to be made out of silver or gold, they were actually alloys of those
metals with copper. At least a millennium before the rise of the Incas, Andean
metal smiths had develoed these alloys along with procedures for treating them
so that the finished objects presented a surface of pure silver or pure gold.
The smilths also knew how to plate objects made entirely out of copper with a
thin coating of gold or silver.”
The
span of each of the civilizations that developed the types of metallurgy that
the authors studied was placed in one of three time periods. The first was set
at 800-400 B.C. ( Nephi’s plates were made well within this time period,
sometimes after 600 B.C.) The second era was said to be the time during which
the most sophisticated workmanship occurred and was estimated to extend from
100 B.C. to 800 A.D..(This was the era
in which Mormon made his plates and Moroni made the plates on which he
completed his record.) The third period occurred after the Book of Mormon
record was closed, about 1150 to 1476 A.D.
Two
predominant methods of metallurgy are described. One is electrochemical
replacement plating. The other is depletion gilding. Some objects were simply
flushed with melted gold or covered with gold foil. The authors describe how
they were able to duplicate each of the methods that they believe was employed
by those early artisans using only the chemicals and tools available from the
environment in which they worked.
The
artifacts prepared by electrochemical plating ( ot electroplating) , are
described as plates of copper covered with thin coatings of silver or gold so
as to make the objects appear to have been made entirely of the precious metal.
Some of these coatings were between 0.5 micrometer and 2 micrometers thick, yet
they were remarkably uniform in thickness, and the precious metal covered all
surfaces, including edges that were paper thin. In the depletion gilding method, used somewhat before the one
hundred B.C. to eight hundred A.D. era, but chiefly during that time, an ingot
composed of an alloy of varying proportions of copper with silver or gold or
both is first cast. The ingot is then hammered until it becomes too hard and
brittle to be worked further. It is then repeatedly heated and gradually cooled
( annealed or tempered) and further worked until it holds the desired shape.
With each annealing, copper forms an oxide scale that is removed until
eventually the outside is depleted of copper and the precious metal forms the
apparent surface.
Tumbaga
is the name given to the most important alloy of gold and copper or gold,
copper and silver used in depletion gilding. If only gold and copper are used
in the alloy, the final product looks like pure gold even with minimum
annealing. If silver is in the alloy, it , too, must be removed from the
surface to give the appearance of gold. The technique for doing this is also
described.
Of
interest, too, is the observation of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology
scientists who are reporting their work, that the emphasis on metal production
in the new world centered on “the domain of life associated with political
power, the display of social status and the communication of religious beliefs”
. By contrast, the metallurgy of the Near East and Europe, they report,
centered on warfare , transportation and agriculture.
The
largest artifact with a “dazzling” gold surface described by the M.I.T.
scientists was found to be made of tumbaga alloy that is forty percent (40%)
gold, forty-eight percent (48%) silver and twelve percent (12%) copper. Some of
the tumbaga alloys that appear as “gleaming gold sheet metal” contain only
twelve percent (12%) gold.
The
use of a combination of metals in Pre-Columbian metallurgy to give the
appearance of gold to objects stronger, lighter and more rigid than gold is of
interest in our exploration of the possible weight of the plates from which the
Book of Mormon was translated.
Gold
weighs nineteen and three tenths (19.3) times as much as water, the reference
substance in determining specific gravities . Silver, however, weighs only ten
and five tenths (10.5) times as much as water. That is just a little over half
as much as gold weighs. Copper weighs eight and ninety-two hundredths (8.92)
times as much as water, and is, therefore, less than half as heavy as gold.
Both silver and copper are more rigid than gold and would provide a lighter,
firmer core for the softer gold surface on which inscriptions could be carved.
Plates
made of one of these alloys would have the appearance of gold and might well be
referred to as “gold” just as I refer to a necklace of mine as “gold” when I am
well aware that it has little, if any , gold in it.
When
I test my necklace to see if it is pure gold, I place it in a measured amount
of water. It displaces about ten
milliliters (two teaspoons) of water weighing approximately nine and five
tenths(9.5) grams. Gold weighs nineteen and three tenths (19.3) times as much
as water. If the necklace was made of pure gold, it would weigh about one
hundred eighty three and thirty five hundredths (183. 35) grams. Actually it
weighs only sixty two (62) grams. So I know it is not made of pure gold, but I
call it “gold” in contrast to the silver, glass, enamelled wire and plastic
jewelry that I sometimes wear.
There
is a concurrence of information that makes it apparent that the plates of the
Book of Mormon were not made of pure gold. Nephi, as we have already noted,
says he had gold, silver and copper when he made his plates of ore. Mormon says
simply that he made plates on which he abridged the record of his people with
his own hands. ( See III Nephi 2:94-95) Moroni says he did not have enough room
on the plates his father had made to write all that he would have liked to have
written and had no ore with which to make more. ( see Mormon 4:6) This was at
the time of the destruction of the Nephites about four hundred years after
Christ’s birth.
Apparently
Moroni found either more ore or more plates, for he later abridged the accound
which the prophet Ether had written on plates that Mosiah described as “Pure
gold” ( Mosiah 5:64), and he added more of his won counsel and history.
However, he spoke only of needing ore fo plates, not necessarily gold.
It
is interesting to note that Mormon and Moroni worked with the records during
the period in which depletion gilding was chiefly developed. To make plates by
this method required principally ore, fire and a strong arm with a hammer.
If
, then , these Book of Mormon prophets used tumbaga with depletion gilding or
used other methods found to have been used by early artisans to make the plates
on which they inscribed their records, those plates would have weighed much
less than the two hundred pounds that a solid block of gold the size that
Joseph Smith, Jr. estimated the plates to be would have weighed.
Heather
Lechtman and her associates at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology
Laboratory for Research on Archaeological Materials reported that some of the
Pre-Columbian copper-gold alloys they analyzed contained “as little as twelve
percent(12%) gold by weight.’ (See the Scientific American, June 1984, Page 60)
In that proportion, a solid block of metal the size of the plates would weigh
approximately ninety-eight and nine tenths (98.9) pounds.
The
largest proportion of gold reported by Lechtman and her associates in their
article was forty percent (40%) gold
combined with forty eight percent (48%) silver and twelve percent (12%) copper . In these proportions,such a solid
block of metal would weigh about one hundred twenty nine and eight tenths
(129.8) pounds.
The
plates, however, were not a solid block of metal. They were separate sheets
held together with rings . Joseph Smith, Jr. described the leaves as “not quite
as thick as common tin” in the previously cited Wentworth letter . Martin
Harris thought they were a little thicker than tin. ( See RLDS Church History,Vol. 1, Pg 52.)David Whitmer said they were
as thick as parchment. ( see RLDS Church History, Vol 4, Pg. 362.)
Emma Smith recalled that they were like thick paper.(RLDS Church History, Vol. 3, Pg. 356). Whatever their thickness,
being separate leaves with carved inscriptions on them would further reduce
their density.
To
illustrate, one may take a specific number of sheets of metal, eg. aluminum
foil. Divide them into equal piles. Leave one set tightly pressed together, but
separate the other sheets and write on them. Now compare the volume of the two
piles.
Although
it is not possible for us to know exactly how much space there was between the
engraved sheets, we know that the space between the leaves and around the
characters would have reduced the weight significantly. Read H. Putnam, whom
Mr. John W. Welch of the Foundation for Ancient Research and Mormon Studies ,
characterized as a metallurgist-blacksmith in a private communication,
addressed the subject in an article printed in the Improvement Era, Vol. 69, Sept. 1966, Pg. 788-799. Under the title, “Were the Golden Plates Made of
Tumbaga?”Mr. Putnam actually experimented with inscriptions on metal plates and
estimates that the space would “reduce the weight to probably less than 50% of
the solid block.” His estimate of the total weight considering the possible
alloys that he described is between fifty three ( 53) and eight- six (86) pounds.
If
we assume that the space reduced the weight by only one third using the alloys
described by the M.I.T. scientists, the weight of the plates would have been
approximately sixty-six (66) pounds if
tumbaga carrying twelve percent (12%)
gold was used, eight-six (86) pounds if the proportion of gold was forty
percent (40%) . If, however, Mr. Putnam’s estimate of fifty percent (50%)
reduction is applied to the alloys, the approximate weight of the plates would
be forty nine and a half (49.5) pounds
for tumbaga carrying twelve percent
(12%) gold, sixty four and nine tenths (64.9) pounds if the alloy was forty
percent (40%) gold.
As
we were discussing these possible weights of the plates, our son Steven again
offered a suggestion . He directed me to a sermon that William Smith, brother
of the prophet, Joseph Smith, Jr. ,
preached at Beloit, Iowa in 1884. The sermon was reported by C.F. Butterworth
in the Saint’s Herald, Vol. 31, Pg.
644.
Although
William was never permitted to see the plates from which the Book of Mormon was
translated as the eleven witnesses saw them, he, like those witnesses, did helf
( lift) them and he felt of them through their covering. He, like the
witnesses, declared that they were not a solid block of wood or stone, as some
had charged, but were separate leaves weighing more than a stone of their size,
and much more than wood would have weighed. He even ventured to suppose that
they were made of gold and copper. When asked directly how much they weighed,
William is reported to have replied, “As near as I could tell , , about sixty
(60) pounds. “
Martin
Harris is reported to have estimated the weight of the plates between forty
(40) and fifty (50) pounds according to the Foundation
For Ancient Research and Mormon Studies Update, Oct. 1984, revised February
1985. The title of the article is “The Golden Plates” and it references Tiffany’s Monthly, Vol, 2, 1859, Pg.
165-166.
Although
at this late date we have no way of knowing the exact weight of the plates from
which the Book of Mormon was translated, the facts are that they would not have
weighed “more than six hundred (600) pounds.” as my informant had declared.
They would not have been too heavy for young Joseph Smilth, Jr. to have carried.
Even Emma would have had little difficulty moving them from place to place on
the table when doing her housework, as she testified she did, as recorded in Church History , Vol. 3, Pg. 357. We have ample evidence that the
weight of the plates was of such magnitude as to have made it well within the
capability of those who said they hefted and handled them to do exactly what
they testified they did.
Chapter
73
An
Earnest Youngster Learns To Pray
At
the Mount Ayr early family worship, Seventy Delbert D. Smith shared his
testimony of the time that the Holy Spirit taught him to pray. It was just
before our nation entered World War II. Delbert’s older brother, Ronald, was
working in a defense plant in California when word came to the family in Missouri
that he was ill in the hospital and not expected to live. He had ”double
pneumonia.” Both his lungs were seriously infected with the disease and there
were bronchial complications. In those days before antibiotics were widely
available, the prognosis was grim. Delbert’s
parents were advised to go immediately to Ronald’s side.
But
the family had not enough money for the trip. Delbert had been saving money to
go to Graceland College and had $100.00
in the bank. That money was immediately made available to his parents and they
prepared to ride the crack train, El Capitan, to California. It was the fastest
transportation they could afford even with their son’s savings in hand.
When
an older brother, Wilbur, who had a car, took his parents to Kansas city to
board the train, young Delbert was left at home alone. His heart was very heavy
at the prospect of his brother’s death. Having been taught to pray, he knelt
beside a kitchen chair and began to plead with God for his brother’s life. “You
can’t take him, Lord,” he pled. “He means too much to me! How could I live
without him?”
On
and on he prayed, and his prayers seemed to go nowhere. A cold feeling
surrounded him, and it seemed his prayers were bouncing back at him from the
ceiling. So far as he could tell, no one was listening!
Then
a strange thing began to happen. A warm feeling came over him and he began to
listen to his prayers. They were changed now. Instead of demanding his
brother’s life, he was hearing himself praying words he had never thought before.
“Lord”,
he heard himself saying.”I love him, but I know you love him, too. And he was
yours before he was mine. Please relieve him of his pain. If he has a work to
do on this earth, please heal him. If his work here is done, please relieve him
of his pain in whatever way you see best.”’
Delbert
arose from his prayer now with the assurance that not only had his prayer been
heard, but that his brother would live.
And
live he did. It was necessary for the
surgeons to remove large sections of three ribs and remove the phlegm from his
lungs by pulling it out, as they describe it, “like bread dough.”But he lived
and is still living some fifty years later. During those intervening years he
has raised a family and has spent many years working for the Lord in his
community and in his church.
Chapter
74
The
Changed Curriculum
“It’s
a good thing this was the third week for that program instead of the
fourth,”David announced as he returned from the school where he had substituted
for Karen. “If this had been the fourth week, Jerah and I would have been out
of there!”
Karen
and David had chosen for Karen not to
work outside the home so this young mother could be involved in their
children’s education as well as their home care. That meant they lived in a small
rural home on which they worked a lot, but they felt the trade-off was well
worth it.
It
was the policy of the school to attempt to teach the children the values they
thought were acceptable. Sometimes those values conflicted with the ones David
and Karen were trying to teach their children. Without Karen’s participation in the school activities, they
would never have known where the differences lay and what they might do about
it.
Over
the past two years, Jerah and her class had been told that alcohol is an adult
drink and that having one drink a week was perfectly all right for adults. In
response, Karen had developed a set of fifteen cartoons showing the deleterious
effects of even one drink on people whether or not it is legal for them to drink;
but she was anxious that she and the instructor speak with one voice so the children would not be confused. So
Karen got involved.
Recently
the school was pursuing a drug-alcohol awareness program. For six successive
Fridays a specialist in the subject was to visit Jerah’s second grade with a
puppet show designed to give the children needed information on the subject.
Karen was usually one of the puppeteers, but this day she had been up most of
the night making a space suit for Micah for another school event. Things had
not gone well, and she was both busy and tired, so David volunteered to take
her place in the school program, never imagining that the Lord was going before
him.
The
lady in charge made a mistake. She passed out the puppet show for the following
week instead of the current one. David had a chance to read it before the
teacher told the specialist of her error. Quickly the scripts for the fourth
week wer gathered up and the ones intended for that day were distributed. What
David learned from his reading the
coming script shocked him. If it had been presented, he and Jerah would have
been out of there.
In
this series of puppet shows, Donavan Dignity is an owl who is supposed to give
the children correct information after Mary Myth gives them hearsay or false
information. In the coming script, a child takes a drink of his father’s beer.
The father laughs and gives him more. A mother
allows her children to taste the wine at a wedding celebration at which
their uncle gets lousy drunk. Mary Myth approves. Donavan Dignity says, “Well,
adults drink alcohol for comfort…” and lists a number of ridiculous things that
adults are supposed to get from drinking, things that Karen and David knew
could never be found in a bottle. The script did follow with some important
information about where alcoholism leads
that both of these concerned parents felt would be valuable for the
children.
Karen
and David did not want to just pull Jerah out of the class for the next
presentation and not let the other children have the benefit of proper
information, or even to deprive Jerah of the information that would be helpful
to her. So they prayed about it a lot. Finally on Thursday before the next program date, Karen found a way to contact
the specialist and called her.
At
first the educator said, “Well, we can’t tell these children to abstain. Their
parents drink alcohol and they live their lives out in that kind of way.”
“You’re
saying that we can’t say bad things about alcohol”, Karen responded, “but
you’re trying to make alcohol look good! You’re making value judgments on the
parts of the script that were helpful
but added, “I do have a problem with
this owl listing values from alcohol that do not exist. And I have a problem
with the mother giving her children a
taste of wine at a celebration at which their uncle is lousy drunk. With
alcoholism apparent in the family, she may be starting her children on the road
to a life of addiction.”
“Oh,
we encourage our children to talk to their parents, “ the instructor replied.
“If there is alcoholism in the family, they aren’t to touch alcohol!”
“Do
you really expect children to do that?” Karen was dubious.”Even most teenagers
aren’t going to abstain just because
there is alcoholism in the family if
they are told it is OK for some. When we are young, we think we are strong,
maybe even invincible. If young people are told all along that adults are able
to drink alcohol, when they start feeling that they are adults, they are not
going to come to their parents and ask,’ Am I an adult?’ they are going to do
the things they have been told adults do!”
Then
Karen told the lady the true story of one in their neighborhood, an upstanding
citizen who owns an oil company. His father was an acoholic and the family had
a rough life. This man determined never to touch beverage alcohol. When his son
became of age, however, the son’s friends talked him into going into the bar
with them. The father heard about it and went to the bar to see his son. “Son”,
he said, “Either you do not drink or you will not continue with the family
business!” The young man made a good
choice and has never drunk since, but other men in the community have been
heard laughing at him, scornfully taunting him because he can’t drink while
they can! Karen assured her listener
that she and her husband know some of the things that go on in the homes where
those men drink, and know they are not
getting from alcohol what they say they are.
The
problems of teens who experiment with alcohol were also a topic of their
conversation, loss of virginity, teen pregnancy, auto accidents, violence ,
AIDS, property destruction. “They may make a choice not to drink again, “ Karen
reminded the instructor, “ but what do they have to live with the rest of their lives?” Karen felt that
the Lord was indeed leading the conversation. “With this script are we saying that our teenagers are
supposed to say to their friends, ‘Your father is an alcoholic, so you can’t
drink, ( Ha! Ha!) but we’re better than you. Because we have no alcoholism in
our family, we can?’ That just doesn’t make sense! These children have got to
know the facts, not excuses!”
As
she talked, Karen was very concerned for two reasons. First, she was afraid her
protest might be dismissed with an , “Oh, that’s just Karen Bates again, you
know!” and second, she was afraid this instructor might be powerless to do
anything about it! Certainly Karen had
felt powerless when all of this started . As if she was directed , Karen asked,
“How did you raise your own children?”
There
was a pause.Then the instructor replied
that her children were taught to practice abstinence. One was a
missionary and the other was preparing to go on a missionary journey to China.
“Would
the value system taught by this script have worked with them?” Karen pressed
the point.
This
time there was a long pause before the instructor answered, “Mrs. Bates, I’m
going to take all of that out of the script. I’m going to completely rework
this script and that kind of information will never appear in any script that I
use with children again!” Not only did the script for Friday tell the truth
about alcohol, it also taught the children
to abstain from tobacco, caffeine and allnon-medical drugs!
Powerless?
Not this educator, and not the Lord. He had given David a look at the offending
script in time to have it corrected. He had kept the children from being
confused by false information. He had directed Karen in her effort to have it
corrected. He had changed the curriculum for a long time to come!
Chapter
75
Surprising
Answer to a Young Mother’s Prayer
April
in northern Iowa is full of surprises. Spring is just beginning to show her
indomitable will as life begins to burst forth in the most unexpected places.
Soon,very soon, these dark, silent, fallow fields will throb with life as they
are readied for seedtime and then harvest, I mused as I drove toward Barnum and
the home of Karen and her young family. It was nearing time for the birth of
their fourth child, and I was to be in their comfortable little farm home to
take care of the other three while she was away at the hospital.
Life
was good as we prepared to welcome this, the sixteenth of our grandchildren.
Delbert liked to puzzle his friends by telling them he had sixteen
grandchildren and sixteen great grandchildren.When they had made the
appropriate show of surprise, he would quickly explain that everyone of his
grandchildren was great. The groan that always followed gave him tremendous
satisfaction and impetus to do it again to the next one who inquired about his
burgeoning family.
Karen
had expressed a high lever of concern about this birth. It was not that she
expected the birth to be difficult. Everyting was in order. The child was in
good position and there were no anomalies that could be detected. It was just
that her doctor was going to be out of town on the date that had been predicted for the birth, and the doctor who
would be in attendance at her baby’s birth had a reputation of ignoring all of
the requests of mothers under his care.
The
substitute would not even assure her freedom from anaesthesia, a condition that
was almost a sacred factor in the birth of her children. She had carefully
avoided all drugs durng her pregnancy and felt it was essential not to
introduce any during the birth. She was determined to give her children every
possible chance for a good beginning in life.
That
good beginning, Karen believed, included her chance to hold her baby and put it
to her breast immediately after birth. With this belief her regular doctor
concurred, but the substitute would
give her no promise.
All
of Karen’s children had been born without anaesthesia as had she and her
brothers. For her, that was a priority for this birth as well. This three time
mother had experienced the restraint of some of the monitoring devices in use
at the hospital and wanted to be free to welcome her baby in a more natural
way. Being restrained by electronic devises definitely made the delivery more difficult. Of particular concern to
her, too, was the puncture in the baby’s crown that was always a part of the
monitoring. And she remembered all too well how difficult it had been for me to
establish breast feeding in her oldest brother after he had been withheld from
me for too long a time.
“I
don’t know how the Lord can arrange it,” she had confided in me when she
learned that her own cooperative and much trusted doctor had already gone on
his vacation, “But I don’t want Dr. Sorge to be present at the birth of my
baby. I had hoped the baby would be born before Dr. Christian went on his
vacation. Maybe now the little ones can wait until he returns. “
So,
as I drove past the fertile fields and sleepy hamlets of Iowa, I repeated the
prayer that Delbert and I had prayed before I left Lamoni that Karen would not
have to submit to procedures that would interfere with her joy in this baby’s
birth or would in any way harm the baby.
Less
than two weeks before my trip to northwest Iowa, Karen and her family had
visited with the family in Lamoni. Her youngest brother, Douglas , and his
family were visiting and would soon be moving to Alaska. There was little
likelihood that Karen’s family would be
able to see them for a very long time unless they made the trip to Lamoni, In
order to make the trip safely, they had packed a kit designed for the safe
delivery of a baby. There would be two or three doctors and a few nurses at the
family gathering, so they felt justified in risking an early delivery away from
home and the undesirable doctor, but the baby was not born on that trip.
It
was the early morning of April nine, 1991. The hosue was clean.The nursery was
well appointed. Karen’s bag was packed just in case she would have to go to the
hospital, although she was still praying that she would not have to be under
the ministration of the substitute doctor during the birth of her baby. The
other children were fast asleep in their beds. David was at work at the Federal
Aviation Administration facility at Fort Dodge guiding aircraft through the
night skies.
Karen
came down the stairs from the new bedroom they had just built to expand their
tiny home in preparation for the enlargement of their family.
“Mom,
I’m not feeling very well,” she announced.
My
first thought was of the impending birth. “Do you want me to call David?” I
asked.
“No”,
she replied. “I have not started labor. I just don’t feel well.”
I
comforted her as much as I could and we visited for a few moments. Suddenly she
said, “Oh, there it is!” her first contraction of labor had occurred at three
forty seven.
Much
to our amazement, the following contractions occurred with precise regularity,
ten minutes apart.
When
it was certain that there was an established pattern of labor, Karen whispered
after an especially vigorous contraction, “I think you had better call David.”
David
responded instantly, “Does she want me to come now or should I finish my
shift?” By this time five o’clock, the end of his shift , was only about a
quarter of an hour away. When I asked what he should do, Karen immediately
replied that he should finish his shift. Having experienced three previous
labors, she was certain this would take a while, but she wanted him to know
what was happenng so he could remember her in prayer.
Just
before five o’clock, contractions had accelerated amazingly. Karen began to
want her husband beside her and asked that I call him again. This time he was
just closing his post and leaving the facility. ”Tell her I’ll be there as quickly as I can!” He spoke hurriedly
and I could visualize him running away from the phone and leaping into his car for the incredible race home.
It
was about this time that Karen said she
needed to go to the bathroom. I went with her to make sure everything was all
right. Almost immediately she groaned and exclaimed, “Mamma, it hurts. I have
to lie down!”
With that she slipped from the stool to her
knees on the bathroom floor.
“Mamma,
I’m having a baby!” she spoke incredulously.
I
was watching from above and said,”Oh, honey. You’re having a bowel movement”.
“I’m
having a baby!” she repeated emphatically. “I’m holding its head!”
This
time my eyes followed the curve of Karen’s arm and there cupped in her hand was
the head of a beautiful baby! My head swirled! This was an answer to prayer
that we had not anticipated! I had given birth to five , but had never been
close to the end of the proceedings! Hurriedly I glanced at my watch. It was
five seventeen! Only later did I realize that it was only one hour and thirty
minutes from the first contraction!
Almost
in a daze, I reached for the baby and felt for the first time the slickness of
the vernix caseosa, that cheese-like lanolin with which all babies are born,
that covering so providentially provided to expedite birth. I held him only
momentarily then handed him to his mother without even remembering to wrap him
against the chill of the room into which he had been thrust so unceremoniously!
Karen
was more composed than I. “Get the aspirator!” she instructed me while she
reached for a clean towel that hung on a rack over th eshower curtain.
“Where?”
I knew there was a kit that had
accompanied the family a couple of weeks before, but I had not thought I would
have any reason to use any of its contents.
“On
the baby’s crib upstairs. “ Karen assured me. I ran all the stairs as I had not
run stairs for years. Though I searched the crib I could not find an aspriator,
so I ran down as fast as I had come up.By this time the noise of the happenings
near her bedroom had awakened five year old Jerah. She gasped as she grasped what was happening,
but she knew exactly where the aspirator was and soon had it in her mother’s
hands.
By
this time, too, the baby was cozily wrapped in the clean towel and was being
held against his mother’s breast. Karen had not moved from her knees on the
bathroom floor. Gently she rocked her little one crooning his name over and
over again. “Jesiah!” she said nodding toward the little one in her arms.
“Welcome , Jesiah! God is Great!” The baby had already begun to suck hungrily
at his first meal.
Knowing
that Karen and the baby could not remain forever on the bathrom floor, I
reached for the phone in the hall, just outside the bathroom door, and dialed
911.
At
that moment the front door burst open and David came breathlessly into the
house. “The baby is already here!” I announced in an aside from the telephone.
By then I was trying to give exact directions to the rural home. “Is this” and
I gave the number the operator had just asked of me in an effort to identify
the place. David came to the phone to make certain there was no mistake, then
instructed me, “There is a white shoestring in the kit upstairs. Get it so I
can tie the cord.”
This
time I was able to locate the needed item. Quickly and expertly, as though he
had been delivering babies all his life, David made the cut through the
umbilical cord that separated his son from the baby’s mother.
“I
drove as fast as I dared,” he explained apologetically. Sometimes I hit
eight-five. I’m sorry I wasn’t here in time!”
There
was no time for anyone to respond. Right behind David the responders from the
911 call began arriving breathlessly. In moments there were two ambulances in
the drive and cars were lined up, all with blinkers flashing, far down the
highway towards the town from which the volunteers had come.
Men
were everywhere.Some of them were bringing in a narrow stretcher on which to
transport the new babe and his mother. It was impossible to get the regular
stretcher into the bathroom beside the still kneeling mother. Others were
trying to find a safe way to exit the house once the stretcher was occupied.
The narrow turn at the back door hallway prevented their going out that way.
The porch railing at the front made it impossible to turn the device so it
could be carried down the stairs . It was quickly determined that the stretcher
and its burden would have to be lifted over the railing to waiting hands of men
stationed on the ground below.
The
first man in seemed trained in this sort of an emergency. “Don’t move, “ he
instructed Karen. “We’ll carry you out. We don’t want to deliver the
placenta and risk having you hemorrhage!”
Hemorrhage?
I had never seen so much blood in all of my life, and he was trying to prevent
a hemorrhage! I was really learning more than my own experience had taught me!
As
those bearing the stretcher approached the place that had now served as a
birthing room, Karen began to recognize her neighbors. “Why, hello, Jim!” we
heard her say. “I didn’t know you were one of the volunteers.” Then to another
she would speak in cheerful amazement, calling him by name. “Are you one, too?”
Finally
they got her out of the tiny room and brought her, still clasping Jesiah to her
breast, into the larger hall. One of
her rescuers reached out to cover the two of them with a blanket. The new mother
drew her child protectively closer to her as she questioned defensively, “Is it
clean?” That query brought broad smiles to the men who majored in healthful
rescues of those most vulnerable to infection from unsanitary trappings.”It’s
clean!” the one who had taken charge of the situation from the first assured her. Karen joined in the laughter
that followed.
“I
wish I had been here earlier,” lamented one of the volunteers who had arrived
after the birthing room had been vacated. “We are expecting a baby soon, and I
would have liked to have been in on the
entire operation!”
Dr.
Sorge was chagrined to find that he had only the placenta to deliver and
scolded Karen for waiting so long to come to the hospital. Little did he
realize the rapidity with which this
little one had entered the world
outside his comfortable nesting place. He will never know how that rapid entry
answered a mother’s fervent prayer!
Incidentally,
Karen and David had a thank-you party for all of the fifteen or so volunteers
who responded that night and their families.The event cemented friendships that
would never have been formed had Jesiah’s coming been delayed until there was
time for the trip to the hospital. “God is great” as the testimony of his name
will forever affirm!
Chapter
76
Letter
to Doug and Judi in Alaska
“Yesterday’s
service was one in which I wish you and your children could have participated.”
That’s the way my letter to Doug and Judi began that September day of 1992.”I
have written up a part of it to give you an idea of what it was all about; but
there is no way I can convey the Spirit that accompanied it unless the Spirit
itself bears witness to you by His power. This is what happened.”
Seventy
Ron Smith was in charge of the communion service at Mt. Ayr, Iowa, on the sixth
of September, 1992. At that service a child was also to be blessed. The seventy
first reminded us that there is recorded a service in which Christ first blessed the children and then served the sacrament
to the congregation. He then read the part of the scripture from III Nephi
8:12-27 that pertains to that blessing.
At
the point at which Christ called the little children to come sit on the ground
before him, Ron called the children from the congregation to come sit on the
floor in front of the rostrum. There he joined them and knelt among them as he
explained that was what Christ had done as he prayed for the children of his
day. Ron then prayed for the children sitting around him, a prayer that
penetrated our hearts, but unfortunately I can tell you only the gist of it. He
prayed for their protection from the adverse influences around them and for guidance for their lives. Among those
children sitting with him were Melissa and Heidi Winkler and Jerah, Micah,
Jonah and Jesiah Bates. ( If there were others, I cannot recall them.)
After
the prayer, Ron dismissed the children and returned to the pulpit to read the
rest of the scripture concerning the blessing of the children. One could almost
see the angels descending from heaven in the midst of heavenly fire. It seemed
that we were there among the family and friends of those little ones in the
Book of Mormon, watching as the fire surrounded our children and seeing the
angels walking among them ministering to them.
Then
Alan Smith , who is our pastor, proceeded to talk briefly about the blessing of
children and the blessing of Matthew Thomas Lane in particular. At the close of
his talk Alan announced that he and his family would sing of the blessings they
wanted baby Matthew to experience.
The
song they sang was based on the 91st. Psalm which speaks of many of
the problems we all face and the power of the Almighty to carry us through if
we are faithful to Him, if we make “His truth” our “buckler and shield” ! Alan
sang the verses and the family joined in harmonizing on the chorus which
promised.”He will bear thee up on eagle wings!” it was beautifully inspiring ! We were moved to tears!
Alan
and Marvin Lane then presented the little one to the Lord for His blessing.
Next
Ron read the rest of the scripture, III Nephi 8: 30-42. Again we were listening
in wonderment with the multitude as the Master sent the disciples, whom He had
called for special ministry, to get bread and wine. We heard Nephi tell us of
the emblems that Christ served after the children were blessed and the angels
were no longer visible to the congregation. He told how Christ first served the
bread to the twelve disciples. When they had eaten, Nephi records that He
instructed them to feed the multitude. He then promised that He would give
power to one among them to break bread and bless it and give it to all those
who would believe and be baptized in His name. Their acceptance of the emblems
would be a “Testimony to the Father” that they did always remember Him and if
they did always remember Him, He promised that they would always have His
spirit to be with them.
We
listened as Nephi further testified that Christ had the disciples treat the
wine in a similar fashion.They first drank of it themselves then served it to
the multitude. Christ then explained the significance of the taking of the wine
as a witness to the Father that they would always remember His blood which was
shed for them. Again Christ explained that the wine was to be given to those
who repent and are baptized in the name of Christ and carried with it the same
promise of the presence of Christ’s Spirit with them always if they always
remember Him. Then, Nephi says, the Lord commanded that the bread and wine
continue to be served as He then
instructed.
With
the reminder that our partaking of this sacrament was in response to the
specific commandment of the Lord Himself, we were served the bread and wine in
the manner He prescribed. “It was a powerful, life enriching experience,” my
letter affirmed “the likes of which we
pray will one day permeate the whole church enabling it to bring life giving
ministry to all the world.”
Chapter
77
Bob
Turner’s Forgotten Class
It
was early on Monday morning when I awakened, exceptionally thankful to my
heavenly Father for having me in the right place at the right time on the
preceding Sunday. I could still feel the thrill of joy that had enveloped me all the day long because of the
experience I had with His Spirit early that morning! My first thoughts were of
praise to Him for His loving kindness.
But
as I prayed, it suddenly became clear to me that I was not where I had promised
to be on Sunday! I had promised to be the guest speaker at a class of youth in
another congregation. Seventy Robert Turner, who was the teacher of the youth,
and his wife, Ruth, had invited me to their home for dinner on the previous
Thursday night and we had laid explicit plans for Sunday’s class. How could I
have forgotten?
Remorse
swept over me, and both sleep and praise fled. Why did I not remember ?
Thursday was only three days before Sunday! How could such a definite promise, complete with extensive plans,so
absolutely leave my mind in that short time and not return for nearly a day?
What must Bob think of me? How can I ever make it up to him and to his class?
What did he do in my absence? The self condemning questions raced through my
mind. Although it was only six thirty in the morning, and I did not know the
schedule of the Turner
household, I couldn’t wait to call.
Bob
answered sleepily. My apology tumbled out , racing off my tongue as though I
thought that the faster I spoke, the more likely I was to receive forgiveness.
“Bob,
“ I pleaded, “Please forgive me. I didn’t even think of our plans until just
minutes ago. I don’t know how I could have forgotten so completely! What must
you think of me?”
The
good seventy was wide awake now. “I wondered what happened to you ,” he said
with a smile in his voice that our long friendship permitted me to visualize.
“But don’t worry. Everything worked out OK.”
“You
would say that,” I remonstrated, “Just to set me at ease.”
“No!
No!” Bob protested, “Everything did work out fine.” He then explained that
without his knowledge the stake had planned a youth event for that Sunday and
almost all of his class was gone. “Of course, the few who were left woul have
benefited from your testimony,’ he said,’but it was no great tragedy that you were not here.”
Then
it was my turn to explain. I was in the city to assist our daughter and her husband after the birth of their first child. The child had already
been at church once and I felt free to make plans that did not include Karen’s
family when I went to Bob and Ruth’s home for dinner and when we planned for me
to be in Bob’s class on Sunday. However, on Sunday morning,I got ready and
accompanied Karen and David to the large adult class they normally attended in
another congregation.
The discussion
somehow became centered on the exodus of the Israelites from Egypt. One dear elderly elder raised his
hand and his voice declaring,”I want
you to know that the Lord did not send just Moses to deliver his people. He
sent Moses, Miriam and Aaron!” He lifted three fingers in sequence to emphasize
his point! “Three people with equal authority were sent to lead them!” He shook
his white head in affirmation of his declaration.
I
waited expectantly for someone to set the record straight, but everyone sat,
eyes downcast, totally silent, not even daring to look at the dear brother or
at the teacher of the class. Finally I raised my hand. “I think we should
consult the scriptures before we accept what our brother has said,” I spoke
tentatively. Thirty five pairs of eyes turned to look at me quizzically.
“I believe you will find that
the scriptures tell us three things about Miriam.” I felt humbly emboldened by
the Spirit of God that enveloped me. “We
assume that she was the child who watched her brother, Moses, in the
bulrushes and found his own mother to be his nurse. She must have been a real
help to the children of Israel on their trek out of Egypt, else the Lord would
not have reminded the people in Micah’s
day that he sent Moses, Aaron and Miriam before them in that saving journey .
As matters of fact, however , we have only three events recorded.” These three
I proceeded to explain.
1.
After the Israelites crossed the Red Sea, Miriam took a timbrel and got the
women to dance with her and sing a song of thanksgiving which she may have
composed.
2.
She, with Aaron, criticized Moses for marrying an Ethiopian woman and declared
that God had spoken by them the same as He had spoken by Moses.
The
record says that God heard both the criticism and the boast and called Moses to
come with his brother and sister into the tabernacle. There He called Miriam
and Aaron to step forward and He severely rebuked them. The Lord explained that
his relationship with Moses was far different from his relationship even with
the prophets. He then asked Miriam and Aaron, ”wherefore then were ye not
afraid to speak against my servant, Moses?” And when the cloud from which the
Lord spoke was lifted, behold, Miriam was leprous.
When
Aaron saw that Miriam was leprous, he repented of that which he and Miriam had
done, calling it foolishness. Earnestly he begged Moses to forgive them both
and to heal their sister. Moses asked God for the healing. God responded that
if only her own father had disciplined her, she would be banished from the camp
for seven days. Because she had spoken
against God, she had to be outside the camp for at least that long. After seven
days she was allowed back in the camp.
Miriam’s
leprosy was recalled to the Children of Israel many years after when they were
told to remember what had happened to Miriam and so to do all that the priests
and Levites taught them.
3.
Miriam died and was buried at Kadesh in the desert of Zin long before the
people reached the Promised Land.
When
I finished speaking, class members looked expectantly at their instructor. He
made no comment but went on with the lesson while several members stole surreptitious glances at me. When the
lesson was finished many gathered
around me.
I
asked an elder why he had not spoken out. He explained that he had felt
intimidated by circumstances tha surrounded the elderly minister’s pronouncement.
Had he spoken up, he assured me , he would have been called into the stake
office and disciplined because of his errant belief.
I
asked our daughter and her priesthood husband why they had not spoken out .
They said they did not know!
It
was then that I remembered that I did not know either until just before I left
home to greet our new grandchild. Somehow Miriam’s name had come into the
conversation Delbert and I were having. My seventy husband commented that
Miriam’s history as recorded in the
scriptures was not enviable.
I
was shocked. I remembered Miriam as the brave little girl who helped to save
her brother’s life, and how she was being spoken of as a prophetess. How could
Delbert say her record was not good? So I went to investigate. The real story was fresh in my mind as I
traveled to the Center Place although I had not thought of it during my stay in
our daughter’s home.
I
was elated that the Lord had so obviously used my seventy husband to teach me
things that he wanted this class of earnest
seekers after the truth to know. I thanked Him over and over again, and was
still thanking Him Monday morning when my memory of my arrangement with Bob
revived. Even that situation had been in God’s hands! He had made my
forgetfulness far less consequential than I had imagined. Perhaps I was right
where God wanted me that Sunday morning, doing just what He wanted me to do!
Chapter
78
Great
Is God’s Faithfulness
“There
Is a Balm in Gilead.” Grandson Nathan’s prelude closed and the Mt. Ayr
congregation sat worshipfully, expectantly awaiting the continuation of the
service. A glance at the bulletin told us that we were to sing three other
favorite hymns that morning, the last of which was “Great Is Thy
Faithfulness!” Our guest speaker read
his scripture- the entire thirteenth chapter of the book of Lamentations.
As
the scripture reading proceeded, I began to be uncomfortable. What a complainer
the author of that scripture was! Why would Brother Morris Boswell subject us
to such a depressing account of one man’s miseries? Then I was startled to hear
the text of that inspiring hymn that we
were to sing, ”Great Is Thy Faithfulness”, come right out of that awful
lamentation !
When
Brother Morris spoke, he told us he knew we would wonder at his choice of
scripture, but he wanted to bear his testimony that so closely paralleled that
text. He wanted us to know of God’s great faithfulness no matter what the
distress.
For
many years Morris was a farmer, and a successful one. In 1981, ‘82 and ‘83 there was drought. Morris had 2500 acres of
crop planted and the best of his corn produced one and one-half bushels per
acre. He prayed over his crop, even on his knees in the clods, but by the end
of three years, he had lost it all. He was evicted from his farm and still had
a debt that he will be twenty two years paying. He saw his machinery auctioned
off, machinery he had spent twenty seven years accumulating. It was almost all
new and paid for when the drought began.
On
the day of the sale, Morris gathered his family around the kitchen table where
they decided that they would not give up hope.They would be hard to whip. Their
home would not be neglected. They still loved each other and they still loved
Christ. He would still come to their aid. They would both hope and quietly wait
for the salvation of the Lord.
After
he lost his farm, Morris did get a good position with the state of Iowa where
he was employed for several years. Then he became assistant manager of the
Farmer’s Co-Op in Lamoni, a job that he loved.
At
the time of this sermon they were drying a lot of corn at the Co-op. One of the employees informed him that he
was going out to check the corn bins. He planned to climb to the top of the big
steel bin and get down inside for a look.
Morris
said firmly, “Don’t you dare!”
The
young man insisted that there was no danger. If there were fumes, he would just
sniff them and come right out.
Again
Morris commanded him, “Don’t you dare!” The young employee did not know that
the fumes that would likely be in that bin had no odor and if they were there,
the one sniff he would take would be his last! Morris knew because such fumes
had nearly taken his brother’s life just twenty years before.
Back
in 1973 the corn was wet as it is now .He and his brother owned the elevator at
Lamoni and were drying over a hundred and fifty thousand bushels of corn. The
time had come when they needed to clean out a wet bin before the new corn came
in so there would not be spoilage . Morris’s brother entered the bin to clear
it out while Morris waited on an impatient, early morning customer.
At
first Morris felt no concern. They had entered the bins before. He knew the
process well. They would start the augers that would take the wet corn to the
dryer then go inside to kick the corn so it would flow into the feeds and be
augered away to free the doors so the bin could be opened and cleaned. This
time things were different, however. As soon as the brother disappeared inside,
Morris was impressed that he must open the door at the base of the bin. When he
started to leave his customer to do it, the customer argued that he was in a hurry and Morris should weigh
out his corn and let him get on his way first. Morris hesitated briefly, than
ran as fast as he could to that big steel bin, climbed over the augers and
grabbed the heavy steel door with all his might, shoved it back and opened it.
Frantically
he dug through the hard wet corn to find his brother. When he did find his limp
body, he hastily pulled him free of the corn, carried him over the augers and
laid him down on the concrete driveway. There he gave him mouth to mouth
resuscitation. When he began kicking around a bit and breathing, he rushed him
to doctor Elmo Gamet’s office . Dr. Gamet examined him thoroughly and said he would
have a huge headache for awhile but would be alright. Then the doctor added,
“But if you had waited five seconds more, you would have had no need to bring
him here. You could have taken him directly to the morgue!”
The
contents of the bin in 1973 were very different from any the Boswell brothers
had previously experienced. Unbeknownst to them, the corn had funneled about
fifteen feet above the bottom door and had formed a crust of which neither of
them was aware. What looked like a few inches of corn above the door was
really several feet of corn. In
addition, deadly vapors had filled the bin. With his first breath, Morris’s
brother had lost consciousness and had immediately fallen helplessly into many
feet of the fuming corn.
When
farmers came into the elevator that day, they would hear the story , go around
to look at the bin with its steel door, then come back and pat Morris on the
back congratulating him saying, “My goodness! You must be a terribly stout
person to have lifted that door out with all that corn pressure against
it!” Morris felt proud of his
achievement. He began to think he must be extra strong. After all, pressure or
no, he had opened that door and had saved his brother’s life.
Later
during the season they needed to clean the bin again. When his brother
suggested that one of them jump down inside the bin to move the corn, Morris
assured him that would not be necessary. He would just remove the door again,
dig the corn out, let the air flow in, and then when the fumes were gone, they
could safely enter the bin to clean it. He volunteered to open the door. After
all, he remembered, it was easy!
Confidently
Morris went to lift the heavy steel door. He couldn’t budge it. His brother
joined him, but the two of them could not move it. The hired man joined them.
The three of them could not shake the door! Only when they used a long steel
bar to pry it open could they get a slit wide enough to get just a trickle of
corn to come out, and it had to trickle for a long time before the pressure of
the corn on the door was relieved enough that the door could be lifted out! Now
Morris was really proud of what he had done in lifting that door out all by
himself!
About
that time he went to Enid, Oklahoma for a witnessing weekend. He was asked if he had a testimony to share. At first he
declined. He couldn’t think of any. Then the Lord touched him and informed
him,”You do have a testimony to share. That was not your strength that lifted
out that door. It was Mine!”
He
shared his testimony in Enid. Now he shared it with us affirming that it was
the strength of the Christ that removed that door. He said, “He just used me as
his instrument because I was there.” And, he added, “He is the faithful one !
Listen for God’s still small voice and respond when He speaks! If someone had not listened and responded, neither my
brother nor my sister would be alive today.”
Back
in 1958 , when Morris was a high school student, he was awakened far into the
night by someone pounding on the door. Instead of the tramp looking for food
that first came into his mind, it was Heman Harp, who had walked to the Boswell
home at 3 a.m.
“ I
have just been visited by the Lord and he told me to come tell you to pray for
Sue, “ Brother Heman announced as soon
as Morris’ father answered the door. Morris’ father could have told Brother
Harp that he had just had a bad dream or imagined it was the Lord who had
awakened him. Instead, without a moment’s hesitation, Brother Boswell awakened
the rest of the family, called them into the parlor where they all knelt, and
petitioned the Lord for Sue’s life. Sue Slaughter was Morris’ sister, who was
having a serious bout with cancer, and was not expected to live.
Very
soon after the prayers were finished, the family drove to Sumner, IA, where the
Slaughters lived. There they were told that Sue was so weak that she could not
even lift a glass of water or lift her head off the pillow. The doctor said he
could give them no hope. She would be dead in a very short time. They could go
into her room only one at a time and that for just moments.
Confidently,
Morris’ father entered the room first, took Sue’s hand and asked her to give
him a grip. She gripped so hard that it hurt, then sat up in bed. That
afternoon the astonished doctor did more tests and could find no sign of
cancer. That was 34 years ago, and to this day, Sue has not had a reoccurrence
of the cancer.
Morris
confessed that he has been an imperfect reflection of God’s faithfulness to him
but affirmed, “The bottom line is that Jesus Christ is forgiving and makes a
promise that He will be with you always even in your darkest hour.”